>Be 24 yo grill, will be 25 in june
>Just graduated and have well-paid job
>Depressed because of age
>First bf at 22
>Basically did everything too late
>The only places where i meet guys are clubs
>Probably gonna soon be too old for clubs
>The only thought that comforts me is that i could always kill myself next year
How do I stop being scared of my own age ?
Older anon here. I turn 40 next year. I have more freedom and opportunities made available to me at this point in my life than I ever had. Femanon OP, you are at the cusp of the beginning of true growth and freedom. It's scary as fuck, I know. But it's your life. Own it. Love it. Explore it from the shitholes like 4chan to the glories of traveling abroad and filling that void with experiences that fulfill you for years to come.
It's OK to be afraid. Just don't let being afraid make you become stagnant
If your job isn't a place where you could potentially meet someone, get a hobby of some kind where you'll meet people. It's a numbers game for most people, keep meeting more people and eventually you'll hit it off with someone. Will the relationship last? Alot more unknowable, but that's life, gotta put yourself out there and try.
Same age, same situation, except that I'm a guy. Pretty much decided to just focus on my career for now and hopefully one day bump into someone. Guess what helps most is knowing I have plenty of immature friends who probably wont settle down for a long time.
stop and use your head anon
why do you want your 30 year old used goods friends when you are 30?
If you've done well enough with your career, meet some 20 year old and have some fun
Better work hard anon.
I don't really understand whether you are encouraging me or discouraging me with that post. But either way, I'm not just pursuing a career for money and status. I'm doing something that I think will be good for the world and something that I find very interesting. So it certainly doesn't feel like I' m wasting my time on some type of second-tier activity.
It's ok anon. Not everyone has what they're gonna do figured out at a young age- when I was 25, I was stripping cars and selling transmissions and eating beans.
10 years later, I've transcended rich- I'm wealthy.
If you work hard, you can do well for yourself.
If you work hard, and are smart, you can do great for yourself.
Same deal 25 year old guy. Tired of being single, Did online dating. Lined up something really cool. Really hit it off. Date in few days and our personalities really mesh, even on phone. Already cut like 5 girls who didn't make me happy so I know if this fails I'll just do another batch. Life's not bad. Sure we're passing that prime whatevs Cheer up.
Try not to think about it OP, it's a game you can't win and it will drive you crazy if you focus on it too hardcore.
Take care of your body. You can't stop aging, but if you start working out now, you will establish healthy habits that will last a lifetime and keep you active.
Have fun, rejoice. You don't know it, but you are young..go see the world, learn a new skill, make friends. People of any age are most attractive when they like themselves and like what they are doing.
And if all this fails to make you feel better, just remember, anti aging technology will probably become available during your lifetime.
I'm a 32yo guy. Didn't even start dating until I was nearly 27, but I gotta say it's a lot easier to meet people now than when I was 21.
There's no right way to make friends or get dates. I met my current girlfriend at the funeral reception for my young cousin who killed himself in a fiery car crash. And holy fuck clubs are for the birds. It's like the IRL version of Craigslist.
39 here. At 25 your life is barely starting. Nothing stops you from going to clubs, in fact plenty of people in their 30s do. And there are plenty of quality singles aged 25-40. Naturally, ignore what the teenagers tell you about age.
I've been single most of my life, and I can tell you my life has been far better in my 30s than in my 20s. I have many new opportunities I never had when younger, and I now have money to spend however I want.