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How do you mend a broken heart/ get over someone?
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Do other shit and surround yourself with new things
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>>16647132
Time and occupying your mind.
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The better question is, how do you open up and trust again when you were betrayed?
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>>16647132

Sex with random people.

By the time you get to the 6th person, you will start to forget to past a bit.
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>>16647142
That's a different question altogether
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>>16647142

You just do. Appreciate the experience you had, for what it was worth.

I've had my heart broken, and I've broken a few as well. The more experience you have, the more you will understand.
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>>16647132
The person who betrayed you is the one with the issues, not you. That's what you need to realize. Find solace in the fact that they just weren't the one and it's better it's done now rather than wasting any more time with someone who didn't really love you. Now you kind find someone who does be happy. Find yourself again, things you like, things you always wanted to do. Spend time with friends and family so you remember what true happiness is again and how you should be treated. It's not your fault op. Whoever betrayed you is an asshole. Don't allow them to have any more of your time thinking what could have been.Now you can have fun planning what could be, possibilities are endless. This is your time for you
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>>16647153
I will never understand leading someone on selfishly but I see what you're saying.
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You don't.
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>>16647132
You might always be sentimental about the experience. But you keep on with your life and try not to think about it. Eventually it won't have any relevance to you cause enough time will have passed.

But if you see things that remind you of a bad experience you will always probably remember the bad experience and feel bad. The trick is to avoid things that remind you of the bad experience, until you don't give a shit anymore. Which takes a different amount of time for everyone.

Spend time doing things that make you happy, and work on improving yourself, for you.
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>>16647132
What weird legs she has. Is she Jewish by any chance?
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>>16647236

Previous anon here. I didn't lead anyone on, I just felt that the relationships weren't fulfilling anymore. Sometimes being honest with yourself and your partner comes at the expense of their feelings. That's what it's like to break a heart- something everyone should experience in order to find the right person to be with.

Just you wait... One day, you will have moved on so far that you don't even care for the person who just broke your heart anymore. I've got at least 4 'loves' that barely cross my mind these days.
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>>16647462
Are those two clauses related?
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