I have a childhood pen pal who I kept in contact with. She lives in the middle of nowhere in Canada where the internet connection is very poor so chatting with her online is tough. She will move to a city very soon. Should I ask to skype with her (I am a girl too btw)?
Well what...? I feel sorry for you. You don't even feel comfortable asking your own childhood friend if you can communicate with her. Are you sure she's a friend even?
Jesus christ. Grow, a fucking, spine.
how would you feel if she asked for your skype? obviously it wouldn't be a big deal. almost every question you have like this can be answered by asking how you'd feel in someone else's shoes.
This is perfectly normal, acceptable behavior. Not a big deal at all OP. Unless you have feelings or a crush on her. Then I can understand some awkwardness.
Am I the only one who does not understand why OP must post a simple question?
Guys, I have a friend. Should I call them for their birthday?
Guys, I have a girlfriend. Should I have sex with her?
Guys, I have parents. Should I tell them I love them?
Like, holy fuck, how are you still alive if you need to be handheld through every decision in life?