three years ago I cuddled with a girl at a party, didnt do nothing, just teasing, was really hot tho. Now were together for 10 months now. Thing that happened three years ago made me feel very special and were joking and I actually feel like were having a three years long relationship. She saying that I was special for her at that time and she really liked me, but i was too young and dumb to understand what to do with such opportunity, which is true. So now were together and tonight i curiously went through her facebook (yes im a dick) and found out that 3 years ago, same month she did the same cuddling thing with my classmate. She havent said me anything. I feel like my heart broke, ive never been in so much pain. wat do?
ps - pic not related obviously, sorry for weird sentences english is not my first language
You're going to lose your shit over something that happened three years ago? Why did you look at her Facebook to begin with? This is so fucked. Why go looking for trouble while things are going OK right now?
If it isn't a violation of her privacy than what's your problem?
Yes tell her, if you want to.
But be aware that 3 years ago you weren't together and had no claim on her. She was allowed to do whatever with whoever. But now, present day, she picked you. That should be enough.
If it's bothering you tell her why, and maybe she can explain why. But don't force her to. As long as she understands your feelings, that should be what's important. The dude she didn't fuck from three years ago probably isn't a big deal for her now. You are, because she's with you. Now.
It still could of meant a lot to her even if she met someone else. This could go terribly wrong, keep it to yourself. I don't think any good could come out of asking her about it, you'd sound ridiculous. Like others said, you weren't even together.