>GF has been with several chicks (including one last year)
>had LESBIAN SEX once when she was a teen
>says she's "straight and a virgin"
Am I right to be upset at these statements? This also ruffles my feathers because I don't like bi chicks.
Relationships honestly aren't about who is "right" or "wrong". If you don't like her, aren't compatible with her, don't agree with her, and she is making you unhappy, why are you with her?
But it's a big issue with a huge definition attached to it. The virginity one.
"Oh you are me first so and so"
Objectively I'm fucking not. Just because you said "no homo" afterwards doesn't undo what you did.
I don't want threesomes and I think it's pretty funny you'd think someone not wanting their partner fucking other PEOPLE (inb4 they're just women hurr) would make anybody a cuck.
I don't understand the problem. Is she still into chicks, openly, around you? It doesn't sound like it, if she's saying she's straight.
I've dated/banged a bunch of chicks, then decided I wanted to fuck guys. Lots of people's sexuality is fluid. She might've liked girls at one point but now no longer likes them, she doesn't necessarily like both at once.
Are you upset because you think she'll leave you for some vadge or some shit? This sounds like quite the non-issue.
I think lesbian and hetero desire/ sexual dynamic are very different. That's why I'm cool with a double standard.
I'd be pretty chill if my gf fooled around with girls as long as it never became a romantic emotional thing. I would still never want her doing anything whatsoever sexual with dudes.
Plus threesomes are dope.
Women are people just like men. They aren't creatures who fart rainbows and prance around doing actions that have no consequence whatsoever. Getting naked and being with a woman is the same as doing so with a guy. It's a person.
I don't subscribe to that retarded worldview. I also talked to many women who protested me on this and not a single, I mean A SINGLE one of them would be ok with having a bf who loved to suck some cock. It kill your image as a man to them. Including my current GF. If my partner would like a "real man" I'd like a "real woman."
But why does that actually matter? It shouldn't to you, unless you think she has a disease. If she doesn't then literally why do you care?
It matters to her, which means she believes you are extra special. At the very least you are her first dick, dude.
OP, there are a ton of women out there who aren't into chicks. And likewise, there are a ton of guys out there who aren't bothered by this sort of thing. If the issue matters to you that much, then break up with her.