The girl who broke my heart a year ago just texted me and told me she misses me. What do I do? I thought I'd moved on and gotten stronger, but the instant I recognized her number I felt red-faced and weak in the knees.
She told me she loved me, and I loved her, but I was such a pushover that she cheated on me and we split ways. I don't know how to respond to this, and it's going to kill me if I don't figure it out.
Channel all that anger you've had and repressed over the years and with a holy vengeance call her the worthless filth she is, tell her she's a disappointment to everyone who's ever hoped in her, and tell her you're glad her grandparent or whoever is dead so they don't have to see what a fucking disgrace she's become
I absolutely broke a girl like this, she still never got over it
This is great victory, unless you turn it into a defeat by taking her back.
Or just simply tell her, if that were really true, she wouldn't have cheated.
Then move on with your life. You have moved on, but old wounds will still ache from time to time, especially when they're poked at with a stick. And these still also fresh enough to still be re-opened; don't make that mistake, and don't get sucked back in.
I don't have any money, so I know she doesn't want material things from me.
Back then she used me for moral support whenever one of the guys she fucked instead of me made her feel bad about herself. Kind of like sapping "good vibes" instead of money, I guess.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Honestly OP, you're probably the backup-guy. She likely got dumped because someone else didn't want to put up with her shit, so now she's moving on to the side bitch. She'll use you for attention, get her confidence back up, and then move on to the next guy.
Now, you might be thinking that you can hit-it-and-quit-it, but it's not fucking worth it. Don't let her play you like a damn fiddle.
You're soft like me man, and she does NOT sound like a good person. People are so manipulative, and sometimes they just want to see if they can still have you if they felt like it.