I need advice when texting girls. Its just I don't know what to talk about to keep conversation rolling and interesting as it's kind of boring. Any tips of things that I should try when texting?
I usually keep conversation short - maybe reply once or twice, then stop replying when I get bored. You are more valuable when you are not easily accessible / constantly trying to entertain her. Conversation isn't interesting? Let it die. Initiate again when you have something interesting to share.
Yeah but the problem is that I don't know how to initiate conversation without it getting weird and plus I kind of like this girl and she has an interest for me but I just fail to develop it.
I okay when talking with her face to face, the problem is that right now we can't meet up and so I don't know how to develop more the relationship by text.
Calm the fuck down, dude. 12 posts with 4 posters, nobody is going to swoop in and tell you the secret.
If this is how you act on an anonymous image board you must be losing your goddamn mind trying to talk to this chick.
Calm down. Take a breath. She's just another person. She has her own hopes and dreams and interests. Ask her about that shit.
Protip: forget text game, its pure shit tier.
Anything written in text can easily be misunderstood or misinterpreted. Nothing good ever comes from texts other than generic info like: I am here, where are you, stuck in traffic, etc.
Its way better to put out the vibe that your time is important and that when you chat with a chick you get to the point instantly.
Always be leading a bitch.. dont be her dancing monkey of entertainment, leave that for the guy who never bang her but will keep her entertained when you are bored.
Infact, you should neg her.. tell her to call you instead of this texting bullshit.
Be Alloof, anything she recommends... SUCKS. Lead her.. anything she is proud of... sucks.. because you were not there, are apart of it.
its a complete 180 from what you are currently doing... try it.
IF you must text... make it sexual atleast once during EVERY interaction. She should know that you are a sexual threat to her... not a pansy she can just chat up when bored.
Drill it into her head: 1. have a point when you talk to me.. and I will get to the point when I chat with you.
2. I dont dilly dally with bullshit.. unless its sexual in nature. ( which should end in a result.. a meet up.)
What this nigga said. Talk to her about that. Maybe the things you get to know based on this will make you like her more or lose interest. If you just wanna fuck her then ignore all that and just tell her straight up. Girls are like guys, they think about sex almost as much as guys do. If she finds you attractive then she'll be down to fuck.
when you get her in person, keep her talking about herself. it will ease her into the situation a little more and get her more comfortable. after that you can join into the conversation and participate a little more, but you mostly want her to do the talking. just get her to talk and you respond honestly to what she says. it always works for me
also try to push conversation forward with less questions, and more statements. Sorta how you would talk to a good friend.
> hey Carly have you been talking to that weird anon kid?
> nah not after he said that my new job was stupid then wouldn't tell me why
> like I dunno he always had to twist everything into something sexual like I don't know what he has to prove he always want to call or meet up like I just want to msg him
> I can't even make small talk and he either twist it into something sexual or changes the subject about him
And that's why you browse 4 chan with no grill give absolutely fucked up advice and just being pure shit