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So basically I can suck air trough nose ( I literally feel it) or raise my ribcage, which one is normal???

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Okay, so few weeks back, I've met this girl through Tinder. We chatted, went on a date and I decided that I will give her a shot for dating, so I kissed her and we dated. For about five days.
Then she friendzoned me, saying that she's not ready for a relationship and that she doesn't want to hurt me with how she is (a bit mentally unstable and really indecisive).

So I ended it with saying that I need a pause to get over the budding feelings and what not. After a week, she messaged me and I told her that we should just stay friends, because during that week, she would often message me depressing things that I can't handle well, almost emotionally torturing me.
She got really hammered that night. And was really sexual about it.

The day after, she asked if we could be friends with benefits. Me, being a guy with little sexual experience and still being attracted to this girl, I said yes.

We've met up in a park where there were almost no people for a picnic. During that picnic, we played around for a bit (im talking kisses, handjob, fingering). But during and after the act, she started acting like we we're dating, asked for kisses outside of the "sex". So I told her "Is that what friends do?" and she started sulking and looked hurt.
And later that night, she started being emotional.

Yesterday I discovered that she's afraid of relationship and also afraid of sex, so I decided to end our benefits and just stay friends. She didn't take that well, kept asking me if I was sure to end our little agreement, and I basically convinced her that we shouldn't
until she agreed herself. We didn't talk since that conversation yesterday.

Did I do the right thing by not making her act like a cheap girl? Am I just weird for denying myself and herself pleasure? Did I destroy a budding relationship or did I dodge a bullet?

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So I stopped watching porn and it has been about a month and a half, I'm 23 and have been using porn fairly regularly since I was around 13/14.

My sex drive is so high and I'm so much more responsive to seeing my fuck buddy nude or even just to seeing the shape of her breast under a shirt etc and also feeling insanely attracted to other women I see and I feel such a need to go out and fuck as many women as possible and I find myself seriously sensitive to any contact with women even if they just look at me.

I'm not sure if this is a good thing or a bad thing, it feels like the porn use was suppressing my urge to mate and now I just want to fuck everyone as much as possible. It's good in that I'm more sensitive to when a girl is interested in me but it's literally almost any girl and I feel like I have all this energy to fuck away. What should I do?

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My friends and i are going to Los angeles for a weekend but we're not sure what to do. We plan to go to Santa Monica beach, hit up some malls and stuff like that. Anyone recommend me other things to do?

Also where are the college aged clubs? We're going to go to bars and dance floors as well

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My libido fluctuates between regular horny young man and bunny in estrus capable of fucking or masturbating 5 times in a day

Is there any time to control this? Seriously, when I'm on a high I'm horny the entire fucking day.

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My neighbor has been throwing his trash onto my lawn for months now. I've seen him do it several times and he just doesn't care.

I've been collecting all the garbage he's thrown on my lawn in a giant bag. Would I be an asshole to dump this huge pile of trash onto his lawn?

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A month ago I hung up some new curtains in my bedroom, and they have since developed a musty/moldy smell. They were hung above a vent which seems to have proliferated the smell. The area feels unliveable atm.

I need to know, how do mold spores get around? Are they a threat to the environment if the area is kept dry? How do you clean up after them? I removed the curtains days ago but the room still has a residual scent.

I vacuumed the curtains before I discovered they were the problem, and am wondering if the vacuum is contaminated and if the filters should be changed?

I know that mold exists everywhere and is inescapable, but it's still confusing.

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Is this fucked up of me to think like this?
There's this girl my friend introduced to me online, she became a part of our friend group fast and she's super chill a total bro. Things escalated after a few months of us talking and we exchanged nudes, then eventually she said she "would totally date me if I asked" I turned it down because she lives a state away and I'm not fucking with long distance again, but we stayed good friends still talk every day almost. Although, whenever she says thinks like "hey buddy/pal" I cringe a bit as if I don't want to be seen as just a friend. Yet I'm the one who insisted on friendship. I also really dislike when she talks about other guys. Of course I'd never tell her that but I feel kind of scummy for feeling this stuff.

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I want to learn to sing but I have a very throaty/crackly voice. People tell me I sound like I smoke a lot (I don't)

I just downloaded this "singing for dummies" book. If anyone here sings can you give me advice, things you wished you'd known etc etc

Also I cannot afford a voice teacher, I barely make my uni payments

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>ITT post your tinders (or other dating apps) and let's see if we can get eachother laid

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ok here it goes: i broke up with my gf of 3.5years, and in the following months she fucked several dudes. then she texted me saying she missed me and called me crying. i asked if she wanted us to come back together and she said (not so convincingly) yes. Now, in order for me to get over the fact that she banged a lot of dudes (5 or 6, i am not sure yet) in 4 months, i wanted to know all the details. how they fucked her, what things they did to her, etc. idk, that is how i am: before i forget, i need to know it ALL. if i dont, i'll be going crazy.

so, she listed the dudes, the dates, places, and the number of times she had sex with each dude (twice with one, once with the rest, she said). But i dont believe that she had sex only once time with each one.
then we fucked. 3 nights. 2 missionary, 1 doggy.
doggy was crap, but missionary felt different, better, more straight forward, no foreplay, just grabbed my dick and put it inside her and then she moved like never before, she was way more energetic than before. then, after that, i kept on asking for more (cause i wanna know if i am gonna be able to keep up with this level of fucking), and she said that if im gonna be asking these questions all the time, then we better not come back together.

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Am I a jealous, selfish possessive and distrusting asshole for not being OK with my long-distance girlfriend- who I haven't even met IRL yet- being flown out to spend a week with a guy who had a full-on head over heels crush on her about a year ago (we're talking poems, self-insert fics, etc)?

he "seems over it" though

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Anxiety ridden loser, 21, friendless, dropped out of highschool, looking to start university.

I'm not entirely sure want to study full-time, but my local university offers a program for people that dropped out of high-school or otherwise wouldn't qualify to essentially ease them in to studying.

Now basically, I suffer from severe anxiety issues and a panic disorder, diagnosed and somewhat treated but it's still pretty everpresent and still hurts me a lot. Would it be a better choice to try and do said course online or try and jump in to the deep end and go in person to try and better myself in public situations.

atm I go out maybe 3-4 times a week, usually for groceries or occasionally work calls me (but not often, I have a suspicious they're going to fire me soon because I'm bad).

I guess I'm just afraid that an online course might further isolate me, but at the same time I'm fearful that an on campus course may cause me to have a panic attack in public and deter me from returning

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Does any kind of conversion therapy actually work?

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I hate living where I do I want to drop everything a move far far away from this place I call my current life why should I do?