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I think I'm having hallucinations I hear things like my tv and bathtub make strange scary noises no one else notices sometimes I hear breathing or footsteps and I feel like my face is wet for no reason I don't think I have schizophrenia because I don't hear voices and I have short term memory loss I can't go to the therapist and I'm scared I'm going insane
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there don't have to be voices to be schizophrenic. I know someone who is and the medications the doctors put them on really helped. See a doctor soon cause it can get worse with time
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shedim#Folklore_and_Kabbalah
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>>18540510
trust me anon it's demons. Paranormal stuff is real

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I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a bit over 4 years, but around 6 months or so ago she started talking about going out clubbing with some girls she barely knows.

Since I'm a somewhat insecure person (childhood abandonment, inability to trust women) I said "sure, can I come too. Just to keep an eye on things".

Her response was essentially no.

I offered to take her out myself, and she said no. I asked if she would take one of our mutual female friends and she said no.

Now the thing is, my girlfriend has always liked to be the center of attention, she loves being flirted with and she has quite a few fetishes (dp, public use and group stuff) which would make the club the perfect place for her to slut around.

All things considered I tried to be rational and told her how insecure this situation makes me. Yet she still insists on going, despite me being quite upset asking her "please, don't go".

So anons I want to know, what are the chances she is cheating on me?

Also, keep the beta chat to a minimum please. I sound pathetic because I really want this relationship to last and I love this girl.
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It's because you allow yourself to be perceived as such a pathetic cucklord that the relationship cannot possibly last.

Maybe she's cheating, maybe she isn't, but she's definitely looking for someone with at least a sliver of self assurance.
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You may love her but that doesn't mean she fully loves you. If she REALLY loved you she would have talked about it or even attempted to reason with you. Mind you, nothing wrong with her going to the club but it's just the fact she said no to everything you asked and was well aware of how you would feel.

I'm not saying it's true but when a girl suddenly goes left field like that it's a sign you need to leave her. And if this is out of character of her or she's new to the clubbing scene, you need to leave her ASAP.
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>>18540540
That last line is exactly what concerns me. She hasn't really ever been clubbing before and for the most part she was always a shy stay a home time.

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I want to contribute to humanity in great ways such as Nikola Tesla did. The man was a genius in every sense of the word. Not only that, he was also a good man and his work was for the betterment of mankind. A selfless individual with a beautiful mind and a good heart.
I look to him with awe and yet at the same time, envy.
How could one man be so brilliant? And most of us (myself included) be of such average intelligence? I was never a good student. Average at best. Though I wouldn't consider myself stupid I am definitely no genius.
I am curious about many things yet at the same time my comprehension on those subjects is very poor. It seems like so many people are so much smarter than me and it seems to come so naturally to them, I find it hard to fathom how these people can absorb information so easily and go on to do great things in the name of science, mathematics, etc.
They are truly contributing to mankind in ways most of us will never even come close to.
Some people are okay with being average and are more than happy to accept that they will never accomplish anything great and to some it's not even a thought, they are too preoccupied with superficial things such as video games, celebrity gossip, television, etc.
I'm 24 years old and don't have any higher education past high school. I regret not trying harder and school and even more not continuing my education after high school. Now I fear I will be mediocre my whole life.
In ways it's a selfish endeavor my want to be successful and contribute something of real worth to the world but ultimately I genuinely and selflessly wish to make a great impact on the world and make a change like so many others in the past and present have done/are doing.
What can l do to get solve this dilemma? I want to be great, I feel I owe it to the great people who have done so much for the world to continue the legacy and in doing so inspire others to do the same.
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OP here, sorry for that wall of text, I just started typing and let it come out as a stream of consciousness not thinking how annoying it is readigm walls of text not properly spaced out.
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If you want to contribute something of that magnitude to the world then you needn't worry about anything as much as the welfare of people who will be here long after you're dead.
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>>18540489
>I want to contribute to humanity in great ways such as Nikola Tesla did.

You pretty much have to be born in the right time and the right place for this to occur. You can still make lesser contributions that are very important such as the medical device field.

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i know this might be TMI but i had a few glasses of wine and beer over the past few days and now i notice that i keep having loose stool(diarrhea) and stomach pains, i know it may be nothing to worry about but i just want to know if i should go to ER or just wait it out ?
>20 years old
>fairly healthy
>no medical conditions
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Sorry my nig you are dying
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Wine has sulfites, that can lead to intestinal inflammation.
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>>18540567
So how serious is the inflammation ?

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>be me, 35 single male 6'2"
>co-worker, 40? female 5'1?
We get along at work but lately she's been a bit more friendly, bringing me food and what not. Some things I've picked up on but have not acted upon...
>talks about her bf going away on one of his trips, he's gone
>talks about her son who is with his dad out of state
>clearly alone and has been talking about where she lives
>you should use my hot tub
Is she being friendly or is she asking to be fucked hard?
Inb4 don't shit where you work. I'm just curious because I'm fucking dense and have a hard time distinguishing between if a girl is being nice or wants to suck me off.
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>has a son from a previous relationship
>wants to cheat with you on her current partner
That woman is a fucking nasty hoe.
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>>18540411
> you should use my hot tub

Not sure how easy that can be bro. Def be weird at work afterwards
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I don't know what's worse, her obvious sluttiness or your total lack of awareness. Make sure you don't breed with this woman or your kids will be dumb sluts.

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I've had a coulee of drinks and I'm watching Killer Joe. Ask a shrink (almost anything).

I'm not doing relationship advice because I don't give a shit and I'm not doing dreams because I don't know you.
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>>18540360
I'm gonna go get some pork rinds and whiskey.
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>>18540360
How do I know if I should see a therapist?
I had a really bad time some years ago and after reading up on the symptoms I very well might have been depressed, but at the time I didn't even consider it. Seeing a doc back then could have prevented me from dropping out of university.
Now I am trying to get over an ex, and right after the breakup people also told me to seek help. I am over the phase of thoughts of suicide, and no, I did not tell everyone, but even people I didn't tell recommended I see a soul doc. Are there any indicators if it would be a good thing or a waste of time?
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>>18540383
Honestly, if you've got decent insurance or the money to spend its a good idea. If you have to do it on the cheap you should only do it by personal referral. It sounds like you could use therapy, but its not cheap and its not worth your time or money if you're not committed.

Does anyone else feel ashamed about all the porn they've seen? I don't even have any specific fetishes, but I sometimes wish I could have the same innocent view I had of sex when I was a kid.
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You might as well not think about sex at all if you want to see it as when you were a naive kid.

You should not feel ashamed for fulfilling the basic necessity of getting off unless your masturbation habits are messing up with your life.
If anything, just go noporn for a month or two in order to clean your mind.
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>>18540354
I'm really trying but I think I might be addicted.
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>>18540366
Then take baby steps.
If you fap twice a day, reduce it to only one time; and gradually work from there until you only do it every two or three days. And in the end it'll be worth it, trust me. You will have more satisfying orgasms if you take your time to rest and build up your sexual energy.

Take notice that I'm not advising you to stop fapping altogether. But try to get used to the idea of only getting off when your body genuinely craves it rather than doing it out of habit, boredom or as an instant feel-good rush.

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Do guys like woman that sent so smart and if they do how pretty do u have to be so u can over see my flaws
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Oops I miss spelled some stuff lol
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Is this a joke?
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Nope I want honest answers

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So I've been with this girl for two years now and she currently lives with me. Our relationship has been shit for the past half year and we are no longer intimate with each other. She went out shopping and left her tablet and here is an interesting conversation she had with her co-worker.
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It gets better..
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why even ask what do?

you're being cheated on and there's only one thing TO do

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I tried talking my girlfriend into giving her an Alabama Hot Pocket and now she wants to break up with me. How do I rectify this situation?
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Off yourself
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Plz be bait
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Well now i know what an alabama hot pocket is

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This morning I woke up with a pain on my anus and I realized I had a hernia. I went to the pharmacy and got some Preperation H and then went to work.

As I went about my day at work (I'm a janitor) I started to get this soreness in my abdomen on the lower left side. As the day went on the pain started to get worse and by the time I left work it felt like I had been punched in the gut.

It feels like a bruise inside of me, not a stinging pain but a pressure, and it only hurts when I'm moving. If I don't move around much there's no pain.

Any idea what's wrong with me? Does the hernia have anything to do with the abdomen pain?
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>>>/doctor/
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Hemorrhoids are swollen or inflamed veins, a hernia is a protrusion of the intestines through the abdominal wall, usually umbilical or inguinal.
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Are you constipated or have diarrhea?

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I have had sex with a few women before, but something about seeing naked and the way they smell during sex grosses me out

>inb4 gay

No. Im not gay, Im only attracted to women but the moment they take off their clothes im grossed out. Im not attracted to men. I cant explain it, I'll start dating a pretty girl, but then the moment she is naked or we have sex im grossed out by her and just go through the motions. Something about how they smell and the sounds they make during sex turns me off.

How do I fix this? It ruined my past few relationships because I would just start treating them like crap because of how grossed out they made me (and these were all thin and pretty girls, not one of them was less than a 7/10) and yes Im a jerk for treating them like crap, but I really couldnt help it, and they all eventually sense how repulsed I am by them and they leave me. What should I do?
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>>18540290
bump
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>>18540290

LOL
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>>18540313
even the hottest, cleanest girl starts to sweat and smell gross within a few minutes of initiating sex. I cant ignore it. Eventually I told my last ex about it, and she was surprisingly understanding, and started taking a shower and putting on lingeries, lotions, perfume etc before sex, and somehow the smell of sex would be still be awful

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I asked my gf if she wanted to go on our fourth date tomorrow and she said no. She usually is enthusiastic and ALWAYS wants to see me. At the beginning of the week she said that she missed me and now that I ask her, she says no. I don't want to ask her why she doesn't want to go, since I don't want to come off as nosy.
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>>18540255
if she's your girlfriend, there should be trust between the two of you and that means that you should be able to ask her why she doesn't want to
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>>18540264
Well I asked her about 2 hours ago and it would be dumb to bring it up now
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Just ask her about it

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My husband and I are visiting his best friend for their daughter's first birthday. He wants to leave me with "the girls" (none of whom I know) while he goes out with "the guys".
My first thought was: "no way in hell". Am I wrong? (Not as in, no way in hell would I let you, more like that's fucking unfair)

His friend is the kind of guy that got his dick sucked at the strip club at his own bachelor's party. He's a truck driver and former party boy. My husband also comes from a similar world. He just slept around and partied into his 30's until he met me, never really had a serious relationship before.
So is it wrong of me to expect him to be different now that we're married with kids? His friend is also newly married with one daughter.
Honestly, I used to be like that too. But now that I'm married and have a daughter my entire life-views have changed. I go to church. I'm more career-oriented. And I'm 11 years his junior. I feel like he should have matured out of that stage a bit more by now.

I get really pissed at being called a "nag". I feel like it's used as a scapegoat and difference tactic. It's used to trivialize valid issues. I feel like if I tell my husband I'm not cool with him going off with "the guys" they'll all tell him he's "whipped" and he'll grow resentful towards me and view me in a negative/unattractive light.

Even if he doesn't cheat on me I'm not okay with him going to a strip club or even a regular club. I thought that was obvious that it's a place for singles or couples to go to together. I feel like cheating all starts at putting yourself in the opportunity. Playing with fire, basically.

All I want is more romance, like when we were first dating, but I get less and less as time goes on (and we've not even been married for 2 years.) I feel like we're going in opposite directions. Am I supposed to just let him do what he wants and trust him? I do trust him, but I'm also realistic.
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>All I want is more romance, like when we were first dating

Honeymoon phase is long gone. Why would you expect it to come back? How long were you even boyfriend and girlfriend? When you're with someone long enough you grow together and have a different kind of appreciation for each other that is based less in lust and more in friendship. There is nothing wrong with this and is more stable than jumping from guy to guy just because you miss the honeymoon phase.

While married it is inappropriate to spend a lot of time with friends, I believe that a married couple ought to let their spouse have girl time or manly time as long as it is within approved boundaries. Just let him know how you feel but don't tell him outright that you don't want him being with his friend(s). That tends to annoy us men and we will ignore it.
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>>18540249
>So is it wrong of me to expect him to be different now that we're married with kids?
No, it's not wrong. However you do have a responsibility to be up front with him about your misgivings. While you can expect your husband to be faithful and not do anything stupid, you cannot expect him to just KNOW that you're this nervous about it.

>I feel like he should have matured out of that stage a bit more by now.
Everyone is different and people don't "mature" the same way. The fact that he's the senior does not mean that he should be at or above your level of maturity...remember, you're dating a guy "slept around and partied into his 30s".

> feel like if I tell my husband I'm not cool with him going off with "the guys" they'll all tell him he's "whipped" and he'll grow resentful towards me and view me in a negative/unattractive light.
This WILL happen if you demand that he doesn't go out with the guys. If you do, however, let him know about your misgivings and be clear about the fact that "guys night" is not an excuse to forget he's married.

>All I want is more romance, like when we were first dating
It will never be like that again. You'll have moments of it, sometimes, but it's never going to be the same again. You're different people, all that stuff is in the past and is part of what you are now.

>Am I supposed to just let him do what he wants and trust him?
Trust but verify. You have a responsibility to be CLEAR about why you're nervous about this guys night, and you have a responsibility to be CLEAR about what you expect of him. You should let him go, but just as you have a responsibility to be up front and honest about your fears, he has a responsibility to remain faithful in every sense.
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>>18540288
>There is nothing wrong with this and is more stable than jumping from guy to guy just because you miss the honeymoon phase.

tf are you on about

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Do they work?
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>>18540241
depends on the people involved.
can work, doesn't have to
had two, one failed, the other one works great
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He has a girlfriend I've been trying to talk to him for almost a month
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>>18540253
you're probably better of looking for someone else then, sorry

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