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During sexting, I told my girlfriend in the heat of the moment that I wanted the D in my A while she is giving me a bj (trying to keep this as worksafe as possible). Anyway, she was really upset and I wonder if this is homophobia or not. It's not that she has a problem with my sexuality, but she thinks she isn't enough for me now and that's not true. I am 100% monogamous. It's just a fantasy, so why is she upset that I am attracted to both women and pre-op trannies?

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I'm going to a chill small college party where I know one person really well but only know a few people as "friends" but in the more superficial "we're not acquaintances but I don't have your number or hang out with you specifically, you might invite me to a bigger birthday party" (I haven't kept up with them, they're friends from my dorm) way. The girl I'm close to will probably hang out with them when I'm there but I also haven't hung out with her in a while so we might catch up a bit. I do not know the host of the party, it's supposed to be a mixer of a few different wierd social circles in our city.

Of the 20 people going on Facebook I know 4, of the additional 30 "interested" I know 7.

I'm moving out of the state next summer to live with my boyfriend and I won't know anyone there so he says this is good practice to making friends out there and I agree.

How do I do this /adv/? How do I do small talk with strangers in a not weird way? How do you make new friends? I get very awkward and feel socially isolated when people all already know each other. I don't do much besides work right now so I'm worried I'll be weird and talk about only tv. I'm not autistic or anything I'm just socially anxious sometimes and this is a cool basement show type music crowd.

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I've been dating my girlfriend for a bit over a month. We went out on three dates..we hugged,kissed,held hands. I even laid my head on her chest and lap which felt like heaven. I even called her cute nicknames. Last night, she told me that ALL of this stuff makes her uncomfortable. She just did it t make me happy. She said our relationship is going too fast and that we see each other too often. She says that she like me a lot and really wants to be in this relationship. To be honest, I feel a little empty..especially since I can't call her any cute nicknames. And I feel like an idiot, since I was under the impression that she was comfortable. What do you think?

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My husband keeps playing with girly things. Is he gay?

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I dreamt of shagging this girl I used to chat with and met up with a few times.

What does this mean?

I'm asking more out of fun since dreams don't really mean mch, right?

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What are some ways to meet people/women outside of school? I had a few friends in high school, but most of them have moved away for college. Currently finishing up myself, graduating soon, so I don't really know where else I can try.

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>Check out crush's Facebook
>Go on next day and it's been deleted
>Be paranoid that you accidentally clicked 'Add friend' and she deactivated to avoid her stalker who is you

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I've had this dream since I was like 15
It's a comic I have been making for 6 years now
The plot lore dialogues and other fluff are pretty much done, I just need to keep writing them down.

Issue is, I can't draw for shit, I've been trying to improve for the past 6 years but haven't gotten anywhere.
After thinking about it a little here are the options I've come up with :


>Ask someone to partner up with me
My best friend is a very talented digital art student and I think I may be able to make her help me but the chances are very slim, she's very busy with her school and stuff. But that's not the actual issue I'm just...embarrassed ? The story is very personal and I don't feel comfortable letting someone that actually knows me read it.

>Write it as a novel instead
I had this thought since the very beginning of the project, since I can't draw and am studying writing and languages the most natural course of action would be to just write it as a novel...But I don't know but I don't think it would really work without a "visual" medium.

>Pay someone to draw it for me
I hate this one but it's an option yeah.

>Give up my studies and dedicate myself to art
This one scares me a lot, I like my studies but I want to fulfill this dream no matter what but I don't have the time or the means to learn how to draw well while I'm still in college.

>Say fuck it and draw it anyway
This seems like the better option, I know that in the end I'm just making this for myself because I know no one will be able to relate with it so why not just draw it anyway without any knowledge.
But there's the chance it'll make me give up part way in because i'm just going to look at my work and say "holy shit dude, you suck just give up and stick to your studies"


>Give up
That's probably what I'll do in the end anyway..Kinda depressing but hey, what can you do.


You guys don't know me and I don't know you but if you were in my shoes and had to make a choice RIGHT NOW which option would you chose ?

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I've completely lost all aspiration or motivation to stay alive

I'm laying in bed at the moment, like I have been the past few months, and will continue to for god knows how long

I don't have anything to my name and I don't have any desire to do anything anymore

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I want to learn and become a good player. Books and stuff about chess. Also what board talks about chess frequently??

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So I have spent years abusing my body and mind, a few months ago I hit rock bottom and realised things needed to change. Nothing professional just great friends and a family I don't deserve. In the process of bettering my life and proving my change and commitment to the woman I owe so much I injured myself. Four years ago it was a herniated disk, now its sciatic nerve damage. The pain is crippling and hydrocodone only dulls the spasms for an hour or so. After my accident I missed a lot, to the point have pushed myself in believing I'm a lost cause. Once agian I closed down and pushed everyone away, all I want is to explain myself to those I hurt so many times over and over agian. I am at a stage where after swallowing a handful of pills to sleep I lay awake crying telling myself I deserve this. My fantasy today was to give one last goodbye, to the mother who worked three jobs and sacrifices even today just help somebody. The grandmother who taught me to read, dream, become inspired. My ride or die boy, as autistic as he may seem I love him like a brother. The girl that taught me what love and hate was. Finally the woman that accepted me as a flight risk, no matter how many times no matter how long I would disappear she was always waiting for me to sober up and just let her know I was still alive. There are amazing people in this world, human beings that are truly selfless and humble. They are strong. Myself, however has always struggle just to smile, to lend a hand, or just wave at someone. I trap myself in my thoughts I see what I am and all the time and money that has been waisted. Can I apologize for all the things I did and didn't do then finally pull the trigger this time? I offer nothing, I get by and live check to check. And at this point I dont want to change, I just want to be gone and forgotten. Is there help for the broken that dont want to be fixed?

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I have a very hard time opening and responding to texts. I will wait for days to just open a text, even if I dont suspect anything negative, it just creeps on me. The longer I wait, the worse it is to open a text.
When I reply, I start thinking as well, because unlike words, text can be read later and is always stored in the memory of the program.
Right now, I failed to inform my mother I came home safely, she sent 36 texts before I responded.
I also invited a girl via text, yesterday, its been 24 hours now, she responded and I cant open.
Usually, there is nothing bad about it when I open a message, but I think this behaviour pisses a lot of people off.
How to deal?

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>girlfriend of 18 months is looking for a new place to rent with her highschool friend
>highschool friend is vegan feminist
>I am the antithesis of this and I just know she doesn't like me much
>gf asks if I'd like to live with her one day, maybe next year
>I say sure
>couple weeks later
>the two of them still can't seem to find a place cheap enough
>girlfriend calls and asks me if I'd like to join them and look for a house together to save money
>immediately ask if vegan feminist friend is cool with that idea
>gf says she's cool with it
>I ask if she's sure
>gf admits that her reaction was more like "um... I don't know" until she realized how much cheaper it would be and then she suddenly came around to the idea
>proposes having dinner to see if we like each other and get along
>I tell my gf "I'll have to think about it"
>I already live in a cheap place (admittedly it's a shithole)
>can't think of anything worse than having to live with a vegan feminist who only tolerates my presence for the sake of cheaper rent
>at the same time I can tell I'm making a lot of assumptions about the situation and being a bit of a cunt

I'm very conflicted now. what the heck do I do?

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>know a girl for like 2+ years and talked casually with her
>became very close, closer than every other friend i have
>in the past 3 months develop strong feelings for her
>can't stop being jealous and getting sad when she gives anyone else attention
>always anxiously waiting for her to message me


i have to end it. i'm her closest friend and we spend the most time talking but the closer i am to her the more hurt i feel, because she definitely doesn't have the same romantic feelings to the same intensity. I still want to tell her how i feel, but at the same time let her know that i don't expect her to say she likes me too and i only had to tell her because it was destroying me otherwise and to build some closure.

How should I phrase it? I'm super embarrassed for liking her more than she likes me, but she doesn't have a single clue that i like her at all. i wasn't interested in her until a few months ago and even then i never flirt with her or show any interest. she's also never dated a boy before and probably thinks nobody actually has feelings for her.

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Hi guys, russian anon here.
As promised, recreation of the thread - >>18530425
I called her - she doesn't remember me.
Well, that's pretty much it.
My feelings destroyed, my ego destroyed, my hopes vanished.
Job interviews ended with nothing.
My life is fucked.
I'll fuck her on monday, last time, and then probably kill myself.
That was probably my best week in my life, when I felt that I am happy. As always it ends with pain.
Thanks for your support and thoughts. I really appreciate it.