I went to the psychiatrist when I was about 9 years old. He told me I would become some mastermind genious in the future... but he also touched my balls. I remember him telling me it's to check I had hit puberty yet or not or something like that.
20 years later, I'm wondering... is this normal /adv/? I think I've been CP'ed :-/
Did he tell you not to tell your parents?
>>18556693
I don't remember him telling me so. I have souvenirs of my mom being close but I don't remember if she was close enough to witness it. I don't think she saw because I doubt she is dumb enough to let a doctor fondle my balls for fun. I hope? hehe
>>18556690
>He told me I would become some mastermind genious in the future
Did this happen?
>but he also touched my balls.
Did this happen?
What's the best way to get rich with the least amount of effort possible?
>>18556557
Win the lottery
Get gaped by a provider and be his neet
>>18556563
I'd like a suggestion that has better odds.
I am a 2/10 gurl. I also have a 2/10 ability to connect with other people. And I'm 20. Cutting out calories has helped me lose dozens of pounds in three months, but I'm still fairly unhealthy. I just look...Worn out? It's depressing that this is the face that I have to show the world. Most days are down days.
How do I cope with looking like this? Is there some sort of silly psycho-ritual that ...? I know it's stupid, but I'm in great pain and I need help. I know I'll be alone forever but I at least want to become someone who's able to stand up and take it with grace, you know? I wanna be a force of nature and not cower like I'm goddamned doing now...
That might help*? Yeah, I'm guilty for phoneposting.
I highly doubt you're actually 2/10. Keep losing weight and try to focus on improving yourself. The better you feel about yourself the more people will be drawn to you, generally speaking.
>>18556547
If you're looking for advice, you have to be ready to implement it. You're cheating yourself if you just want to beat around the bush with the issue and only listen to advice instead of taking it. That said, being active in improving your health and going out of your comfort zone, such as talking to others even if it's uncomfortable sometimes, is the biggest start to not feeling so useless. Lay off heavily processed food, or even just eating mass amounts of it, and then take yourself outside and start walking. Work up to going outside and running. Wear what makes you feel good and surround yourself with people that make you feel good. If you're looking for a step by step, go ask more direct questions. If you want to improve your life, listen to what I said and make some damn changes instead of posting on 4chan.
>Be 22, 6'0", ginger/blonde, dark blue eyes, athletic, pale
>Really into silent films, 80s music, and cooking. Honor student and workaholic.
>People ask me out, they are shocked to find out I don't have a girlfriend.
>Truth be told, I have a strong thing for Asian women.
I don't get it Anons, I'm not into anime or anything of the typical "Asian fetish" stereotypes. But I just find Asian women to be top-tier.
do you have a qt ginger sister?
>>18556551
Yeah, she's like 30 and married.
Ok...go find an Asian girlfriend?
how do i move from a small town as a poor person to los angeles? i dont care what neighborhood i live in.
Why Los Angeles? Why not a midsize affordable Midwestern city?
>>18556484
hollywood fag here.
>save up money / take out a line of credit
>move to los angeles
>apply to sublet someones apartment until you land a job / know what areas you like
>after 3 to 6 months of working at that job, make the move.
there you go. thats how you move.
>>18556484
Simple, just leave; the bus runs everyday.
This book helped me out a lot. You don't have to follow it word for word, but the behavioral stuff is especially important and useful. It is a really good, entertaining read as well.
does that mean that i lost?
>300 pages of hey BB wan sum fun?
What's the tl;dr version? Is it the same crap you hear over and over?
I'm about to move across the country and I'm nervous (driving there). Tips?
>>18556347
dont drink while driving
>>18556347
have fun. people dream about an adventure like this
>>18556383
Do they? Lugging a uhaul behind your truck is an adventure?
am I the only one that finds hetero porn to be extremely degrading towards women?
No I find missionary position for a purposes other than procreation disgusting or any other position
Is this how we're gonna do it now?
No. Completely agree. Maybe it's just because BDSM in general isn't really my thing but the slapping cocks in her face, choking, name calling, spitting, facefucking and facials are off putting to me as well.
I made a scientific discovery, does anyone know why I can go to popularize it? Not for profit, I just want other scientists to be made aware.
> tell me goyum
their are plenty of ways just use google it will give a lists of places where scientist submit ideas for testing , in order to get recognized
>>18556112
what is it?
>>18556112
What did you find? Just say what is it related to.
My older sister left me her teen daughter for summer holiday.
They lived abroad for a long time, and apparently since she came back she had trouble making friends. She started to have more and more anxiety before going to school and even panic attacks. My sister brought her to psy and he said maybe it would be good to get a change of air. Since I live in the country by the sea far from the city? she asked me if I could take care of her for a few weeks.
I accepted even though I don't know my niece very well (we see on rare occasions, and she spent years abroad).
Anyway I have trouble knowing if I do a good job with her.
She's very introverted, very polite too, so I can't tell if she having a good time or not. She doesn't go outside much even though the sea is 200meters away. She spends a lot of time in her room. I saw that she borrowed some of my mangas
Do you think I should propose more stuff to do with her or just leave her be?
Yesterday I came back from fishing and I saw her looking at my guitar collection, she seemed interested. She didn't see me.
Do you think I should ask her if she wants to try to play? Maybe give her a few tips? Or is it best if I leave her alone?
I know that on this board there are a lot of people that were introverted in their teens, so I'd like to hear your opinion
>tfw no niece to teach how to become Staceyâ„¢
Can they fucking breed, alreadu?
>>18556040
If I showed at least genuine interest at something (in your case, your guitar collection), I'd love if someone would talk with me about it.
This is just a speculation, but if I was her, I'd would pretend to look at at something and wonder in hope's of getting the attention of a particular individual.
t. 18 y.o. full-fledged autistic introvert
>>18556051
She's 14, make your mind
>>18556061
>If I showed at least genuine interest at something (in your case, your guitar collection), I'd love if someone would talk with me about it.
I'm pretty sure since she was looking for a long time, and even rolled her fingers on the strings to see how it sounded.
I just don't want to force her or embarass her
I went on ssri's and are going through withdrawals that have made me isolate myself for the past couple of months or so. The withdrawals are really fucking with my emotions. This of course has damaged a my relationships with my family and gf.
I'm starting to feel so empty and insignificant, and feel like I have no one to turn to. How do I go back to normal. I'm so desperate.
Please.
Someone, help me with your thoughts.
Why did you go off of them? Im on an ssri right now and haven't really been off of it but google says withdrawal symptoms should only last one or two weeks.
>>18556257
I mean if you don't mind me asking.
>>18556020
Why the hell did you stop taking them? You're supposed to talk to your doctor and they'll taper your off over a few months. You could start by taking your medicine again. Also withdrawals don't last a couple of months.
What do you do when someone is shit-talking you or discriminating you by being racist or especially homophobic (or any other "ist" or "phobic")?
Bonus Question: And what do you do if that person is a woman?
I've never confronted anyone before but I realize that I will have to at some point in time. What the best way to do it?
for homophobic first if your gay your a faggot by default i am anyway so those threats carry no weight , racist who cares you are automatically racist if your white or black , or any color of the rainbow , if their a women just throw a biology book at them show them evolution has made me superior
>>18555848
BUMP coz I was gonna create the same thread.
>>18555848
Try not to be such a faggot. If you have a problem with what someone is saying, say it. Otherwise you're outta luck.
Hey, /adv/,
Would you stay in a relationship you're no longer feeling at all just for the fear of hurting your partner with a break up that, to them, will feel unfounded?
Care to elaborate on why you think they will feel that way?
Explain why you entered a relationship with someone when you weren't sure about how you felt about them ?
>>18555713
She just doesn't interest me in any way anymore.
She isn't doing it for me.
>>18555717
Before really getting to know her, she seemed cooler.
How do I quit watching porn?
It's my only vice, I don't smoke, I don't drink but I can't seem to quit porn.
Tried going cold turkey but after a week or so I just end up watching porn again.
It's even affected my relationship with my gf, sometimes I'd rather watch porn and jack off than have sex.
Any advice would be appreciated lads
Literally can't.
>>18555684
If you're not dedicated to quitting, then you won't quit. You have to decide to stop, utterly and completely. It has to come to the point that you think "hmm maybe i wanna watch some porn right now," but you don't because you just don't do that anymore. You have to decide to stop. And it seems like you haven't truly committed to stopping. It's way more simple than it seems, but that doesn't mean it's not hard to do. You can do it OP.
>>18555684
I have zero experience in fixing addictions but I'd say find something else to fill the time with. Maybe a video game or a tv show/movie? idk
>mother receives amazon echo for free
>instant red flag
>CIA niggers are watching somewhere
>feel compelled to smash the device
what do anon
>>18555650
you better hide your confederate money bro
>>18555650
Perhaps you could use this to your advantage. A way of training you to watch what you say. It will build up some new skills. And, if it makes your mother happy and you love her, just let her have the object. If you have nothing to hide, then you shouldn't be too concerned.
>>18555672
I don't say much at all actually. But it's fucking creepy to have people having the ability to listen to whatever you say inside your house.