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parents treat me like a kid even though im 18 and have a job 2017-07-24 09:32:24 Post No.18552551
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parents treat me like a kid even though im 18 and have a job
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my dad especially treats me like I can't do much which has lead me to often times just sit back and watch instead of having the courage to just go for it
i have become a robot pls halp
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>>18552551
they'll always treat you like a kid, it isn't something that can be explained just the way parents are. even when you're 40 if they're still alive they will treat you like one. you have to change the way you view their treatment.
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You're 18. 18 year olds are morons.
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>>18552551
..you literally are a kid
age of adulthood and voting age should both be 21.
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Neighbor called the cops on me 2017-07-24 09:24:57 Post No.18552524
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Neighbor called the cops on me
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2017-07-24 09:24:57
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>Bought a building a couple of months ago
>New to the neighborhood
>Went for a run
>Got home, went around back, saw there was yard work to do
>Spent about an hour out back doing work
>Cops come up my driveway
>They're tense as fuck
>Apparently while I was working on my property my weapon became unconcealed
>Neighbor called in a "man with a gun" call
>I'm on my property, no obligation to conceal
>Also, I have a carry permit
>Cops ended up wasting close to half an hour of my time with an investigative stop on my property for jack shit
>I know which neighbor it was without a doubt
Should I go over and talk to her about this? Try to clear up any confusion? Or should I just let this be and act like nothing happened? I'm not even remotely used to people not minding their own business in the city.
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>>18552524
Picture unrelated to the story but absolutely related to the property.
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>Should I go over and talk to her about this?
Yes, you don't want this cunt to come in your way in the future. Go to talk to her in a very passive aggressive / threatening way, while having your gun in your pants like pic related so that's it's VERY visible.
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>>18552524
call the cops on her and see how she likes it. tell them you're her husband and holding her hostage at gunpoint in their bedroom. might get you some jail time but fuck it, it's worth it.
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How do I stop being a fag?
I'm stuck of being a loser who has never seen a pussy in real life. I go to work and get mocked for being a beta then ride my bike home and browse /b/, then listen to asmr to fall asleep.
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> beta , bike , 4chan
first of all being a beta has nothing to do with anything my first fuck was a fat whore i gave a cooked steak to no joke then i told her i wanted her yada yada always have boom virginity gone ,
> bikes are cool
4chan is a bad thing and a good thing a. it makes you laugh b.makes you mad
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>>18552533
I should try chasing a fat chick?
I guess it's better than nothing?
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>>18552543
hey all in all losing my virginity cost 20$ for a tbone steak
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I'm a worthless NEET who is running out of money, and I need some marketable skills ASAP. Three options that seem doable right now are learning...
>front end web development
This html/css shit is really, really, really dry. I dunno if I could do it for a living.
>photoshop
I've got a little bit of experience with it and a background in visual arts. I don't know how to turn that into money, though.
>blender
I've been wanting to learn 3D modeling for a while (hobby purposes). Also don't now how to turn that into money.
Any recommendations?
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>>18552484
get whatever entry level job you can first so you can support your self. then go learn those fucking skills in your spare time to get a better job
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shower and lift bro lol
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>>18552487
What sort of work should I look for? I just got out of an absolutely Hellish retail job, so I ain't doing that again.
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How to get over being depressed 2017-07-24 09:03:25 Post No.18552474
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How to get over being depressed
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I've realized something recently, that everything I've done has been in order to please others. I would watch films, played video games and listen to music not entirely for my own self-interest, but in order to flaunt my own taste to other people. Realizing this, I just can't enjoy doing anything any more, because I no longer feel like I'm doing it for fun. I'm trying to make myself seem "cultured" in order to make myself seem presentable to other people. And the thing is, I don't really have other people in my life, no close friends, just acquaintances. And even then, I don't want to rely on my interractions with other people to make me happy, I want to be able to make myself happy.
I work a job at a pizza place and it's alright, but I get nervous working cash sometimes, especially when it's late at night and the questionable people start coming in. I'm scared of how people might act verbally towards me even if I do try my best. I want to be able to find a place to work at where the only people I ever have to interact with are my coworkers but I don't know of such a job.
I'm attending school for Engineering but my only motivation for it is that I'll eventually make money. I'm more interested in the arts but even then I know how much of a meme art school is.
How do I get over my depression?
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>>18552474
If you didn't like watching films, playing video games, and listening to music you wouldn't be doing them. I'm saying if you hated it and if you were really only doing it to please others it isn't something you would be inclined to do for long periods of time
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> just quit
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Start going to the gym.
I'm not saying to "get big" or any of that "do you even lift" shit. But just go to the gym and work out. Honestly, it drastically improved my mental health once I started going to the gym. I feel healthier, which in turn helps my mental thoughts. I feel much more comfortable in my own skin than I used to
First time posting in /adv/, because I really am in need of some advice from people not close to me. I wasted 4 years of my life in uni (I'm 22 now), studying scandinavian studies (basically, learned to speak swedish), and I can't even get a diploma, because I don't have the time to study for the exams, because I started working with computers, which I've loved since, well I got my first PC. I am in sort of a loophole here, where I constantly study (Python atm), and I still feel like a useless piece of shit even though I help my family with money I earn in my job and learn a lot every day. I really don't know what's wrong with me, and would be extremely grateful, if anyone here has some idea on how to work this out.
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>>18552430
I'm confused. Explain why you are feeling bad again.
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Are you pursuing what makes you happy? Are you projecting standards on yourself based on comparison with other, completely different people's standards? Answer these questions then re-evaluate what YOU want to achieve in life. You will feel better once you realise you are currently contributing to accomplishing those achievements.
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>>18552468
That's literally the issue, I am grinding hard every day to become better and strive to be a better person, yet I feel that I have just been left out of the grid, and can no longer attain what people have done in the field I am interested in (programming). I am starting to think that unless I study like crazy every day, I will amount to nothing, and this thing is killing me inside
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What is popular YouTube video maker?
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>>18552355
I use windows movie maker on my windows xp computer.
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Sony Vegas Pro is a very common video maker, requires a bit of learning though.
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>>18552503
This minus the learning part. You can just watch a few tutorials and then pretty much understand most of it
>26 year old
>no friends for few years
>isolation for almost a decade
>no gf never had one
I have lost my desire for social interaction and needs, loneliness doesn't bother me, it hasn't for a year.
People try to get close to me, but I don't feel anything towards them, no affection nothing, I feel nothing towards people. I think I am a freak, I am apathetic with all things including myself. Nothing matters.
I am not sure if this is permanent, I talked to psychiatrists, doctors they have concluded I have depression and gave me anti depressants with no effects. A wrong diagnosis?
So adv how can I become normal again? In terms of emotions and feelings, how can I regain them back?
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>>18552321
>I have lost my desire for social interaction and needs, loneliness doesn't bother me
Renounce society and become a yogi
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>>18552363
Society doesn't bother me, what bothers me that I can't emotions like other normal peoplemail and I want to fix that.
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well are you depressed or not? Only you can answer that question. I will say that in general "emotional numbness" is usually a side effect of depression or anxiety.
Also, can you recall a specific example of being hurt by someone which caused you a significant amount of personal distress?
tl;dr: Job search with 0 direction, good or bad?
/adv/,
I've known for quite some time now that my current 9-5 is just...bad. Very little room for growth. Honestly, I was never trained and only took the job because my parents were on my ass. My sister, who also worked there, has left and loves her new job, admitting that the anxiety she once felt has dissipated.
I have been looking for a job longer than she has, with zero luck at all. Even for the same position, Administrative Assistant, I haven't gotten an interview.
I can't help but think I've wasted time and I must have made bad decisions to be that bad of an applicant. I've tried on Indeed, Glassdoor and Linkedin to no avail. I still don't know what to do career wise, as unfortunately all I can think of the paycheck. Especially since I've been underpaid this whole time.
Advice yall?
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Lovely Bump?
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How'd your sister get her new job?
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>>18552525
A random recruiter messaged her on linkedin. My sister's a bit more valuable than I since she has her masters.
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How do I get rid of this habit? It used to be 3 times more than this, but now my pc crashes if I open more tabs than this.
I have an extremely short attention span so I leave tabs open to deal with later. It could be news, porn, 4chan threads etc.
Is anyone here like me?
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>>18552261
Ussually i only have a max of 10 tabs open but thats if most are related information.
If you leave open so many tabs, why don't you just save them in "bookmarks"? It's what i often do when i want to read something later in the day.
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>>18552261
This is non issue. Or are you RAMlet?
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>>18552273
That's what I used to do. Now I have an ocean of bookmarks, scrolling down the whole list takes a minute.
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Is it unrealistic and a bad life choice in terms of wasting time to try and become a police officer in Ontario Canada?
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>>18552256
Nope, as long as you meet the requirements and can actually make it through the required classes and tests then it's a great choice! Even if you think you can't make it you should still try.
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>>18552262
I'm 23 and I've just been working at a casino, kind of coasting by trying to figure out what to do with my life. I keep coming back to Policing, it seems to be my only career interest that runs deeper than a paycheque.
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>>18552256
Its a 'respected' and civil job that brings benefits and pensions, albeit low pay compared to those with degrees. Why not?
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No one sees me as a good friend 2017-07-24 07:37:21 Post No.18552254
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No one sees me as a good friend
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2017-07-24 07:37:21
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What am i doing wrong?
Problem is, the people i consider as my best friends all see me as just a regular friend, one of their long bunch. I realized this because i asked one of them how did they saw me and he said "well you are someone funny to hang out but i would't call you a friend" and then i asked the others randomly as the past week went.
I'm literally very comprehensive and listen to them when they have problems, i hang out with them and help them with money anytime they need, i make jokes and they laugh, we spend a lot.
I swear to god that i'm a good person to them in every aspect i can.
I feel kind of dumb and trying to not cry.
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same here man, stopped believing i'd ever have someone i can call best friend or be called a best friend by someone, idk..
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You deserve better anon. I'll be your friend.
Those people sound like assholes who don't appreciate what they have.
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>>18552291
I'm sorry to hear that bud. I really don't know what can it be.
I thought you could measure the level of friendship by things like support, time spent together, funny moments, etc... I guess not
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Some cokehead is mad at me and my girlfriend because he thinks we played a role in ending his shitty relationship.
I told him I would fight him tonight but I really do not want to mostly because I am a pacifist and don't wanna deal with some idiot.
I am much bigger than the guy and probably could win but I hate fighting. How do i get out of this?
>pic unrelated
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Intimidate him, and be act like you REALLY want to fight him, he might back off if you seem more eager to hurt than he does. Or pull a knife or something, self defense, right?
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>>18552268
Yeah he did something similar to my friend a couple months ago about showing up to his house and he never showed.
I don't think it's worth it and I'd rather look like a bitch than get arrested or affect my relationship
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>>18552250
Why the fuck are you hanging around a fucking cokehead? Don't show and hang with a group of decent people.
how do i hide a hickey or get rid of it quickly?
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bandage
nobody will ask about a bandage and if they do just be like "yeah i got my ass kicked" and theyll understand
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>>18552238
say you rolled over on a bed and your neck hit the night stand
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>>18552238
Hickey is love scar. Wear it proudly. Make vanilla fag and r9k virgins jealous!
And pic related.
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Male Fashion advice needed ASAP 2017-07-24 07:28:18 Post No.18552230
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Male Fashion advice needed ASAP
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2017-07-24 07:28:18
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Alright so I'm taking this cute girl out for drinks tonight at this nice tavern I found out about. Problem is, I've never taken a girl out for drinks, so I'm not sure how casually I should dress? I was planning on wearing Khakis, a tucked in grey polo shirt, black dress shoes, a black belt, a leather watch, and a navy blue cardigan (its supposed to be chilly tonight). Or should I go buy another shirt or something? The only other shirt I have is a white button up shirt, or a maroon button up shirt
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Sounds good not sure about the cardigan though, do you have just a black jacket?
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The only "Jacket" I really have is a navy blue rain coat like this. Although I could probably borrow a plain black jacket from a friend of mine
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>>18552230
You as a boy need shower, shave, antideodorant, shoes, pants and some tshirt, everything clean preferable newly washed so it doesnt smell.
And pic related. Be alpha boy and everything else will solve itself. Dont forget to get condoms and show the lady you find her attractive via any compliment / asking for netflix and chill at the end of date.