Lived in a student apartment complex during the school year. I'm back home now and I have received my final bill to close out the lease. I was doing a study abroad program and was did not pay the rent on time as a result I accrued $200 in late fees. I'm planning on paying the rent and rest of the charges except the late fees. I doubt they will pursue any action to collect the $200 but was wondering what could possibly happen? Has anyone done anything similar?
>>18558232
They can simply withhold your degree when you graduate until you pay then, with the further accumulated late fees.
Or they might not wait until then and simply refuse you registration for the next semester
Pay it now
>>18558239
The student apartment complex isn't run by the university. I called it that because only students live there but they have no pull on my education.
>>18558232
>be an asholes which doesn't pay on time
>be an assholes which doesn't pay the late fees
>be an assholes which makes a joke out of you because you can't afford a lawyer to get your money
Are you by any means a nigger?
Hi, I need a name for a blog and social media for personal blogging about procrastinating, ADHD, and somehow crazy individual.
I'm polish and I came up with the name "tako rzecze Zaraz Jutro" which can be translated to "that spoke Soon Tommorow". The name needs to be unique, easy to remember, focused on opinion making and not only at one topic but showing personality of the blogger. What do you think about my name idea?
>>18558220
Głupia nazwa, wymyśl coś lepszego
>>18558223
Jakieś propozycje? Nie chcę tego robić z imienia i nazwiska, tylko coś tak jak AdBuster ma nazwę.
>>18558220
"Ask Me Tomorrow"
How do you get into a good college without being a megachad/megastacy with 8 extracurriculars...
Don't be useless.
>>18558209
Professor writing here
First of all, a meganerd is more likely to get into a good college, because presumably he'll have better grades.
Top-tier colleges presume good grades and good SAT/ACTs. They then look for interestingness. They want the student body to be made up of people who will stimulate each other.
An impressive record in 1 or 2 extracurriculars will count more than a long list of clubs you did nothing in. Club officer, leader of a fund drive, organizer of a peer tutoring service, etc.
Interesting combinations will catch the eye of the admissions people - a math major who acted in drama club shows, a jock who worked with neighborhood kids, etc.
Social popularity in high school terms - being one of the cool kids - counts very little
>>18558209
be black
I am here to dispense wisdom. Post your questions below and I will post a one sentence answer.
>>18558166
Am I a bitter fuck?
Why am I postponing my happiness?
>>18558166
why do people have to suffer from their parent's choices in life? How do others cope with it? how do others stay sane OP?
Should I try to get into a relationship? Is it even worth it?
I've been thinking about it a lot lately. On the one hand I feel a bit lonely (24 yo virgin), but on the other hand I don't think a relationship would solve anything except taking even more of my already limited time, on top of how much I would have to change personally to even be fit for one, since I'm a bit socially oblivious with the opposite sex.
Is it really worth it? Any people like me who got into relationships as an old fuck can tell me what it's like?
What is the alternative?
It won't solve anything, but it's nice to have a nice time with someone, if you got the time and that person is nice.
If you have to change your personality, do it for yourself, not for anyone else.
>>18558160
fuck she is hot man
Fellow /adv/ocates.
So yeah suicide. Any of you ever contemplated it? The absolute love of my life told me how much she doesn't love me anymore and that she just doesn't feel like she appreciates me like she used to. I feel like I'm at terms with that somewhat, but all I can think about now is somebody else making her happy and her completely forgetting about me.
I am genuinely and generally a really happy guy, but this has destroyed me. I feel like If I couldn't make it with someone who was just so fucking perfect for me, can I ever make it with anyone?
Two souls were never more meant to meet, she just got tired of mine. Where should I go from here? Should I continue living with a broken mind or is there any point? I know this has probably been asked a thousand times so if anyone is coming from the same background their advice would be even more appreciated.
>>18558095
Hey yeah, same situation right here. Everybody says to focus on yourself and try to forget, I guess that's all we can do. Sorry op, goodluck
Consider this: life is about yourself and not relying on others.
Reconsider your life expectations.
I may give you probably an other advice but /adv/ seems to be filled with heartbroken suicidal teenagers.
There are tribes on planet earth that dont give a damn about love, rather staying alive and procreation while having war.
You suicidal thoughts about some bf of a couple of years are as delusional and dumb as muslims blowing themselfes up for their god. Its literally the same dumb mind thing.
Just think about it. There are plenty of whores on this planet. I bet that there is somone else still outthere for you.
>>18558095
Man can you be any more melodramatic? You are just sad. Lets be real. You will probably not commit suicide so you might as well start doing something to become a better person. Start learning a skill online or working out. She might come back to you if you arent a shitty person and actively improve yourself.
My girlfriend told me she needed a break from our LDR to sort herself out (mentally) . Everyday I fear her losing interest in me and losing her. What can I do to keep her interested and keep our relationship alive?
>>18558048
You cant. LDR are flawed from the start. Relationships in general tend to end fairly quickly and a LDR is only mental and either of you could be lying the entire time and stringing the other along.
Dont be annoying about your insecurity and accept that this relationship might not last. Thats the best way to keep it from ending prematurely.
>>18558065
: /
I learned one thing from LDR
Never ever anymore
Just pain and pain
How do I do that? Is there a site that lets me convert it?
havent found anything yet
H-help
Or am I just retarded
>>18558046
You don't..?
I mean you can scrunch the image with GIMP or even ME Paint, but it will look like garbage. If there is a lot of blank or "white" space in the sides of the image you can crop it, with the aforementioned apps. bit there's little you can do with an image that has content throughout sans making a new image from scratch in the desired aspect ratio..
>17 years old parents on vacation get the house to myself
>do a bunch of drugs with some friends
>female friend has problems with her bf and asks if she can stay at my house
>do a bunch of drugs with her
>always had the hots for her but she rejects my advances
>loves to tease though
>one night while drunk she falls asleep
>fuck her
>she leaves next day and calls me, tells me she hates me
>after awhile talk to her and she decides not to press charges but doesnt want to see me again
>fall into deep depression after realizing what i did
>quit drinking and drugs
>year later
>parents out again, different girlwants to stay over
>constant tease but rejects all advances
>ask her for sex
>she says no but wants to spoon
>hard as fuck but as im touching her i notice shes asleep
>stop and fall asleep myself
>feel good i didnt make the same mistake
>bad that im always rejected
>in the end she ended up using me
I still feel bad about it and bad about the fact that i cant understand people. Give me some advice.
Don't fucking rape people, there's some advice retard
>>18558034
So dogs are okay?
>>18558038
Free game, sodomize then all you want
Does no contact work for getting an ex back? What if she moves on during that period?
It's a first step out of many
Go no contact anyway, work on yourself and see how you feel about the whole thing in 4-8 weeks
>>18557990
this is what i thought i would do at any rate.
how should i work on myself though? i already work out but other than that i don't do much. i want to change my personality but i don't know where to start with that. i wish she would have at least told me why didn't love me anymore, shit would have been much easier that way.
No contact is the only method:
1. Either they decide they need you
2. You meet someone else
Cute girl in my math class that I like. We talked but just normal, boring talk. I'm a 3/10 at talking, 2/10 when it's with girls. How do I not fuck this up? What do?
80% you will fuck it up, sorry to tell you this, but its true in most cases. Just go in there and see what happens.
>>18557938
>Do more talk till she becomes your friend.
It's all bout the long game
Any more good books like this? Preferably one more social and less business oriented.
I notice this book helping me a lot. It seems extremely obvious the shit that is written in it, but actually reading it makes a difference, at least for me.
Power of Persuasion by Robert Levine.
>>18557887
Best teacher is real life experience, OP.
Go out in the world and make some waves. Learn by trial and error.
How much time would /adv/ need for going out and such before proposing?
Inb4 don't get married.
Three-ish years together or when the younger of you is in their mid-20s, whichever is later.
At least 2 year, preferably 4ish. Most relationships fall apart around 6 months, and then the next hurdle seems to be 2 years. By 3 I'd say you've seen every side to that person. Divorces are expensive and hard. Don't jump into a marriage.
Anything under a year seems pretty ridiculous to me; even then, I think two to four is where I'd consider it.
>too long
Nigga, if I'm marryin' I'm spending like thirty; if she can't wait four, she can get the fuck away from me.
Hi /adv/ Im a "newfag" and was wondering if I can get some tips and some help with the terms and shit here. I already understand the bare basics but, I need help understanding some of the other stuff
Tl;dr: Newfag asking for tips and help with terms and stuff
>>18557824
Oh and pic not related :\
>>18557824
Patience and time faggot
[spoiler]spoilers don't work on /adv/[/spoiler]
Agree or disagree?
>>18557820
Would you go out like that?
And even if you would, would anyone take you seriously?
And personally, wearing makeup (nevermind excessive amount of it) shows how superficial you are.
>meaning girls who wear make up are all superficial whores
Please don't shit on me for a stupid generalization.
I hope all men do this so I can have all the great women for myself.
I mean. I agree. You don't have to show the cashier your vagina to be able to legally buy and use makeup. It's not really much different from face paint. And it literally doesn't do anything. If some random dude decides to wear eyeliner you won't have to suck several dicks just because you made eye contact with him.