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>>18569078
Yes, it is sort of expected (both for men and women) to have some sort of experience when you are in your late 20s, as the vast majority of people in their late 20s dated before.

Anyway, if a woman likes you she'll be patient and guide you.

>betamax
>like, extreme betamax
>you cannot possibly be as beta as me
>inb4 real life stories-- that involves leaving the house

Okay, I joke. I handle myself pretty well in social scenarios.

>because I spent five years dating the female version of beta
>we've spent five years fostering most of the worst in each other and finding ways to take joy in it
>we generally encourage awful behaviors and terrible habits in one another because that will, in turn, enable the encourager in the future
>we both have crippling depression and anxiety problems which leads us to be basement dwellers

Did I want this? No; I honestly always wanted someone who challenged me, drove me to be better, drove me to be stronger. Someone who told me that the me of yesterday was never good enough and the me of tomorrow always had a lot on his plate. I needed that-- I needed someone to destroy the boyish reveries. But I never got that. I got a nympho with faith issues and a hermit with confidence issues, because I'm probably a sick combination of both (I've never *really* cheated but there was a pretty close call).

Look, man. I'm just saying. You're not the only fucked case out there. Tons of women are, too, but think-- if they're in the same situation, what are you expecting?

People date for like 1-2 days and have sex over how easy it is to relate to another. Sometimes, they just click. I know I could; I've seen many girls I've considered for a good romp after a coffee or two, and others who I've taken over the course of a month or more and just cannot fathom putting my dick in them.

I had a co-worker I would have loved to lay out and mess up like a bed sheet. But if I did, she would have probably followed me around like a lost puppy for the next five years, while stifling anything except a total glorification of me. (Now, maybe not, but I'm evidently a taken man)

Shoot low. They're out there somewhere.

>>18569078

I know exactly, how you feel, weirdly I am also 27 and am going through exactly what you are. I don't want fun I want someone I really like and can spend the rest of my life with not hop from 1 pussy to another. I think I'm at the age where I personally want to find 'The one'

Like you I am not sexually experienced, I've been with women but it's been a long time now.

Like you I'm sure you also think the best route to go is being a nice gentlemen, but the longer you stay on here you realise that maybe that isn't the best case?

I've only had one hook up in my life and believe me I can easily have more hook ups, I have women waiting but I just can't do it

Inb4 fag

>>18569063
Parent's anger issues are tough. My dad passed them on to me, I hit my kitten because it pissed me off, too. Now he hates me, and I feel terrible.

Anyway yeah, get some weed for your dad, it really, really helped my dad and myself. Try to keep your kitten in an area where she won't get in your dad's way, like your room.

Maybe your mom should put out more than once a year

>>18569079
I wish I could, but I don't have a door to my room so she just keeps roaming. Also, sorry to hear about your kitten. I'll try getting weed asap.

>>18569084
She does (Sadly their room is close to mine so I can hear. Plus, I walk on them from time to time) but I doubt he can TALK to her or something. Or if it even helps him.

>>18569007
Which religion is he from?
If atheist, did he had negative experiences with the church?
As a "catholic atheist" I know the "hate" one feels in the beginning. With enough education about objective history instead of meme atheism it can be resolved. Problem: That requires a man willing to change his view in the face of facts, most people rather believe in their comfy ideology.

But it's also possible that he just felt out of love and looks for an excuse. Sorry to tell you, but moving to another country to flee from your problems isn't the way to go. Get your shit together and move back to your nation and look for a man with similar view of your own subrace. This will not be the only problem resulting from a different upbringing, especially if you want children.

>>18569007
If you honestly believe that religion is necessary for you and you need it to have peace in your life and your partner destests it so much that he claims it made him lose his love for you - leave him. Catholic religion is very mild, so I think he is exaggerating and honesty he seems to be a petty and narrow minded person.

Are you from Poland by any chance?

>religion and romance

Boy, that's a tough one. For anyone on the other side, it's sort of a 'we may be liable to stop doing things you enjoy on the pretext of some old guys who wrote a dusty book millenia ago.' Which sucks, because what you enjoy with people is sort of why we're still here, honestly.

It's not that he's wrong and you can't really sign him to that, because that's no more fair to him than he's being to you. You have to really open up dialogues about this and cover what his problems are; you need to confirm he's worrying over nothing (as I expect you intend to make the case).

Lastly, you need to understand religion has a nasty habit of being cult-like when used to mend someone's mental health. There is a lot of history all around us to suggest it's not a good idea to mix religion with non-religious things.

Kill them.

>>18569022
That's fucking gay bump

Uhm.. kill yourself?

Best way: Exit bag
Easiest way: train tracks?

>>18568977
Katana. Sharp. Don't botch it pussy.

>Cocaine
>9 Gram
>Goodbye

>>18568964
SO uh, basically you just didn't ask her to hang with you because.....?

>>18569114

I don't know. I guess I'm just scared of being rejected. And her mother was there, with her.
I've had girls who showed interest. It just takes a lot of willpower to do

>>18569124
Stop being a faggot and ask out QTs who give you that look.
They appreciate it more than you think if you're not creepy about it

>>18568833
Not necessarily. That said, I have yet to meet a good person that hates dogs.

>>18568833
You're fine as long as you don't act on it.

>>18568833
You probably don't hate dogs, you are just afraid, which is fine, because that is what a dog is supposed to instill in you, when they protect the home.

She's probably emphasising that although you look like him and you know it she only has eyes for him. The real McCoy.

Which era of Jarvis do you look like? He looked like shit in around 2000-2002

Just saying

>>18568796
Why don't you go find out for yourself, instead of expecting us to read the mind of someone we've never met?

>>18568763
>My boyfriend just doesn't get it.
stop addressing 4chan like we're your friends you dumb whore

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>>18568763
>hang out with ex bf
>"baww why my bf is so jealous"
looks like you are not cut out for mature relationships, OP

>>18568763
is this bait?
I can't even tell anymore because sone girls are really that oblivious

>>18568751
If they aren't hiring, then they aren't hiring unless you have someone inside that has the power to "create" an opening for you.

>>18568751
find some one high up in the company and fuck them if there maryed or there closited homosexual it will would better get evident and idf after a few months if there are still on opening black mail him

I just write a quick email introducing myself, saying why I'm interested in the company and asking whether they have any openings or if they will in the near future and attach my resume and academic transcript (since I'm a recent graduate).

>>18568755
Not true in the least, in many cases if you're worth hiring and they like you, they'll see what they can do. I know plenty of people who have landed jobs this way and I've received several positive responses myself.

And it doesn't hurt to try. The worst they can do is say no.

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>>18568688
Do you happen to also be 60 years old, OP?

>>18568704
Nah, I'm 29.

>>18568688
I tinnot

>>18568650
no one was really in the wrong here
you are allowed to have preferences, just don't expect them to be met
also if you want to only have virgin girls and don't stick to one, it is unlikely you will succeed very often

>>18568658
yes, I dont expect to find a virgin. Its pretty unrealistic. Im 19 already. Women in my country lose virginity at 15. I guess its time to come to terms with the fact that I will be forver alone

>>18568665
I wouldn't be too pessimistic about it either, they do exist, but expect a girl who values her virginity to not give it up to you easily, maybe not until marriage

>>18568639
Ask full frontal nude. It covers all the bases.

>>18568639
Personally, I would just ask for a close up pic of her butthole. Not because I'm particularly attracted to it, but because I'm more curious if she would actually do it.

A chick sending me pics does nothing for me. You can't fondle a pic.

Feed her narcissism.

>>18568637
Oh ut up and deal with it like the rest of us are you edgy PoS.

All you're doing is running away from the work of addressing your flaws. Maybe if you started with addressing that one you'd start making progress to these basic ass goals of yours.

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>>18568637
That is a huge problem that you hate yourself. Out of all the people I advise on /adv/, people who are suicidal or hate themselves are hardest to advise, because they don't even look for advice but come here for ranting and disregard everything because they already know they don't want to ever get better.

Universe is such a huge place, planet earth is a tiny speck of sand compared to how big the sun is, and on this tiny speck of sand, you are one, insignificant piece of insect that is set to born and die on a timescale so short that in the entire universe, there is nothing you can do that will disrupt the harmony of the universe. In this comparison, what is there to gain from hating yourself? Why do you think anybody would pat you on the back for recognizing yourself as failure? Nobody will. Everyone has their own problems. Nobody gives a single fuck if you cherish yourself for the flaws you have, or if you hate yourself for it. Just fucking own up your mistakes and live your life, like any grown up does. Stop this edgy teenage shit about "baww I am a loser" nonsense.

Grow a pair faggot.

>>18568611
Are you a security guard or a retail worker?

>>18568611
Tell your boss to get a restraining order, and if he comes in, you'll just call the police and have him arrested.

Otherwise, just tell him he's not getting past you, and if he doesn't leave, you'll call security/police.

I also recommend a conceal carry weapon (and permit if required). The biggest, baddest dude is at a disadvantage against a 100 lb chick who has a gun in her hand, and knows how to use it.

If you want to know what gun to get that's easily concealable, Smith and Wesson shield if you want a semi auto (more bullets, slightly less reliable), and a Bodyguard if you want a revolver (only 5 bullets, but it will never jam).

>>18568641
Retail.

Will calling him "buddy" piss him off.

Since im usually the only guy on I'm guessing it's going to be me who will have to deal with him.

plus I work with qt's. and a regular customer is a crush of mine.

I'm not afraid to go and deal with it I just want to know what's the best way to go about it without being too much of a hero or triggering him.

Should I do a more friendly approach or will he take that as seeing me as a pussy and disregard my attempts to get him to leave?