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oh shit your feeling it.

Start a fight?

>>18707750
If only there was some kind of group you can join dedicated to such an activity.

>>18707743
probably deleted. i had people go awol for various reason. Why not ask the person directly

>>18707743
>However, when I log off and try to search her she is no where to be found even when adding her full name and city where she's from.
She's got her privacy settings so that people who aren't her friends can't see her profile. If she had you blocked, you wouldn't be able to see her profile even if you were logged in. Mystery solved.

you seem to have fuccboi syndrome, either man up and fake it till you make it or die alone. from my virgin eyes women want too much. it's hard enough being a man. no i have to pretend for her?

Try browsing around asexuality.org and see if it makes sense to you. Some people are repelled by physical attraction, but they still desire emotional/romantic intercourse.

If you can't talk to women in normal circumstances, you're not going to do well in a club at all.

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>>18707631
Have a drink. Relax and keep asking questions about her.
>only works if you look like a normal person

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>>18707636
I heard that in the club I can be riskier, and quite frankly I don't care if I embarrass myself anymore. to me, a spaghetti story is better than just staying in my room doing nothing.

>>18707639
>Relax and keep asking questions about her.
>only works if you look like a normal person
I look like a normal person, I am not bad looking but not stunning.
In the moment I ask her questions about herself, what kind of open ended question should I ask her in order to analyze her personality?

how and when should I move the interaction forward?

Your options are
>detonate a powerful EMP to destroy the pictures (assuming they are only digital and have not been printed off)
>murder the blackmailer
>do nothing
>go to the police
>tell your friend she is and idiot as this is 99% sure to be her own fault

Update she sent the blackmailer a message telling him that the police was going to track him down. Is this bluff stupid?

>>18707629
Yes. Instead you should actually tell the police.

I'm also interested

Bundt

>>18707564

It's both a natural talent and something you can practice. Some people are naturally more socially savvy and skilled and think faster in social situations, so they tend to be more apt in conversations. But most social skills can be improved via practice, this one included. The more conversations and the more variety they have, the more you learn about appropriate responses and conversation dynamics. Also, people who have wide interests and broad general knowledge tend to excel in conversations, because they often have more to contribute.

>>18707562
Part 2

I want to invest time and effort into my new job and so does my friend, but it is much further out than my old one and it is harder to get a ride and ride my bike there. My old job has no future ahead of it, but I like my coworkers and I have a good reputation there. The schedule there is a bit easier to manage too, and at that new job many of the shifts there are 3rd shift. I will be starting this week.

I have been putting off my driving practice for a while. It is something I want to work on, and having a license and a car would be amazing, but I have felt like other immediate concerns have taken priority.

Schoolwork is what I have been most concerned with regarding my own personal goals. I wish I wasn't a NEET for so long so I could have a diploma/GED already. But, as more things keep happening I am finding that I need to turn any personal time I have into school time in order to be able to get it done.

I care about my mom so much, she basically forced me to raise myself but she means the world to me. She does not have an income right now so in order for her to stay at the home, I may have to pay her bills for her.

My dad is in a nursing home home right now. I am not sure when he will come back here, but his disability benefits were my moms income and the total family income while I was a NEET.

I have been trying to save money for myself, my car, and things that would benefit me, but everything is demanding so much of me lately. I can hardly look out for myself when I have two parents to look after. Time watching videos or anime or stuff like that sometimes just feels like time wasted. My friend was saying earlier I need to just find a schedule for my schoolwork so we can hang out more.

I want to know if there is something I can do that I am overlooking that I can help my situation with. Is it how I am handling it or is it the situation itself? I don't want to be a baby about this and say its too hard to handle.

Look, anon, you can do this if you set your mind to it. It seems hard, but once you get into a new routine, I promise it gets better. I was sort of in your situation, at least where I was a NEET for my teen years, but then I suddenly hit hard times. I became homeless. My exfiance left me homeless and for dead after stealing every penny and valuable I had to my name, even the senitmental stuff that was worthless to everyone but me.
I had nothing.

Listen to this piece of advice and keep it your top priority: do anything and everything with yourself as your main concern.
Jobs? Take the best one, even if it is a little farther. It will be better in the long run. I personally go out to the highest bidder, but that's because I KNOW my work will be the best and no one will be able to compare. Not just saying that because I'm cocky, but because I work my ass off.

But, I got to this point after getting a foot up by taking the minimum wage job and walking there for two months, obtaining a second job, working both and saving up beaucoup bucks until I got more hours at the second job (that paid better) and quit the first one. I worked over 65hr a week at the 2nd job alone, and 86hr/wk when I had both, so I worked there. I saved up about $1700 to put a down-payment on a $6k SUV. Then, while working, I reduced my hours slightly to venture out and find better work.

Point of it is: you're going to be dragging your legs, until they're numb, in deep shit for a little bit, but if you work hard and persist you WILL succeed. The little milestones add up, especially when you have nothing.

Now, I'm not saying to forget your parents, you do what you think you need to do based on what YOU think is best. But you need to focus on yourself but you are there at the end of the day, not anyone else.

dude. that's heavy

>>18707558
I have OCD and the only thing the psycologist have advice to me is make a meditation exercise.

>>18707607
Is it effective? I can't enjoy most hobbies but I'm ok doing other things.

I just might have to give up my hobbies in order to get better but I don't want to.

>>18707617
Yes it helps a little to gain concentration and to make the mind think in other thing.

What type of hobbies do you have?

Signs of dementia? Memory loss?

>>18707550
You think too much. Just be a good person

>>18707481
spread your legs and invite him in :^)

Sounds like there's nothing you can do. You haven't seen him in 8 years, maybe he's different? If he's still a scumbag stay with a friend if possible until he leaves.

>>18707481
Not your house so not your call. Your choice is whether to act like a spoilt shit and make your parent's life even more stressful or not.

Bring a TV with you I guess

>>18707473
Old guys fuck so good

T gayboy

>>18707473
I had sex with my daughter.

>>18707450
lmao what is that greentext pasta

also, you dont. she's your cousin, be a cousin to her. just get off on your fantasies and nothing more

>>18707470
>you don't. she's your cousin, be a cousin to her.
This. Cousins don't fall in love, they just fuck and move on.

>>18707450
Consider self-castration.

What did you send?

>>18707426
it was on snapchat and we usually just send goofy selfies back and forth. i just did the usual but like uncannily after she posted something on other social media (instagram) on a private account saying basically she was annoyed by someone

>>18707439
I feel like you could probably just say "hey I saw your annoyed status. Just wanted to say that if I'm bothering you, please tell me." or something short but not emotional or confrontational.

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>>18707340
>virgin
>accepting for threesome
Man, you have some serious growing up. Firstly, a lot of boys have problems with erections when with new partner because not used to them and nervous.

Secondly a lot of people simply dont have stomach for threesome. You simply arent degenerate enough (and that is a good thing btw).

So now go and try to get your first regular gf. And remember that first few sex sessions are ususally very bad before you get used to each other.
>pro tip
Lick her clit and make her cum before you insert. That way it will be wild ride for both parties.

Also you probably evaded herpes.

>>18707349
Thanks for advice. Gonna just do one at a time first.