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Try and have sex with her.

>>18708543
this is really normal, your honeymoon phase is over. now the actual work comes in

>>18708547
Have done, didn't help just felt underwhelmed

Everyone in uni feels like that and the people who dont grow up to be sex murderers. See a therapist dont ask 4Chan

>>18708507
My therapist argues with everything I say. That is, unless it's a suggestion that we should be doing something than arguing, which she takes personally. I'm afraid to ask for a new one, because she works at an agency and the new therapist will know that I didn't get helped by the last one. Also, I don't know if she really is unhelpful or if it's just my perception. I have to go to the agency in my region, so nowhere else is an option.

>>18708515
>My therapist argues with everything I say. That is, unless it's a suggestion that we should be doing something than arguing, which she takes personally.

if that is true, then she is not much of a good therapist

Lol been there. You're in for more of the same if you don't pull your socks all the way up. Don't keep doing shit the same way and expect your grades to go up. In my experience I don't remember shit so practice is the main squeeze. Do practice questions, try to remember things off the top of your head and pay attention to what your profs actually want from you. Not having that foundational knowledge from first year may fuck you up but a lot of courses have refreshers at the start of the term in second year at least. You may need more than a refresher though. Honestly it's just about getting as much (productive) studying in as possible. More = better.

unless you have big financial problems, time is at your disposal, studying is not a race but a quality and quantity test.

Personally, I looked up the things I didnt have in mind only in small blocks while learning the advanced stuff but as I study medicine, things are not as dependant as they are in many other mint subjects. Otherwise, take a gap year/semester and learn as much as you need

Landau!

You want to separate yourself from rednecks, by wearing a printed t-shirt. Now that is classy. I've got news for you. You are a redneck.

>>18708348
>Is it really bad to fake designer shit like supreme?
Nah.

>>18708320
It's easy to get a reading to high if you don't know what you're doing. How come you're a 20yo with a blood pressure monitor, do you have some other health issues?

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>>18708320
How morbidly obese you are?
>>>/fit/sticky

>cant afford hospital
Americal healthcare? American health care. The joke is not even funny anymore.

High blood pressure is almost always only SYMPTOM of shit life style, not something you can cure on its own. Ask yourself if you are ok dying in the next decade from hearth attack or not.

as a medfag: get one of those cheap BP-meters and watch out, how it changes over time, measure like 2-3 times a day for a few weeks and write the results down.
If the upper is most of the time above 135 or the lower over 90, go to a doctor and get a prescription. 168 is quite high already, get medication.

Otherwise, yes, weight plays a huge role in this. Salt and water uptake make up only a small difference. Exercise can help you aswell.

This is a case, where pharmaceutics can increase your lifespan by a lot and I would advice on getting medical help. Otherwise your heart and vascular system will start to fail you by the time you hit 60

>>18708237
Effects of edibles are way more lasting than regular inhaled thc I find. Might explain the permeating feeling of dumbness.

Can I also have the source of the img op?

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>>18708252
DMT: The Spirit Molecule

Also I don't normally do edibles I do vaporized oil, does oil last longer than smoked weed? I don't smoke weed because I'm in my apartment so I do oil

Would oil make me feel dumb over the plant?

>>18708269
Thanks m8 - also that gif is awesome. Any other cool shit would be greatly appreciated.

I think vaping and smoking is comparable in the longevity of the effects, just the latter ruins your lungs. Vaping also tends to get me higher, not sure why, so maybe it's similar for you and you just need to smoke less? Gives you more control.

TMS > EX MILITARY > NLDW > GOVERNMENT PLATES > Everything else cause death grips has been shit since 2015

I hope their twitter meme of "Death Grips is online" makes me take another listen to them

Do you check a lot of porn?

>>18708245
I try to limit myself to once a week, however I masturbate every day.

>>18708197

Video games, collecting things, reading (kek), and there's TV/movies. A lot of things you can around the house.

>>18708197
Maybe try something with your coworkers?

>>18708197
Do volunteer work

Take a random class at a CC

>>18708083
Exactly what is your question?

And exactly why is this any of your business?

>>18708253
>And exactly why is this any of your business?
Not OP.
But this sort of social degeneracy should never be allowed. Both the girl and all of the pedos need to be lined up against a wall and shot.

>Actually honey, I've changed my mind. I do want to fuck other women
Yeah, that's going to help her insecurities.

>>18708092
You're right, I don't want these shitty thoughts but I can't control them. I have impulse control at least.

I dont do HSC, but I did dropout during my highschool years so im doing it again. I'm 19 now and completing my VCE which is the HSC equivalent.

I've had a number of friends who have graduated already, so they've given me some tips i'm currently using.

Spam practice exams - Either do them on the computer or by hand. Preferably by hand nearing exam period. I plan on doing 40 of them, 8 for each subject.

Figure out your time table, for instance my exams are about 1 week apart from each other so I have a lot of time to prepare for each of them.

As for study this is what i'm currently doing. I make a revision sheet that has all the course content for each semester. So for 1 subject I would have 2 documents for both semester outlining what I've learnt. I don't know if HSC has it but in VCE they have this thing called a ''study design' which is basically an overview of what they wanted you to learn in that subject, go through that and see what you need to know because that's most likely what you will be tested on.

Lastly, do not worry about your grades for the entire year. I know some of friends got some of the shittest marks in the year but they aced the exam for got atars above 90s. It is weighed in your favour to do well in the exam.

>>18707998
Okay, good advice. Thank you

I should add my gf doesn't like me watching porn because she feels as though I'm getting off to someone other than her. So I'm respecting her wishes and trying no fap.

>>18707989

If you want to do nofap for conventional reasons, ie sensitivity restore; dopamine reset, etc, then no, don't fap even if 'pent up'. One of the objectives is to develop discipline.

If it's just to stay faithful to your girl, then go ahead and fap to pics/vids of her.
Though keep in mind that you may possible fall down a slippery slope into actual porn. That's what happens to me every time i start fapping 'just using my imagination', etc.

It takes dedication to not fap to porn. I fap only when needed and never with porn. Nofap is a little memey imo.

Do you have hydrocortisone cream? If not that can you take a Benadryl pill? Looks like an allergic reaction maybe

>>18707883
I used the benadryl cream, didn't work. I also don't think it's allergy due to sudden onset based on sitting on a couch watching T.V., but I haven't ruled it out. I have only ever had internal allergic reactions before, so if this is similar to hives, it's a new experience to me. It's on both my under arms, inner thighs, and hands. They all flamed up around the same time period (within 15 minutes).

>>18707873
Could be samata

Treat them how you treat guys, that friendzone mindset wont do you anygood.

>>18707815
You are neither. Cold conversation-starting is the hardest of all ways to meet people, and even smoothies have trouble with it.

The key is to have some sort of connection before you even begin, so there's a built-in conversation-starter. If you're in the same class, ask how she did on the test. If you're standing in the same line, comment on how slow it's moving.

Tearing me apart*
Lmao darn autocorrect is chewing me out today

>>18707798
That so called "youth" and college experiences are good, but as time goes in the long run you'll glad and better off following your own passion.

If you're really that miserable in school, treat it as your job, something you do out of obligation and shit, then start doubling down on your passions.

>>18707798
You are absolutely right that being a commuter at an urban commuter school is not the same as living on-campus in a large residential school.

The differences are almost entirely social, which is not to denigrate them - the fun of dorm living, club joining and just hanging out with others IS a big part of the college experience.

But it is not essential, and you sound like you have your head on straight enough to know that the education is more important than the social elements.

I'd stick it out where you are, and perhaps try a little harder to find what few social opportunities there are. Rather than condensing your time on campus so super efficiently, give yourself some slack time to work in the library of hang around the snack bar and maybe meet people to hang out with.