Me and my gf are trying to have first time sex. I'm not sure if its not lubrificated enough or something, but i cannot go through her hymen. Also, she says fingering hurts her (even though she just had an orgasm). Any advice?
>pic semi related
J-JAM IT IN!!
Dick hurts too, but she'll eventually get used to it.
You can keep fingering her until she no longer feels pain and only the pleasure now.
Talk with her about actually fucking one day. She needs to make the first move.
Prepare her for your dick by fingering her then lube your dick, hurts her less that way, and ask if you can put it in. If shes horny enough, she'll say yes.
Move slowly at first and then slowly increase speed but dont slam her ass too fast or hard.
Female virgins feel both pain and pleasure in their first time. With time she gets used to pleasure and forgets the pain.
You can put yourself in her place, by imagining taking a LARGE shit. Feels nice when it comes out, but also rips your ass open.
>>18532589
Well, thanks for the tips, bro
I've been living with my parents for almost the past year. I have 29k saved up to put towards a down payment for a home. I originally moved back in with them because I wanted to finally own my own home.
Plot twist is that the housing market I live in, Phoenix Arizona, is pretty ridiculous right now. But I'm sick of living with my parents since I'm in my late 20s.
Should I gamble and buy a house in a really bad sellers market or should I rent? Or should I suck it up and keep living with my parents?
>>18532555
Rent. Read the Housing Trap.
>>18532555
Wait 18 months and everything will be 30% off.
>>18532724
I'm gonna hold you to that anon
Had a great first date, clearly both like each other and kissed at the end yadayada
But I feel like I talked significantly more than her. We're both shy people but did I just not ask her enough interesting questions? Or did she just want to know more about me, than I did to know more about her? Any advice?
any advice?
>>18532441
Maybe she's just shy.
That's why my favorite dates involve doing some kind of activity. You can get comfortable being around each other without so much talking.
Try taking her ice skating. You can both fall on your asses and hold each other up and laugh.
>>18532520
fair enough, I'm thinking the next date should just lunch or dinner though. this date was coffee/beach/ice cream
What's a job I'd have a good chance of getting?
Where I live there's been a huge influx of people so I always get turned away from retail jobs because no experience plus there's a lot of competition for jobs.
All I have is IT experience, no college degree. Avg fit, above avg intelligence (not by much but still), and patient
Any suggestion would be helpful
>inb4 McDonald's or Walmart I sincerely would rather fucking kill myself. I'm open minded and willing to work literally anywhere other than those two places.
why is this section of my hair so short?
i just got my hair cut and the lady was like" hmm im just gonna shave this because it doesnt seem to be growing" so right now it looks extra fucked. but all of my hair grows pretty well except this part in front of my ears. its like this on both sides of my head. any tips? im taking biotin to try and help. i dont think im balding. even though i have a bad hairline it has been like this my whole life
Oh damn, I am just so damn unspooked that I have a repulsion to any ideology at all. I am reducuonist, which is to some degree intelligent and perceptive but I've taken it to the intellectually pessimistic extreme. If I was a caveman I would never believe in big wooden huts, nvm the modern world.
I beat myself up mentally for not focusing on one thing. For not doing many things. For wanting to avoid junk food. For having junk food. For everything. I actual fact I just follow inertia.
I have no life goals. I just beat myself up for having no method (despite no goals). Well, that's a half lie. My goal is to have a good job, learn programming and maths, and do rewarding technical work (and stay healthy and read books). But the tortuous mental ruminations on method multiply exponentially. I am just so sick and tired of method and "insights".
Of course the environment is demoralising. Seeing attractive women everywhere who only fuck Chads is demoralising. Women have tinder matches on tap and tinder experiments prove they only care about looks. I've never had female attention ever. Never had any social experiences for years. I'm the ugly loser loner beta at work. I will never fit in with normies.
Bottom line is that I don't have the balls to follow my own tastes and intuitions, which I trust. I just read books that others tell me to read. I trust my intuitions. I see endless debates by other people about how many Drumpfs can dance on the head of a pin or how many hairs were on Socrates's beard or bullshit to that effect- and this is considered to be the epitome of intellectualism! You can't even call out the bullshit in this day and age. It's impossible.
If I honesty followed my intuitions, I'd stop reading guns, germs and steel, stop reading old russian books, stop going through SICP, stop buying so many books, among other things.
Bit of an issue i need help deciding.
I have been a guitar player for several years, but now my wrists are buggered from strumming and squeezing the neck so i have RSIs.
Piano and pedal steel are both fairly ergonomic instruments, as the player sits upright with their arms at their sides for the most part.
I have some experience in piano, and some in lap steel (but not pedal steel specifically). Each instrument costs about the same ($1 - $2k).
I just can't decide which to pursue at this point. On one hand, piano is very versatile and can fit into any genre. It's fairly straightforward to learn and there is plenty of educational material out there.
However, there is something about the pedal steel that just speaks to me. The incredible sustain, the way the pedals and levers can be used to adjust harmony, etc. When I listen to pedal steel I can only describe the sound like a bird, soaring above the rest of the band. I also like the niche aspect, kind of like being a pedal steel player is like joining a special club because of how few there are.The problem is that there are very few educational materials in my location (ie anywhere that isnt nashville) and pedal steel alone is a hard instrument to play.
What are your thoughts?
Pedal steel examples: https://youtu.be/IbjViunwfvQ
https://youtu.be/m0vKc3jIjDo
https://youtu.be/FsnD9io2NIA
Piano examples: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RS_yyRk_dj8 (its in the mix, just listen for it)
https://youtu.be/ApvQgSE7Kk8
https://youtu.be/LUP6k5xkdBU
Sounds like your heart wants to play pedal steel, and your head thinks piano is more practical. What's the point of art?
>>18532267
it's true
>>18532255
Pedal steel looks a lot more active with the wrists, it still has all the strumming and what not. So it's probably not gonna be as light on your wrists as piano is.
Is it harder to get girls on tinder than irl? When the app first came around, I would get a decent amount of matches a day and a date here and there. Now I figure it's just so fucking popular I simply can't compete. I don't even know if I show up on the stack.
It's just that talking to girls in public seems like such a foreign idea to me. I feel like it would give off a creep vibe. I honestly just want sex but I also don't drink alcohol so bars aren't really a choice for me.
>>18532239
Getting girls on tinder is tough because they have the pick of the litter. They can afford to swipe left on somebody because they don't like their face, they think the pic is too silly, etc. it's way easier talking to girls irl
>>18532326
The whole point of Tinder is to swipe left because you don't like their face... to avoid having to politely reject someone who is sexually unattractive. You should be swiping left on ugly girl's faces too?
Hey, so I just got a new computer and I already had Overwatch downloaded on the other one. Can I just take the files out from my other computer and move them onto this one, or do I need to repurchase Overwatch?
Just reinstall it through blizzard ya dip.
I've been stuck on it for over an hour and can't seem to figure it out.
OG post: https://www.reddit.com/r/puzzles/comments/6ny9mx/if_only_you_could_solve_it/
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Can't figure out what the letters f, g, l, s, u might be.
I’m from Europe and I’m planning to move to US in 2-3 years. Right now I have to chose my specialty at uni. Im studying finance and accounting and my specialties are accounting, finance and banking. I was thinking about choosing accounting since I’m really good at it (student of the year, actually) but I was researching salaries of accountants in US and it seems pretty low… I don’t know what the standards of living in US are, is 50k annually really a good salary? Assuming my partner will earn pretty much the same or slightly more (he’s working in IT), is 100k for couple considered a good income? I know it varies depending on the state, but generally, is it considered being wealthy? It doesn’t seem so, but maybe I’m delusional, as I said, I’ve never lived in US and I don’t know the prices and so on.
I might choose finance for my specialty, it certainly pays better, but I just don't like it that much. I could do it though if I had to. What I want from life is to have a big house, pool, to travel abroad at least 2-3 times a year, to be generally wealthy, do not care about the prices and so on. Will 100k annually be sufficient or should I pursue a job I don’t like and try to earn 70-80k a year instead?
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What you make compared to cost of living is determine by the city you chose to live in.
There is no guaranty that you will earn what you want right out of college.
Today, college degrees in the US are almost not worth it due to so many people having one.
I would suggest you see what happens in a few years and adjust.
>What I want from life is to have a big house, pool, to travel abroad at least 2-3 times a year, to be generally wealthy, do not care about the prices and so on. Will 100k annually be sufficient
No.
You really need to re-evaluate your priorities. There is more to life that materialistic things.
>What you make compared to cost of living is determine by the city you chose to live in.
I don’t know yet where I’d want to live, anything north is fine by me. I do know it’s hard to give advice with me being so unspecific, sorry for it.
>There is no guaranty that you will earn what you want right out of college.
There is no guaranty, but that’s why I’m looking at the average salary and trying my best to be the best student and doing additional courses like ACCA. I’d say I have a pretty good chance of earning this 50k a year eventually.
>Today, college degrees in the US are almost not worth it due to so many people having one.
College degrees in general or college degrees in accounting? Most people end up with useless degrees and without any experience, I’d like to avoid that.
>You really need to re-evaluate your priorities. There is more to life that materialistic things.
Why, though? I know there’s more to life, I have a loving partner and a great family, but one of the goals in my life is to be wealthy, why is that bad? I’m ambitious, that’s all, it’s better than doing nothing and hoping for moderate salary, moderate husband and moderate life.
My big brother did finance and pulls in $1.6M at SEB, at the age of 28.
It makes me feels like shit tbqh. I'm very proud of him, though.
Aight so money is tight, have 1 year of college left. I need money. How do I make good money online?
My skillz :
> can write
> broad knowledge of everything
> speaks english & french
> degree in economics
Serious advice only
I don't know what to do, /adv/, I'm double majoring in Mathematics and Computer science, but If I want to be a really good computer scientist, I feel if I focused on both majors I won't be able to fully flourish in computer science or mathematics research.
I actually joined Mathematics because It's easy and fun, but computer science is my main interest, especially neurosciences + computer science. I don't know If i should drop my mathematics major... what do I do to figure this out ?
I'm a Computer Engineering student.
I don't know, man, CS and Mathematics go pretty well together. Machine Learning has a lot of math, for example. I really don't see how a Mathematics degree could hinder your CS career, on the contrary. So my opinion is that you should go with Math, for what it's worth.
Why not ask one of your professors about it, though?
You have your whole career to focus on computers. If you can handle the course load I'd recommend continuing study of both.
>>18532377
I did actually today, i told him about dropping it and he said not to do it because we both share interest in pure math, i dont think im gunna drop it so i can have more time preparing for my masters while i do my math bachelors
How do i get a retail job?
>>18532161
Apply for one
Apply for as many positions as possible, also have pulse. The ads can be found in store fronts (walk in with your resume and ask), websites, local newspapers.
Many workplaces prefer it if you can drive.
Join an agency that can help with retail and other jobs if you really are that shit
>>18532189
Thank you senpai
I've got an interview for an overnight customer service job tomorrow. (Car rental at the airport.)
What do these people like to hear?
>>18531978
Overnight car rental? Probably not much; mainly you're okay being by yourself in the dark. As far as the actual customer service aspect; it's all about making the customer happy. If they give you hypothetical scenarios the answers are either do what's in your power to make sure the customer has a happy experience, or if all else fails contact a supervisor.
Sounds like a peaceful job desu.
>>18531978
Airport jobs suck.