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How do I stop being attached to one stupid fucking girl? 2017-07-19 02:07:27 Post No.18532743
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How do I stop being attached to one stupid fucking girl?
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I don't really know what to do at this point, anons.
I met a 9/10 last year (lets call her Dee) and we had the briefest of flings. She literally dragged me away at a party I was DJing at and demanded we make out. I got her number, we hung out a few times, going around the city all day, her staying at mine, us making out constantly throughout, but then she one day ended it without warning. Said she was in a really confused place, sleeping around, didn't know what she wanted, but still wanted to genuinely stay in contact and be friends at some point. What we had must've lasted a month at most. Nothing. No bumps, no arguments, just a sudden cut-off.
We didn't bang out of her request, but in my 22 years of being alive, it's the best thing I've had with someone I actually liked. Someone I thought was pretty, smart, actually had a personality and sense of humor, liked to go out and have fun. I really loved Dee's company. No complaints, I just wanted to see her more.
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Dee then proceed to act the definition of confused after ending it - she'd start conversations then stop them. She'd say she's coming to events, then flake. She'd want to hang out then not. She'd like every single little thing I post on Facebook, but ignore me otherwise. I deleted her and blocked her after months of this.
She tried to invite herself down to my birthday party I was DJing at upon discovering it about 6 months later. I called her out on her bullshit behaviour, she apologized and said she was on too many drugs and was down to hang (I told her to respectfully fuck off on my birthday to give me some mental space). We hung out platonically a few times, we were gonna hang again, and then... Back to her flaky ways. I sent her one last message after trying to arrange meeting up for a month and a half being like "wtf is going on, I thought you wanted to hang out, if you don't just ignore this like you usually have lately". She read it and said nothing.
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Here's what I don't get.
My whole mindset to girls and women has changed a lot in the last 2 years. I see they come and go now, you shouldn't get attached to anyone too much, you should just have fun and go with it. I've made out with other girls here and there, even had some hookups, but they were all spur-of-the-moment stuff that went nowhere. They were also almost entirely club incidents, so they bother me short-term, but long-term, nah. That's the nature of that type of game. I'm talking to Tinder matches and OKCupid people that I'm 100% going to meet up with, but again, I just see them all as fun. There's nobody I'm that bothered about.
But Dee...
I haven't seen this girl in months, or made any contact with her. I hung out with her maybe a grand total of 10 times max, and we talked online/on texts rarely when we weren't physically hanging out. She ended it pretty cleanly, and we didn't even fuck. Yet she so often passes through my mind, especially since I'm friends with her brother and one of her closer friends, and because it seemed like she kept coming back in one form or another. I think there's a chance she'll show up to an event I'm hosting on Friday, and even though I think she's seeing some dude right now, I'm just really looking forward to see her again. If she does show up, I'm sure I'll end up spending all night talking to her and something will happen. If not, whatever. Her company is nice enough.
This is my problem, anons. I can see I'm fucking unhealthily obsessive with Dee. I've never really acted this way about any other girl before. I've loved girls, and I'm trying to tell myself I wasn't so fucking stupid to fall for Dee, but I can't really get her out of my mind. I don't understand why I miss a girl so much that I'm non-existent to who used and readily discarded me.
So I'm at a bit of a loss as to how to repair myself. How to get rid of that witch-like power she has over me, cos I know if I saw her anywhere, I'd kind of instantly melt.
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>>18532743
Write less for fuck sake
Time heals all wounds yare yare daze
But seriously you'll find someone better and even if it takes time you will get over it
After my gf left me I felt like shit, but I've met new people and got over it now it's your time OP
How to bounce back from a bad date?
Last weekend i went out with an absolute bombshell. She is the kind of girl i've always dreamed of, and i bombed the fuck out of the date because i was nervous and sperged out quite a bit. Now she is hardly talking to me at all, which sucks because i had her undivided attention up until after the date.
It's been almost 5 days and i still feel crushed, thinking nonstop about what i could have done better, and if there's any possible chance of me salvaging it and getting another date somehow. But i'm pretty sure it's done and i can't do a thing about it.
I don't think i'll ever meet a girl as pretty as her, and it's driving me nuts. What can i do to get out of this rut?
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Accept it's over. A girl doesn't need to be massively attractive for them to be a good match. If she's really a "bombshell" then she'll find a guy that fulfills her "needs" almost instantly.
If you legitimately sperged out then you should date "less" attractive women.
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>male
>senior
>fairly good looking
>single
>6'1
>extremely few friends
>no best friend
>not a douche or an idiot
I had until recently the best friend ive ever had. until this point Ive had few friends and few were close. This (female) friend came out of practically nowhere, we knew each other a little but then suddenly she wanted me to spend as much time as I could spare with her, which I was down for. a month later she stops texting good mornings (which she had done every day) and barely spoke to me. 5 second of eye contact per day at most. asked what was wrong for a week, said everything was fine. I pressed it and she eventually got upset. this was two months ago. last week was her birthday and I got her a really thoughtful gift she completely loved. We talk occasionally but have spent almost no time together. What do? I'm fucking suffering
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>>18532693
>girl comes out of nowhere and orbits you
>you friendzone immediately
>why she no friend no more
Kek.
Obviously she wanna fug bro, but you know that already. No girl puts herself out there unless she's attracted to you.
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When websites recommend avoiding computer/tv screens for 2 hours before bed for optimum sleep, is that because they are backlit? Does it count if I play my old ass Gameboy using a lamp for lighting before bed? My sleep schedule is fucked and I have terrible sleeps but I've been using electronics before bed for like 15 years and would be weird without it.
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>would be weird without it
too bad? my recommendation is reading. it wears your eyes out too. only way i could beat my insomnia back in highschool.
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Gentleman, I have had some serious thought about it, and I'm thinking about asking a girl out. I've known her for about 3 years, and while we did talk a few months ago, nothing really came of it. But now we're talking a little bit again, and three weeks in, I'm gonna make a decision. Should I come out with it, or should I keep it under wraps for a little more time?
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>>18532658
>I've known her for about 3 years
why the fuck didn't you ask her out before
don't expect her to say yes, that's all I would say
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>for a little more time?
to what end? what benefit does 'keeping it under wraps' have over making a move now? you're asking us as if there is some inherent pros and cons to each and theres not.
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I need 800 dollars by next week. Is there anything I can do?
I have no credit, is it still possible to get a loan? Are loans a good idea? Is there a better way to get this type of cash?
I won't do anything illegal either
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Sex work? Seriously if you're not at all iffy about diddling old men then it's all cash. Might be illegal depending on your state/country though.
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>>18532646
Prostitution is illegal where i am.
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>>18532640
what for?
regardless you have to build up credit SOME way like credit is built by loans and such, so you obviously need to get a loan before you can build credit, or a credit card. go to the bank you use and ask about opening a personal line of credit, they will likely give you like 2 to 3 thousand dollars, wells fargo gave me one with no credit.
its not a great idea, depends on how much money you make. if you arent putting money away each month you cant expect to pay it back well
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I wish I had a brother instead 2017-07-19 01:15:50 Post No.18532638
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I wish I had a brother instead
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I'm the oldest sibling in my family and I have two sisters(15 and 13). My parents are going through a nasty divorce, and the middle sibling is horribly mistreating both my mom and dad. I hate to see this happen because I know they have enough stress as it is, but they don't do anything, either because they are too short and un-intimidating, or because they don't want to look bad in front of the other spouse. I can't do anything to stick up for them physically or verbally, as my sister is just too childish to actually have a meaningful conversation, and my parents won't allow a fight between us. Please help
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Motivation + Losing fat 2017-07-19 01:13:58 Post No.18532632
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Since I was 6, my family had problems, my brother and classmates in school bullied me. I got my very first friend when I was 10. Depression and being bored and playing Gameboy and -cube games alone in my room was all I had and I slowly became a lazy person.
Being lazy led to me becoming chubby when I was 11. At the time I thought nothing of it but now it has become both a physical and emotional problem for me everyday.
I lack the motivation to do sports and want an easy way of losing fat. When I eventually become 'normal', I think I will work out.
I want to have an easier life and ask a girl, I like, out one day.
TL;DR How does a very lazy person lose fat in an easy way? And any motivation?
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Go to /fit/. Seriously they have a lot of good resources aside from the shitposting.
Long story short though? Losing weight is mostly in your diet so easiest way is to first cut out any soda and replace it with water.
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>almost all i do in my free time is shitpost, watch youtube, and play vidya
>going to major in pre engineering
How do I talk to women?
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You're not going to pass on your genes on LOL
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>>18532610
With your mouth lol
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>>18532719
But that's what I suck dick with
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Its been a year now and I still think of her when I try and sleep, when I go running and even when I take a relaxing walk.
Why does she mean so much to me?
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Okay all started with random girl from collage typed me, we went out, kissed on a 1st date, then didn't managed to go out again, she had other things i had other okay, saw her later kissing with 1 guy and a bit later going out with some albanian bastard i know from high school, acted silly typed her and got screwed. This was my 1st rejection and i was depressed a lot. Saw albanian guy and some of his friends at the bar someday, sat with them talked about some girls and mentioned something also about this 1. They were kind of laughting at me for being stupid and at the end when i went he mentioned me to say hi to my classmate he knows and i told him back to say hi to 1 of the girlfriends of that girl i mentioned at the beggining which i don't know but still randomly said that. They were laughing at me for that. Okay now has been 2months after that bullshit, so like this probably got mentioned and i don't know what to do to fix this. Any suggestions?
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Some say it's good i didn't act violent at that time, but i think i should have. your thoughts on this things, anybody had a similar problem or something?
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Hi, advice needed. I have schizotypal so people see things differently to what I see.
Anyway, I re-united with the only girl to make me feel good about myself and have a future in mind. She is now he but whatever. I love him no matter how he looks.
He was raped repeatedly growing up and has overcome so much despite that. But virtually everyone I know has started being not quiet rude but just don't look comfortable around me ever since I casually mentioned I had a boyfriend. Especially anyone who knows about what happened to him.
We talked about it and after a couple of weeks we've decided too buy a house out in the woods. I've saved up $300,000 to get us a home. We don't feel comfortable here anymore.
From someone elses pov, am I being a dick by blocking contact with my friends if they don't accept who I have relations with ?
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I've been lurking various boards on 4chan for the better part of 9 years but this is the first time I'm going to post something of substance.
I'm about to be 26 years old and I've just hit the wall that I've absolutely fucked up my entire future because I chose a shitty major in college. I graduated with a bachelor's in history in 2015 and since then have been working odd jobs with no real end in sight. I chose history because it was my strongest subject prior to college and at the time I was forced to declare my major I had no earthly idea what I wanted to do with my life. To this day, I'm still struggling to find a career that I truly want to pursue for the rest of my life. At this point my parent, grandparents, etc. all had careers, houses, marriages and I'm some doofus who doesn't even know what the hell he's doing.
I'm not mathematically inclined so engineering/medical fields were never my course but as I've gotten older I realize those fields are the only thing that are worth anything and the careers I have available are filler, gimmicky jobs that I would take no pride in pursuing.
I'm going to a career advisor at my alma mater next week but even still I feel like I'm a pussy for being lost in the first place.
Just needed to get all that out there. Thanks for reading. (pic is me at halloween awhile back)
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anon it sounds like your concern is your future career path. Make sure that is truly you problem. If it is, I would suggest taking a risk and trying something new.
start applying for something different even if it is entry level.
or try to do more schooling. it doesnt necessarily have to be a college degree, but maybe a trade. Even some cheap community colleges to see what is out there and what you can see yourself doing in the future.
but some perspective to show you that the grass may not be greener on the other side.
I am also 26 years old but pursued a degree in engineering. I now feel like there is no end in sight. i am destined to work 5 days a week for the next 40 years of my life. Not sure what there is left for me in life other than the vicious cycle of the grind.
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>>18532578
>history major
Kek, enjoy poverty for the next 50 years
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"asking for a friend" (for real tho) 2017-07-19 12:51:27 Post No.18532576
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"asking for a friend" (for real tho)
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my best friend has Phimosis AND peyronie's how is he supposed to fix these things without surgery? i told him streaching his foreskin can fix the Phimosis but in the case of peyronie's im clueless. any help here?
(since this is a blue board here is a pic of my favorite game and my highscore in it)
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tell your friend he needs to seek the opinion of a licensed medical professional
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Hey /adv/, noob here. I've got a question that, while im sure not a lot of people here are "qualified" to answet, id like to get some input on. Here goes:
>Got a cat, 16 months old.
>Squid
>Squid doesnt understand heights.
>Leave her alone last night.
>Come home, shes asleep i figure.
>Wake up
>Still no sign, but i find her.
>Fucked up her leg, looks bad.
>Get her x-rays
>Fractured her back left "calf."
>Straight up cant afford a surgery.
>ghettorig.jpg
tl;dr- Cats got a fractured leg, minor at worst. Can i splint it and let it heal without surgery?
Thanks in advance, pic related.
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