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Self-discipline/focus 2017-09-10 04:45:01 Post No.18709099
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I've been trying to learn to draw for a few months, but when I sit down I just give up after 2-3 hours and go back to playing vidya all day.
I don't have ADHD or some attention-deficit disorder. I just don't know how to focus or have discipline to work on a long-term, time-consuming goal
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>>18709099
2 to 3 hour bursts are actually pretty long duration. Maybe stick to a regular schedule of 1 to 2 hours per day, you'll be less likely to burn out.
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Why don't you join the fuckin Marines?
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>>18709106
Seriously? That's all there is to it? Just cut back on the time? I shoulda thought of that a long time ago.
>>18709132
I was disallowed back when I was 18 because of my severe scoleosis. Apparently the military doesn't like hunchbacks (I got surgery since, tho)
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How can I get a boyfriend that's out of my league?
https://youtube.com/watch?v=GUUE6W15lYo
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>>18709053
Go out, meet people, be fun to be around and maybe you will met someone. Don't be so superficial, though, or you will have a hard time getting along with people.
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How much out of your leauge are we talking here?
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>>18709053
Bring something to the table that others don't.
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What is a way one can legally make some money online?
I got one shitty part time job and Ive put applications for a second job but nothing. If I can make like $40 atleast once a day every week or so would be helpful. I don't have crap to sell on ebay.
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Become a sex-cam model you might be ugly and you'll still make money if you market yourself as fetish porn. And I don't wanna hear any privacy concern BS wear a mask and whip it out
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>>18709035
What fetishes can tap into?
Is that my only option?
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>>18709025
Go back to school or take an online class. On the internet you're competing with people from low wage countries unless you have a special skill.
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2015/2016 was some of the best times of my life
My friends all moved away back home in late 2016 and I haven't seen them ever since
2017, has been one of the loneliest years of my life and I am afraid I am getting closer to death everyday. I have nobody anymore, and nothing to do with my free time.
Oh, god how I miss having friends
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>>18709019
Similar thing happened to me after uni. I just became more invested in my career. Still spend weekends looking over files. It's not so bad. Occasionally I go out with friends from work but it's not as much fun as it used to be. Once I've got financial security, I'll start looking for a young qt gf.
Focus on yourself anon.
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>>18709019
Can y'move to where they are
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Hi /adv/, I've been lurking here for relationship advice, however it either didn't apply to me or didn't work. At this point I've given up on finding a partner, so I'd like advice on being single and content.
Any tips?
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>>18708940
MGTOW, whole movement for that
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>>18708940
The trick to a good life is finding the things you like and then do more of those and less of that other stuff.
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>>18709402
Unfortunately the only legitament thing that brings me joy and fulfillment is gardening, however I'm not at a point in my life where I am able to grow enough plants to satisfy the rest of the time I'm conscious due to space constraints. What other than that? Do I suck it up until I do have the space?
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I was a real weirdo in high school and alienated everyone because of the weird shit I did. I'm still haunted by it at 23 and I feel like it's going to forever follow me wherever I go, even though I've since straightened out and moved hundreds of miles away. I feel like any and all friends and romantic prospects are eventually going to find out about it because they'll wonder why I never speak of high school or keep in touch with anyone from it. If not that, I fear they will hear things through the grapevine because everyone is so connected today. This has made me increasingly isolated.
Am I being paranoid and blowing things out of proportion? Or will I just have to learn to live with it?
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>>18708857
Yes. Just don't even worry about it. If anyone asks about it, just say you had a rough time in high school.
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>>18708857
1. Nobody knows about your past and very few would be interested in finding out.
2. Everybody has embarrassing skeletons in their high school past. Everybody.
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>>18708857
Honestly OP, nobody cares about it. I don't keep in touch with anyone from high school and am not planning on going to any reunions.
Don't let your past hold you back, continue to improve yourself - keep moving forward.
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How do I get out of the "She sometimes pats me on the top of my head when walking past me and is nice to me more in a patronizing way than in a 'I want to be your friend, or even more' way - zone"?
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Date other chicks, if she doesn't see you as potential bf material you have to show her.
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Behave more manly
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>>18708816
She is not into you. Sorry, but that's it. Move on. Dating her won't prove anything about you.
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How do I talk my girlfriend into a threesome?
>Been together 4 years
>Plan on getting married soon
>We both like to experiment in bed
>I think it would be sexy to see her work another girl
>She's not to sure about it all
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>>18708788
>She's not to sure about it all
She is gonna be your wife, dude. If she is not sure about something, let her mull it over and make her mind up. You gonna start this shit by you pestering her for a threesome? Long and happy marriage it will be.
Let me guess, you are between 23 and 25 years old, right? Young marriages are tough.
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>>18708788
Anything - ANYTHING - that you have to talk her into in bed will come back and bite you on the ass.
You can suggest - you can not demand.
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Tell her she can fuck u in the butt if she goes along with it. Then dump her and become a tranny
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Jesus christ. The prinary reason to get a wife is so that you have one (1) person in the world who actually cares about you besides your mother. But your mom is not going to live forever.
Your boss might say he cares, what he really cares about is you producing shit. Thats all.
I thought you know, you could like talk to people and get to know them.. but no, nobody wants to have anything to do with you. Not the barberer, not the girl at the counter in the gocery store, not your neighbours, not your colleagues, not your classmates. Noone cares.
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>>18708778
I guess not, anon.
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No, dude, we've all got our own shit going on
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>>18708778
>Not the barberer, not the girl at the counter in the gocery store, not your neighbours, not your colleagues, not your classmates. Noone cares.
The first five of those are people trying to do their job. They have more important things going on, so don't take it personally mate.
Have you tried meeting people in a more relaxed setting? Get a hobby.
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SW thread maybe? My SexWife. Who want chat with her and me? Her profile: benaughty.click/sofiabaileys
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>>18708750
spam
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>>18708752
No! Bump
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are there any medical professionals here? i seriously need some help.
>be autist
>go to fill up car
>pull pump out at wrong time
>starts flying everywhere
>people start staring
>panic panic panic
>'pump 4 do you need assistance?'
>start drinking the petrol to stop the flow
>it's disgusting
>give up and race tf out of there, petrol still spewing
I'm now stuck with a car which can't get me anywhere (Im sure as shit not going back there ) and have consumed petrol. I'm fucking shaking as I typ this . i tried to vomit as much as I could out, but can I die from this??? fuck
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>>18708727
Get thy ass to the sanatorium most near.
Stat!
Otherwise, it's the lazaretto for you!
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Timestamp or fake
Nobody can be this retarded
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>>18708727
Drink diesel it's gonna add some flavour
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How do you control diarrhea? The contents of my bowels is actually liquid. I still have to attend class.
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>>18708710
Just shit in class.
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>>18708710
loperamide
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>>18708710
Butt plug.
>inb4 you don't have a butt plug
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Ok, some pretty young girl added me on snap.
After I told her she added the wrong person, send her some pics, and told her I didn't mind because she was cute she just smiled. Later her girlfriend added me and made some jokes.
wat do?
ask age or keep flirting?
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Ask age. Always ask age.
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They're both 15 but will soon be 16, so I'm all good.
Wish me luck
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Hi, I need some advice on how to write a message to a long lost (girl)friend.
And nah, don't worry, i'm not talking about an ex.
Backstory :
>Be male, 18
>Has been on a few relationships, but nothing serious
> Got high as a kite and started to wonder about love and shit, ended up sleeping feeling depressed
>Wake up feeling like shit, started talking to my dad
>In the conversation he talks about an old female acquaintance
>Her name clicks in my head, suddenly have flood of memories of her daughter
>Remember us behing child and already having a "boyfriend-girlfriend" relationship
>Actually loved her to death
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>Search her asap on facebook... And find her after a few hours of research
>Doesn't seem to have changed much from childhood (70% sure it's her, age and family match my memories)
>From the looks of it, she doesn't have a boyfriend.
We were very close when we were children, but I don't know if she remember me, or if it's even the right person.
I guess if she's not, well, that's it.
But meanwhile, here's what I wanted to send her, is it alright ↓
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Something like :
Hey there, it's me, anon. I'm not gonna lie, I found your profile a little bit by accidend, and thought to myself "hey, why not?".
I'm not sure if you remember me, but I used to hang out with you while we were kid. I don't even know if it's the right profile or if you even remember me, but if it IS you, well, it's been a while :)
(Insert a "how's life" sentence here)
Is the text good?
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>>18708667
ye it's good.
just do it.
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>>18708739
Thx
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I'm not prepared to know that someone i love died. Just imagining my mom or my sister going away would bring tears to my eyes, it hurts just imagining it. How do i prepare myself in case it happened?
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You don't. Just be a good person to the people you love. One day it will happen, and on that day you'll want to have nice memories, not regrets.
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>>18708632
Death is inevitable and it will happen to everyone at some point. Therefore, worrying about it beforehand is pointless. If it happens you'll grieve, miss the person you lost and carry on. There are no other options. My sister died this summer after illnesses, so I can relate to your worry, but death itself isn't awful, it's just a fact of life. The dead are fine, so the tears are for the living and ultimately just self-pity.
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>>18708637
It's a really liberating feeling to fully understand and accept this. I've been through a family death that happened far earlier than I would have expected.
You won't ever be ready for the first time a loved one dies, but I think after the first one it really changes your outlook on life just like this guy said. Just be good to the people who care about you and love you. Understand the value of the time you have with them now and cherish all the memories you have.