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How do I deal with being around someone I hate and have to be nice about it? Any tips? Someone in my family is coming around soon and hes an obnoxious bitch SJW tranny. Only have to deal with them for two weeks though. How do I stay cool when he inevitably tries to provoke me?

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How do I write a resume or cover letter? I've been trying to apply for a job but I have literally nothing to say about myself beyond an internship that I took there.

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Hi /adv/,

I'm a recent graduate and managed to land a job straight out of uni. It was contract job, which was projected to go on for about 6-12 months, but due to funding issues managed to run only 2 months.

Right now, I am offered a position at the same company however, in a different city, quite far away. The pay is quite shit but possible to live on reasonably comfortably, and the job would look great on the resume.

Obviously, it would cost me quite a lot of money to move out, as right now I'm living with parents, so I dont have to pay rent (not to mention put down a deposit for a place, etc).

I have applied for other jobs over last 2 weeks or so, but nobody has gotten back to me yet, and I'm scared I will not get any offers. I also have an option to study a masters in October, but Im not sure if I will have enough money to live off, so I dont know if I will end up doing it.

To make things worse, I have recently broken up with my girlfriend, and she was offered to work exactly at the same place where I was also offered a job. Obviously seeing her every day would be pretty shit for me, as I still have feelings for her (love but also anger I guess).

wat do?

tl;dr: gonna be out of job by end of the month, have an offer in a different city but ex-gf will also work there and moving to a different city will be a financial pain in the ass for a month or so. Take the job and possibly have an emotional/financial breakdown or risk guaranteed income and experience and keep looking.

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>Anxiety and depression
>No friends
>Constantly checking phone
>Chubby
>High expectations (PhD)
>Daydream most of the time
>Fall in love with waifus from time to time
>Not fap for 1 week
>Loom at porn
>Feel horrible
>Think about future
>Get all depressed and lose hope
>Repeat this for a few more years
>Gather courage to end this madness
Relatable ?

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Any Dentists/Doctors help,

So I think I may have gingivitis. There is some tarter built up around the bottom, slightly receding gums, and tiny black spots between some teeth. I just booked a dental appointment but problem is the earliest I could get in is in 3 weeks. As of now I am getting a tingling feeling between some teeth, which I think might be a cavity. Also if I push on some of my incisors with my tongue I get this popping/clicking sensation, but I don't think they are moving. The worst part is gum pain around my top left canine, which has receded the worst.

Haven't been to a dentist in about 2 years, but for the past few months I have been brushing really well (2 times a day with flossing and mouthwash). Also my gums don't bleed that much anymore, just occasionally. I am hoping it is just gingivitis, and hasn't advanced to periodontitis. As far as I know this is treatable right? Just getting a good cleaning by a physician and some antibiotics should help from what I've read. I hope I don't have to have any rooting or scaling done. Until my appointment, what are someways to reduce pain and swelling around my gums?

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>How do i flirt with girls i have nothing in common with and trick them into fuggin me before she notices im unrelatable

>inb4 git buff n richh not allowed

i work in the mall and i see a lot of tall girls i wish i can fugg but i browse /b/ so its hard without spaghetti falling because i dont have anything else to say after ''Hey there'' that we can both be invested in

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Hey guys, need some advice here. So I visit different customers homes on a daily basis. 1 gal, who is never home, relies on us using a house key to get into her home. Problem is, I lost it. She was not willing to accept that answer, so I tried picking her house today. Needless to say, without prior experience, I failed. Other than this specific incident, is there any advice for picking locks in the future that you guys can contribute? I attempted a snake rake after watching a YouTube video

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Is traveling and working on an Australian ranch possible when you have diabetes type 1?
I work at a farm in my own country now and I can work as hard as anyone else as long as I keep a few sugarcubes in my pocket and have my insuline pump on me.

I'm just a bit worried I can't get insuline out there.
My insurance covers my medical supplies on holiday.
I know it's a long shot but does anyone have a similar experience?

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Hello I need some advice for friend. She calls me every other day venting about her boyfriend who she is living with and how they fight often she tells me she feels like he is constantly treating her unfairly because he remains married to someone who is living in another state that also has a child with him in his house he payed for. She said he told her that him and his wife are just friends who coparent a child. she tells me how he is depressed most of the time also how him not being able to go visit his daughter on the weekends because of his respect for her is contributing to his depression. She asked if I thought if she was being selfish cause she didn't want him sleeping in the same house as his wife. She says since he hasn't been able to see his daughter he hasn't been wanting to do things with her and sleeps most of the day. I asked if he atleast told his wife about her he told her he didn't but that his wife knew he was having an affair but doesn't know that they are in a relationship. She also said he was planning on a divorce but hasn't filed any separation yet. I told her it seems like he is trying to keep her a secret and to not trust him as of just yet. I'm also going to mention that she told me she snoops in his phone and seen he constantly is deleting everything but she once read a message of a convo of him and his daughter that him telling her how he doesn't like going to the beach alone when he is actually with her and how this message had imprinted on her that she now feels as though she isn't important to him. I had told her though if he isn't willing to atleast tell his wife about them then to leave him but she keeps bringing up the only reason he hasn't because he hasn't been with her long and that he doesn't want to impact his daughters life. I don't see why she continues to stay with him especially since she doesn't seem happy and they are always having problems. I'm not sure what other advice I should give her.

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She's the first woman who's given me attention and shown interest in me in 2 years since my depressive and destructive phase.

I know I want company, just to have someone to talk to and possibly.be intimate with but all those years of darkness, despair and broken relationships , makes it hard for me to open up and even scared of getting close.

How can I learn to love again?

How do I take this real slow without telling her in a depressive freak but I really want to feel something for her

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Well I need advice not schematics so I posted this on \adv\

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Hi anons. I have problem with my relationship. I was always antisocial even kinda emo at the time. Lately I started my journey with opposite gender. I discover that I'm kinda good at flirting. Some girls was into me but i just stopped flirting with them because I didn't felt it same way. But I found one girl that's started to flirt with me first and she's trying to be close to me every time we see and she's looking at me even if I'm "not seeing this" (we don't see much because shes friend of my friend and she's coming only for parties). I'm feeling rly good when i talk to her. Only problem is she has a boyfriend (too insecure to break up with him is an option). She don't seems to be happy with this guy ( my friends told they think same way but still it's just a thought). Also judging by her scars she seems to be scuicidal (unfortunatly). Dunno what to do, tried to be kinda cold which seemed to turn her on. What should I do? Another party is coming and I am really confused. Newfag virgin 19yo never even touched a girl (besides hugs). Fuck her and leave it's not an option, looking for relationship or nothing. Hope You are gonna take me seriously.

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I'm really downtrodden and poor. I am following my dreams, though. I'm registered to go to school this fall, and I'm getting into the medical field. I can't get myself out of bed to get a part time job, though, mainly because I can't fall asleep on time and because doctors won't give me sleeping pills.

So, I was thinking about going to an outpatient mental health program for my depression. There are so many things at my disposal in life (maybe not as much as someone with money, but complaining about that is a waste of time), if only I was not too depressed to utilize them!

Often, one of the my peers from the program will want to bang, and that's something. What do you guys think? I haven't gotten a job since I busted my knee a year ago, so what's the harm in losing a month or so? If I'm not less depressed by fall, I don't even know how I'll do in school.

By the way, I'm not one of those people who thinks that depression is a crutch. I just want to get over it and out of this demotivating situation. I live my life in total isolation, and that sucks.

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>have no car knowledge
>check engine light came on yesterday
>car rumbling, cant go up hill as well as it did the day before
>google results say it's likely a spark plug miss firing

Well, gotta learn eventually right?

Are these easy to learn to replace? How badly can I fuck up?

anything I should know before I start buying tools?

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I've completely forgotten how to interact and make new friends with people. The last friend I made offline was back in 8th grade, and although we're still friends a few years out of highschool we don't hang out a lot. When it comes to interests, I'm a media soak. I'm in the thousands when it comes to books, films, video games, anime, comics. So even when someone wants to talk about this stuff with me, when they're not as "into" it or it's just a passing interest it comes off as cringey, so most of the friends I make are pretty normie. I lift but that's more so I don't succumb to heart disease it's not something I want to bond with someone over. I feel like I'm becoming a bigger autist every year and only have interactions online and at my job with customers.