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Not writing a horrible personal statement 2017-07-22 03:01:29 Post No.18543585
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Not writing a horrible personal statement
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So I have a bit of info I'm gonna just puke out and I was wondering exactly how much I should be concerned about my personal statement. Basically I feel like I need to explain myself but if I were totally honest it would be a bedshit
>always wanted to go to a good school and be a scientist or some shit
>or be a rock star lmao
>planned on trying hard in high school but was told going to a good school was like no way man because I'm poor
>get an honours diploma, 3.0 gpa, 35 ACT
>dad who lives in Florida decided he needed to take control
>makes me pick between in state schools cuz that's where I'd get accepted and that's where the aid is (dumbshit)
>get accepted at OSU and OU
>find out I could have actually gone to a prestigious school and it would've been free
>osu gives me no aid and no scholarships, ou gives me full ride minus room and board (8,000)
>dad says he'd contribute about 8,000
>not happy about going to pleb school but as far as state schools go OSU seems like collegeheaven
>decide that I'd go to OU and get gud grades and transfer to better school
>plan is all set but then
>I look at transfer rates for good schools and they're even lower than already low admissions for freshman
>dad says lol jk about that 8,000 also get a job too
>so I'm bout to be going in debt and miserable at shit party school and gonna be stuck there for four years
>go to orientation
>room full of thousands of screaming retards
>fuckthat.jpeg
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>decide to wait a year, study for SAT subject tests and apply to better schools
>year goes by I have no money so I only apply to a few schools. I get a 790 on the science but only mediocre Spanish and math. try to cancel scores but they send em anyway
>get in nowhere
>but it was cool regardless because if I didn't get in anywhere I could just get in at any other pleb school
>end up going to shitty but expensive local university because home town and muh gf
>they say I have almost a full ride only need to take out a couple loans
>lol jk give us another 12,000 right now
>I do it
>school is retarded and full of conservative douchebags
>gf dumps me
>want to die
>withdraw
>also mom lost her job and bf right outta high school so she moves back in with her mum 60 miles away so I'm supporting myself which is why I had no money to apply to schools
>so I go live with mum and grandmum
>they both die
>stuck with grandpa for a few years
>trying to just fuckin move to California and be rock star
>never happens, stare at wall for a couple years
>working and saving and buying car after car and they keep going to shit
>finally get a decent car and then brilliant me decides to move back to hometown for a little bit to hang with buds
>get gf
>makes me quit friends
>try to just be family guy for a couple years and start coffee bar
>friends od and die
>finally break up with girl
>trying to get the fuck out of this town
>working two jobs
>one has people she knows, she seems to have blackballed me as these guys try to make my job hell
>other job is dickin me around hardcore
>I leave other job to be manager at this one
>work as manager for months with no raise
>at this point I'm so behind on moneys I'm behind on rent and my license is expired but no car so who cares
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>try to fire me because no license
>I quit and buy a van with my only money figuring it's gonna be my home soon
>they fire my boss and hire me back and give me my raise
>then they continue to dick me around and then fire me for leaving the store on a break when I was just sitting in my car
>get another two jobs
>pay off all my debt
>now I'm trying to go to OSU Mansfield
I know that's a whole bunch of retarded and I'm a retard and I should kill myself but I also left out other things like my mum being a druggie alcoholic hobag n shit and my dad was a bastard too. I'm also an idiot for letting girls affect my psyche which I blame in a really roundabout way on super Christian parents fucking up my head. I just don't know what's relevant and what's not and how much I should even bother explaining myself. I'm a 26 yo fuck but my test scores prove I have at least half a brain. My final semester looks like shit too because a couple of my teachers were bastards and gave me F's even though I turned in my required final projects and I didn't care because at the time I thought my college plan was set. One of them is now in jail for being child molester lol.
But yeah I can't really say I fucked up all my shit primarily because I'd never want to go to a less prestigious school. But I have no choice so please let me in
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just get the book What Color is Your Parachute and work through that, dude.
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I've done plenty of shitty things to people in my past and I can't move forward from it. Even though I'd never dream of getting involved with that stuff again, the memory continues to haunt me to the point where the idea that I'm a shit person looms over my head at all times and hinders me from doing something good with myself in the present. How do I overcome this /adv/?
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shameful self-bump
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sad man and yet in a very comfy looking place id be very happy to be in
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Where can I take a shower? 2017-07-22 01:57:42 Post No.18543415
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Where can I take a shower?
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2017-07-22 01:57:42
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There is sewage backed up in my shower because the sewer line on this block is fucked off.
My slumlord's maintenance droogs won't be available until Monday at 10, and the gym is closed until tomorrow.
I live in a college town, but I can't just sneak in the dorms this time of year.
I really need to take a shower. Are there like, places open late on a Friday night I can just like, sneak in? Please help
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Some public pools have showers. Also if you live near a beach they have them there as well.
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gyms/ymca
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> remain very close with a friend after high school
> this friend meets a slightly older lady at his internship
> despite the fact that she is married, he obsesses over her and tells me how much he wants to sleep with her
> months pass and he now claims they're in a "sister/brother" relationship
> she has caused him to reaffirm his commitment to religion, he joins her church, he works with her throughout the week for eight hours a day, he texts her regularly throughout the day when not with her, he washes her dogs, he spends time with her alone at her house, and he attends social gatherings with her and her family
> he tells me she changes clothes with her door open and claims her husband doesn't pay her enough attention
> i warn him he might be getting too close tell him to be careful
> next thing i know he tells me this female friend thinks i'm using him and he should no longer associate himself with me
> while he does do favors for me (usually rides to nearby places and only like every three months when i'm in town), i do offer to pay whenever i can and thank him for all he does
> suddenly all of this becomes a problem and he says i'm taking advantage of him
> i apologize immediately and attempt to talk about it, though he hand waves me off and has an extremely contemptuous attitude towards me for an entire weekend
> two months of no contact goes by and he messages me about a recent accomplishment which i do not reply to
> another month goes by and he messages me again
> this leads to an argument, he doubles down on his position while playing the victim card, and we haven't talked in months
who was at fault?
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You were at fault for using him
he got sick of it
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Is it really that much of a problem to get a ride to somewhere local? Supposed to be good friends.
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It sounds like there's something missing from this story. Either he had pent-up resentment, or you were using signals to get him to pay out favours.
The likelier scenario looks to be that you're both fucking stupid, but him more so probably.
That said, we have your story, not his. So you're kind of the main character, obviously. Maybe this woman satisfies something inside him that he needed satisfied; maybe the level of companionship she provides makes him feel better about himself.
Either way, if you're looking for a wrong, I think you're probably about over him, no?
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how do I become not so scared of everything I read on the internet.
Like disturbing shit that I read like 5years ago that might no be so creepy still make me too scared to sleep. How do I become more brave?
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Posting again because I made the mistake of late night posting and no responses ;(
TL;DR
Got a job recently that's shit and then just got back from one that is a hell of a lot better when work for the shit one is literally tomorrow. Do I keep both jobs and keep low hours with the shit one - keep the shit one and don't bother with the good one - or completely ditch the shit one and go with the good one. If the latter, how do I go about leaving current one.
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Just hoping that all you anons can give me some input where I need it, regardless of my age I guess.
So now 17 of a few months, quit working at McDonald's due to stress, some mental issues and just the people I had to put up with because, you know, McDonald's hires literally anyone. Worked about a total of six months.
Then after a few weeks with summer in, I started applying again, not too concerned as to where but at least keeping wage in mind. Recently got back from another fast food chain that offered the crummy minimum wage of Wisconsin ($7.75). Tomorrow is my first day for on floor and training, fairly simple stuff, less things to do than McDonald's and fairly nicer work environment and customers. Food is just a smidgen more expensive so customer base tends to be older and a lot better to deal with compared to the occasional kangz n shiet or barely audible Somolian immigrants of McDonald's.
Then today I got back from another place. Restaurant in the city stadium, a hell of a lot nicer. Pays $11.00 when training is passed and just your regular $7.75 until then. Far better opportunity for advancement and whatnot, as well as improvement in something personal, being cooking because I'm shit at it. At least capable of cooking simple food, not like I start fires and shit. Went to a job fair today for it today and now I technically have two jobs.
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I did see you post earlier, sorry I didn't reply. To me it seems like there aren't any advantages to keeping the shit job other than extra money. If you think you can manage, just keep the good one. Overworking yourself is not worth extra money in my opinion.
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Cont.
Told mama bird of it and explained how I'm gonna quit the shit job and go for the one that I see as a real opportunity. She sat me down and basically told me I'm stupid and should work both jobs instead of "burning bridges" with minimum wage fast food crewmen position. Said I should keep the one that's closer, low wage and just try to work bare minimum hours on the side on top of this new better one that's just a little out the way but that doesn't matter much, I have functioning legs. Basically, I'm trying to avoid two jobs because I don't want to imagine that type of stress and try to balance that out. Dunno if that's childish or irresponsible of me but that just isn't my goal.
Basically, my predicament is, do I listen to my mother and go with what I don't want to do or just go with what I wanted to do and probably will do: ditch the shit job and go for the one that I think is worth it. And if I go with the latter, how do I go about saying that I may quit very soon because of better opportunity?
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What did she mean by "burning bridges" with the shit job? It's not like any real opportunity will come out of working fast food.
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today i woke up with a couple of red dots in my penis (one in the corono and one in the shaft) and it itches a little. i've suffered from irritation before and usually in a couple of days is gone but this time i decided to call an urologist but i'm currently in a little town and there will be no one available for a week and a half. do you guys consider this is something that can wait that amount of time, as long as i keep up with the hygiene neccesary?
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Should I go to University? 2017-07-22 01:08:08 Post No.18543259
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Should I go to University?
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2017-07-22 01:08:08
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So University is just around the corner and I don't know if it's right for me, I'm socially awkward and so have no social life, no friends at all. I've been depressed for a year and been having therapy. I've had a pretty shitty school year so I'm not even sure I'll have the grades to get in.
Any anons have felt this? Is it worth going or should I just go for a job in a trade?
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Neither because you'll flunk out. Just get a job then go to school when you know what your passions are and can appreciate the doors a degree opens.
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>be me
>meet hot girl in Scouts group
>she's really nice, and fun to be around
>hang out a lot, crush on her hard
>ask her friend for advice on asking her out
>hype myself up, each time I pussy out
>yesterday
>spend the whole night flirting and laughing with her
>end of the night, bout to ask her out
>she suddenly says "I'm nervous" before I can
>"Why?"
>"It's my girlfriend's birthday in a week"
>Silence
>Ten seconds later as I mentally scramble
>"Oh."
>tfw she got a girlfriend last Monday
>tfw her girlfriend is her friend that I asked advice from
>tfw friend -definitely- knew I was going to ask her out
What do I do? I honestly still want to ask her out, regardless of this "development".
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If you enjoy hanging out with her, then ask her out. Even if she likes someone else, she might come around later.
You don't know the future, anon. If you never try you'll never know. Keep talking to her, keep making her smile, and judge how things are going as time goes by. If eventually you realize it won't go anywhere then move on.
Ya got nothing to lose, buddy.
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Thanks man, that makes me feel a lot better.
It's just that I -really- like this girl, and I'm the only one in my group that has never even been in a relationship, never mind getting laid. Fuck, every other guy in that class is either Chad level or approaching Chad level.
It took me ages to get my confidence up to this level, and now it's kinda just... gone. Especially after her friend fucked me over hardcore, and then didn't say a word and just let me embarrass myself. I'll probably feel better after I sleep, but still... fuck.
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All this touchy feely stuff is not for promiscuous women anyway. They'll pretend like it is, and then they'll screw you over like what happened here, not that she did it on purpose or necessarily did anything wrong. Your idea of monogamous romance only works with girls who share the exact same idea. Otherwise, you'll end up cheated on, or divorced if you're foolish enough to marry a promiscuous woman.
It's just youth, though. Just keep focusing on your goals and coming up. The odds will be in your favor more and more, as you succeed in life.
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Any advice with dating a shy and unsure girl?
I really need some tips because i"m not used to that type of girls and she seems like a gem in my eyes
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Give her compliments
Be patient with her
Take the lead in the bedroom
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Like most animals, coax her with treats.
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Lots of hugs
Tell her it's okay to share her feelings
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This is my first post on here so here goes
>Meet emo/scene shy awkward girl
>Think she's most gorgeous girl i've ever seen, dyed hair all anxious and shy and shit
>Pussy, and talk to her, 3 days later going out.
>2 weeks after she splits for no reason, ruins Rogue One for me because I was upset watching
>Week after we go out again. Hang out, do sexual stuff. Then a month after we split again
>Stick around because I feel she needs me how she is, and want to still be friends.
>6 months go by, of ups and downs, not knowing whats going on. Keeps saying i'm not getting friendzoned the entire time.
>Final month we talk more about us, how we are. I try kissing her a few times, reaction isn't bad. Actually feel happy again
>We're super close at this point, I've done a lot for her and she'd done a lot for me, emotional baggage wise. She was a god send.
>Turns around when we're talking and says she can't see a future for us, and I'm left shocked, that all we had planned for the summer is gone, and everything I wanted to say/do is gone.
>Don't want to be an idiot and stick around and get hurt anymore, and don't know what to do.
So yeah, here I am on 4chan for the first time, not knowing what to do or how to feel.
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You shouldn't be friends with woman you have romantic feelings for.
You should have woman you are friends with and women you have romantic feelings for but not the same woman together.
Either ghost her or be her friend and resolve to not be interested her at all, if you have the willpower equal to that task (it requires a great deal)
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How common is it to have no offline friends when you're in your late 20s?
I've only met up with one person in the last year and they decided to stop being my friend a while ago so 'm back to zero now
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>in your late 20s
Depends on why, if it's because people have shacked up and you're the only one that hasn't, that's normalish, though it usually takes until your 30s for your friends to completely abandon you for that reason
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I'm married myself so I guess I have one friend if I count my wife
Sometimes I find this marriage shit boring as fuck and want out but if I got a divorce I'd only have my coworkers and my parents to interact with
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Oh wait I don't live anywhere near my parents
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How do I maximise the results In get from trying to socialise? Most of the time I go out I end up not connecting to anyone and go home more distressed and depressed. I don't think I'm learning from my experiences...
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So I've postes this before:
My gf of about 8 months has lived a very adventureous life before she met me, she's spento her early aduldhood living and working all over the world, I may not live in my hometown anymore either, but it's not compareable.
When I met her: "it was time to come back home" was the idea atleast but she's had some issues finding a job here: her skills just aren't needed here. So the other week she contacted one of her ex employers "Maybe I could get some freelance projects from them".
Well, she was ofcourse instantly offeredher old position back in Spain!
Well:
>"Idk, I was sort of looking forward to coming home and staying home now"
Has over the past 2 weeks turned into
>"what if I'd accept the offer, you could come with and we can live there for a year or something!"
I have been thinking and I am open towards it, the timing to do something like this isn't fucked wrong at this time:
>I don't really know anyone too well here, most my friends and family is still in my hometown. The only person I really care about here is her.
>I have an apt, I can easily lease it for 1.2-1.5k (euros) a month.
>I have savings to live 3-4 months unsustained add to that whatever + I'd go for my apt i could likely drag that out for quite some time.
>I do ofcourse have a job but I am sort of in the planning stage of changing jobs anyways.
So it wouldn't uproot my life conpletely as it is.
However there are concerns:
>I don't speak Spanish
>I don't know how hard it'll Be for me to find work there
>our relationship hasn't been truly tested yet and this feels like a pretty hard first test
"I have never felt this way about another person before"
>clichè but true
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>I don't speak Spanish
Even in Spain a huge proportion of people speak English to some degree. You'll pick up what you need to know.
>I don't know how hard it'll be to find work
If it's really as temporary as she says, it shouldn't be an issue if you can't find work provided you're actually looking and not making her feel like she's the only one contributing to the money situation.
>pretty hard first test
All tests are hard. The harder they are, the more sure the result. Do it or don't, it's up to you.
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Well according to my gf, English is not very commonly spoken in Spain, especially by the elder generation, she speaks Spanish though.
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stop posting this shit every other day, you spineless fool. Either go, or don't go.
You're such a manlet for not making your own decision, I'd beat you myself if I could.
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Something is wrong with my dick 2017-07-22 12:40:16 Post No.18543197
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Something is wrong with my dick
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OK /adv/ i am freaked out.
So I have phimosis and whenever I've fapped i've never let my foreskin retract (it just kinda covered the head). For the first time today I finally managed to get hard with the foreskin back without it bleeding and fapped that way. Firstly, holy shit it looks so much bigger and HOLY SHIT IT FEELS SO MUCH BETTER.
So I was having the time of my life when I realised that like 45 minutes have passed and I've not even felt near the edge. Confused, I stop, check and I KID YOU FUCKING NOT I CAN'T FEEL ANY OF MY NUTS THERE IT WAS AN EMPTY NUTSACK
Now I'm not a fucking mutant; I have two balls. Did they ascend back into my fucking body while fapping just because of how fucking amazing this is? Any other phimosis sufferers had this issue (by the way its worth training your way out the feeling is 10x better) or do I just have autism?
Two minutes after going soft I felt one, now one nut in my sack.5 minutes later they're both back, wtf? Should I do something? Should I just try again?
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It's cool bro. I was just borrowing your nads for a bit. Didn't think you would mind.
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>Did they ascend back into my fucking body while fapping just because of how fucking amazing this is?
It's certainly possible. When you're highly aroused they tend to rise toward your body, sor some guys that means just kind of high and tight, for some it looks a little shriveled and empty. They're still there, it'll be OK.
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Do you know as to whether it would've made me incapable of cumming? I was watching my most intense shit and I'd never last nearly 45 minutes