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>>18544181
What kind of job?
How hard - be honest - have you looked?
How wide have you spread your net? A job not exactly what you want can be the inroad to what you want

>>18544181
>Should I pull "the millennial" and move back in my moms place
I don't see why not, moving out of your parent's house is just a scam these days. I never moved out and just paid my mom rent (below market rate, enough that I'm not a drain though) and it's worked fine for me.

>>18544181
If she's fine with it, there's no problem, just keep looking for a job while you're with her

>>18544160
This is serious but probably not life-threatening. (The proper medication after a stroke usually prevents another)

Your main concern should be her attitude. She's going to go through some hard and frustrating rehab, and your biggest contribution will be to keep her spirits up. If you don't live at home, phone her much more frequently than you usually do, just to chat - hearing from you, more than anything you tell her, will cheer her up. If you are at home, encourage her as she recovers, put up with her inevitable low moods, and offer all the practical help you can

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>>18544160
What would worrying change? What would not worrying change?

It doesn't matter either way. Let yourself feel whatever feelings come to you.

>>18544214
Thanks. I live elsewher, and I have not been in constant contact with her. All makw sure to call her everyday anon-sensei

You dial it back to a point where it's no longer a problem.

Fuck non-indulgence, people are goddam pussies. You're headed to death anyway, die like a goddam walking party.

Besides, what kinda pastry chef would you be if you weren't acutely aware of how sweet your work was (or wasn't)?

If you take it in at a really over the top way, then try going cold turkey and slowly re-integrating it.

>>18544117
Eat more fruits, change from sugar to other kinds of sweetener.Healthier.Like dates, dates sugar is the healthiest out there

>>18544117
As a chef, explore the world of sugar-free pastries. There's a big market for it.

As a consumer, eat/drink "diet" foods. They're not an ideal solution, but a big step.

>>18544115
I like the schaum's series. Start with the basics Algebra Geometry Trig precalculus calculus. Do all of the problems and you'll be ready..

khan academy

Taboo fetishes are common anon, the reason you like it is because it "feels wrong". If it's a violent or humiliating fetish then so long as you know it's wrong and it stays fantasy there's nothing overtly wrong with your "weird porn". Just don't let your fantasies shape your interactions with people and you wont be in danger of being "that guy".

No fap helped me. Only took a week too. But it sounds like you don't have enough willpower. Start drinking beers when you wanna fap.

I enjoy watching cuckold porn, but I insert myself as the bull. Is that normal?

>>18544056

Read into no fap

https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/your-brain-porn

but don't join in their faggot discussion groups

their is lots of advice there

realize how bad porn is for you

maybe get a browser plug in to stop you accessing sites

if you are doing it in your bed room, jam the door open

>>18544063
is looking at it just as bad as fapping?

>>18544067
You are backwards. Watching porn is what is bad for you. Fapping by itself is perfectly fine.

I am 2 weeks without fapping not because I fell for the nofap meme but because I decided to do a no fapping for the last 2 numbers of your post in days (rolled a fucking 96). It doesnt get better. It only gets worse. You will have trouble sleeping and be irritable all the time. You will get an erection all the fucking time. Not only that but I have felt no positive effects as I wasn't a porn addict who did it 4 times a day.

LARPing or just a fag?

Using hate is alright but doing everything out of spite is not.

pffft motivation is motivation, if you enjoy proving wrong all those who formerly doubted you, so be it

where did you move to?

What do you like OP? Try to find a group or meetup for something you enjoy.

Alternatively just pick a cafe or something and start going there every couple days. Chat up the employees/owner and maybe become friends with them. Note that I am talking about a small quiet place and not some chain place.

dude wat, no clorox wipes PUT THE CLOROX WIPES DOWN NAO FAGGOT

rinse with lukewarm water, wash gently with mild soap, rinse moar, rinse a bunch moar, leave it alone, if it burns put some aloe on it, leave it alone

>>18544013
Are you fucking retarded?

Invite them over to watch the game or for a dinner party or to watch a movie.

I don't know what kind of people you anbd your friends are but do a thing that you type of people do.

>>18543986
Put together a team to play in a pick-up league

>>18544242
Bump - basketball softball soccer -- of couse after they'll want to drink. Go have one (or an ice tea) then bail but leave saying got to get up early for this or that...

Also I've done this in the past. Tell them your going sober for 6 months. Say you want to get back in shape or if you've always been a fat ass then you want to get in shape.

>>18543925
get a degree doggy, seems like your only chance. Trade school, certifications, etc

Construction. At the very least 12 an hour and frequent overtime

>>18543925
>he thinks he's worth more than minimum wage if he's not willing to get the education to make more

top kek m8, maybe try not living in America where that shit is required

>>18543844
Just confront her and ask why she still hangs out with him if she's trying to put some distance

>>18543841
yeah you're weird af bro, I don't think I'd help you even if I could could your obsession is unhealthy

>>18543841
You'd better stalk real woman, not random internet chicks.
I promise you, it is waaaaaay more interesting.
Just walk on the street. Make a photo of random girl. Go home. Wait 24 hours. Now your goal is to find her. It is possible. How? Use your brain and fantasy. That's the best part of it, to figure something out.
Try it.