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Sex advice general
so I had piv sex for the first time yesterday.
Granted I was drunk and nervous but I had plenty of BJs beforehand and I always needed hard stimulation to stay hard, let alone come.
The embarrasing thing was that I only needed 2 or 3 strokes to come. I'm not used to having a condom on my uncircumcised, sensitve head and it left me super embarrassed.
Would it be a dumb idea to put on the condom with my foreskin not pulled back?
And how come I had trouble staying hard with a condom but came within a minute?
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>>18544610
probably because you were really exited, too much friction, or some type of movement.
next time use oil, thicker condoms or if you really want to go hard, use a condom with numbing agent on the inside.
what also helps is letting her do the movement. so cowgirl position or reverse cowgirl in the beginning.
I had the same problem with my ex a few times when we didnt use oil (didn't use condems) the friction was just too much.
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>>18544630
I think it's more to do with the condom rubbing against my head as well as the vagina walls. I wish I could go raw but I don't know this girl that well
Can you actually safely put on a condom without pulling back your foreskin?
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Better business bureau? 2017-07-22 01:26:14 Post No.18544571
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Is there a legal grey area when it comes to at-will employment?
I work in a 24/7 restaurant and I just can't take it anymore, I'm constantly working until 1AM and then coming in for morning shifts, or working overnight and coming in for day shifts. This week, Monday had me 4PM to 1AM, tuesday 6AM to 4PM, then I came back in to cover 10PM to 2AM, and back at 6AM, etc etc.
Is this just how at-will employment is or am I a pushover? It's been like this the past 2 years here
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Wtf ain't there any labor regulations where you live?
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>>18544604
I guess not! Either that or I'm too stupid to know them, for the love of God who do I report to? I worked 4PM to 3AM and here I am getting ready to head in at 10AM...I just think if your business can't run without having people live at your store then the business model needs to change, ffs
I can't even tell if I make good money or I'm too busy to spend
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>>18544571
Your state's labor board
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How do I stop being afraid when having a conversation with people?
I want to stop being afraid that they might not like me.
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stop giving a shit. I'm not even joking or being extreme.
If you open up to people right away, you'll filter the people who want to be your friends right away, instead of opening up as time continues and then they suddenly don't want to speak to you anymore.
Honesty solves many many things.
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I've used every search engine. There is a catfisher in a chat that sends out beautiful pics. I believe they are really her, but she hides who she is. She is super evil and takes other's pics and makes them into embarrassing things in photoshop. She needs to be taken down a notch. Any way I can find out who she really is?
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I'm at a loss how to continue with myself at this point. I've graduated college and started my "Successful" life.
Relationship problems first, I just have no fucking clue how to meet people now. I live in greater metro detroit, but shit area. So no walking about to meet anybody without being concerned with the ghettos (white boi). None of my college friends are particularly outgoing, and all dudes cause stem. Can't into tinder/bumble/etc with my utter lack of any social presence (no pics of me in group settings, just a fucking loner essentially). Recently broke up with GF ~2 months ago (officially at least... We hadn't seen each other in months at a time, so was dead for awhile before )
Also, all my old hobbies just don't entertain me now. I can't into vidya mindlessly anymore for hours. Is this just growing up, or some underlying issue?
I feel like I lack purpose or reason. to some extent I just want to be included in something, but nobody is there to include me. What the fuck do I do?
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Meetme, badoo, okcupid, tinder, facebook, fetlife, discord or simply social events you hate.
Ever been to
Opera
Comedy stand up
Concert
Various interest gathering
Museum
Nigger ghetto
Park
Or any event your city makes each week? Look at your city pages and go to anything what is happening. Talk to any ladies there.
And congratulations on growing up from games. I wish it happened to me too, but still nothing.
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>>18544490
I think my biggest hiccup is I have nothing else to talk about.
I feel like an empty slate
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>>18544576
Nah. You just need to learn how to talk about nothing.
http://www.improveyoursocialskills.com/conversation
If you have ability to shitpost, you have ability to have convo easily.
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What electronic engineering subfield pays the best salaries and has highest demand?
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hard to say what has more demand beyond all the fields have healthy demand, and they all pay roughly the same starting out
also depends where you want to live
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Building an Arts and Craft Business 2017-07-22 12:32:14 Post No.18544443
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Building an Arts and Craft Business
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Sup Adv. Should I go to Drama School whilst I build a business?
I'm 19, about to turn 20. Art school dropout. My artwork is like pic related and I make Nordic items and work from European and Pagan mythos (inb4 wicca hippy, it's just my aesthetic realm). I want to run my own craft business - visit history festivals and craft faires round Europe, LARP events, sell my drawings as prints, sell reenactment trinkets, clothing, jewellery etc, with the goal of supplying large museums with my successful products, publish books, take commissions, sell art in galleries and online etc. This is a well trod path and I'll specialise as I go.
I have heard from impartials that I am gifted so I am confident there will be a market, but I need time to build my ouvre, business and learn. This will need some time and lots of room to make mistakes, sink money and break into the trade.
So I need advice. I have 3+ government loan years of University available (Britfag, cash-in-hand crafts mean I will probably never repay a penny unless May cuccs me).
>Should I enrol in 'free' University again whilst I build my business and take the first tentative steps? Any better ideas for an occupational stepping stone whilst I learn and fuck around with my craft?
'Arts' universities are shit tier post modernism scams here, the only decent skill based ones are a handful of Animation & Game Design courses, sat in front of a computer all day, and they're all in the middle of nowhere. So I won't be doing a craft skill course.
I was really considering Acting, & most schools are in London. I love film and literature, I'm a decent performer, and erudite enough to fluke my way onto a decent course. I have an odd accent, a low voice, I'm a big Nordic guy 4U, and I have been told I am decent looking and have good presence. Like many reading this, it has been a path I've always been curious about but talked myself out of. I am even considering taking a 'gap year' to build up my resume for the audition.
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Acting School Pros:
>Acting will cure my autism forever (useful in trading and business)
>Physical, intellectually stimulating
>9am-5pm, no huge coursework to stop business work
>Reasonably cheap with 'free' loans (London can be $$$)
>Capitol can be sunk into business (I have a chunk of inheritance+work)
>Social, nightlife, subsidised hobbies, student deals
>Last chance to see London's culture before complete diversification
>Near museums, galleries, networking for business
>Proximity to costume designers, set builders, prop makers, other artists
>Would actually like to be an actor and filmwriter as well as craftsman
Cons
>Unbearable drama students
>London is semi-third world
>Might not get accepted at all
What can I do instead of rotting in a basement whilst I build my business? Any recommendations for getting into Acting school? I need to make social and fitness gains alongside artistic gains and I don't do well living alone. Is this a baby bird brain manchild option, should I just get a job stacking shelves whilst I work on the business?
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Also, to clarify
I am not an airhead art school dropout dreamer. My idea of a business is not selling a few $30 paintings from a hipster cafe. I worked for 5 years as an assistant graphic designer and sales representative for a huge art based company, I know the grind and sheer willpower involved in running any kind of art business, and I am hoping to form a business partnership along the way.
I appreciate a lot of people will read
>art school dropout
>Arts and Crafts
>LARP
and dismiss me as a goober. Let me be clear, this business will be a success. I have a mind for it, I have set aside the capitol for it, the only missing ingredient is Time and Social Skills, hence looking for your advice for an occupation. Thank you bros
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A little long post but I need advise. 2017-07-22 12:11:06 Post No.18544400
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A little long post but I need advise.
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I need advise on job and please excuse my English fluency.
I don't have any job experience but I found two jobs to which I can readily join anytime however 1 of the jobs promises a higher attractive salary than the other.
The job I mentioned above is a courier dispatcher which will give me 700USD a month. This job as far as I have come to know, you have to work inside a closed office, with little to know communication with others and I'm an introvert at the extreme and I'm trying to build up my contact with the outside world and possiblly make myself okay and comfortable witht he outside world.
Not the second job is sort of like a customer relationships job and it is at an Auto Garage where I have to ask what the customer wants to be done and then convey this to the workers there. The owner of the garage isn't offering me any salry as of now but he told, I am in high chances of getting commissions, tips and possibly even get a salary once I impress him. The owner was a great guy. I see that this job has a potential to make me talk to people and possibly eliminate my horrible social anxiety and maybe even build connections with the customers.
Which job maybe the better for me now? I am 20 and I don't want to be a failure. Pls help.
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Dealing with the past 2017-07-22 12:11:01 Post No.18544398
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It's not as bad as it sounds like, but since I became adult I keep remembering things I did as a kid and as a teenager. I was a stupid autistic little shit and I'm very ashamed of how I was and things that I did.
At school I bullied some people and I was a brat to the adults. I remember hitting girls and even my own friends. Teachers tought I was a clown who just wanted attention and they were always punnishing me. Then I entered high school. I guess it could have been worse, but I was bullied in it a lot for liking Pokémon. During a couple of years I was the butt-monkey of the entire course, even people from other clases laughed at me. It was a hell that I couldn't stand knowing that I deserved it.
I guess everything is fine now. I work and study hard, I don't see my classmates anymore around, and I do keep contact with the friends I made. But they know all of this. Everyone does. I'm proud of having changed (it's not like i'm perfect now, but I do gained a lot of common sense) but each time I think about my past, how people might see me and how they think of me, it's like physical pain. Even more, not only it makes my anxious but furious too. It's like I assume that all of my old classmates think that they're above me when they were a bunch of assholes and whores who should feel sorry for what they did to me as I do for what I did to other people.
It's not as easy as just stop caring, and I can't change it (I would kill to), is it common this problem? How can I deal with it?
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For how common it is,the answer is very. It's one of the most common recurring issue in people, remembering autistic shit they did in the past. I don't think people really get over it.
If it actually is affecting your quality of life (constant dwelling, losing sleep, etc) then you'll want to talk to a psych about it. If not, the best thing you can do is basically tell yourself that you're doing alright now and learned from the past.
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I tried to make amends with a few people that I don't usually see. It actually worked for the first ones I think, but one of them told me everything was ok and the next year she was bad-mouthing me to one of my cousins (which she didn't know he was).
Before finding this out, last person I talked to, we were on a train so I tried to approach and start a casual conversation. I was told that I didn't change at all after all these years after high school. That was like a stab.
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How would I go about getting my medical records if I didn't have a primary doctor or health-care provider? I need them to further my progress with my recruiter.
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>>18544389
If you have no doctor, you presumably have no medical records
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Hi there,
So my granddad died about a year ago, and he had a huge stampcollection. About +300 books and maps. I once talked with him about it and he told me after he died he wanted them to go to his grandchildern. He also told me his biggest fear was they would be sold without being properly looked at. And guess what is going to happen. His childern (my dad and uncle) are going to sell them on a auction. The thing is. There is nothing i can do about it because he did not left a will. He has 6 grandchildern and we could choose between a part of the money or a part of the stamp collection. I was the only one who choose for a part of the collection so i got about 40 books. Is there anything i can do to honour my granddads wish? I told them it is not a good plan to sell them at auction but they are still going to do it. And how shit is it that you worked your ass of all your life and the moment you die they will sell your lifework and only think about money?
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>>18544386
steal then safe deposit box that shit.
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>>18544394
to be honest i don't even know where they are stored at the moment.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8oSFB0dUa6c&feature=youtu.be I have a youtube channel i dont use to often but i want to get back into it but can content like this get me banned and is this enjoyable?
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So I'm normally on r9k. 30 years old and male going to trade school.
I've spent years being a loner and some years being a normal fag.
Today I lost two friends. Okay they were online friends.
Okay I have some nice acquaintances in my real life.
Not real life but, in my very small social circle. They were the only real friends I've had for the last year.
Maybe I'm insufferable and unworthy of friendship and all the other good stuff people have.
On one hand I know we all die alone and people use people all the time.
How do I reconcile that I'm going to be without any meaningful relationships of any kind?
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Bump please
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you will find better friends as you get even older. some of my best friends ive only known for 5 years or so. i just recently had a friend of 21 years screw me out of some cash and now wont even respond to my phone calls. so pretty much in my experience you have to accept that people just come and go. you dont have to reconcile about not having any meaningful relationships lol, try finding more stuff to do to keep you busy. try being more social maybe?
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I feel alittle bit uncomfortable because my GF has a couple really crazy and promiscuous friends.
One of her friends is going going on a girls night out to a bar.
Is it normal that I feel alittle insecure?
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>>18544252
Google iwantmygflikethis tumblr
Post feelings.
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>>18544252
You're insecure because one of her friends is going out? Are you retarded?
Assuming you misspoke and your girlfriend is going out to girl's night, it's still stupid to be insecure. You can't be with your girlfriend 24/7. You have to trust her to be committed to the relationship at some point or you're going to crash and burn horribly in your relationship.
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>>18544252
Uh, what your gf's friends do is not your concern and you are over thinking it.
If your gf's friends are truly promiscuous, wild and crazy and she is part of that group then why in fuck would you choose a girl from that group? Sounds like you made a bad choice thinking your gf is a different girl than who she really is. That is what is making you crazy, not insecurity, but certainty, just not knowing when.
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Want to get Lamisil but prescription is required.. anyone know a site selling helpful RX without prescription that ships to US?
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no but if you find a clinic you can meet with a dr or nurse and they might prescribe it. be aware that it's easy to become convinced that you have fungal infections that you don't actually have, as in your body being full of candida. meeting with a medical practitioner will give you the best chance you can have of accurately diagnosing your ailment and getting the appropriate medication, which is probably what you actually want.
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>>18544245
I don't have insurance or anything and it's toenail infection that I've been battling with every over the counter thing I can throw at it. thanks for the advice I guess I'll have to figure what itll all cost me and just get this treated
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lamisil probably won't work on toenails. you will need to use a formulation which penetrates through into the body of the toenail, like an antifungal nail lacquer.
you want to get a nail lacquer with ciclopirox, the brand sold in australia is called rejuvenail but it might be different in your country.
the alternative is a lacquer with amorolfine, like loceryl, but it isn't as effective. I used amorolfine lacquer for years which controlled my toenail infection but never quite wiped it out. I must have spent a couple thousand dollars on the stuff in that time.
I managed to wipe out the infection completely with two pots of rejuvenail. You can get it over the counter in Australia so see if you can do that where you are.