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so ever since high school i haven't been able to talk to people unless its about anime or vida games and anytime i get to happy i lose control and go completely atustic how do i hide my faggotness and become a alpha
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Sup /adv/ , I'm a straight 20y/6"2 male, and tomorrow i'll be taking a walk in the park for an hour with my baby sister. She 4 and ultra cute, any tactics to pickup a girl. any suggestion is a welcome one
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>>18545696

just say hi to anyone passing by and hope for the best. its a park so dont get your hopes too high, you arent going to find that many attractive girls there.
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>>18545708
I am from Eastern Europe, majority of them are hot, any other suggestion anons
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Fuck lil sister

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One of my cousins low life friends stole my grandmas tablet and my dead mothers tablet. My grandma has both boxes and the numbers on them. Is there a way to track these tablets down? Both are android so I don't know if Google has similar recovery programs as Microsoft and Apple.
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>>18545660
Bump
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Go find out who exactly stole it through a list of all his friends and track each and everyone of them down and show up at each of their houses and threaten them till they let you in
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>>18546509
Do not do this.

Instead contact google and/or the police and let them do it.

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so i forgot about my friends wedding. Its happening now several states away, and they asked if I was going to make it.

What do?
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Sustain an injury
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Say no
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>>18545611
Thing is, he may not even miss you there. If he is the groom, he will have full day and hopefully even night a lot of things to do.

Just send him sms with newest marriage meme and wish him luck.

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My Asperger's, OCD and social anxiety have snowballed into something so severe I am virtually incapable of self-expression

So self-critical that even a sentence I try to create in mind has to be abruptly stopped and reconceived and rehearsed. Feel like I am a slave of my own making pls help
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>>18545581
Stupid frogpoater, cant you go play csgo or something else when bored?

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Recently I found out that this girl I've been dating for a while is actually trying to push me away. She doesn't hate me it seems, but basically she thinks the only reason I'm acting interested is out of pity.

Might be my fault, kinda. I talked a lot about how I thought she was feeling down, tried to cheer her up and all that. Shitty stuff happened to her that DID bring her down, but seems like my care backfired in the end.

How can I convince her I'm genuine? That I care about her for her and not just because I'm looking for some project to fix or whatever?
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Guys, I started taking dancing classes about 2 months ago. Any tips on how to lead? Some people say that my lead must be firm others say that it needs to be gentle. I'm confused.
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El balance
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>>18545566
Isn't that what the class is supposed to teach you??

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Not the first time I'm here complaining about her, but... well, what can I do?

Met this incredible girl. She's a med student on her last year (i.e. busy with study and work). I opened up to her about my depression and social anxiety, she told me she also has it for quite some time.

We finally hang out, I just completely fell for her. She said she had a great time. I told her I really liked her and would like to hang out next weekend if she feels the same. She said "yes", she can't next weekend but she likes the idea (her words).

We texted a bit, I asked her when we would see each other again, she said "next weekend, maybe the weather will be good". She makes some jokes that hint to her wanting a relationship.

Fast forward to today, I asked her out, she didn't respond. She's been taking a day or so to respond to my texts. I know she's busy and all, specially since she's in a new area in the hospital where she said it's very hard.

I can't help but feel she's avoiding me, though. But at the same time I think she's into me, given all that I've said above.

Is she just being polite? Should I ask her that?
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>>18545562
Just wait. If she cares about you she'll respond eventually. If she doesn't then whining her to about it won't change her feelings.
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>>18545562
If I like a guy I respond. If I'm on the fence I delay and if they push, I avoid.
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>>18545562
She is avoiding you. Would you turn down a girl you were attracted to because of the weather? Accept it and move on. To satisfy yourself, you can text her only once more, to tell her that you thought she was pretty cool but you get the hint and wish her the best.

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It's Saturday night here (GMT + 1), everyone is out, having fun and all while I'm here rotting in my misery.
Every now and then I ask around if anyone's going out, but always they've already plans.

Today a girl I used to talk to and go out just stopped talking with me, anything dramatic tho.
It was my clingyness that drove her away, because I've this constant fear of rejection - ironic uh?

I need some /adv/ice as I really don't know how to get out of this situation.

>pic was my last message sent to her
>it says: read today // delivered 20/7/2017
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>>18545548
Smettila.
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>>18545642
Oramai so che con lei la situa è tostata, quindi lascio andare... ogni tanto dopo qualche settimana mi riscrive lei, that's not the problem.

I essentially forgot how to make friendos

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Hello.

There is a park in front of my new home. Very family friendly place on weekends and holidays (up until around 23pm when crackheads go smoke in a corner).

There are a lot of young adults, teens and adults with families and friends playing volleyball and soccer (there is a field too).

I'm new in this city and wanted to try making some friends. How would I go about interacting with people in this current setting without sounding like a creep? My family is really introverted and wouldn't agree to go along and since I'm new here I don't really have any friends to go with.
Also, a lot of them (weirdly) are people that come from other neighborhoods in the same city, so no, they aren't my neighbors to begin with.
And no, I don't want to bed women/girls there, I just want to make some acquaintances/friends.
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>>18545532
Ask if you can join them to play soccer/volleyball and go from there. During or after doing sporta with them, have a chatter with them. Ask how often they come to that place and when they would like to meet up for a next time.

I'm still wondering why you need instructions on how to go outside and say "hi" to other young adults.

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>21 next month
>NEET
>living at home with parents
>wanna get the hell out of my country far away
>can't stand society
>not motivated to look for a job
>been depressed for 6 months now

What am I supposed to do with my life? All that people talk around is that I should "get a job" and "get a life" but they never think beyond that. They just claim that getting a job is the answer to everything. Fuck that. It's not a fucking answer. If I had the money I could get away temporarily but then I'd eventually run out of money in some far away country and be forced to go back to my home country.

I don't want a rich fancy life, I just wanna be free and go on my own without having any fucking connections to the people I know. I hate my relatives and all my few friends are just a bunch of boring backstabbers. I honestly think no one in this fucking world understands how I feel.

There's my meltdown. Whata fuck am I supposed to do?
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>>18545528
read the book Into the Wild
try not to starve to death in alaska

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How do I actually get instragram followers without following people and without hacking instragram
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I'll follow you. Post Instagram.
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>>18545434

post interesting content.
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What is the content some might enjoy by following you?

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I'm not socially reclusive. I'm more misanthropic. I present myself in a way people don't really like, and I have damaged/ended a lot of relationships due to finding the other person's antics intolerable. As time goes on, this trend is only increasing. People I once loved and/or considered my friends are starting to become completely off-putting to me. It's not like I have a big head either - I know the main reason I'm only around these people is because I don't have anything to offer the world *as is*, and I won't for many years.

Is this depressing? I'm not sad so much as numb anymore. I just keep upgrading my style of living (I started from rock bottom a few years ago, after my family came to resent me and threw me out), and cutting off people I no longer need to associate with. Is this fucked up? Maybe I just haven't found my kind of person yet? Oddly enough, I might only like religious people, since most of those books are like, "Try your best to be a righteous boy."

People have even tried to call me mentally ill, but aside from bouts of depression/anxiety/depersonalization due to circumstance, I don't think I'm that dysfunctional. If anything, my ex-girlfriends and ex-family were the dysfunctional ones. Some of my panic stems from completely normal things, like having uncomfortable (and pretty common) metaphysical/existential realizations. Even simple stuff we realize as children can stick with us and shake us up from time to time.

Does anyone feel the same and/or have advice for dealing with a mental state like this? Good help and feedback is very appreciated, thank you.
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1. It is rather important that you feel alright with your decisions. Whats even the point to have people around you that you dont like or cant connect with. And some people cant handle the truth so you will get that back at you.

2. I for myself made the experience that people which openly talk about their religious views are morons whether they believe something or not. Worse than politics. Those are the first one to stab you in the back inthe name of an allmighty (_).

3. My guess is that people like you tend to be at all more reclusive alltough they might enjoy the community of equal ideas but finding like-minded... Well good luck..

I'll be looking alone for those who i enjoy being with instead of hating my life surrounded by people i hate and hanging myself because nobody could ever understand me because they are morons (or i am different).

Neither is easy but one is in the end more satisfying
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>>18545586
you're right. it's just stressful to be alone sometimes. it's good to have company and some reassurance.

as for the part about religion, I haven't decided yet. I've only been truly close to twenty-something people, most of them atheists, so it's hard to take a stance on that.

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i've been trying to get rid of it for a while, but ever since my diet change and beginning to work out (coincidence?) i've constantly been bloated and constipated for the first time in my life. I'm a teen.

dried apricots and fiber helps but it's temporary

i never had to do this before

somebody please fucking help me i just want my old life back, this is so damn annoying

my doctor is scheduled in a month so it's not gonna help for the time being

did this happen to anyone else? any advice, please?
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Water
Watery fruts
Coffee
Spicy things work for me

Sports like swimming or running may help (works aswell for me)

Good luck senpai, dont take pills but whatever

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I have been working at a wastewater plant for about three years living at home. City benefits are great and since I’m living at home I can afford traveling. However the job is not very sociable and there is plenty of overtime. About two months back I went to work 18 days straight. 50k a year is nice, but it aint enough nowadays. I plan on leaving in January.

I have always wanted to learn a 2nd language, but I do not plan on dropping 40k going back to school. Does anyone have any suggestions for industries to break into or programs?
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So the main questin is about learning a second language?

/int/ is about learning new languages. Online is a lot of "free" stuff you can work with or just buy a simple textbook about grammar, look up some translated tv shows, try to read children books. You can do this like all the time, wont limit your work and is not a responsibility that is incriminating once you start and dont want to do anymore.

Like is this even a real question

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