Why am I head over heels for someone who doesn't want me.
>Known said girl for like 6 months
>Was pretty good friends
>She met some guy
>They were good together except...
>They only lasted 2 months and she really loved him (which is strange , 2 months)
>She's fucked up
>Tell her to immediately call me
>Calm her down
>We proceed to chat it up again
>Asks if we can cuddle and stuff
>Agree
>Start to fall for her hard
>She explains how she doesn't want a relationship
>Fuck.png
>Start telling her my issues with dating
>"I hope to find someone that can put up with me, and I hope you find someone good to you"
>My head: "HELLO I'M RIGHT HERE"
>One night ask her what shes up to
>"Just scrolling through [Chat Website], being a hoe"
>"hmm.. what do you mean?"
>Just talking sexually to this guy I use to know
>W...What the fuck...
>"I have to go... I'm not feeling so well"
>"lol okay, get better soon"
Are girls really this fucking blind ? Am I stupid ?
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>>18547584
You are definition of beta orbiter. If you dont ask girl on date ONE WEEK after meeting her for first time, she will mark you as friend who doesnt have penis nor is able of dating her. Combine that with the fact you are frogposter and you are undatable.
Find new girl AND SHOW HER VIA ANY MEAMS YOU FIND HER ATTRACTIVE asap. Asking them on dates and trying to kiss is usually good enough.
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Paranoid she deleted her Facebook because of me
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So I checked out this girl's Facebook who I had only met once. While scrolling down, at one point, my finger was close to the 'add friend' button. (I'm on an iPad) I go on today and the page has gone.
Now I'm feeling paranoid that I accidentally pressed 'add friend' and she deactivated because she think I've been stalking her. She seems to have a decent social life, but doesn't update her Facebook photos all that often - her last upload was last year.
I know you have to press the button fairly firmly to actually add a friend, and even when you put your finger on the add button when you scroll down it doesn't press, but it's still bothering me.
Chances are it's a co incidence though, but I'm still worried.
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>>18547544
dubs say she totally deleted her facebook because of you. how could you be so weird as to add a random on fb? that is completely unacceptable OP. you can't just go around adding women on fb, its misogynistic. you have to first get their consent before ever talking to them these days.
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>>18547547
What the hell are you saying? There's no such thing as "consent". You have to fill in a request to the World Office for Women Equality And Rights to be able to get to a radius of no more than 1 kilometer from her. After that, if you are male, you have to have an attitude test where you're asked questions on the history of women emancipation. And don't dare assuming OP's gender, you jerk
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>>18547544
She didn't delete anon, she just blocked you.
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sup /b/. Last night I went out with this girl and everything had gone great so far, but suddenly, she left like angry af without any given reason. I tried to talk to her about this and she told me that "when she isn't enjoying something, she lefts" (talking about the club we were in?)
Anyway; how should I take this? May I talk to her again or what? I'm so confused, can't sleep well nor eat right, and I feel that I have a ton of things that I'd say to her but I don't wanna pressure her in any level.
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>/b/
I'd suggest going back to your containment board first.
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>>18547522
My bad.
What is the best way to get around contacting a girl who used to like me in high school after 2 years? Back then girls werent on my mind as I was addicted to video games. Recently when cleaning out a few old boxes I discovered my old french class notebooks, on which said girl have scribbled excessively on both the front and the back. She even wrote down her number and snapchat and encircled them with a heart. From this I found out that she probably had a crush on me and wanted to get my attention.
Now I am in Uni and have started to lift during my free time instead of gaming. I want to test the waters with this girl by sending a text or snap based around the old notebooks. One part of me thinks this is all just creepy, and the other part of me thinks it is worth a shot since I got nothing to lose.
If any femanons are here, how would you think if the guy you had a crush on in high school contacted you 2 years later?
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>>18547498
You missed your chance anon, I'm in the same situation. It's over. Go back to your games.
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But I sold my gaming pc for cash..
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>>18547549
Looks like you finally grew up then
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It doesn't take much to get me angry. My dad is like it too. I try to be rational but anger is never rational and can't be supressed with logic. I meditate often. It helps me to be calm, though I still am an angry boy.
Sometimes I wake up and feel so alone, I feel like it makes no difference to anyone if I hadn't woken. It's a hard to describe feeling, like you've woken up into a pointless world where nothing matters. It makes me angry. I wake up, then immediately punch things sometimes.
How do i be less angery? Why do I have this underlying anger, this short fuse within me? Is it because I'm a manlet?
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>>18547463
THERAPY
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This thread pops up every other hour I swear.
>inb4 I know better about the illness that makes me unreasonable about everything more than the guy trained for multiple years to be reasonable about everything
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>>18547463
Also, just accept life is pointless and the only thing that matters is finding some way to be geuinely happy. Let go of the petty bullshit and evaluate what really gets you excited about life.
Tldr - Fuck everyone who isn't you. This is your life, use it the way you want to.
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>>18547468
I don't like leaving my room though.
Also how do i get an internet girlfriend sub-question
So heres my story: I went to this camp for a week, first day all good, made a lot of friends and met this beautiful woman.
Well her best friend was in love with me, and I rejected her, I only just met her a day ago, anyways me and this girl let's call her Jem start flirting like crazy together, on the 4th day we end up together, make out a few times and a lot of cuddling.
about 2 days afterwards she starts distancing herself, she won't look at me in the eyes, she wouldn't talk to me like she did before, started following this fuckboy around, but as far as I am aware she didn't do anything significant with him.
on the night of the last day a friend of mine puts us together to talk, she tells me she fell for me and really likes me, but doesn't know if its just a crush, she told me she didn't know if I was interested in a one night stand or a real relationship, she said we should get to know each other better first.
but the fucking idiot that I am, never told her how I really felt, we agreed to be friends until we got to know each other better, and she said there could be a chance. Well she hugs me, it was a little more than a friendship hug, and after that pretends I don't exist at all.
when I accidentally bump into her she doesn't even acknowledge me. Well last day was there, still ignored, feel like shit, we get ready to leave, I say goodbye to everyone but her, I couldn't bring myself to talk to her and I left.
She has my number but hasn't texted me yet, I know I can get her number from a few friends I met, but I'm not that type of guy. I don't know what to do, she is the perfect woman, girls like her don't even exist in this day and age, we have so much in common, even though I tried I couldn't hold back how much I like her, and that just makes it hurt more. Do I still have a chance? Should I text her? Or did I fuck up real bad?
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>>18547462
> must be 18 years or older to post on 4chan
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Tl;dr Fell for a girl, she wants to get to know me better, hasn't texted me yet
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>>18547462
text her, tell her you enjoyed her company and that you'd like to see her again for coffee or whatever. (if she acts strange about it, just repeat you enjoyed meeting her and that it was a pity things ended on an awkward note, but don't stress this unless it comes up) that's what camp is like; people at close quarters can develop close but superficial bonds that can end just as quickly. out in the real world, you have a better chance of seeing if things could actually work or not.
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I'm all fucked up sexually. I was really depressed throughout high school and turned to masturbation and porn to cope, and it escalated to masturbating to porn 5+ times a day, every day. I graduated 4 years ago and am no longer depressed but still masturbate compulsively every day, about 2-3 times a day. I cannot get erect without physical stimulation and my libido when it comes to actually wanting sex with women is nonexistent. What can I do? Nofap?
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>>18547444
You want to do noporn and fap once per week with LIGHT TOUCH under 10 minutes with your eyes closed lying in bed.
After few montjs your brain should normalize. Good luck!
https://yourbrainonporn.com/
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>>18547444
I was about to start a thread on a similar topic,
but you need to cut porn.
pretty much EVERYBODY is addicted to it, and it's unhealty for your mind.
I'm also 90% sure it's part of the problems with our culture right now.
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>>18547444
This is not a shit post, I swear. (Same boat as you, never got laid till late in college and by that time I had jerked off 3+ times a day since I was a lonely teenager)
Step one:
> Buy a fleshlight and water-based (NOT OIL OR IT BREAKS THE MATERIAL) lube
Step two:
> Heat up the fleshlight insert in your sink by running hot water over it for a minute or two
Step three:
> Lube up, stick the covered end of the fleshlight between your couch coushins/between mattress and bedspring
Step four:
> Fuck that thing without using your hands to get off, keep going till you get bored, tired, or you bust your nut
Those things are scarily similar to a real pussy, and feel a lot closer to actual sex than the rough (but awesome) texture of your hand - makes you draw the connection between your dick and a real vag when you're mimicking all the fucking aspects instead of jerking off
I had very, very bad libido because of jerking it, but after a few weeks of just fucking a fleshlight (some jerking off in between, no reason to quit cold turkey desu) I felt like I was back to more of a standard horniness than before.
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Whenever I have conversation with someone I keep forgetting words. Is there anyway to fix this? Very frustrating and just makes my life so much more unbearable.
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Get more sleep and atay hydrated.
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>>18547360
Use flash cards, put the situation on the front, and the word phrases you want to use on the back. Study them everyday, practice in front of a mirror, etc.
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ye like the other anon says, stay fit.
could also be some nervousness, in that case it's probably a mental block.
can be fixed with practice. (just talk more to people)
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>constantly bored
>barely feel any different no matter what activity i'm doing
Why am I like this?
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>>18547270
Do you socialize (in person and face-to-face) much?
Going to bed after this post so assuming you said "no":
You need to socialize motherfucker. Get outside, call up an old buddy or an acquaintance, and go out for coffee.
Promise you'll feel 20x better afterwards and a lot more open to having fun with a little bit of the stress lifted from being a loner
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>>18547270
That's apathy, and it's usually one of the early signs of depression. A little technique I've found useful is to ask myself in everything I do: do I really need to be doing this? For example:
>watching dumb pointless youtube videos
No.
>spending hours aimlessly browsing 4chan
No.
etc. Basically anything that you don't need to do or are only doing because you can't think of anything else to do, stop. Do something more productive. Even cleaning or organizing things is good, or work on some personal projects. Or like >>18547274 said, go out and socialize. ANYTHING that's not sitting inside doing fuck all and sinking further into ennui.
>Tfw too caring
Been involved with a man for about a year now. Broke up with him 4 months ago but now we are fwb and coworkers.
He used to explode at me for things that aren't that bad. Always to do with behaviors I was doing, like going out with friends. Most of our communication was/is through snapchat. Whenever I would be with friends he would not talk to me on snapchat.
Will be really nice to me but then change and ignore me. I will try to reach out but he will reply with "k" and "oh" to everything I say or express. We aren't even dating but I keep doing it.
Recently we were at work and he told me that if I got a tattoo on my forearm (which I don't even want) he would cut me off. Then spent all shift at work being grumpy. Now won't respond to me.
What do I do? He has a troubled past and I obsess over it. I obsessively look at old pictures and gifts and listen to sad songs and cry alone. All I can think of is how life has been so unfair to him and I don't want anything bad to happen to him and I want to be there for him. But then he does bad things. But I also cry when I picture him with someone else.
I don't know what to do. I just want somebody to slap some sense into me. Nobody in person will.
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i went on a date with the girl i had been crushing on since the beginning of high school just over a year ago (i'm 20), and i fucked it up and we haven't talked much since, and over a year later i still cant stop thinking about it. I saw a picture of her with a shirtless guy in a bathroom selfie today and it crushed me, killed my mood the whole day. now i'm reading through all of our old messages and looking at how stupid i was. how do i stop being like this?
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So what happened
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>>18547442
Nothing particularly crazy, i just missed every sign and opportunity due to inexperience. We hung out, I didn't make any moves or even express romantic interest besides oogling like an idiot, bought the coffee like a beta and then dropped her off after. I would try to set things up for weeks after but she would just give me the busy excuse.
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>now i'm reading through all of our old messages and looking at how stupid i was
Well learn from it, see what you can do better with your next flames. Also it really helps deleting these messages, if they're dragging you down too much.
Get out a little, get to learn new people, it will all seem so irrelevant and absurd once you develop a new - not necessarily romantic - interest.
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Completely change in social situations 2017-07-23 08:01:44 Post No.18547174
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Completely change in social situations
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So Im going into highschool (im a newfag, I know) and I have this problem with social interactions.
See, whenever Im alone, or around really close friends or family, Im an alright guy. Im smart, witty, pragmatic, unapolagetic, charismatic, etc. Im not like some social prodigy, but Id say Im a pretty good guy.
But whenever Im in some social situation, that all changes.
Either I become a recluse, barely talking and just sort of keeping my distance,
Or I become a bafoon. I start saying dumb shit just to keep a conversation going. I becone desperate for laughs making a bunch of shitty jokes way too often. I become clingy and seem pitiful.
This isnt me and I want to be able to behave like my more collected self.
Is this a puberty thing? Do I grow out of it? Is there anything I can do to help it?
Please help, cuz I dont want this shit to continue through highschool.
(14M btw)
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You will be around these people long enough to become comfortable and be able to be yourself. Just wait until you finish school and are not forced into a room with the same people every day. You are going to be one sad lonely motherfucker.
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Any doctors know the best way to treat these type of scars? I've have them for years now. I believe they are hypertrophic
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>>18547157
I hear the best treatment is to finish the job. You've already given yourself all of those scars now you just need to give yourself the one that matters :)
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>>18547157
let's see a picture of the whole lower body
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I was chosen to represent my class for a technology themed quiz bee. Need help finding information 2017-07-23 07:42:32 Post No.18547152
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I was chosen to represent my class for a technology themed quiz bee. Need help finding information
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I already got to regional level last year, but that was because there was no school level to begin with. (school>divison>regional>national) I need to get as much technology (probably science in general, too) related facts, trivia, etc. just in case. Please just leave some links or something for me. Thanks.
Am a newfag btw.
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I had depression once in my life, and for some reason I want to actually go back to that state even though right now I'm healthy and stable. Am I crazy or something else?
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I'd say no because I feel the same. Probably is some ridiculous variant of grass is greener on the other side.
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Perhaps it's because you had a "socially acceptable" excuse for acting like a nutcase?
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>>18547159
This, big part of healing yourself from mental illness (like depression) is realizing the fucked up behaviors you had that formed as a result of the illness rather than a symptom.
(I;e being a shut-in after being depressed, being irritable, etc etc)
Tldr - No, you're not crazy, you likely just have something in your life (a personality trait, a habit maybe) that you need to let go of because it makes no sense for you want to go back to the hellish monotony of depression