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Not having played any game for 4 years but having my most euphoric times while playing games back in the days i had a small idea while reading your post, that you might also have overstimulated your feelings towards expectations and rewards. The point is that you have grinded hard to get this opportunity but it still just a university where the grinding will go on. I also never get this unexplainatory excitement once you reach something and people start to cheer at you like you have accomplished a miracle. In the end you are one unter thousand other people and your university will just start. Deep down you know that it has kind of just started.

People dont know shit most of the time about what you do and what you have done to reach a goal. Probably its their boring lifes that is beein pg brighten up by the success they never had.

In the end it wasnt lottery or luck. It is like work for you. For you it was a steady way, learning, exams and so on. You may even knew this way before getting the place. It was just a justification for your hard work. For them it is : my son send a letter and he got in with luck under all those other people, what a surprise - but was it really for you...

>>18552217
>>18552217
Enjoyment stemming from the material world is ultimately unsatisfying, and even if some pleasure is derived from it the pleasure is temporary. Knowing this, don't seek to become happy by enjoying the fruits of your past karma, but instead search for happiness through spirituality by finding God within yourself.

"O Dhananjaya, rid yourself of all fruitive activities by devotional service, and surrender fully to that consciousness. Those who want to enjoy the fruits of their work are misers."
(Bg 2.50)

"One whose happiness is within, who is active within, who rejoices within and is illumined within, is actually the perfect mystic. He is liberated in the Supreme, and ultimately he attains the Supreme."
(Bg 5.24)

You gotta do what's right by your cousin. Your attraction will eventually subside and it isn't worth hurting him.

If she leaves her man for you, then in a few years you will surely be on the receiving end. I feel bad for your cousin who you have no intention of telling, even if you choose not to act on it what's stopping her from sleeping around on him in the future?

>>18552161
Why do you want to start up with a girl that continues to look around when she is still in a relationship. On top of that its your family. Now had she broken up with him when she had feelings for you and you then went to your cousin and tell him you were going to ask her out then possibly a shit storm would be kept to a minimum. Instead she's telling you she digs you, you dig her but she's still fucking him.

>>18552150
Buy condoms, ask her on date and in case she rejects you, forget about her and find new girl to date/fuck/marry.

Easy.

>>18552139
just give him the number you weirdo, you're going to be living with the dude for fucks sake.

>>18552139
He's prolly going to need it when you live together and he wants to let you know he's bringing a girl over, or locked himself out of the room, so it's handy to have considering most people only check their email once per day.
That said, my first college roommate did the same thing. I just ignored the email.
Dude was a prick though. He was a SJW who tried to get Res Life to evict me over saying nigger over a private phone call.
That said, my point is that socializing with your roommate is optional, espeically when they're some random dude. Make friends with people who aren't your roommate, and don't try to get to know your roommate.

Give him your number

When i did, my roommate and I got in contact via facebook. And we talked like twice. Once like a hey what sup. thats cool whats your major. cool did you see spiderman? kinda stuff. The second time was "hey are u moving in saturday....are u bringing a tv...im bringing a fan...cool cya then". breathe easy man. not a big deal.

>>18552077
Online games, badoo, meetme, hobbies, social events you hate, facebook, discord.

Why dont you get your own gf + career?

>>18552060
>hey, about last night, I was a little wasted and sad some things Id appreciate youd keep just between us. I was just looking to vent but ill work my problems out. thanks
Liquor makes everyone spill their guts, dont sweat it

>>18552108
^ this.

I've done something similar, was mortified, was going to bring it up and be like "forget that please" but they were completely chill about it and even surprised that I was embarrassed. You're probably just normally a cheerful or rowdy drunk and became a morose drunk unexpectedly for once, and can't believe the way you acted, but there are plenty of people who do what you did basically every single time they get very drunk. She'll be used to it.

Sounds good guys, thanks for the reassurance.

>>18552037
I have those too and I don't even know what they are. I have good skin otherwise.

>>18552038
Beats me what they are. Probably skin condition.

My forearms are tan and once I pull my sleeve up it looks like I have the same skin of a ginger. Feels bad.

>>18552056
Same though. I've tried exfoliating and stuff and they never go away.

poop it

Scoop it

why does /adv/ have pasta

Some women pull it off very well, you're just gay

Just tell her so she can get the hell away from you and you can both stop wasting your time.

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>>18552027

Regardless of the women that pull it off well (I agree that they exist), they 100% of the time look better with long hair.

>>18552031

I have no real reason to suspect she's going to do it, I just really want to emphasize how unattractive I find it. It'd be like if I came home looking like Eminem from the 90s.

>>18552019
Depends, can you actually dance or do you at least have a decent feel for rhythm?

>>18552036
I guess I'm average.

I hate living in a very touristic area. Just installed tinder and 90% of the girls are foreigners, and most are 9/10s, seriously. What the fuck, I have zero chances with tinder here.

>>18552092

uh, you have a great chance. you have the advantage that you're a local and can not only show people great clubs but also show them great coffee places, hidden local attractions, dessert cafes nobody else knows about etc

Even if none of that is true all you have to do is find one reasonably nice hipsterish coffee place and one quiet nightclub that serves cocktails and you're golden, these are sufficient tools to fuck any tourist

sounds like a dick, but sometimes in situations where people grow apart, you kind of just have to let him realize how rude he's acting to you + friends. If he doesn't want to be a part of your life, don't try to fix it, because he doesn't seem to care from what you've said. He needs to justify the fact that he is ignoring you, so he makes up reasons to make himself seem like less of a bad dude. I say don't put any energy into a toxic friendship like that, and if he ever comes back and says that he fucked up, maybe give it a second chance.

If anyone has any advice I don't know what to do, im having continual anxiety attacks. I really thought I had something with this music finally but if this is how that ends I really don't know what to do with my life. Me and my friends talked about it and none of us know what to do. Literally we did nothing and I don't even really know why he avoids us. I know it's hard to put this whole situation into words. I'm already suicidal and I've been doing pretty good for the most part with it because I had this music bit now I really don't know what I will do if this falls through. I know I'll loose everything I have done and more than likely all of my friends. I really need help with this. I don't have a gf or anyone like that to confide in. I actually gave up on dating and turned people down bc of this guy or music I don't know what to do!!!!!!

>>18551983
Go to bed
Dream
Profit

Suck ten thousand dicks at $100 a pop.

>>18551983
Realize that people want stuff. There's over 300,000,000 people in the USA. If you work for a company your income is limited to what they pay you. If you sell your own product or service then your payment source is now open to over 300,000,000 people.