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I'm in a conundrum with my living situation.
Long story short, I'm living at my parents' old house for the rest of the year, along with my sister (and her boyfriend, who doesn't live here but is here all the time and keeps all his garbage car parts here)
The problem is, they live like niggers, and I've been cleaning up after them for a year now.

We have assigned rooms that are our "areas" , and the kitchen is a shared area. They leave rotting food sitting on the kitchen counters, in the fridge, and will do insanely niggery shit like stuff the garbage bag until it breaks on the bottom (which I have to clean up) instead of just taking it down and putting in a new liner. They also have car parts and garbage and rotting food just sitting all over my side of the garage (their side is occupied by a piece of shit junker car) and they get away with it because they'll clean and throw all their shit in my sisters' office (which is basically chris chan's house levels of unenterable) the day before my parents visit. I've shown my parents photo and video proof of the rotting food, they can smell the fungus in the kitchen, and they haven't done anything about it (Keep in mind they are trying to sell this house this year.) I've tried asking my sister nicely to clean up after herself but she just has this thing she does where if she is criticized in any way she screams and throws a tantrum.
I'm sick of this. I feed her dog and pick up its shit in the back yard. I do all yard work. I take out the trash every week. Every single chore in this house is done by me. I do their dishes.
How do I get my parents to get them to change or get them the fuck out of here?
Right now there's rotting pizza crusts in the sink and on friday night they splattered macaroni and cheese all over the hall closet door, wiped it halfway off with a towel, and threw it down the stairs into my area.
I'm going to fucking murder them with a gun which I have if this doesn't change.
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Please, anyone help. I feel like I'm going to explode.

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Hey /adv/, I need some help with my iphone.
I'm going to work, so I won't be able to give any further details for the next 12 hours, but basically:
>Not jailbroken
>just cluttered with data, so many pictures
>photos app has been constantly crashing and restoring
>delete excess stuff off my phone
>restart phone
>stuck at white logo

The problem I think is maybe there isn't enough ram (I think that's what it is? I'm not /g/ guy here) so it can't boot up properly cause it can't allocate enough memory or some sciencey stuff.

I appreciate your time in advance.
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>>18554096
>buy an apple product
>breaks up
Congratulations OP, you are officially fucked for life. Just buy a new one, everybody knows you can't "fix" an apple product ever.

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Curious if I can save my future /adv/. I'm a uni student, going into my 3rd year, junior year. I currently sit at 2.53 cumulative GPA. I've been depressed, drinking, etc. Classic bullshitting around and not doing enough. I'm in a major with not many career paths besides a few which are rather competitive. It seems that to succeed, I would need law school.
What do I need to graduate with just to go to one, any law school?
Can I save my GPA? I don't want something amazing, no 3.9 or 3.8, just north of 3.
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work your ass off
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> puts forth the effort
gets rewarded
> pusses out
gets turned into a tranny
you know what to do anon

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I just found out about this topic from a co worker of mine. And I want to know if it's worth the time? If so recommendations?
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>>18554068
There's so much further you can go than this.
It works - but it's a limited map of a vast territory - and it's very very materialistic - and for many people it's a stop point on any spiritual path.
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>>18554553
suprisingly inceptive first response

It's more interesting if we take it to /x/ territory, but the reasons it works aren't really that important, as long as you have faith and let go of desire. In 'The Secret' they focus a lot on visualization. I'd argue that language is more important.

Search "letting go sedona" on youtube for one hour introduction to the Sedona Method. Hale Dwoskin is the most underappreciated teacher in The Secret
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read Claude Bailey - T.N.T

One of my best mates has cheated on his gf in the past. They started living together this year after a few yrs dating and in that year I can name two occasions where he has physically cheated (once just an 'attempted' kiss at a party.. once he told me he 'may' have had sex with a woman on a stag do.. he said couldn't remember because he was so drunk.. ...)

I have a pretty big issue with unfaithfulness as my parents split after one of them cheated.

I obviously want to keep my friend but i think the way he acts towards, and talks about, his gf is pretty bad desu.. How do i reconcile these two sides of my friend?
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You should not concern yourself with another persons relationship.
Just bite the bullet on this one and keep it to yourself.
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yeah that was the advice someone else gave me... :( I think it is probably the best thing to do and I get it but it's so hard to when this guy basically constantly brings it up.

Analogously.. imagine your best mate constantly expressing their opinion about a really controversial topic of conversation that you felt strongly about... so irritating!
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>>18554049
You can try to talk to him about it but there is no telling how he will react.
I recommend just making comments to the stuff he says like "hey that's not cool man" or something along those lines.

>always scared to lose my job
>can't tell my employer because im scared he might think i'm a tweaky loser or a liability
>always try to overcompensate but still slow at work
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the following story may or may not be fictional:
hi! when my friend is drunk my friend, lets call him "anon" is really stupid. Anon went to a party about a week ago and got shitfaced. at the party, anon's friends had "coca-cola" (lets just say the drink) and Anon did not want to snort it because Anon has a drug test coming up. Anon's Drunkass isnt very smart, and had never had coke before. Anon's his smart ass thought rubbing it on his gums would have no effect so he picked up some with his finger and "gummed" it. Anon knows this won't show on a urine test but would this ammount show on a hair test?

help for anon is appreciated, thanks in behalf of my fictional friend.
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>>18554021
You're good
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Anon go to sleep youre drunk

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As I said, I just need to take this out. feel free to comment, ask, write more… meh, It's just a last thing to do… well:

Shit. Today I typed her name in the search bar again. My current girlfriend once talked about ending our cycles. People need to do it to have a happy life. I wanted to know what had happened to her, last thing I heard was that she got engaged. I wonder if she’s happy. Some time ago I promised me to stop looking for her online, this is it. It's done. This is the way i can think to say goodbye.

Morocco always called for me, yet Mona gave the land a face… a voice. Oh boy what a voice. Always traveling to help her dad. I loved her smile and would have done everything to see that pretty smile each day. Sometimes she was sad, and was a kind of sadness that stays. I tried to promise me that I would take her out of that place. Some days ago I found a photo of her inside my passport, I printed it for the journey to Morocco. Shit, that girl pulled me back to the ground… hard. When I think of her I’m like a child. I’d like to think it would have worked somehow. I hope she was able pursue that fashion designer career.

I loved that girl, she set me on my way to Morocco. Everything would have been pretty, as she liked. Pink, everything good was pink for her. Yet I know neither life is all pink, nor am I able to live that kind of life.

I would have liked to say goodbye, Mona. Kanbghik.
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>>18553997
So, what is the advice you are looking for OP? Can't give you one when you just want to rant.

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How do I stop being sarcastic?

>skype for business conversation
>boss is saying he has to run an errand and might be late to our 1:00 PM meeting
>say, "no worries, if we're not there, you know where to find us."
>been playing this over in my head and thinking that I probably sounded like a sarcastic prick who doesn't respect my superior

Maybe I'm just over thinking this, but I feel like I'm too sarcastic sometimes, and I would like to know how to be more matter of fact, straight forward, and to the point with things.
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19, 2nd year in college, renting an apt, no local family, few friends.

I've had a off and on distanced relationship with a girl from highschool. I graduated two years ago, she graduates this year.(19 vs 17)

Her mother is a control freak and won't let her talk to anyone, or have any friends. She's come to school with black eyes, bruises, etc. Obviously any communication with me is a no-no.

Our relationship after I graduated has been based solely on our ability to communicate, hence the off and on bit.

Lately she gave me her address and we've been exchanging letters.

She has told me when she graduates she is moving in with me and expects us both to move to a college town in AL, however I'm on far better terms with my family (not to say there aren't serious issues, similar circumstances brought us together) and I'm not keen on leaving TN. I was kicked out of reserves AIT (92F) for behavioral health reasons this year and am motivated to re-enlist next year. I won't fit the 2 year re-enlist window if I spend next summer tied down.

Even better, no one knows about the relationship. I don't want it to look like I'm running away with a girl I just met.
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>>18553891
Cool blog post. The fuck you want advice on
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>>18553891
Man its your life and that girl is not your responsibility. No matter what your needs come first unless you have a child but that's not the case. Don't let someone else choose your life for you. It only makes you miserable.
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>>18553891
Everything depends on how much do you two want each other, OP. Is the relationship solid? Because if you are both having family-related issues and little friends, you can unironically play the "romantic runaway" game and it can work out. You just have to be 100% sure she's right for you.

If there are any doubts at all, she might not be worth the effort and maybe you should focus on fixing your own mess of a life instead, and have her fix hers.

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Are there any services similar to prostitution, except it's just someone that hangs out with you and is nice to you?
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prostitution with the gf experience
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>>18553864
Get an escort. It's expensive, but they are literally up to everything you suggest when you pay their price. You can even suggest a roleplay where they act as your girlfriend.
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I have seen ads like this on craigslist.

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I need help in getting people to forget who I used to be
>in past years I had explosive anger
>like it got really bad but it's gone now
>I've gotten better and all that, but I need to rebuild burnt bridges
how do I go about it?
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>>18553854
Get new friends, it's what I always did.
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>>18553854
Talk to the people who experienced your anger explained you have changed and offer them proof.
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Phone them up and say something like "Hey, it's Anon. I'm sorry for those things that I did back then. I got some help and I feel much better now. I would like to meet up sometime and reconnect. If you say no then I will understand."

If they do say no then you just forget about them because they aren't willing to give you another chance.

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So I have a voice in my head that's my voice and only talks to me occasionally. I have already had psychosis in the past with much worse symptoms with a flurry of voices that were much more hate driven. I don't wanna go back to therapy, pay 200$ every month for abilify or fucking risperidone thats made me gain a ton of weight that I had to work off. Do I need it really, will it get worse again? P.S. The pic is just something retarded I found while looking for advice.
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>>18553852
The voice is a manifestation of your mother or father. It's built in defense mechanism for survival.

Or the voice is an alternate you. That you can talk to because growing up you had no one to talk to but yourself.

But in general the voices that are in our head are just things we create and can go away. It's an extension of our self.

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This morning I came back from my run and there was all this shit in my head and I got really angry and upset and I hurt myself to feel better. How dosen't matter but I'm bandaged up at the moment.
I haven't done anything like this since I was a kid. What should I do to make sure this dosen't happen again?
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>>18553840
STOP CUTTING YOURSELF YOU FUCKING IDIOT

PUNCHING A WALL WOULD'VE BEEN BETTER HOW DARE YOU THINK YOUR THE PROBLEM EEEEEEEEEEESUGGGDFHFDDG STOP IT
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>>18553840
Find out where the anger is coming from. Problems don't get solved by trying to forget them.

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How can I find an american girl who isn't egotistical or bitchy?
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>>18553700
Meet more people.
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>>18553700
>Neptune
>tiddies
What the fuck? Is he high?

Oh wait.
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>>18553723
It's clearly one of the tity mousepads.

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