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I'm now 20 but when i was 17 i killed a wolf to protect my girlfriend. A wolf was walking towards her in the woods. I hit that that wolf with my sled. I ran after that wolf who was at first roaring after me then ran in the direction of the one i love. I put on the thing you put in your feet the winter so you don't sink in the snow. I ran after it for 300 meters. I grabbed it by his tail. It bitted me. I thought i was going to lost my hands. I grabbed by his tail and drag it to the road. Started to choke it with my hands. For 10 mins i choked it. It's didn't died. So i drag it to my sled and toke a rope and killed it with it. For a year i knew i did this to save my girlfriend. After 1 year and a half she cheated on me. Then i regreted to had saved her life. I would prefer not to let her get eated by that wolf. But to have been killed by that wolf. Because that wolf was a lone wolf, like i am today. Just trying to survive
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>>18556683
1 like = 1 prayer
1 share = 1 wolf birth
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Cool, so what's your question?
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>>18556683
fucking kek'd. should've let the wolf kill you instead.

Hello, /adv/.

I'll be graduating med school at the end of this year, in my shitty third world country. Here the course lasts 6 years and you have to take another 2 or 3 years in order to become an specialist.

The thing is: I'm panicking. I've never been so afraid. I'm afraid I won't save my patients and I'm afraid I'm not good enough. I feel too underprepared compared to my colleagues...

The only jobs available for new doctors in me country are emergency rooms in shitty public hospitals. I want to be good at managing emergencies but I feel that I lack the "something", you know? I'm good at thinking. I come up with the right diagnosis, the right treatment and the right doses, but when it comes up to Procedures I'm just awful. I can't do this shit under pressure.

Today I had to intubate this woman at the emergency room and I failed. My teacher was clearly disapointed. What if I was alone?
I feel like crap and I feel I won't ever become a real doctor.

I want to become an Ophtalmologist, but the admission tests are as hard as the ones to get into med school, so chances are I'll be studying for 1 year or 2 before I manage to pass. Meanwhile I have to work. But damn it... Sometimes I think about just quitting it all. I feel I wasn't made for this.

What would you do in my place?
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I would;

Keep going, sounds like your doing a great job.

Work on the difficult area, perhaps by making some changes to your lifestyle and being a little more realistic with your thinking (I'm never going to be good = I need to practice more)

Think about your teacher as a mentor rather than a judge, ask for specific feedback and help. It's likely that a lot in your field feel (or have felt) this way.

Acknowledge that you're taking on a big and challenging career, and that generally, you will (and probably already are doing) more good than bad.

If you have people available for counselling or other forms of support, go for it.

Basically, seek out some help and support before you make a decision. Learning is like this, you're meant to feel somewhat hopeless or out of your depth at times- it's a sign that you're learning and you can definitely do this. You study to learn how to be good, not vice versa.

If you really feel after some long consideration that you're not up to the task, start working out a plan for what you're going to do.
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>>18556714
Thanks for the detailed advice. I really appreciate that.

I wish I were just ~born a natural~. Or that I had rich doctor parents who would set me up with nice working opportunities.

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A couple months ago i started texting my highschool crush. we texted almost everyday and when we finally had the chance to see each other after a few months since we started texting we kissed, a lot, and she even let me finger her over her panties. That day i told her i wanted her to be my gf and she said "yes" after kissing me with passion. Know that we can't see each other until the next month she doesn't talk to me. I initiate conversations but she always let them die, not answering, she hasn't even answered something i directly asked her a week ago but i always see that she is posting things in facebook. What should i do? it will all go smooth after we can see eachother again?
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As the title sad, in the past few days I've had dreams about the same girl. Nothing that special content wise, we just talked on facebook and I'd usually wake up after it. What we talked about, I can't say since it was blurry and I didn't see shit, but I'd always wake up and check my facebook to see if she sent something new or was online. We aren't friends for a long time, it all began a month and half ago when we met at a concert and have been talking since, because we're a couple of hundred kilometers apart.

Can someone explain if this means something, which I'm sure it does, since having the same person multiple times in a span of a week surely must mean something. Help appreciated, thanks in advance.
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>>18556627
Okay irl do yall fb talk a lot? Like hrs n hrs throughout the day?

The drawback is that y'all live far apart from each other. Unless you're going to meet up soon then the dream means nothing. It is the last thing that you did before you fell asleep so it is fresh on your mind when you are sleeping.
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>>18556639
Yeah, we talked a lot since we met.

We are supposed to meet this autumn, but I think there's more at play here, I might have legitimately developed feelings for her that bypass friendship and I think that's the reason why I suffer, because I know she'll never be mine and that the chances for it are non-existent. I probably should cut her off and move on, but I just can't, she means too much for me in order to do so. I'm not even hoping I'll be with her, I just want her to be content with her life and have a good one, nothing more or less than that.

This is not a thread looking for pitty, i'm curious about how relationships work and couldn't express myself in the title.

I had two girlfriends (I had to broke up with the first after 1 year because i moved away from this city... Then had to break up with the second after two years because i came back lol, long distance relationships sucks)

I sincerely don't know why they liked me. I'm an average person with average beauty, average hobbies etc. Sounds pretty boring, right? Everyone else can do what i can, sometimes better. They constantly called me cute. There's lots of cuter people out here. They told me i'm really good with words and knew what to say to make them happy didn't matter how bad their day was. But there's lots of more romantic people out there. I can play the usual guitar and drums for myself, and i'm not even good, i don't know any romantic songs to play in a cold rainy night. Still they always asked me to play some songs i doubt they liked.

Why not find someone better?

>I may sound retarded and indifferent, but i sincerely don't understand. I really loved them but didn't understand why they liked me. What motivates people to stay with someone and stop looking for something better?

And no, i didn't look for something better because i liked them. That's good for me but i don't understand why someone else would feel like this. It's irrational.
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That's just it you're average. Too many guys date girls just to get in their pants (and hey some women want this) or are redpilled neckbeards that women associate "nice guys finish last" with them. It's admirable to not be a legendary piece of garbage so good job OP.
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>>18556619
The heart wants what it wants. There doesn't need to be a more complicated answer than that.

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Hi, /adv/, I've got this issue I've been trying to overcome but I need some help.

Years ago while in high school, I had a bad run-in with marijuana and had issues on/off issues with panic attacks for months. It was especially worse when I was anywhere near marijuana. Somewhere down the line, it stopped. Truthfully, I cannot remember why. (Maybe it was my beliefs or maybe it just no longer bothered me.) I became completely fine and could

Fast forward roughly 5 years later and here I am. A few months ago, I tried smoking again and was very close to an attack. Since then, I have had issues with being nervous. It's now to the point where I lost my job from being unable to get to work because it's outside of my "comfort zone" (which is my (mom's) house). When I leave and go anywhere that's outside of a 10-minute drive (or not a friend's house), I get the feeling.

Of course, I want to fix this as soon as possible but I don't know what to do.
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If anyone knows anyother websites besides cs.rin.ru for steam content sharing, so you can crack the steam game, could you piont me too them?
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Is there a way out of the 9-5 paper pushing life? I fee like a normie slave and I just can't help but feel that I'm not cut out for this life. I was happier as a college student with no money eating ramen and doing MRI's for beer money.
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it's not for me either, Gonna train to be an Electrician though at least then the hours are more flexible
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healthcare. Doctors I know work 24/7 12 days on 12 days off, nurses work 3 days on 3 off as 12 hour shifts. Do some googling, nursing isnt just "lol doctor will see you now" work like you think.

There's also almost-nurses and almost-doctor type jobs that pay less, but same thing.
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>>18556611
Sick people are disgusting

Is it worth taking Accutane to reduce facial scars and to clear my skin?

I use to have clear skin but. I was a retraded teen and picked my acne with my hands.
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>>18556572
Accutane only clears the skin. You'll need topical treatments for scarring. If you have pits the only thing you can do to get rid of them is get your face lasered.

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I'm 25 years old, I have a full time job and I'm on the career path I wish to be on.

However I can't help but having this fear of missing out, or this fear that I'm falling behind. Sometimes I see former classmates working in the city and I can't help feel like I'm stuck and everyone else is moving on with their life.

I can't help but have this feeling time is running out and I have to do something.
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What is your job and what is your career path? You honestly expect us to answer this question without knowing what field you are in and what you are doing?
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>>18556524
I want to be an actuary, I'm working beneath them doing calculations.

It's not just my career path, it's everything else like with relationships I feel like I'm falling behind as some people are getting married

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i am asking for advise but dont know if this is the right place to ask about this buuuuut i want to know how to lucid dream.
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>>18556479
Two methods that worked for me:

1- Sleep normally, set an alarm for 5h after you fall asleep. When you wake up, don't turn on any lights or anything, just try to stay away for ~30 minutes. Once you fall back asleep, you should be able to achieve lucidity.

2- Pretend you're playing a piano. With just two fingers, gently move them up and down as if to tap on two keys. Do this until you fall asleep. Make sure the hand movements are very subtle and take little to no energy to do.
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Pretend you're a sausage, and roll around in a counter clock wise motion.

Any good anime figures that are cheap?
(From $10 to $100)
Recommendations?

(Pic related )
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I'm 21 and I really feel like I need to get my shit together.
What do you do for a living? How did you find out you wanted to do it? What did you need to do to get there? Was it tough? Do you like it?
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>slowly and painfully been deciding to delete the last of my two remaining online "friends", one for literal years and one i started giving up on just months back
>can't just do it, get filled with anxiety when i right click their names and hover over Delete
>confront the one of the two which i still manage to care about, tell them that i'm going to be doing it because there's no friendship left
>they are okay with it, but they very clearly state that they're really sad about it and that they'll miss me and shit
>they fucking tell me this only after being told that i no longer consider us friends, BECAUSE they never talk to me anymore, they never want to do anything together anymore, they are very obviously deliberately avoiding me and then tell me that they're not
what
the
fuck
do
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>>18556399
Man if it's not working for you and you don't feel that friendship there anymore than cut them lose. Honestly it might be easier if you make some new friends first, or start making them so you have some other things to look forward to.
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>>18556416
*loose
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>>18556416
>>18556418
I dunno man, I'm convinced that I'm autistic or some shit, but I'm not going to discuss that today.
I don't know what friendship is supposed to be anymore I guess. I don't know what a friend is, I don't remember what it feels like to have one anymore, or do I but I just don't see it?
I don't know where in my life my world view went so wrong.

Deleting the one of these two that I care about (honestly the other one I don't really have any qualms with removing, thinking about it) would leave me at a literal grand 0 amount of friends. A huge issue here is that I haven't been "able" to make a new friend in maybe a decade because I've just lost interest in it. A few people have approached me in real life, they've been totally entertaining to be around, I've even given them my information, but then I get home and I see that they've added me and I just lose any interest, or maybe I dread adding them from previous experiences, even more when they've met me in real life.

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Is it weird that the more i grow up the less i wonder about the after life, become more worry about my future, andyet still feel sad about it
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