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Well I was depressed since Junior year of high school (at least that's the earliest I can remember it)
It was not really doing much to me other than killing my motivation, Which I managed to occasionally find again before, the most recent return of it being that I finally stopped just thinking about buying a new computer/battle station if you will
Which would finally encourage me to be productive and what not.

HOWEVER
A few days ago my friends who are still high school age got into some stupid drama with these 2 random fuckboys who feel like they have something to prove. They have hit 2 of my friends and scrapped with another
And in both situations tried to start with me as well and falsely accusing me of saying things on Facebook when I don't have one

My one friend told me it is over so long as we don't mess with them but I don't feel like it's going to end
All I can think about these past few days is what I would say if I ran into them or what will I do if more fighting happens
It's completely crushing what little upward momentum I have and making everything seem hopeless and pointless

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How do I become an interesting and passionate person and stop feeling worthless as a person?

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I've just recently split up with my gf of nearly two years.

She started arguing with me all the time about this petty fucking thing that happened at the start of the relationship (I'd taken MDMA and told this girl I had blocked her cos the GF was a paranoid scitzo - which she'd told me before. And had also said "she sets off my paranoia")

Bit of a dick move on my behalf, but I was ducked up on MDMA and thought it was a good thing to say. Anyway, months and months pass and it's all going well, then she starts bringing it up and arguing with me all the time, not always over that either, the most mundane shit. We needed the door fixing so we got a dude to come around and fix it, after that he never really left, we became good friends with him, but my girl seemed to get pretty close to him, then eventually phased me out and replaced me with.

How can I forget this slag folks?

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What does she mean by this /adv/?

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I don't know if I'm asking for advice or whatever but I'm definitely here to say anything

I used to be on the internet like every day. Its been since... 07? I think. I was around on 4 and 8 chans and recently tried 7 but its full of cancer, so... yeah.

Don't really see a reason to anymore. Now I'm 20, i know, still too young to be saying this shit but the internet isn't fun anymore and I know its not my age. I'm tired. I went through myspace. I went through facebook in all of its eras. Old friends came and went and all it landed me was everyone leaving and one australian girl head over heels for me. I used to make all sorts of absurd plans with more than 4 girls every week. Even when i didn't care I could still maintain all of that. Now I don't care

After some family issues and being in community college for 2 years now, and having shit grades, my mom's been telling me to get a job. I don't mind, really. I just don't know where to start. I have my resume. I pick up applications. But everytime i start filling them out... i stop. Tell myself i've skated by without making any effort on my part until highschool graduation, so why should i try now? I can't really play video games like i used to around my family. It was the only thing that carried me through so far. And here I am on the last week of my summer math class...

I dunno if i'll even pass or fail. Makeup quiz and finals coming up. Two days until makeup, finals on monday.


Pic unrelated I just delete everything on my phone and needed something. Also dump porn for future threads

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I've been hooking up with a girl who was pretty adamant about not having feelings for me. Our sex has been great, but I am worried she is catching feelings and wants a relationship.

She has been texting/snapping me a lot which I kind of ignore and she keeps asking to hang out whilst on her period. Should I end it if I have no intention of a relationship? Or keep fucking like a dog while I can.

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Right now I make just enough to squeeze by on my own with my current job and save about $10/week.

I get the same amount of hours every week but my shifts start at different times during the day.

Between school, work, sleep, and leisure I have about 4 hours of 100% free time I'd like to use to make money.

I can't get a job because my shifts start at random times and I don't have much control over it.

Is there a way for me to make some money at non-specific times? Preferably at home.

I'd like to make at least $4/hr this way.

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Hi, I want to learn English but I don't have money to pay a course, what do you recommend to me?

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How do I fix myself?

Last Time I tested myself I got told by the test I'm a ENTJ, but this new test told me I'm a ENTP.

Which really fucking sucks.
I got told by someone I was simply an ENTP with a developed J side.

Which fucking sucks.

It's like I hate to waste time (by the ENTJ part), I love to be busy and working.

But at the same time I procastinate a lot and I'm unorganized (by the ENTP part).

It fucking sucks, a lot.

I just wanna procrastinate less and focus more on practicing drawing and art.

It feels like I have both sides and every side fight with each other and you simply keep wasting more time.

It sucks.

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'sup /adv/,

So I've been talking to this girl and we've been talking about our first date. Our plan so far is to binge-watch some show on Netflix at her house. Does that necessarily mean she wanna smash?

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Is it wrong that I use Grindr for validation?
I'm not gay. But all I did was post a picture of me in a collared shirt and I start getting tons of "hello" and "hi there" and blatant requests to fuck me.
It's all so incredibly flattering. I'm addicted to it. Shame it's from the wrong gender.

Is this unhealthy in the long run? I'm really not gay

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Do you guys think I'm wasting my time? Right now im taking general ed units at a community college, with hopes of transferring in 2-3 years as a business major. Starting the spring semester, im also planning to take an industry trade as an aircraft mechanic, and continuing the community college units with night classes. My problem is that I'm pretty indifferent to getting a degree in business, even though it'd be nice to have. It's moreso because I'm don't want to dissapoint my parents who are very adamant about me going to college. My biggest fear is time and debt. I don't plan to take out any loans, and having the job as an aircraft mechanic will help in paying for college, so my biggest fear is time. I'm scared that I won't have time to apply for internships if I'm working/going to school as a mechanic while also going to college, especially since I want to do a bunch of other things on the side, like going to a programming boot camp while also doing self studies online. I want to get all of this done before I hit my late 20's, (19 right now). I'm also not exactly a work-a-holic, coming off as rather average/sub in terms of getting things done. How screwed am I?

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I need advice: what the fuck do I do? I seriously struggle with depression but medication is not an option. I planned to go into the air Force to pay for college but now I'm thinking of air Force ROTC because it's the same time commitment and pay is better and you get school out of the way before you forget everything. Problem is idk what the fuck I want to do. I'm in really good shape and I'm reasonably smart with high test scores and a low gpa. I'm going into my senior year. I thought I wanted to be an engineer but I have no idea wtf I want to do. Most of the time I'm just depressed, unless I'm around people. When I'm with friends I'm mostly good but idk can someone give me pointers on a life path? A career? Pros and cons of suicide?

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>Like girl
>Openly hit on her
>Talk to her alot
>Find out she likes me back
>Instantly get extremely anxious
>Drop her and avoid her at Uni
>This has happened multiple times

What is this mental illness called, and how do i medicate it?
I mean, I have no problems talking to girls. it's just that when i find out I may have a chance with a girl, I get so fucking anxious I can't help it.

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Greetings /adv/, I'd like to ask for advice on how to keep concentration during studies. I'm somewhat hyperactive, get bored easily and can't stay away from youtube and facebook for long.

Is there any manual activity that I can perform during studies so i can maintain concentration and not get bored? I tried drawing but that can distract too much. I also tried playing simple games but that requires pausing and alt-tabbing when I need to type.
Thanks in advance!