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I focused on a tvs shows visual detail with trance like focus for like 10 minutes and now I notice much more detail perception of everything I look at , but the emotional aspect has been turned way down. Like I'm analyzing purely on visual info. It's an interesting perception shift. I have done this before but can't remember how long or what I did to return emotional perception fully Anyone experience this or know why this happens
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{Little back story of myself.}*I'm a junior in high school, still live with my parents, and I don't drive* So I'm currently talking to a girl, but she lives in another town.(Let's call her Bella) (We're talking because we are interested in each other and would like to date each other) She lives in the same state, just an hour away. But there's a few other girls I'm interested in and want to talk to. And here's the thing, Bella is so great, she's funny and cute and super laid back and even smokes pot and is into me a lot. But so are these few other girls. Bella is more on the heavier side of weight and a few other girls are T H I C C but thin. I don't really know what to do and I don't want to hurt anyone.
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Give up on it, was in many situations like that (just graduated high school) all I can say is just give up on it. It's really not worth the effort and time, girls can be flakey and aren't always the way they appear to be if you haven't seen her in person yet. The description you gave of her sounds like 75% of all high school girls. Just try the other girls your interested in
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You're a kid. It doesn't matter what you do. Do whatever and learn from your mistakes. Also, come back when you are 18.
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Get out there, and get some new ass... y'know what I'm sayin'? You done ran that other ass in the ground, right? You ran that shit in the ground, and you're movin' on.
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How do I get people on /v/ to stop derailing my threads?
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>>18557499
Nothing you can do, can't control what other people do.
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>>18557499
>/v/
You don't. I wonder why I still go to the shit hole
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Only post images strictly about video games and stop posting "what games let me do *insert off topic thing here*"
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I have a group of friends that I've known for most of my life but I have come to realize that regardless of all the things I do, I get the shit end of the stick. I'm the only one who apologizes, admit hes wrong, show up on time, tries to fix the situation, be there for others, or at least tries to change myself to make things better for the group. But no one else does anything, we still have the guy who care less about anyone in the group and rages the hardest when we play games, or the guy who always insists hes correct and refuses to admit he is stupid, or the guy with the sensitive feelings who can't take it when he isn't invited to things or if someone disagrees with him just a little. All these guys take it to the extreme but if I stand up for myself or disagree with someone, its causing drama and makes people uncomfortable. But of course they let everyone else get a free pass or tip toe around the sensitive people. I'm unsure if I'm the issue here in thinking that I'm holding them to a higher standard or if I'm just pretending that these group of people were my friends and should just cut my ties with them.
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Seems like you are growing up and taking some form of responsibility while they are still playing "muh vidya games!". Cut your losses.
>"bro just ask out 100 girls, 1 of them is bound to say yes"
>*ask out 100 girls*
>get rejected by all of them
>feel ever worse than ever before
WTF gives, I'm not even that bad of person and I'm treated like I'm Rocky Dennis or something.
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>>18557449
You're either ugly, overtly desperate, or really boring.
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>>18557449
>I'm Rocky Dennis or something
If you were actually Rocky Dennis in this day and age you would actually have a higher chance of getting a girl, because you know "progressives"
You're fine, who cares about rejection, at that rate you will soon just brush it off as if it was nothing and move on.
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You didnt actually do that though.
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I've been getting less and less social for about three years. At this point I'm almost a hikikomori.
I have no money and have developed serious anxiety in situations that involve more strangers than familiar people. I have only a few friends left now which means I'm almost always anxious in social situations (unless drinking).
What are some easy ways for losers to make friends that won't set me up for failure. I'm eager to get back to being the guy I used to be and step one is getting social again.
$50 says that most of /adv/ wants advice rather than has the experience to give it but any help is good help.
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How does one confront a fear?
By immersing yourself in your fear. There's no way around it. Join some sort of club, go to church if that's your thing, and get a job. Things will eventually get easier. But if you don't try you'll never succeed.
Always keep in mind everyone is worried about themselves too much to worry about you. so don't worry about embarrassing yourself. People have short memories as long as you aren't a dick.
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I've done that. I joined a club my friend goes to but distanced myself from him intentionally while I was there. I managed to make one acquaintance and apparently added a few folks while I got blotto one night but I also did some stupid shit and now I feel weird about heading back there. Also I pretty much can't really afford that hobby any longer.
As for a job, naturally, but I've never made any friends at work that extend outside of work. I don't remember how to go from friendly acquaintance to friend anymore. Most of my friends were super social and just decided I was part of their group now.
There have been numerous times where I've been hyper social, even the lynch pin in certain groups but as I am now I can't even begin to imagine how to replicate that. I just cannot remember how I got to that point.
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>"I've done that"
Yea? So what? Friendship requires some level of effort. Socializing is a muscle, if you don't work it you can lose it.
I don't know what to tell you, there's no magic cure. You have to constantly put yourself out there. My advice is learn to be a GOOD listener. Everyone loves hearing themselves talk, and everyone loves a good listener.
If willpower isn't enough you may need to consider therapy.
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As of late it seems that my friends have been ignoring me and I am wondering if it is because I am an asshole. Any advice on how to be a better friend?
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if we dont know what you are doing wrong, we can't tell you how to fix it.
all we can say is 'do better'.
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>>18557396
i will add however that you should not force a change so extreme that you lose your intrinsic sense of self. its okay to feel the way you do about everything that happens, its how you react to things that define whether or not you are an asshole, but you don't need to go too far to compensate.
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This happened to me a while back as well. I think they best thing you can do is be open about it with your friends. Ask them if youve done anything wrong recently and apologize/improve if you have. Emphasize how much you value their friendship.
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Let's talk about fake copycat people. I've watched a girl for the past 7 years. the past year or two as she has gotten older i have noticed she steals memes. copies things people say. copies everything. its so bad i know when shes still watching me because she will copy me too. she is also fake. ive watched her say things to boyfriends thinking thats what she should say or what they want to hear. i knew it was all bullshit. ive experienced this same thing with her mom. ive had her mom talk to me and she uses the same verbal attacks i used on her back on me. i have mixed feelings about her fakeness. any thoughts on what makes people behave this way? in a way i like how she thinks. but i find it more interesting than anything else...
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to connect with people in a fimiliar way to that person
Anyone got some decent stories that I can regurgitate in interviews? I've got no work experience, but I know I can do the vast majority of jobs I apply for. Despite that, any job regarding customer service expects me to give them some story about how I went to the ends of the earth for some customer, or had the patience of Buddha with an angry customer and made them voluntarily suck my dick in the end.
I'd rather just say that I don't have any stories to tell because I don't fuck up to the point where I have a story, but clearly just being a non-retarded employee doesn't cut it for most
tl;dr give me your best interview stories to get across how amazing you are while being believable
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Tell them you identify as a non-binary,trans,gender fluid, pan sexual, ecosist.
Thank me later.
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Literally lie. Bullshit about how you had a project with a girlfriend in school who became an ex-girlfriend while doing the project, and how you were able to set that aside to complete the project, or something like that.
Say that there was a dude who was buying gallons of paint, and insisted that you stack 2 cans to a single plastic bag, even though you knew it was a dumb idea, and how you tried telling him, but he wasn't having it, so you did as he asked, only to have the paint break through the bag and burst open on the parking lot.
Never underestimate the stupidity of people. No matter what bullshit you weave, it will be believable that somewhere, somebody did it.
My friend was working at the customer service center of Cabela's while working in college, and a guy called convinced that Cabela's could create a polar bear suit to his measurements.
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Girlfriend doesn't send me nudes or even lewds anymore, says she's never in the mood for it. Last time I sent anything was maybe a month ago. She's self-conscious as fuck. Longish distance (hour drive away). I think I'm getting progressively less sexually attracted to her and I think that's one of the main reasons, with the overarching reason being that it seems like she's putting less and less effort into being sexy. I love her and care for her but I don't want to just fuck a hole, I want to fuck a sexy woman. Tips or anything really is appreciated. I'm 21 she's 20.
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An hour drive is NOT long distance. If you can't be bothered to do it to see her in person, you'rre a lousy boyfriend.
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Are you doing anything for her? Maybe she has become less sexually attracted to you too.
Where in Portland or Seattle can I take my dog scootering or to play treibball (kind of like soccer but just the dog and its owner and some exercise balls)? And I mean within city limits. No suburbs.
Definitely prefer dirt paths for scootering, but this isn't a requirement. I don't like dog parks.
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discovery park anon
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Portland and Seattle are and hours drive apart. Are you willing to drive for 3 hours just to play soccer with your dog?
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Thanks.
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No, just something to help me decide between two cities I'm considering moving to and what neighborhoods to live in. My dog is very high energy, so close proximity to parks to get her energy out is essential.
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>work in house video production for a university
>get told my shoots take too long and I bring too much equipment
>supervisor sends me a series of videos he wants to emulate
>asks the school how they did it
>full shoot with lights, boom pole, cue cards, and rehearsals
Why does nobody take me seriously or take me at my word? How do I become a FORCE that people LISTEN to, and not QUESTION?
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You will never not be questioned. I testified in court as an expert witness last week and the defense attempted to discredit me on the stand. Obviously. It doesn't matter who you are.
If you know your shit, be firm and polite about it. Do your job well but don't be afraid to advocate for yourself. That's all there is to do.
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>why does nobody take me seriously
because its at a university. doesn't matter if you're a worker. their film students. they think they know everything and they are the chosen artist who is going to change the way people watch movies and you're just some guy who got stuck working at a university.
>how do i become a force that people listen to, and not question?
by using your leverage against them. people don't question the big buff guy because they worry he will beat them up. people do not question the big boss because he will fire them. They don't question a teacher (traditionally) because the teacher will give them a bad grade.
if you don't have power why would anyone be afraid to question you?
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>I testified in court as an expert witness last week and the defense attempted to discredit me on the stand.
Of course they did, it's their job. Did you actually go into court as an expert witness and expect everyone to just accept what you're saying?
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Looking for my GCSE results for my CV, I searched through the "family box". You know, the "box". What I saw deeply saddened me.
In it I saw me, young and happy. I saw pictures of me and my friends. I don't have those anymore.
Pictures of fun. I don't have that anymore.
Half remembered events, hazy memories of a time I lost, and distant family members whose names I've forgotten.
I didn't find what I was looking for.
After the nostalgia trip, I was brought back to my reality. An utterly failed life. Lads I'm 18, living with mum, no job, I've gimped my college experience and A-Levels, I have no social life, and I don't think I can fix it.
I saw decade old school reports, "Anon is progressing well", "Anon is very outgoing", "he has such a sense of humour". Old Birthday cards. I've not had a birthday card now in 4 years.
How the fuck did I let this happen? I'm up at fucking 6 in the morning playing games, wanking, and posting on the British general of the international board on an anime image site. Sure, this wouldn't be bad as a one off, this used to be part of the good times, but this is my entire life now. EVERY. CUNTING. DAY. IS. THE. SAME.
Please, lads, I need someone to hold me.
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I don't know man, What is worse, that or when I was going through some stuff to move away for college and I found my old school reports
>anon does not participate well in class
>anon is disruptive in class
>anon may have emotional problems
>anon does not maintain friendships with other children
But I'm living on my own and doing well in school.
quit whining, and get back on track, loser.
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>>18557223
Lad, ignore this tosspot >>18557227
how shit were your A levels, no chance of uni?
>I have no social life, and I don't think I can fix it.
>18
If you were 26 it still wouldn't be too late, what exactly is stopping you from joining a club and meeting people? anxiety? money? what?
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>18 living with mum
>be 26 living with mum
You've got room to fail yet
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How Can I get this? I don't want sex all I want is a girl to sit on my face, thats all.
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You probably wont get it without also having sex. Maybe go visit a hooker, OP.
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>>18557194
You're looking for a femdom relationship.
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>be American
>fall for Swede 7 years older
>have strict parents
How hard will it be to close our distance gap? Is moving to another country too far fetched if I'm a retarded burger?
Any LDR advice/experience is greatly appreciated.
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