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Call the college u were supposed to go into and see what they say

>>18712087
Hmm that's a good idea. It's worth the try I guess. Meant to post this 3 hours ago btw.

>>18712051
DO NOT REPLY TO THIS POST

OP is a mentally unstable person who posts the same query every single day, sometimes every few hours. He gets helpful replies, ignores them, and posts again tomorrow.

Don't waste your time, energy or good will on him.

>>18712116
this is my first post and I would really appreciate some help

>>18712170
Op from?

>>18712018
No. The paedo posse are not interested in people who stumble into a bad site and get right out again. They only want the people who download multiple gigs of the stuff.

>>18712118
that and uploaders, obviously
except for that, it's unlikely you actually stumbled upon something sketchy unless you already looked up some suspicious terms

>>18712002
As I told you last time, the fact that you've fucked pretty girls (without having to pay them) is a pretty good sign that you're just fine. I know it may seem hard to believe, but you're probably good looking! It may not feel like that because of your self-esteem, but you have to realize that your view of the world may be skewed a bit because of your issues. Just because you may feel ugly or believe you're ugly doesn't believe that you actually are!

>>18712002
Work on your self esteem chad. It's that simple. Stop focusing on bullshit.

Stupid too, I see. Ask him.

>>18711890
If he's a foreign exchange student then he already has issues surrounding being a foreigner in another country, do you really think he wants to add "im also gay" to the equation?

Just talk to him without any preconceptions.

>>18711820

just ask them if it 24/7 and or opening hours.

I would just start going a few times to suss the place out, but i find that most gyms are quite welcoming and most trainers/other gym goers quite helpful.
(unless you are super smelly disheveled rude individual which i doubt you are)

after you have gone a few times and you like it you should probably ask one of the trainers what to do to geta membership.
It is usally cheaper in the long run and will help you to force yourself to go more often.
all the best!

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>>18711836
That sounds good, thanks anon. I hope this gym turns out to be nice, I don't have any others within walking distances

>Is there any sort of "gym etiquette" I should follow?

Basic common courtesy mostly. Re-rack weights. Bring a towel to wipe off your sweat. If you need to grunt while lifting that's fine, just don't go crazy and scream from the top of your lungs. Use your judgement, there's no real distinction between being a normal courteous person in normal life and at the gym.

>>18711805
>Where do I find that?

Someplace else. That's as specific as we can be, because we don't know you, your life, your city, anything.

All we can tell you is: Start looking for friendship in other places. Meet new people.

>>18711805
>Can't handle banter
Never go to UK/Australia.

Seriously if they're your friends, stop being a wet noodle and tell them that. If they respect you, they'll stop.

>>18711805
You sound like an introvert hanging out with a bunch of extroverts.
Try finding more people like yourself and stop trying so hard to fit in with other people.

Maybe instead of losing someone you have a lot of interest in, try to find a compromise to see if you can both possibly meet. Such as fundraising by asking Family and Friends or just put money aside until one of you can afford to meet.

>>18711803

Be careful OP.. I developed feelings hard for a girl who lives in Italy (I live in the US). To keep things short, I got really hurt me it hurt me enough that I won't allow myself to trust girls emotionally or even do anything physical with them. I won't allow myself to go past a platonic relationship

>>18711803

Did you meet on Interpals.net?

>>18711802

My take on it is that video games are the new form of alcoholism/drug addiction. They're are not the root of the problem but merely a symptom.
You say video games ruined your life but you did that yourself. There are plenty of people playing video games that don't let them overtake their whole lives. Just like there are people able to have a beer and walk out of the bar. You used video games to escape whatever issues you had in your life now life is catching up to you. Pretty soon games themselves will lose their appeal or you'll be forced by circumstance to work and provide for yourself. The sooner you look for a job the better. I suggest asking friends or family for help in that regard if you can't get one yourself.
And yes video games ARE a waste of time. But so is a lot of other shit in life. I bet your psychologist waste their time too, just in different ways. The main difference is that they have some balance in their life whilst you do not.

I've been in a bad place for a week or so. Re-evaluating my entire life/career path. Right now I'm doing nothing so it's put me in a depressed state. I don't know if I have full blown depression since I've only had it for a few days and it recedes and comes back.

I've found that videogames are not the problem. The problem is that I'm indulging myself too much in these things not as a hobby, or something to do in my 'off time', but something I do just by instinct. I don't think you should 'eliminate' playing videogames from your life, but definitely cut back on it. Make it something you do to relax after actually accomplishing something. I find that when I actually worked and was separated from games or the internet or what have you all day long and only get ~4 hours to indulge myself, I'm actually happier that way. It feels like I 'earned' the right to relax and kick back, rather than being behind the computer all day, going to sleep, and being behind the computer all day tomorrow.

About three times a day. Like twitter. If she doesn't respond, then one sms per minute until she responds.

>>18711751
Why don't you ask her instead of random anonymous people on the internet?

I talk with mine the whole day until I go to bed, I don't know if this is normal

>>18711737
>Continued

Now she's with another guy, and she's posting pics of them both on social media, saying how much she loves him apparently only though they've only just met and been going out like 4 days. And no offense, but he's a complete downgrade, he's weak/beta he's needy and clingy and makes up lies/stories about him going around beating people up (lol) saying how he's scared of himself sometimes and he takes injections to make himself stronger rofl. Saying how he's scared and needs and loves her but hey maybe she likes feeling needed and feels worthless herself so maybe she can help this guy with his made-up bullshit. But if I try telling her that she's just going to be in denial and strengthen her 'love' for him even more. Her sister (who's genuinely a good friend) tells me 80% of their conversation is them just saying "aww I love u too, no I love u more" they don't talk about anything.

Though my ex apparently invited him over and wants to do more than just 'kiss' which I find funny. As we were each others first, I was patient with her respected her, didn't get my dick sucked till 5 months into the relationship and now this guys gonna get it a week later? She then uploaded a pic of her and her sister with a big story about how hard things have been on her recently, how she feels she can't do things on her own, she feels weak and loves her sister blah blah, and she doesn't feel as strong as she did half a year ago (when she was with me). So that's her admitting she's in a low place right now, and what, she's just gonna give herself up to any weakling guy that comes along to fill a fucking void?? How do I stop this from happening, how do I talk to her when she completely hates and despises me for reasons that aren't even true, I want her to realize she made a mistake and come back, how did things even get so messed up between us, we never lied, cheated, did anything bad, yet there's so much negativity between us.

Forget about it dude, I would.

I used to be this way desu. Its obviously just anxiety. I started to talk to strangers like an old friend I haven't seen in while or like a sibling. Practice makes perfect, you'll end up talking bassy again.

>>18711729
It is extremely common especially with women that their telephone voice is higher pitched than their normal voice (there is research on this). Perhaps you are just experiencing something similar and have become very conscious about it.

>>18711675
I'm a dude and I love expensive perfume. Expensive is much more likely to smell better than the cheap stuff. If it's worth it depends on your financial situation. Pheromone products is a scam. You can find good info and reviews on fragrantica.com

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Yeah keep in mind they usually last long too. So it's not like you will be buying a new one every few weeks.

As long as you both feel like talking that much, it's fine.

>>18711667
If you both enjoy it there are no issues.

hey man, you mention you are a math student. universities usually offer free counselling. they deal with similar problems all the time. people on this fucking image board definitely won't be able to help you, you'll have to go out and get some concrete help and make some concrete changes

>>18711652
I've been on psychotherapy many times now. It was a waste of time. In order for therapy to help you, you still have to be at least somewhat normal and believe in the standard social value.

I'm an /r9k/ poster. I'm a complete opposite of a well-adjusted human being.