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im the same, except im too small and skinny and cant fight for shit + im kind like you are. just try not to stress over it, just have friends and enjoy life :)

>>18712701

How old are you? Punching people is not the best solution, specially if they didn't punch you first. The older you are, the more in trouble you'll get by punching.

>>18712714
In my town these people are the closest things to friends you get.

>>18712688
Text him and say hey if you ever need time alone let me know and I'll let you two do your thing.

Seriously do this or he will fucking hate you I've been in his situation before.

He just wants some alone time to bang. Find out when he wants to and just go to the library for a few hours. Otherwise he will resent you.

Stop thinking about it too much.
Just lift and chill.
Smoke a blunt or something.

Pic of progress?

you mean you have gyno

>>18712655
Say you're going to see a movie?

>>18712655
Go say your friends invited you out for some burgers or pizza

if she's so miserable, why did you marry her?

b8

Don't cheat. Break it off first or work through your problems. Relationships and marriage require work to go on.

>>18712605
Oh shit, yeah bro

>>18712644
What?

>>18712605
You don't.

Also I'm bad at putting my thoughts into words so if you need any clarification or more info just say the word.

Desperation bump

What you're feeling is pretty normal, considering that she's your first girlfriend and you're really young. Committing to the idea of marriage and kids at this point in time is huge. Some people are already sure about it, but a lot of people aren't, if they're being honest.

If your girlfriend demands this level of commitment to the relationship so early, it's reasonable for you to disagree. If this is a dealbreaker for her, so be it. But maybe if you try talking to her about this calmly and rationally, and explain to her that your hesitation has nothing to do with your affection for her, she'll understand.

Something along the lines "I can't honestly commit to something so huge right now because we're so young and that seems so far away to me, but I love you and I want to stay together, and it's my intention to build a life with you."

>>18712575
It's really just the biological imperative of males lad. Not your fault

Go to therapy

A lot of people cheat even when they're in happy and healthy relationships. It often doesn't have anything to do with their partner. It probably has something to do with you. Cheating makes you feel alive, or bad, or like a risk-taker, or it fulfills some other emotional need that your partner can't satisfy.

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>>18712530
I see that the mission was successful soldier. Glad that you got your boyfriend back and he understood his problem. Also let him off the hook for being immature to you if he gave you the "I'm sorry" and good luck on your quest with your loved companion.

Yours truly, the /adv/ requirement HQ

>>18712557
Thank you, sarge; good luck on the battlefield

>>18712559
Go recruit some more anons and anonettes around here in /adv/ HQ. Hope for a better future for the all of us.
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Don't got time in your day? Download this app and do practice tests in between sets.

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.pocketprep.nasm&hl=en

Most PT final exams aren't shit. There's motherfuckers like me running around the industry with high school degrees. Know the common postural distortion patterns and muscular compensations, know how many calories are in each macronutrient, and most of all, know what the fuck is on the test because if you bought and paid for an online course like I did, there's gonna be free materials and information everywhere about how to pass the thing.

Lastly, don't be one of those MGTOW faggots, don't let one bad experience define your entire romantic life. You really think you've seen everything there is to offer at the age of twenty-fucking-three? Get over yourself, get some pussy and move on. You'll be a better person by the end of it.

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>>18712617
I've looked up the app that you suggested, it's pretty handy to have, thx for that. And also checked on my course's website found out about the exam specification on what to expect and focus on. Finally some directions on how to approach my textbook! About the MGTOW I just thought that in my current situation I can't really think about wasting time and resource until things are looking up. So just want to isolate myself and concentrate on what's important.

Anyway I just want to find out more about people who were/are in a similar situation that had to work long hours, exercise and study. How do they put up with it? Beside willpower what are the technical, strategical work to achieving the best results to make sure that they're studying productively while sorta exhausted. Even if it's minor I'd like to relate and see if it'd works for me too.

>>18712419

tell her you're concerned then move on with your life, you can't live it for her

>>18712445
good point. thanks guy.

>>18712419

dont do anything. Abusive relationships are doomed to fail.

If you want to feel better tell them both that their relationship seems abusive and unhealthy.

inb4 oneitis get over it she's not into you, find someone else

because you want to, the only thing that should matter in your life is what you want,strive to be the best you you could possible be

Not wanting my death to be a burden. Once I have everything paid off and enough saved up to cover final expenses, I have every intention of offing myself.

>>18712301
I have a dream of being a famous rapper once that goes I'm gone. Literally
Hopping in a rope or blasting my shit out so fast.

Or get ssi and live in a quiet apartment taking Xanax and sleeping until I die.

you have to be 18 to post here

>>18712240

You get help. Ask your parents to take you to teraphy. Or ask around your school, they ususally have councellors.

be your own person if they abadon (which they wont do you deluded fuck) fuck 'em, be your own person with your own future plans and goals

Yeah I know what you mean. I never did any suicide attempts, but the thoughts have been there over the years.

I'm doing well now. Im pursing a career I really enjoy. But sometimes I think it would just be better to be dead. It's strange

I don't know what the problem is exactly, but I've grown convinced that it's not something natural. Simply looking at it rationally, there's no reason for you to be feeling this way, right? Everything's turning around, you're doing everything right, and for no reason these feelings intrude on your peace of mind after all you've accomplished. Makes no sense, at least I'd say, and I think you'd agree about this as well, so the matter is only what to do about it.

I think a change in perspective is a powerful thing, both in terms of what you've accomplished and also in terms of where you're headed. Where are you thinking of going down the road, for instance? Planning on marriage and all that follows is, although maybe not the most immediately exciting prospect, at least a fairly clear-cut structure to plan the future around, which serves as motivation to keep going and strengthen your confidence level. It's not all at once of course, just focus on whatever step will next help you to realize those goals and go from there.

>>18712171
It will always be there. Just ignore it.

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>>18712094
Sticking your penis into mouth like warm moist hole will change nothing about your life. Except you will have to lie about your 1st time forever to keep your future gfs, family and friends not disgusted. Virginity is social construct and only you and other virgin stupid teens give a shit about it.

Also it will give you free herpes (and no, condom cant protect you from it). If you still do it, remember absolutely no kissing.

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>>18712104
I agree with this guy, although for me my first time was great bc she knew How to work her hips and stuff