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Stupid question but here it is.

I have an offer for a credit card that has 0%APR on balance transfers for one year. This is good for me because money is tight and im between jobs right now and have to pay tuition for school in two weeks - using my normal card will mean running a balance and being charged interest which i never done before and would rather not start.

My question: will i get charged a transfer fee by the credit card i am transferring OFF of? Or is this fee charged by the receiving credit card? Google is vague and says my credit card will charge a fee typically - but which one? How does this shit work? Does the card im moving a balance out of charge me or the one that is reveiving the balance? Do they both slam me on a fee?

My current card in question is a Chase Sappire Prefferred. The card i would be transferring to is some junk card through an auto insurance company my friend works for.

Thanks. I get its a simple question but im trying to out jew the credit jew for the next few months while i wait for my job to start.
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Dave Ramsey the total money makeover. Its a book, less than $20. Read it and live it. Good luck!

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Car dudes plz halp!
I drove my car to and from work today not realizing I left the radiator cap off. Omw home I noticed smoke and an odd noise, drove home, car completely died before I even parked it. The radiator was smoking and completely empty. I filled it to the brim w 50/50 and the car starts again but dies after 5 seconds. Do you think if I let it cool down for a couple hours itll be okay? 110° where I live.
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It lost a lot of coolant (it's a pressurized system) and overheated. You may have done permanent damage to the engine. Ask /o/.
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You overheated your car. Did you not notice your temperature guage going apeshit?

Let the car cool down completely until the temperature gauge hits the C mark. You can check by turning your key far as it goes without starting the battery. This will take an hour or more likely.

Once your car is cool, refill your coolant. Coolant expands when hot, which is why the coolant system must be pressurized for it to work and why its not efficient to add coolant to an overheated car (although its better than nothing). Add til full as per your car and then close it up and start it.

Let your car idle and see what happens. If it seems ok, drive home slowly. WATCH YOUR TEMPERATURE GUAGE LIKE A FUCKING SHITHAWK. If it is going above the 1/2 mark and not going down, you need to pull over, shut the car off, and wait for to cool.

If you are lucky the car shut itself off to prevent damage. You may have blown a headgasket by doing what you did - if thats the case youre fucked and your car is officially kill. You can find out by doing an oil change and seeing if your oil is thick and has the consistancy of a milkshake.

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What can I do for some spare cash? Working a part time job already since I'm in college but what else can I do for some cash?
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>>18563276
there's a bunch of junk in this blog post but you might find one or two things worth actually doing. not sure if it's on the list but my favorite thing was reselling stuff on ebay while in school. grab some junk at a yard sale that looks like people will want it and list it in ebay or craigslist for a price you would be happy with.
https://www.thepennyhoarder.com/jobs-making-money/50-make-extra-money/
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Uber/Lyft

Craigslist one day labor type things
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Get fucked in the ass by men , just kidding get a sugar daddy who wants ass pics for 50$

Is it possible to get 'degrees' of allergy?

By that I mean, like obviously people can have allergies to pollen which give them runny noses and block them up and etc.

But I mean for example, could you have some sort of allergy to say... seafood, but it doesn't cause you to go to a near-death experience, but have rather crippling pain in your guts? but with no lasting effects?

I for example, when I eat certain types of food, usually things like Gyoza and Fishcakes, get insane level crippling pain in my stomach about 30 mins-hour after eating, for about an hour duration. Then it just goes away.
But I don't experience it with things like Flake or Calamari, etc..

I imagine it's somewhat what happens to Lactose intolerant people (i'm not), as I often have an extremely burny/water shit afterwards at some point.
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Yeah, I'm pretty sure some people's allergic reactions are more serious than others.
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Yes, there are things such as 'severe allergies' and 'mild allergies'. Like for some people, eating french fries that are cooked in peanut oil will be fine. Others have near death experiences if they have a single one of those fries.
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Possibly gluten intolerance? Maybe ask a doctor about your symptoms next time you go in.

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I'm 23 and i've been in therapy for 4 years now. I've learned and felt a lot, my psychologist said i'm almost ready to leave therapy for good. The only things missing are a genuine relationship and (the topic of the thread) complete emotional indipendence from others.

I opened this thread because i'm leaving for vacation with my parents for 30 day for a little island where i've got my closest friends, but this year i'll be practically alone, since there are only 2 friends of mine and the rest are either acquaintances or people i just don't feel good being around with. A normal person would say "i'll just do what i want, it's my vacation". Instead, i obsess over shit like:
>If i don't feel like wanting to know a new group of people (and potentially meet a girl), i'll betray the therapy i've put so much effort into.
>If i don't want to go out some nights then i'll disappoint my friends
>I like to know people, but only if i'm interested in them. Then why the fuck do i feel anxious over staying at home and looking like a depressed fuck instead of going out with people i don't like?
>I'll just do what i feel/like doing. But why do i feel like disappointing my closest ones by not being as they want me to be?
The list goes on. However. when it comes to things i like, i live trough and overcome eventual fear of novelty, in the end going out. When i'm "truly" alone (as in with no one judging/looking: for example i am perfectly confident in myself during dates or when there's no jerk/stranger i THINK is going to judge/observe) i don't think about all this shit at all, i really feel like my therapist said, healthy and completely myself.

TL;DR: I strongly feel that i need to do whatever makes me happy, but why do i feel so guilty/anxious over it? How do i not let fear make me do things i don't want to do? How do i accept myself and every choice i make, instead of obsessively judging myself over nothing?
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You have trouble getting over it because it's partly true. When you have friends, it's good practice to think about their wishes and go along with the things they want to do some of the time. But it's a two way street, a compromise, and a good friend will sometimes want to do what you want to do as well. It keeps both parties a little bit out of their comfort zone and which encourages growth, and more interesting life experiences. You don't need to become completely independent of others.

But as for people that aren't your friends, you aren't required to do anything to impress them. Why should you? Let go of what they think of you. Usually they won't.

Finally, you don't owe it to anyone to be a different version of yourself. Who you are, what you believe, and what you know is best for you -- those things belong to you. Living them honestly and fully is not only good for you, it's actually good for those around you. When they see you living in the way that's best for you, they'll be encouraged to be fully themselves, even if you can't tell. Have a good vacation op, good luck.

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met a girl who I think likes me and we're meeting up in a week (at friends party I invited her to) cause she lives an hour away. I have her on snapchat but I don't know what to do with it. We send each other a snap or 2 every other day but it's just random shit what should I send to be more interesting? Also when I meet her irl what's good stuff to talk about that isn't just small talk?
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>>18562993
Talk about anything.
http://www.improveyoursocialskills.com/conversation

Tell her she is pretty and that you want to spend more time with her. And just ask her on date. Did you know you can ask her out before the party happens? Dinner, park, icecream whatever. Be all smiley, try to handhold her and see what will happen.
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>>18563513
idk m8 we've spent some time together we even went drinking once but I never tried anything except drunken hugging. She seems to not at least dislike me but I'm afraid of falling into the friendzone trap. At the party I was gonna do that shit tho like hand holding and compliments but idk how she'll take it. But I have high hopes.

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It's been a while, /adv/

First of all, thank you: I followed your advice and now I got a job and I still have enough time to play videogames.
I also decided to spend 2-3 hours of almost every evening going out at a local bar to meet people.
I made friends. I'm still weird, so they think I'm that kind of jokingly weird dude, but they openly told me I'm ok.

Now, the real thing. I want to go further. There's this girl I like, and despite I can talk to her freely and without any problem while doing my gimmick, or even while being serious (if the group is having a serious debate), I can't confess to her.
I almost tried once, but I diverted it into a joke, and I never tried again. But I think she kinda got what I was trying to say, because her attitude towards me changed a little. It's been almost 7 months, and she still acts like this.

I have to try again, right? But I fear I will panic again and do another gimmick. (Classic shitty fears: she will say no, she will laugh, she will tell the others, etc)
Any suggestion?
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I'm painting a wall, white going over blue. Is this good enough for a third coating or should i use some more paint for the next 2-3 coats?
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What is the best underwear I can buy to edge me while I jog? Pic related.
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Is it better to be too distant or too interested when trying to woo a girl?
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>>18562899
Neither. First play it cool, I have this one msg me every morning yet I dont fuck with her. I tried giving her some game but she doesnt respond in person to that.

Anyway bacl tp ypir queistion:

Dont be eager. play it cool man.

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Whats the best way to get rid of a car that still has payments on it? I don't care if I lose money overall, just as long as I have enough money left over later to buy a cheaper car.

People talking with experience welcomed, if anyone has delt with a similar situation.
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>>18562859
Maybe try /n/
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If youre in the US, look for a place called Carmax locally. Theyll buy anything but they may not give you what you need to pay it off. Good luck
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>>18562859
just stop paying it, eventually they will take it away. if you are having to worry about this it is not like you have any other assets they would take or a good credit score to protect

I've been in a relationship with this girl for around 2 months she tells me I'm the only thing that makes her happy and stuff like that but she acts like she could care less should I break up with her after a week of dating my depression and anxiety have gotten Much worse any advice
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Anon caring all the time is exhausting. She loves you but you are acting like annoying self entitled twat who completely needs affection from her at all times.

Jesus. So your plan is to break up with her and then reclaim her? What will that accomplish?
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Yes break up with her, sounds like your in high school and relationships in high school are meaningless most of the time. She'll be saying the same thing to another guy in no time man break it off. not worth it if its affecting your mental health. Man up and break up with her. Just be firm but still kind as you can when you do
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>>18562843
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Borderline_Personality_Disorder

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I've been in a relationship with this girl for around 2 months she tells me I'm the only thing that makes her happy and stuff like that but she acts like she could care less should I break up with her after a week of dating my depression and anxiety have gotten much worse any advice
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>>18562725
If she's not making you feel better, then she's not worth it.
It doesn't matter what she promise she will do in the future, you are on the "honeymoon period" so both of you should be all cuddles and shit, ffs
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>>18562725
If it makes you feel any better, I did this to the man I plan on marrying someday. From the moment I met him, I knew something was special and I had to prepare myself to lose him. So, whenever he brought up potentially breaking up, I would take on a really cold demeanor and make it seem like I'd be fine either way.

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Hi /adv/
calling on brits to help me out here, long story short, I am looking for a permanent IT position in London.
What should i be aware of when moving to London?
Any specific neighborhood I should avoid?
Whats finding a living space like?
- how expensive is it? so on.
Hope you can help me, I am clueless here
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I lived in London, and am moving back soon, but I'm not British. London is hideously expensive--more expensive than NY or SF. You should try to live near a subway line, obviously. At the low end of the market, apartments move very quickly. You probably want to talk to people directly rather than going through an agent. Note that most London apartments come furnished, so there is that.

I never went to too many neighborhoods, so I can't help you much.
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>>18562745
Still, thanks for help :)

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What does it mean when someone describes you or something else as a free spirit?
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You do the unexpected and you tend to set standards rather than follow them.
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>>18562699
Depends on context,

Could be a woman fucking a lot of guys
Could be a hippie
Could be someone who doesn't abide by rules
Could be someone who doesn't follow traditions or feelings of other but goes by what he feels right
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>>18563784
It could also be uses derogatorily

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