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Dealing with an old crush
I'm with a gf who I've been with for a while, and I really love her, but a Girl who I used to like about a year ago has come back from college and I've been out for a few drinks with her a few times and I can feel myself falling for her again, we used to be really close and I don't want to go total no contact on her, even though I really love my gf.
What do I do /adv/ anyway to deal with this properly or just cut her off?
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Stick your dick in her
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I need help. I dont know what happened, but last night something happened.
I was laying in bed and suddenly had something like a panic attack. I felt very stressed and scared, and it lasted for a few minutes. After that I felt nothing anymore. I felt no sadness or fear, no happiness. I tried looking up porn and fapping but I didn't get turned on so I decided to just sleep it off. My dreams were no better. I dreamt I was walking around in a dark forest for hours.
I woke up two hours ago and still feel nothing. What happened to me, /adv/? What the hell is going on?
I dont know if this info helps but I'm a LITTLE late on applying for FASFA (student aid for college) and my classes were dropped temporarily. But thats the only thong I can see that would stress me out even the slightest. But now it doesnt! I would like help describing what I'm going through right now.
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>>18565907
I used to feel just like you described. Turned out I was having heart problems (sick sinus). I got a pacemaker at the age of 25. I'm sorry to scare you should take that seriously if it continues.
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Panic attacks are common occurences as you age. Go see a doc about it. A benzodiazepine like temazepam will help but research how to talk to your doc to get prescribed it. Also, don't get addicted to if or I promise you will regret it.
Source: had panic attacks for years and benzodiazepine made them go away permanently
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>>18566036
OP here
Its not the panic attacks I'm having a problem with- its the lack of emotion i'm experiencing.
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Feeling like I'm out of this world. 2017-07-28 04:28:37 Post No.18565905
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Feeling like I'm out of this world.
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Feeling like I'm not myself, zombie mode, no long thoughts just vague words or pictures going on my mind. Sometimes I feel like I can't breath properly, feeling like I'm not myself anymore, I can't sense the passing of time. I still feel like I'm a kid altough I'm 22 now. This feeling that I'm just existing but I'm actually not here is really frightening, it's like my mind shut down. How could I get back to life?
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Been here for many years anon, following a few traumatic experiences in my early teen years.
Here's what helps Me. Proper hygiene, sleep schedule, diet, and exercise. Routine interaction with other people. Meditation and reading.
You can learn to climb out of this weird pit, you're probably just a little bit depersonalized/not feeling present in your life. Take care of yourself, go easy on yourself, and work at it.
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I feel like calamity is just around the corner, so I've come for an outside opinion. My life has become simplified, which I thought I'd enjoy, but it's beginning to wear on me, weighing more than it's worth I suppose.
my day
>wake up, sort and eat whatever junk i've bought impulsively.
>Depending on when I have work, I'll bake and read politics if I've the time
>wait for a taxi to pick me up
>awkward ride, I'm stubbornly an introvert, with little to offer in a conversation to usually a complete stranger
>arrive at work, I do the dishes for a kitchen in a supermarket part-time (its REALLY big on making tasty snacks or grab/go stuff)
>share a few laughs with coworkers and other employees, but am otherwise alone in my work
>the only guy there that I connected with was fired last week
>we were only friends because of drugs/age/memes, some of his qualities/choices I despised
>BUT ANYWAY, at the end of the night, 9pm or 10pm, I wait for a taxi to take me home.
>Short smoke in my room, usually with vidya until 11pm.
>i sleep
my food situation is good, as the supermarket has a significant discount for its workers. there's also plenty of scraps around if the boss ain't around. Money wise, I've been saving for a car. I don't have much, as having a lot of money would prolly cause my anxiety to arrive for some reason.
It's just that in the past year, I appear to have more control over my life than ever. Yet all I do is smoke, watch foodporn and work. In a month I'll be starting two classes at a college, though I doubt I'll manage the classes, the job, and my intoxication time.
I'm 19, male, virgin, political fag, selective history buff, listens to hardcore punk/melodeath/pol-deathcore. I think I know where I'm going in life, and I believe I've the means to get there, but why the damn feels life? I should be happy right?
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It's okay man, you'll always have you, me.
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You're only happy if you're happy. If you enjoy your life the way it is so be it. If not then take the initiative to do break away from your normal routine like you taking college classes. Meet some people and ask how they're doing, and who knows, you might find people you can connect with and eventually you may find what you're looking for.
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How do I stop coming to 4chan?
I spend literally all my time here and I never learn anything useful or accomplish anything. I'm a NEET and I know for a fact that if I sent out 1 resume for every thread I've made in just the last few months I'd have a job right now.
I mostly use /pol/, /r9k/ and /int/ because you can post anything there and no one ever judges you for being a retard because you can claim you were just baiting.
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You could get yourself banned I guess
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Yeah it sucks I thought I'd learn something from /g/ but actually they're all retarded
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This is rich. And very typical. You're literally trying to blame a web site for your failures.
People do that shit all the time, dude. It's so common literally everyone does it at some point in their life. They blame tv, they blame food, they blame guns, they blame the internet, they blame drugs, etc. etc. etc. ad infinitum.
The fact is that you don't have anyone to blame but yourself. You are the executive director of your life and you make your decisions. This web site isn't wasting your time YOU are wasting your time. If you don't want to come here don't. Do something else with your time. But don't blame others, and damn sure don't blame inanimate objects and machines, ffs.
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>meet qt off tinder
>hit it off
>been dating for three weeks
>she tells me she used to have a severe eating disorder
>about to get her period
>tells me her Eating disorder anxiety comes back near her period
>all night last night calling herself fat.
>she's literally skin and bones with a perfect face and cute ass.
she could gain 40 pounds and still not be fat. how tf do i help her ease the anxiety? she seems less anxious when she drinks, keep her turnt until her period is over?
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I had a theory that dating a girl with an eating disorder would be kind of dope.Besides her nagging are there any other downsides? Do you find her to be more submissive than other girls you have dated?
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>>18565816
>dating tinder girl
Welp, thats the problem.
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>>18565816
No for the love of god don't get her to drink to "forget" she still has an eating disorder and needs professional help.
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>have thing with girl I met on tinder at end of summer last year
>we fucked twice and went on a date or two, got along really well
>Go to seperate schools
>realize I had become infatuated with her
>eventually unfollow her on all social media to ease the pain
I thought I was over her, but I checked snapchat today and I guess I never unfollowed her because she had posted a story. I couldnt help myself and opened it, and now I feel as shitty as I did 7 months ago.
I literally knew this girl for 10 days, what the fuck is wrong with me?
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>>18565810
I had a similar story. How many girls have you fucked since you broke things off with her? Any other girls you're seeing rn? Just remove her from snap, embrace this shitty feeling you're going through at the moment and move on.
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>>18565817
Fucked one since then, but aside from that I've been dry and lonely since October.
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>>18565810
Dude really? That's what happens when you fuck. You chemically get addicted to her. Then you kicked it up a notch and addicted your brain to her. Unfollow her and move one. Or get into contact with her.
Do I have cancer? This is a mole that turned black and weird.
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you sure it isn't just a blister that filled with blood? or an infected ingrown hair that filled with blood instead of pus? have you tried poking it with a sharp object?
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Go to dermatologist. I had a smaller one removed just in case.
To anyone else, pay attention to it's size. Is it growing? If, then fuck off to the doctor.
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People should tell their doctor if they notice any of the following changes in a common mole:
The color changes
The mole gets unevenly smaller or bigger (unlike normal moles in children, which get evenly bigger)
The mole changes in shape, texture, or height
The skin on the surface becomes dry or scaly
The mole becomes hard or feels lumpy
It starts to itch
It bleeds or oozes
The "ABCDE" rule describes the features of early melanoma (2, 5):
Asymmetry. The shape of one half does not match the other half.
Border that is irregular. The edges are often ragged, notched, or blurred in outline. The pigment may spread into the surrounding skin.
Color that is uneven. Shades of black, brown, and tan may be present. Areas of white, gray, red, pink, or blue may also be seen.
Diameter. There is a change in size, usually an increase. Melanomas can be tiny, but most are larger than 6 millimeters wide (about 1/4 inch wide).
Evolving. The mole has changed over the past few weeks or months.
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Let's say that I've been watching someone's Instagram profile several days in a row, because I'm a bawww-fag. That account suddenly turned private.
Is there a mechanism that tells you that somebody is watching your profile? Am I fucked?
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>>18565781
no, not unless you were commenting on their pictures, sharing them, liking them, or they noticed a high view count on certain images and they didn't want that kind of attention.
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>>18565784
>unless you were commenting on their pictures, sharing them, liking them
None of that. And I didn't opened the same pic/vid more than 5 or 6 times.
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>tfw I just spent the last week crafting a convincing qt's profile to get someone to accept me anonymously on their private account
>427 followers, 327 following and 126 posts
>sent the request last night
>still waiting on the accept
Wew this better not be for nothing.
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Thoughts on being a (construction) electrician in Canada?
Pay-wise & quality of life wise?
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I always run out of time in the day, and never get through all the things I need to have done. This ends up cutting into my sleep. I waste quite a bit of time shitposting on Facebook, 4chan - also I have a bad habit of oversleeping sometimes. I'm slow when it comes to almost everything. I take ages to get changed, to have a shower, I take ages on the shitter, I take ages to cook. Perhaps the only thing I'm quick in is eating.
What are the best ways to become more efficient?
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>>18565746
Train yourself to be better.
>how
Google it you lazy fuck
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Sup /adv/. So I drink often, and have recently been trying to stop for calorie counting purposes. Not all together stop, but cut down to only a few on the weekends. I've been having anxiety when not on the liquor, and was wondering if there was a way to mitigate this, such as xanax or something, or if I just have to wait it out. Pretty sure I have heart palpitations (early afterdepolarizations) from drinking too much.
Tl;dr drink too much, want stop, wat do
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Bump
How do I find a therapist that's available after work (9-5) or on the weekend? /adv/ is helpful but I think a therapist that can connect the dots on my life might be able to help me more. It just seems hopeless, like either I just need to call around at random or give up on the idea.
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>>18565714
Google"therapist with late and weekend hours."
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>>18565714
I know how that is. It's hard to find therapists that work after five. Usually have to take off work early or go in late. Try one of those options for yourself. Best of luck anon.
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>>18565714
HALLELUJAH AND AMEN... AT LAST AN OP WITH BRAINS THAT WANTS PROFFESIONAL THERAPUTIC WORK. Seriously OP congrants on making the desicion. What you do is the following. Look for therapists that work in hospitals and do an interview. Ask them if they you could join him in his Private consultation office (most have one) or ask for a derivation to another therapist that can handle your schedules. You'll find one in no time.
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Hi. I'm a schoolboy who hates his life. All of my relationships have been online and I want to put bullets through my head. My dad abuses me and my birth mum currently lives in another house.
Basically, I'm the typical angsty teenager who hates his life but doesn't know why.
Advice?
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At your age you need to get out and try as many new things as possible until you find the stuff that makes your life worth living. I didn't figure that out until my early twenties, so get a head start on everyone else by doing this now while you're still a teen. Actually try the things yourself, don't just read about or watch them.
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Spend as much time away from your father as you can. Get a job, if you don't have one. That one is important. Wish I hadn't gotten a job as a teen. Join some sort of community. Sport is the easiest. Some way to form social bonds and to find a mentor.
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>>18565708
Suck dicks
You are angsty and frustrated because you are gay and don't realize it yet, or maybe don't want to realize it. But you will never be at peace before embrassing it. Everytime you will feel frustrated you will think back to this. And this will always be until you finally suck a dick
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I got myself recently in relationship. Gf had someone earlier and said they had "unconventional" sex and she is still a virgin. And this is what bothers me. She doesn't want to talk about because she is afraid of hurting my fee fees and I don't know if should ask about it. I can't jerk off to anal porn because I think about her and this guy.
Side note: should I tell I liked pizza a lot?
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Do it, when starting a relationship it's best to know exactly what you're getting.
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>>18565665
Being honest is the key thing in any relationship.