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I really like this girl but I can't tell if she's genuinely flirting with me or not. She seems to do similar things with other guys. I don't know what to do I want to tell her how I feel but it might fuck up our friendship.

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I only get scammers on craigslist, what's up? Should I try tinder instead?

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I don't know what to do, /adv/. I recently moved to another state. Before I left, I had a party with several of my friends, including my best friend for the past several years. When I left that night, we were all pretty drunk, and talked about a bunch of stupid shit. One of the things my friend talked about was how he was really into lolis. I'd known for a while, but I didn't know how bad it was until that night. I asked him to go to therapy, but he doesn't want to, and doesn't think there's anything wrong with it. In a few weeks, he and some of my other friends are coming here to pick me up and take me to a convention. I don't want to stop being friends with him, but I don't know how I can keep being his friend knowing this. What do I do?

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Ok, so I have a mandatory fine arts credit to get over with, and it requires that I take beginer's art. However, being the autistic fuck I am, I can't think all that creatively when it comes to drawing abstractly. The class has a 30% weight on an active sketchbook, and I need to have something in it DAILY. So, what the fuck do I draw to play off being artistic a teacher who has been teaching for 10 years?

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“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” (Matthew 11:28-30)

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I have met this girl, this young girl. Shy at first but nice and sweet later. Silently sitting close to me, throwing interesting gazes, trying to attract my attention. We had a few small talks, we laughed... She showed interest in me, and even waited until everybody else left in order to say "goodbye" while looking deep in my eyes.

I like her. I know it's not "appropriate" but I like her. She's all I want in a girl, but in a small package. I would like to meet her better (I am the kind of person that enjoy just being with a special someone, sharing a conversation, a laugh, a comfortable silence...),

The question is, how to convince the parents of a young girl to allow me to spend time with her? Is there even a chance? Because obviously, without their permission there's nothing to do. I (want to believe that) am a nice guy, educated, well dressed, fit, and the last time I shaved I realised that I still look cute. I mean, the appearance is not a problem. But I am fearing that, no matter what I do, the age difference will always be an impassable wall (I am in my twenties).

Feel free to call me a degenerate, immature or whatever you want but this is a serious question. I am a feeling-guy, and I've been carrying this general discomfort the whole week.

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Alright buckos got a doozy for ya. I want to advance to SWAT at some point in my career. I am already done with a year in college. I have the option to nab an associates degree or go all the way for a bacho macho in crim jus and law enforcement. What do you think I should do?

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One could say I have a more peculiar mind than most. My therapist/psychiatrist can't explain a lot of my worldly perceptions/thought process. Anyone know of establishment that's accepting test subjects for a mental analysis? With, like, being hooked up to a machine and shit? Sorry if this is an inappropriate place to put this; I couldn't find a better place.

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Hello Anons

I live in a country called the United Kingdom where Air cons and cooling systems are quite uncommon in homes, stupid thing considering that this country has really warmed up in the last couple of years. I am browsing for a portable air conditioner that does not require an external condenser and found a Symphony Branded 8L air cooler. Does anyone have experience with this particular model or what is a better Portable AC to get?

Thx guys

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I'm not doing anything. I wake up and get on my laptop, until I sleep I'm online. When go outside to buy groceries and stuff, it feels like a torture to move. Talking takes too much energy. I space out all the time. I make plans for tomorrow, I think ''I will have energy after a sleep'' but I don't. I'm broke, college isn't going too well, no friends in the city. Nothing my future offers interest me. Things don't get better. I've been in this phase for about a decade. Once I was a talented boy with a promising future. I'm just waiting for my death now. Death is a gift. Sleeping forever sounds good. Can you even call me alive. I'm just dagging my soulless body around. But I still don't wanna kill myself. A little piece of me inside still has hope, perhaps. I want to feel alive. I want to be productive. I want to contribute. I thought buying the stuff that I wanted would make me feel happy. But it doesn't. I want to share. Nothing has meaning alone. I feel a part missing, I want to feel useful, I wanna feel spiritually fullfilled. But I feel like I'm stuck in a loop. Existing alone is very tiring. I just numb my brain with the interney and pass the days. And I hate myself. I was taught to hate myself and whenever I try speak to someone I feel like they will hate me. They will notice how empty I am. How dumb and boring and worthless I am.

I don't even know what kind of an advice I'm asking for. I'm just rumbling. But it helps to get it off my chest.

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I started going out and meeting new people about a year ago. My friends got me hooked up with some 10/10 girl who loves sports, heavy drinking and going to parties. We stopped seeing each other but last week she began texting me again. Problem is that a month ago I met a solid 8/10 thicc girl who is literally wife material. She is nice to everyone, hasn't ever been with a boy, knows how to cook, she is funny and REALLY fucking intelligent. Problem is we don't have really much in common.

Should I try to date her or should I just bang the hot one?

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I am having mental meltdowns every day. I become depressed and can't concentrate on anything, I just regret decisions I made. I tried finding distraction, like porn,games,movies. The only thing that helpes me distract myself from depression is cutting myself. Yes,I am a weak pussy.
Should I take tak antidepressants? I fear I'm gonna hurt myself badly as time goes on.

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I've got a medical coming up for work, after being sick for nearly a year trying to recover from a viral infection

I'm super underweight now, my BMI is about 16.5
What can I do? Other than "eat more"

I'm just scared they'll say no, and I'll be stuck at home, with no money and no hope
My girlfriend left me, my parents are getting divorced, and I'm a failure at everything so far. I've wasted a year already, all my workmates are doing so well ahead of me.

I worry the company will drop me asap once I'm "healthy" again

How can I improve myself, and get fighting fit? Nothing seems to work, it's all gray and miserable

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I'm >>18561331.
Tl;Dr catch feelings for best friend. Get turned down. Can't stand talking with him anymore without feeling sick.

I told him how I feel and that I need some space from him. That I can't keep a friendship up with him.
He reacted extremely hurt and sounds like he's holding a grudge and it's so fucking painful and scary.

I asked what he would in my place and he told me he'd still want to be friends if he were me and that just makes me feel shittier.

Please tell me I'm doing the right thing. Please tell me what I'm doing is worth it. Because I keep considering just taking a break and then going back to him and cry in his fuzzy bear arms. I keep telling myself I'll be able to treat him just as a brother figure but I know damn well that's not true.

I am so lost and in so much pain. I know he's probably just emotionally manipulating me but it's so hard not to give in.

I want to stay friends so fucking bad. But I know I can't do that. I know I'll be being used as a cuck emotional tampon rebound side bitch just like all the "let's stay friends anyway" experiences I've had in the past.

Please. Just tell me what I'm supposed to do. Just tell me I'm doing the right thing and it's going to be OK and I'll make it. Tell me something.

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Alright /adv/,

There is a girl I used to date a year ago who was really into me, but we ended breaking up because she wanted something more serious and I said no. Then two months ago I met a girl I started to like. We kissed and shit but we didn't fucked and now we barely see each other, but we keep texting. So I suppose we are only friends now. About a week after I stopped seeing her, I went to a party and my ex-gf talked to me and told me she wanted to start dating again. I said yes and we've been going out some days. Problem is she went to a party last weekend and my friends told me she uploaded a photo of herself with another guy who she had no relationship with to instagram (can't confirm, I don't use social media). I'm not a posessive guy, but I think that if we are dating she shouldn't go with other guys. Also, she's going on vacation to South Africa for almost a month on August.

Should I drop her and keep trying whith the other girl?

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