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I'm having a hard trouble moving on. I've been close my my friend since high school. He use to like me but never told me until after he got with his gf. We would have an affair and although I do feel bad for what I did, I feel worse that he only did it for sexual release. He says that's not the case and he did it cause he still liked me. Now he can't see me cause his gf doesn't like me but he still chooses to talk to me even tho he told her we were through. I feel emotionally and mentally fucked over by this guy. He did good by me from supporting what I do, to having me be close to his family. Now he says he prefers to be with his girl cause he can't live without her. How can I get over him? I need to move on.
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>>18567758
Realize that him having an affair with you was a complete asshole move. Proves he's unloyal in relationships, and proves that he has no problems leading you on for sex.
Basically he's a manipulative scumbag. Trash tier boyfriend material. You will find better.
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>>18567799
He's somone Is never get with after what he did. But to be honest I wanna stay friends with him
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Give me advice on how to swallow cum 2017-07-29 03:11:03 Post No.18567738
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Give me advice on how to swallow cum
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i have difficulty, not because it tastes bad, just because its thick
>i am a female
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Horrible b8. Sort yourself out OP. can't believe i clicked through like 10 capcha for this shitty b8
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>>18567738
Swish it through your teeth to
mechically destroy the tertiary structure of the cum
Kinda like beating an egg
Well exactly like beating an egg
sage just in case
>have depression since high school
>nothing too serious could always talk myself out of suicide before attempting anything dangerous
>keep it a secret from parents and doctor
>start taking claravis/actutane bc serious acne problems
>depression is common side affect
>brush it off since I already have depression
>depression gets 3x worse
Do pills or therapy actually work? I'm rather scared that everyone will start treating me differently, especially my family. I have the perfect relationship with them where they pretty much just leave completely independent and do whatever. I'm worried that they'll go full helicopter mode and I'll never have peace again.
>inb4 underage
I'm a 19 year old college student still living at home bc poorfag
I also have a lot on my mind about other things and could use some advice about those too. Any and all help is greatly appreciated
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>>18567713
Nothing works. It just keeps getting worse until you kill yourself.
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How do I save this, guys?
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>after?
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You don't because holy shit this is a cringefest
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>>18567705
"Never mind, I'll just party with my 8 cats instead ;)" Also don't be too agresive on tinder. Be more agresive in the IRL meetups in your bedroom.
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How do you get into a top 30-20 college? 2017-07-29 02:28:30 Post No.18567637
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How do you get into a top 30-20 college?
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How do you get into a top 30-20 college?
Lots of these colleges/admissions offices want their students to have a strong passion for some field, leadership in X area, when I have close to no representations of my passions in my extracurriculars. My ACT scores and my GPA are very competitive, but it feels like I will just have to continue being an absolute fraud. If youve ever read the short story Good Old Neon, you can picture me as the main character. My whole life ive been a fake... ive gotten where i am through luck, embellishment, looks, self-deception and it seems like im gliding on ice relying on it not to break (im white but my dad is half spanish, so i have faked a mexican accent and tell everyone im hispanic, everyone believes me) along with faking enjoyment and everything. Ive watched countless videos on youtube of "How i got into harvard' "how i got into yale" and most of them are either happy-go-lucky twinks who was president of 12 clubs, or mega-stacies... they all seem to live a fraudulent life (one fraud can identify another fraud), but they are content with it. I dont know why I am asking for help on continuing my fraud-spree when I'm highly experienced at faking everything... anyway... my extracurriculars include "starting a web design business in 10th grade"(learning html css and python in a few months and doing a few website projects, just for PROFIT... there is little passion here... just creating excess goods for the bourgeoisie...) Some fake ass volunteering hours, and gliding on the success of other people
>TO LONG DIDNT FUCKING READ: Can anyone else who sort of faked their way into college give me advice on how to embellish/present myself??
thanks, HONESTLY
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Just be honest with yourself and ask what you're passionate about. Even if you didn't participate in every single club or extracurricular activity. Use what you have and have done and focus on bettering yourself, don't focus on things you didn't do. It's all about presenting the best of yourself and in order to do that you have to first identify what your best qualities and achievements are. That being said, it's smart to be a little realistic about things and not to expect you'll get accepted everywhere or anywhere that you apply. If you didn't take advantage of opportunities in the past, it is what it is, and it's hard to fix that now. Just be positive about yourself and have a little ambition.
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>>18567637
All best universities in the world have one thing in common:
They accept the best students and give them scholarships or the kids of the richest people in the world.
So either be very good or be very rich.
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How do I stop being scared of confrontation? I was going to go negotiate my grade with my professor and I was extremely nervous and I dont understand how some people can negotiate/argue/etc with people theyre not comfortable with?
I want to be like that
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I'm 20 and I've never dated before. I work in IT and I get enough money to do anything I wanted and so far I never felt the need for a girlfriend but now that my friends left me (moved to different cities) I feel really fucking lonely. I would say I'm a 5(maybe 6 on my good days)/10 and my inexperience and my low self esteem made me fear meeting people, especially women. I guess my question is: "What should I do not to die alone?"
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1. look up dating PUA/"game" type stuff (incorporate this, but don't get carried away with it) 2. get buff 3. anything else is extra, like riding a motorcycle, or being a muay thai fighter
seriously, get buff. like this muscle wojak. people say it won't solve anything, but it will. do you have any female friends you talk to? or anything like that? who is a female you talk to most often?
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Hello /adv/. I've been diagnosed with a common type of kidney cancer, specifically Wilm's tumor.
Honestly, I don't know what to do at this point. What should I do to keep myself from eventually going insane over this?
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Absolutely not, but don't go around telling everyone. Tell your closest and that's it
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Hang in there, lad.
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>>18567436
Good luck with chemo op!
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Sup /adv/, so its been 3 years since my last long term relationship. Its been about a year since my last hookup.
I think I'm ready to give up. I hate dating anymore, my last two relationships were only months long and a couple dates here and there where I just had no further interests and ignored them.
I think I might start hiring escorts, because fuck it, why not. No clue where or how to start. Where do I begin?
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>>18567425
Make sure it's independent escorts IE. No pimps or trafic involved. That how you get scammed, beat or jailed. In my country only independent prostitution is legal. Make sure the cost isn't too low. That's a bad sign. Don't get scammed either. I get most of my escorts through online self advertising they do. I ask the rate of a couple of them through my cellphone and if it is consistent I go for it in their apartment. Usually all great experiences
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Seems Interested Sometimes, Other Times Not 2017-07-29 01:09:11 Post No.18567386
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Seems Interested Sometimes, Other Times Not
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What does it mean when a woman texts you inconsistently?
What I mean by that is that for maybe a week she'll seem very interested and flirtatious, but then suddenly she'll hardly talk to me at all for another week, and when we do she seems very distant, typically until I ask if somethings up or if she's no longer interested. Then she'll go back to sounding very interested, and the cycle starts over again.
context with this specific woman; she hit on me first in high school and I was too spaghetti so we never did anything except for text. We would say very romantic things to each other and fantasize about a day where we'd actually meet in person but I was too much of a pussy to do anything. Eventually it got to the point where she'd text me as she was with other guys, promising that she 'loved' me and not them.
This time I don't want it to stick to texts and I want to meet up in person and see if we would actually physically be a workable couple. She agrees that we need to meet in person but no date has been set and I have this feeling that she doesn't really want to meet up. I've talked to her about that part, and she has assured me she does want to meet, but I'm not sure I buy it.
I feel fantastic when I'm talking to her and she's interested. Makes my fucking day. Then she'll get this way and I start thinking she's bored with me and I feel like shit, only for her to get my hopes up by acting interested agian.
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>What does it mean when a woman texts you inconsistently?
Who knows? Who cares?
If she isn't satisfying your requirements of a relationship then drop her. Trying to psychoanalyze a strange woman we know nothing about is a pointless task for us. If you don't like her communication then tell her that and see how she responds. If it doesn't get better or doesn't want to talk about it and you're still unhappy then leave. Its that simple.
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>>18567419
I guess that makes sense. How can I approach her about it so that it's direct but not dickish?
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>>18567444
>How can I approach her about it so that it's direct but not dickish?
How about focus on how you can approach her with honesty as opposed to how you can approach her in a way that doesn't hurt her feelings. The point of this conversation is honesty and getting to the bottom of a confusing situation, not preserving a relationship she isn't interested in and walking on eggshells around her feelings.
Ask her plainly what she wants; whether she wants to pursue a relationship or whether or not she isn't interested.
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How can I stop acting arrogant?
I live in a third world coutry where if you use more than 4000 different words to express yourself, most people look at you weirdly, and I don't like underestimating people.
Thing is, I am starting to have success and it is going to my head, which I don't mind, but I just want it to not be noticed.
Advices?
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Why are you using more than 4000 different words to express yourself...? I don't think it has anything to do with where you live, you're just a moron.
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>>18567382
haha yeah, you're right, but I am a moron for thinking I use more than 4000, it must be a lot less than that actually
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>>18567382
not much of an advice tho, I asked how can I stop being a moron, maybe someone who has overcome being a moron can help me a bit
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i'm a woman with a high libido, how do i deal with this shit 2017-07-29 01:04:25 Post No.18567364
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i'm a woman with a high libido, how do i deal with this shit
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i had autoimmune disease as a teenager and didn't understand what this sex thing was all about. now it's like WHAM
what do i even do about this
i like monogamy and dislike STDs so bedhopping isn't really an option.
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Are you looking for satisfaction or a relationship because your question seems a bit strange.
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>>18567376
both, i need the relationship for the satisfaction, just fucking some random dude won't do it for me
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>>18567364
Buy good toys.
Don't settle for a man that can't mostly satisfy you or you'll never be happy.
Till then, you're just riding the dating carousel with the rest of us :^)
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I like my coworker and want to ask her out. I've only talked to her for like 2 shifts but she might be moving soon so I want to make my move. I have two managers who know I like her and will help me with my advances because they think we'd be cute. Heres my plan, and you guys can improve it or tell me its shit. Keep in mind, I consider myself like a 4/10 guy, but my biggest concern is making her feel bad/uncomfortable rather than being rejected
>Ask her what kind of music/movies she likes
>ask if theres any movies out she wants to see right now
>if she says yes, ask if I can take her to see it
sounds good or what? I'll answer whatever details you guys want
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I'd like your advice, I'd appreciate your help and replies 2017-07-29 12:54:32 Post No.18567326
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I'd like your advice, I'd appreciate your help and replies
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Not to sound defeatist, but should guys like me (early 20's) not bother with girls until we have everything in order ?
I mean until we have our own car or motorbike, house, apartment or even a dorm room and our own lives in order.
Thirdly, I think (not 100% sure) we still shouldn't bother with them even though we're saving up money and are maybe even helping our parents with the bills.
For example, I think it would be foolish for me and other guys like me to flirt/hit on young women like pic related.
I think they would get turned off by guys like me who don't have the things I listed in the 2nd sentence and aren't at least semi/halfway established.
Also, the thing is that I asked this really pretty girl for her number (I kept thinking if I should ask her or not) and she actually gave me her number.
I was very suprised, I thought she'd say "no" or "I have a bf" because a LOT of girls say this stuff/have told me this.
We had a short conversation and I honestly think she said "yes" because I bought something at the store she's working at.
This is why I think it's foolish of me to ask her for a date, because I'm pretty sure she was just being a friendly worker.
So what do you guys think about this ?
What advice would you give to guys like me ?
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Stop being such a whiny negative bitch and live your life. Girls don't want to go out with you because you have this defeatist "woe is me" attitude about your life. Being "established" is not mandatory for a woman to be interested in a guy, regardless of age. How many broke 20-somethings do you see in relationships with broke ass dudes in dead end jobs?
Just do you and the girls will notice. If you're happy where you're at, if you're actively improving, if you believe you as a person have something to offer someone else, girls will pick up on that. Stop selling yourself short because you're not where you want to be yet.
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>>18567326
>Not to sound defeatist, but should guys like me (early 20's) not bother with girls until we have everything in order
I don't know what this meme means. I was an absolute mess in my 20's. I drove a shit Toyota with no windows because my car kept getting broken into and I lived in a shit-tier two bedroom with a mattress on the floor yet I somehow managed to date throughout the entire time.
Get this idea out of your head that women want your stuff. Some do, yes, but the unifying theme of my entire 20s was that I was charming and funny and I spoke to women with confidence and although I was a little ashamed of my place and tried not taking them back there they still appreciated the fact that I was honest and consistent and empathetic and we always had a good time talking and hanging out wherever we went. I don't mean to sound conceited but I always strived to be a decent person and THAT is what decent women strive for, OP, not this shitty 4chan meme that girls will only like you if you have a car and a house and a bunch of materialistic things.
Of course there are women out there who don't want to date a guy without a car but I live in a city where 80% of the kids ride bikes and live with roommates yet somehow they all manage to date and interact with women. No more excuses, OP. If a woman really likes you for who you are what kind of car you drive or how much money you have isn't going to matter. You need to start harshly rejecting the 4chan narrative of possession based dating before your mind is distorted beyond repair.
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>>18567326
guess it really depends what you're looking for
if you're living with your parents and bring a different girl home every weekend it might get a little awkward, but if you're looking for a serious relationship, there's nothing wrong with that, it actually helps because one way or another they will have to meet and get to know each other
also, suppose you get along really well and stay together for a long time, it's nice to have known each other in different phases of your lives, literally nothing wrong with dating early
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How to get/or give him/my number? 2017-07-29 12:35:15 Post No.18567282
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How to get/or give him/my number?
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>I work at a restaurant, he was our regular restaurant. >Since I worked there I think I knew him for like over a year already. But I work on and off in that restaurant so we don't see each other frequently.
>The thing is I kind of have a thing for him, I somehow think he has a thing for me too since sometimes he could stare at me for long, sometimes avoid looking at me.
>I would feel it when we came to our place with his friends and sit in the position that we could possibly see each other or going to the bar to ask me something.
How can I give him my numbers?
Should I write it in a note and give it to him the next time he comes, or make a small talk and give him directly?
>My restaurant kinda busy and he also really shy so I don't know how to talk and manage to give him my numbers.
I see him a couple times in town outside of work actually. But never have a ball to talk to him.
Helps
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Write down your number and a small note maybe?
Just something simple like "Call me [your name] x", and give it to him when you clear his table. Perhaps say something witty like "Since you never asked..." and smile/laugh/flirt and ask if you could bring him something
This is just the type of stuff I would appreciate as a man
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But it's only my gut telling maybe he has a thing on me as well, so I don't know for sure if I said "since you never asked" would it sounds like I'm being too flirty?
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>>18567309
Giving him your number shows your interest. You probably shouldn't try pickup lines until you're sure he's interested. I mean, if you give it to him and he's smiley and excited, maybe try flirting, but if he just accepts it pleasantly and doesn't make a deal out of it he's probably just being polite and you should just let it go.