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When I was like 16 y/o I have met some girls but these girls where always realy bad to me, and lied to me. Just for an example I had this girl that I liked and she said she liked me too. We spent almost everyday togeder and also some friends of ours, we always texted we loved eachother... Untill the day I discover she had a boyfriend and he was on his way to kick my ass because of lies she told him...
I was fighting a mental problem when I was a kid witch made me almost talk to nobody so I always trusted these girls...
Now I don't even know a girl and I already treat her bad and have 0 trust...
How do I trust a girl after this? Every girl I meet I think she talks to me because she thinks I'm an easy target and she wan't to make me suffer and every time she laughts is becuase she is making fun of me...
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>>18572280
First, you should read more books in English.
Second, you have to build up a positive pattern with a girl. You can't just force yourself to trust, it will take, at first, some faith that it can happen from you, and then, over the long term, positive experiences with a girl. Be patient with yourself and notice when you are thinking these negative, fearful thoughts and stop paying attention to them.
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Are you still around? I'm interested in trying to answer this question but not if the thread has been left for dead.
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>>18572507
I'm still here, I have bookmarked this tread and will read everything you guys have to say
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I'm a full time college student, and recently got my first girlfriend. I want to go out on dates and stuff with her, but I'm completely broke. What are some things I can do with her that don't come off as me being stingy?
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Rob a bank with her
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>>18572266
hiking
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>>18572266
fuck
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I'm in a healthy relationship, everything is going great. Last night I had sex with a girl I dated a few months ago, for no other reason than boosting my ego and stuffing my dick somewhere.
I feel very, very bad. I won't tell my girlfriend, I never will. How do I overcome the guilt and the fear that she finds out about it? She doesn't know the girl but I'm still afraid she finds out.
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Break up with her and tell her you pussy. You cheated. You cannot be trusted.
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>>18572243
>How do I overcome the guilt and the fear that she finds out about it? She doesn't know the girl but I'm still afraid she finds out.
First off... You are a fucking scum and a pig, control your desires you are not an animal.
With that out of the way, you have two choices, you either:
a) Tell her, with all the pain and hurt you will inflict her potentially ruining your relationship (even if you dont break up). She may forgive you for it, your relationship MAYBE will overcome it. But the lingering trust issue will always be there.
Oh and she will maybe get curious about cheating as well.
b) Find out of its a one-time only mistake and keep it to your fucking self. Dont be selfish again. Spilling the beans only to absolve you of your guilt is so goddamn selfish. You are gonna hurt your gf, she will forever me marked by it - trust me.
The chances of her finding her should obviously influence which choice you make. Just remember, you will never get credit for being honest about it, never... And you shouldn't you scum
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>>18572243
You won't. It will just eat at you forever. Even if she eventually marries you, she will be doing so under false pretenses.
You can't live a lie and expect to feel nothing unless you are a sociopath, and since you are obviously feeling guilt, you aren't.
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Ive told one of my friends about my depression but now kind of regret it. Should I tell them I'm getting over it and getting better? I don't want to keep them involved in case it upsets them.
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I NEED ADVICE. RIGHT FUCKING NOW.
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OKAY TELL US WHAT IT'S ABOUT.
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>>18572222
Any particular topic mister quads?
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>>18572222
what's the topic, anon? if there is any topic.
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I need some /adv/ on how to make friends, wether or not its online 2017-07-30 10:57:35 Post No.18572212
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I need some /adv/ on how to make friends, wether or not its online
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ive got social anxiety, and i find it difficult making mates and keeping them. (because of trust issues, and issues getting close.) what are some sites that are good for making friends? thanks for your time /adv/, i appreciate it. and cheers for replying. (im also a newfag who's been reading and posting a few things on this website.)
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If you play vidya start with steam.
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>>18572262
i love vidyas, and thank you anon.
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are you in college? join a club or something. otherwise, find local events in your area that you can relate to. online friends aren't nearly as good as real ones
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How do i get rid of a friend that i don`t like anymore?
The reason for not liking this friend anymore is 1.I don`t want to be associated with him(few people like him now but it is not like he didnt have a choice,he choose to not be friend whit a lot of people because of stupid reasons)
2.Annoying(he always calls me on skype or messaging me,i dont replay because i dont want to talk to him)
What do i do i dont want to do this face to face because i am a little bitch
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>>18572211
The real issue here is your little bitch approach. Tell him exactly how you feel and then cut him off. Loser.
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>>18572216
yeah,the problem is how is he going to take it.If i or him were adults i wouldn`t post thread
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How to get rid of (suspected) hormonal acne? 2017-07-30 10:47:31 Post No.18572201
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How to get rid of (suspected) hormonal acne?
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I get acne around my mouth all the time. I'm 19 (Female) and I don't know how to get rid of it. Does anyone have any tricks or tips? I've tried a bunch of exfoliants, moisturise/tone/cleanse/drink water/ eat healthy, all the things you're supposed to do for clear skin, all to no avail.
Pic related, it's similar to what I have.
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see a doctor or dermatologist since hygiene, diet etc hasn't worked.
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Squeeze them...
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>>18572201
Dont cover it with too much make up it will just make things worse.Only when you go out to nigh clubs for eg. Its hormonal and individual thing. I had very bad case of acne that i had since 14 yro till 20-21 and you realy cant do much about it,as i also tryed everything.So you need to suck it up and live it it untill it passes.It can get reduced by showering more often and with smooth skin soap.Also dont squieeze them hard with fingernails because it will leave scars which stay forever, as i regret now..Dont drink too much alchohol or eat too much fat food because it affects your skin.I washed my face every 3-4 hours during day with only cold water and used clean towel which i only use in my house, thats very important. Also change it often, once per week or less since you will wipe your clean face after wash so it wont get much dirty. It realy helped me to reduce it because i have very oily skin.
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>be at party catching up with people having a great time but by this time it's slowed down and now we're reminicing high school and other dumb shit
>suddenly fuck buddy hits me up from the party she was at saying it's close to ending ~11 or 12PM
>asks me if I want to spend the night at her place
>send her an "alright" and leave my party kinda bummed out some of these guys will be leaving the state soon and I won't see them again for a while
>get showered and hop into some comfy shit
>figure I'll just wait until she lets me know she's outside
>it's almost 1:45AM and haven't heard from her so I send a text
>says she's coming by to pick me up for sure it's just that her friends dragged her to another party
>send her a text around 2:30
>tells me to sit tight, she's on her way
>be now, nothing
what part of my brain did the decision making in this situation? At this point she probably found a dude to fuck and was keeping me as backup or just went straight home. Part of me is thinking she's probably just minutes away, the other is pretty pissed and wants to go to sleep. What would you guys do in this situation? Is being petty ever justifiable?
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I'd close my phone and go to sleep.
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>>18572188
Don't be pissed at her, you are the one that dropped everything when she called. Go home and don't answer her call or text next time when you have something going on or be in a position like I am and they come to my place late night sometimes unannounced.
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My life is shit /adv/ 2017-07-30 10:36:32 Post No.18572185
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I need some advise on what the fuck to do, to get good advise I'll start by telling you a little about what's been going on lately
So I have been sad/depressed for a few years and the shit just seems to get worse, at first i was down because i regret previous things I've done and can't seem to find any purpose in life. I then try to talk with my bigger brother about and he admits to also having problems with his mental health, and my mom apparently also hade these problems earlier in her life and had to go to therapists. All of this has been hard but what hit me hardest is something that happened yesterday (Divorced and remarried parents btw). So I was talking to my brother when he told me something that changed a lot, my dad has apparently been depressed his entire life, and he is deep in the depression shit. The worst thing about this is that I've always seen him as the happiest person ever but now it feels like everything I know collapses.
So with my entire family depressed as fuck I don't find a single reason to living no more, what am I supposed to do? Should I talk to my dad? There's so many questions in my head right now but so few answers, please help me live /adv/ :(
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>Be the younger me
>Be in 6th grade
>Go on a 1 week school trip with your class
>Choose your 2 best friends, Daniel and Eric, as your roommates
>Sing songs in the bus and be hyped about the trip
>Arrive at the youth hostel
>Go to your room with Eric and Daniel
>Look at Daniel
>Look at Eric
>See how Eric jumps into his bed and covers himself
>Be confused
>See how Eric starts to masturbate under his blanket
>Try to leave the room
>Classmates join the room
>Try to tell them that they need to go
>They break through
>They see Eric masturbating under the Blanket
>Be embarrassed of your best friend
>He starts yelling and everyone leaves the room including you
>Have a memory you will never forget
Do not have perverts as your friend.
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There's a girl I like a log but she's living 1000 miles away from me and I've known her for about 8 months. She's just so fucking cute and everything about her I love but I feel like I shouldn't tell her what the actual fuck do I do, /adv/?
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Tell her, how long are you going to go on in this situation, you need to tell her and end it once and for all.
Don't waste your life on the possibility of this girl you need to know if she feels the same
Also how do you plan on seeing her when she's so far away?
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Doesn't sound like you have too much to lose. Ask her out.
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>>18572304
Well I'm most likely visiting her state in a few months. I've talked to her everyday for these past 8 months and now I feel like if I do tell her how I feel itll be too late and she'll tell me she liked me a few months ago or never at all. It just terrifies me the possibilities, cuz I've never confessed before. I've been confessed to a lot but I've never done it myself and I just get so scared before I text her what I want to say.
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Have been going on dates/texting this girl for about a month and a half. I'm doing my last semester of uni in another city but each time I come down we see eachother.
The last two times we've been together I've kissed her goodnight although we've never had a discussion about exclusivity or a relationship.
Am I morally in too deep to fuck a different girl from tinder tomorrow?
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>>18572168
Yeah you are but you should go do it anyway if you want to.
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My gf grew up very religious and was committed to not having sex until marriage until she decided to not wait and wanted to have a healthy, adult relationship. Well we've been dating for three months and two days ago, she decided that she was ready and we had sex. For the past two days, she's been very sad, doesn't seem like herself but insists that nothing is wrong. I'm not really sure what she's thinking because she won't talk about it. What should I do?
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She clearly regrets it. Doesn't mean that the sex was bad, but she can't get her virginity back.
It's not complicated. There's nothing you can do.
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>>18572177
You can be supportive and listen to her if she wants to talk about it, until she overcomes her religious programming that makes her think she's a inner or at the very least a slut if she's having pre-marital sex.
Fuck it up and she will either dump you or try to get you to marry her, play your cards right and enjoy shameless sex.
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>>18572187
inner=sinner
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I suck at green texting but it's long af
>20 m
>In the military for next 10 months (mandatory) get 200$ a month working 8-17:30, actually leave home at 6:30 coming back around 19:00.
>moshi moshi weeb desu
>Know Japanese and interested in Japan, good enough to get around anything (n3 level for those who know
To the actual point
>No gf for past 1.5years
>Ex was mental, got over her tho
>Not much experience with girls
>Start talking to this cute Japanese girl, helps me study and practice speaking
>End up talking a lot, we're obviously interested in each other
>Really cute and innocent, could spend hours literally staring at eachother smiling like idiots
>Really like her but shitton of problems
Here we go
>Has an eye disease called NAION, she lost vision in one of her eyes and there's a 20% chance that in the next 5 years it'll affect the other eye resulting in her 100% blind
>I'll visit her this October probably, next time after that will be next August.
>Hoping to score a scholarship to study there, otherwise I'll be have to take 1-2 years off to work so I could have money to study and live there.
Is ldr really worth it? I really do like her and it's not because she's a female who gives me attention, this feels so innocent and sweet..
This sounds like a recipe for disaster but also I don't want to lose her or anything..
Also the eye thing is really bothering me, I don't mind her not seeing in one eye but if she goes full blind that's a no no for me.. she says her doctor said that the other eye will be fine but nothing is set in stone..
What should I do anons?
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Play Katawa Shoujo.
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>>18572158
LDR is a bad idea, really bad idea unless....
.... you have a solid and realistic plan to turn it into a normal relationship.
Ie in your case, either moving to Japan or her moving to wherever you are.
Trust me, I travel for a living and have done so for quite a few years, im an expert on LDRs
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I have a Chinese gf, met her in the UK, now I'm still here and she moved back to China. I haven't seen her since December and I'll see her in September. We won't live together until like 3 years from now. feels bad desu