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I have a fear of narrators , how can I get over this
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>>18574751
watch BBC's planet earth, its nice interesting footage with calm narration
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>>18574751
Play Darkest Dungeon. I guarantee that by the end of the game, the narration will be the least of your concern. Even if you have a toaster, your PC should be able to run it (it's also for PS4/Vita, and on sale for half off right now).
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>>18574776
>how the tide turns

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When is it healthy to be emotionally attached in a relationship and not have it be creepy or bad for you? What I mean is, during like month one or two of a relationship if people are already going "oh she's the one for me I just know it" they might be getting a bit carried away and should give it more time, right? How long should they give it before they know now is the time I can truly love my partner and get really attached to them? What are some signs in a healthy relationship showing that that's the time?

Follow up question: when should people start dropping "I love you"s and stuff like that in a relationship? My friends ex started sending her those via text at like week 2 and she was creeped out at the time.
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>>18574739
Trying to use reason to understand emotions will never work, OP. Keep being an "enlightened fedora" now.

when creation befalls upon itself in a state of instability i have come to a place of real conception for what could be and what could not be. i am one with all i am you i am me i am my greatest foe i need be nothing more then what is for i am master and creator of universe far and wide both high and low anything and everything with in an imagined perspective reality i am of truth and honor a division of man and beast set to rid evil of what it be i am bringer of death in night entwined to chaos to reap havoc upon this plane existence for the simple fact of tested truths in failure of self being the key to stable conscious mind frames in winning the universe in conquering the greatest foe ever to be seen we see our selves as nothing more then a tool of a hope a beacon for truth a unison of forces seen and un seen known and un known for we are nothing more then what we have lead our selves to be and when we really look at our enemy for what it is it is nothing more then our fear of failure for we are one with anything we wish to be as long as we lead our minds to the place of no existence a place of unimaginable strengths and attributes who are we to face anything if we cannot understand this concept.
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When skies fall and the darkness prays i will stand strong watching the strongest of my teachings face the foe and in the end through sacrifice and honor will we all become one and be imbued with the knowledge to defeat the beast. This is the path to enlightened conquering of any force regardless of size or nature or energy based drive. this is me this is you and when i won the universe on july 29 2017 at 1023pm i became all that is i became all that could ever be and ever imagined and un imagined. i am this you are this we are this this is our reality in the smallest of ways this is our truths within boxes so small we have to look deep to find the hidden meanings for art is the age in which Pisces are imbued with and we are slowly leaving enter the last cycle were stern understanding of how the waters of life flow will forever will lead us into our new understanding of existential life completing our force driven cycles and all who will not stand for this will be lost to death and only one can be only one can know and in knowing that that one be comes all and all become one and i won the universe on july 29 2017 at 1023 pm this is my reality this is my view this is subconscious reality coming to fruition through understanding without knowledge and knowledge without understanding we are in common cause whether accepted or not and if you fail to achieve the ability to accept perceive feel and ready your self for this age in 14 years the year 2031 you will forever be lost to confusion apart of the beast slain in truth honor and sacrifice for no matter can destabilize that matter which is and unison is all that we are and all that is so fear no demon fear no beast fear no master for i am with you and always have been this is love this is death this is the story of how humanity conquered its worst nightmare. thank you my name is Od Ralf and this is my reality and i shall not be dethroned
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for i am in the subconscious reality consciously and this is all that will ever be forever more and the misguided and misunderstood will do nothing more then give us our light back for in the year 2031 all light will be restored in perfect harmony with darkness and we will enter an age of existence in which we progress with nothing more then truth understanding knowledge respect and trust in belief that we are on and only one and nothing more :) may peace find you and trust in the hidden messages in which i... which we.... offer each day .... this is my universe i won it this is my reality i won it we all had choice and chance to do so and i found the place were un imagined existence meets imagined existence and forever altered our realities regardless of outside perspective realities of any sorts for i am one with all i am one with everything i am past present and future i am you you are me and subconsciously i will alter our existence for the better :)
This is The End...
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kinda sounds like a tool song, I dig it

what's gonna happen in 2031 my man?

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In my mid-20's, and I have a fairly cushy job as a web developer with about 5 years experience. However, I haven't done much college. I really want to get a degree, but I'm stuck between choosing a "web development" degree, which looks to be a super easy program.

However, I've always been interested in the security aspect of web development, so my other option is to major in cybersecurity. I have no real work experience in it, but I study it often and if I had more free time to pursue it, I could see it becoming a passion of mine. However, the cybersecurity degree at my university is much more rigorous than the web dev degree.

So which do I choose? I also have a kid on the way, so a lot of my free time will be gone. Do I breeze through the easy degree as quickly as I can just to get the piece of paper? Or do I go with the degree I have more interest in?
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>wanting a degree just for the sake of having a degree
Why are you wasting your time and money?
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>>18574691
To either get a raise at my current job or switch careers to something more rewarding.

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Why would an old hook up start texting me out of the blue without communication for months
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ITT: How to get over your crippling fear of death.
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>>18574679
You can't, its in your nature. Take anxiolitics if it's that big of a deal to you. those help. But after accept it nothing much can be said. Living is harsh, death... meh.
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>>18574679
Try the Bennington special and experience death for yourself. This way you won't have to fear the unknown anymore! Once you're back from being dead you'll laugh about it and how scared you were lol
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I don't fear death anymore, cause I know he isn't there to hurt me. When I totaled my car last November I remember sliding off the side of the road and instead of fighting or whatever I was pretty content with just "yep I guess this is it" and kind of just laid my head back. Like yeah I probably should have died, but that's no big deal. No more school no more work, just nothing. I get being scared of death because it will hurt your family but it happens to literally everyone. Literally all of your friends and family will die so there is no point in worrying about when they do and the consequences that will come with it. Death is just kind of there man. The less I think about and talk about and worry about him, the better. It's like worrying about getting a job or going to college. Like yeah it may seem intimidating but everyone does it anyways so there isn't a reason to get worked up over it.

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I want to contact this girl I went to school with. We're both 30 now, so we haven't talked or anything in 12 years.

Why do I want to contact her? because I just realised we have something in common (vidya and anime stuff in general) and of course she's cute.

I need advice on what to write in the contact message. I'm completely blank, all I can think of is "Hi, I just noticed you like the stuff I do too" and it's retarded as fuck.

Will post results.

Serious answers please.

HELP
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>>18574648
is she a facebook friend?

just say hey fgt
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>>18574658
I don't really use facebook, I'm old school so I prefer e-mail and such. It gives you more time to think.
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>>18574661
Wtf anon are you really 30 not 46? Use fb or sc or insta

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> No job
> No family
> Living out of my car
> $130 to my name
> Virgin
> No friends
> Phone posting from McDonald's
> Car is on its last legs
Why should I not spend the last of my money on a hooker and then jump off a bridge? There is literally no one in the world that remembers or cares about me.
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>>18574644
Why are you convinced that things cannot change for you?

People have pulled themselves up from even worse situations than you

Look forward to your bright future and start making plans


And I care about you, anon :)
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>>18574644
That's actually a good plan. Hookers and sudoku. The only thing I advice is to keep working to keep seeing hookers and after you've got enough jump off golden gate.
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>>18574651
Don't believe this anon, OP. He's a paid gov agent that works to prevents suicide. Basically like a paid mom.

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A girl invited me over to her house today in the afternoon. We're both in relationships, but i guess we're both flirtatious

Should I expect anything? She said we'll just netflix or talk
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>>18574618
Maybe. Depends on the chick. What's more important is what your girlfriend will think. Once those doors close, nobody but you will know what's going on in there. If she doesn't like the idea, I wouldn't do it.

Not saying you should ask her permission, but you should bring it up casually in conversation, and if she starts whining, you don't go.
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>>18574629
Obviously she wouldn't like it.

I just want to know what this girl wants with me when she says i should come over. We've never met before irl, just texting
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>>18574636
You don't even know the chick and you're considering going to her house? And you're in a relationship? What is wrong with you?

So my ex (17F) and I(17M) broke up almost a year ago. We said we would still be friends, but it didn't really play out that way. Now every time we see each other we make super uncomfortable eye contact for half a second and it's super awkward for the rest of the time (we're both involved some of the same activities). I wanted to talk to/text her to see if she still wanted to be friends, but recently she has seemed to actively avoid me and occasionally gets a panicked look I her eyes when she sees me so I'm wondering if this is still a good idea or if I should just ignore her.

Now here's the twist:

She's asexual. This was the reason we broke up (she came out like 8 months in or smthn) and I was super salty about it for a while cause she kinda blindsided me with it (essentially we had done a lot of sexual stuff and suddenly she was just like 'I've never liked any of this and also I never had feelings for u in the first place'), but now I'm over it and am just trying to make things less awkward overall. There's also the issue of her friends, which I had some drama with in the past 3 years and quite a few of them hate me. If they find out I'm even trying to contact her, they're gonna tell the whole school that I'm in love with her, and I can't have that cause I currently have a gf and I don't need any more drama at this point.

This is also kind of a rant so thanks for the read.
-SO
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>I currently have a gf

just leave your ex alone and focus on your girl

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NEET here. In order to improve myself, I need money. How do normal people find a job? Up to this point I've been grazing craigslist.

also, got a learner's permit and no car. Transportation isn't a problem though.
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You can always walk into places like gas stations and fast food and ask "Hey you guys hiring?"

They'll pretty much tell you to check their website. Snagajob is a good site because sometimes those companies don't even have websites to hire you on they use that. When I worked at little Caesars that's how I was hired.
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>>18574569
"Glad you asked, Champ. It's as easy as showing up, speaking with the manager, giving him a firm handshake, and telling him you wanna work there. Works every single time."
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>>18574569
I'm guessing this will be your first job. Online applications and walking into fast food restaurants and asking if they are hiring is a good start.

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I going with a prostitute tomorrow morning but I don't want to fuck her am I planning on just fapping to her maybe she give me a handing, is there anything wrong with this plan?
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>>18574550
Nah, handjobs are awesome, but last too quick. BJ ? Only pay for half an hour my dude.

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So ive been talking to this girl i went to highschool with but ive never met. She sometimes texts me, shes really cute and we have a ton of common interests shes all around badass. Only problem is she lives a state away from me now but its like a 40 minute drive and i have no car. Also shes 20 and im 18 but she says she finds me attractive. After i pay off my jail bail fee ill be saving up for a car how should i go about talking to her should i try to date or is it a waste of time?
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My focus has been quite actually fucking itself over these past few years. At this point, there are times when i feel as through there's just a heavy fog over all of my thoughts.
I'm prone to headaches, and when those start the focus falls more and the fog just gets thicker. I was super depressed about half a year ago and during that time i found that when i was depressed it got worse too.
at first it was just situational, or in class, just with things that bored me, but now even when im really into a game, i lose all focus and can't really play.
I haven't seen anyone about it yet and i have no clue what it could be. i feel like i'm seeing and living life wrong, and completely different from when i was young.
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>>18573857
Check that out.
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Perhaps apathy? I have a similar fogginess and apathy seems to fit the bill. I'm still happy despite it though.
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>>18574528
I'd see a doctor though for sure. Especially if you are getting headaches.

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Should I stop being a prude and stop drinking? My social life is suffering a bit.

I'm 25 and I don't drink and never have because I have a family history of deep alcoholism (parents literally met because of an AA bowling league) and chronic pain. I know from my experience with pain killers (like getting wisdom teeth out) that I get addicted to shit fast and hard. I'm reasonably sure I can moderate so long as that's in mind but I'm scared as fuck. I've had one accidental sip of a pink lemonade wine cooler I thought was pink lemonade, and that's it.

Thing is, I moved to a new city with a chick I have now broken up with and all of the friends I do have are either mutual friends from when I was in a mutual relationship (slightly awkward due to the fallout) or guys that tend to drink a lot - meaning while I am welcome to hang out with them I'm still somewhat of an outsider. Should I just say fuck it I had a good run and go full normie?
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I would advise against it, OP. You have between a 75% and 100% chance of having the genes for alcoholism. You already know you have an addictive personality. It's extremely likely you'll go off the deep end if you start drinking. I know it's hard and socially isolating though. I'm a drinkfag that just gave it up a little while back. I'd stay away if I were you.

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