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Distance relationship 2017-07-31 09:55:43 Post No.18576804
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>Meet girl
>On the internet
>Spent days talking with her on cam
>Chemistry between us
>We are both interested on each other
Now the problem, she lives 350 km (210 miles) away, nearly 6 hours of bus
I've talked with my friends, including one on a similar relation, and they unanimously told me to go for it, but I would like some external advice
Should I go for it?
Should I try to go for something serious?
Should I acknowledge that there's a strong chance of failure and just focus on us having fun?
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>>18576804
Go for it
You'll regret it if you don't
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>>18576804
go for it, and if you are looking for something serious, try that as well
I met a girl online that lived ~1200km away and we are getting married next month.
granted we don't live that far apart anymore, but did for about 2 years
it's possible but obviously takes commitment and isn't always easy, but that goes for any kind of relationship
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>>18576804
Go for it. I'm like >>18576828 in terms of distance -- USA to UAE -- except my girl left me after two years last week. Even in the depths of misery and depression I'm still glad we had something for two years. It made me happy.
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Should i just give up on leaving contribution to posterity, bruhs:
>be me
>never got to excel in class and, up until recently, used to be mediocre to bad in math and other exact subjects. Only got a honorable mention in a state science competition one time
>even though, i always dreamt of leaving contributions to some area of study, a legacy, you know
>look to the stories of the smart fellas who i admire
>all shine since the beginning and rise in life like rockets, leaving their names to be know forever
>see i don't quite got the profile
I'm not even trying to be grandiose here. Having my name along a concept in the footnotes of books would already be great for me.
Should i just drag myself along life consuming and producing like most of people with their simple mentalities so i don't get frustrated ?
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Dude you literally posted this thread one fucking hour ago. Jesus Christ. This isn't fucking Hacker News.
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>Should i just drag myself along life consuming and producing like most of people with their simple mentalities so i don't get frustrated ?
No, you should take a nap on some train tracks. The world doesn't need any more lazy pseudo-intellectuals with undeserved superiority complexes. It is neither unique nor interesting.
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Preffered married people answer but not married people vould also give me their opinion about it 2017-07-31 09:43:53 Post No.18576768
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Preffered married people answer but not married people vould also give me their opinion about it
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So the story goes like this.
I was horny so i decide to fap to a hentai. So this hentai have a wonderful cover. So before i read the hentai i see a tag
>NTR
i never like that tag but because of the beautiful cover i decided to just fap to it. So as i was reading this hentai theres this page where the guy watching tv and his wife like wearing a shoes. The conversation goes like this:
Wife
>all right im going now
Husband
Yeah ok take care
>also im gonn-
Yeah you gonna be late because youre going out with your friend right? I know what you about to say we've been married for fifteen years after all
And then the next page show she with another man fucking.
Tl;DR this isnt about gender but do they really cheat even after they spent time for more than 10 years together. And i want to know about average people dont give me
>well diferent relationship mean different outcom
Answer and i want your feeling too. will you do it?thinking about doing it?
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And by they i mean man and woman.
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Well that was almost english.
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>>18576800
Im sorry its not my first language.
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How to act more manly? 2017-07-31 09:37:51 Post No.18576755
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Long story short, girl(friend) clearly loses attraction towards me when I act emotional, needy, aka effeminate, and is clearly turned on when I act based on my testosterone aka manly
For example, acted like a bitch and even cried in front of her this weekend because i was drunk and emotionally unstable. She's pretty meta about her feelings and told me she now feels more or less indifferent if we break up. Keep in mind a few days ago she was spamming me with lovey-dovey texts and trying to get my attention. During our "'makeup" talk she pissed me off and I yelled at her for the first time in a while and I literally saw her eyes light up, her face brightened a bit. TF
TL;DR how can I be more masculine around my gf
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>>18576755
Study Stoicism. Read works by the great Stoics. Meditations by Aurelius is good.
And, for god's sake, if you can't get drunk without acting like a bitch, then stop drinking. I'm so serious.
Also, dominate your girlfriend in the bedroom. Show her that she's yours and no one else's.
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I just do what I want, you know, without breaking the law.
Break the rules, though.
I am genuine Lord Friendzone.
I've met her in the chatroom back in 2000. I write her letters later. She replied, she been friendly. She lived in Moscow, her life was better than mine, richer, more interesting. I've told her, that I love her. She remained friendly. She listened, she answered, she was in love with another man. I didn't know, what to do. I wanted to come to her place, I did, but time was wrong, we never met. We talked over the phone. Once she called me and we've been talking for three fucking hours.That man was older than her and he is long gone. He didn't fuck her when she been underage and did not do it later. We talked over the phone, we chatted over ICQ, then she disappeared. But my life already was broken. She surfaced later, I've found her in a social network. She was pregnant, There was a year of 2007>
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She was pregnant and she was married. And I liked her new husband, he was better, than me. We have been chatting, again and again, I liked it. In fact, she has been even more friendly, as I wasn't that sorry aggressive brat I've been before. She was still hot. Even now, when she got two children, she is still a hotty.
I actually wanted to meet her and her husband, she agreed to that, but we didn't have the chance. And tomorrow she is coming to my hometown.
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Her husband, not a jealous type, according to her, but it isn't an issue. The issue is her Father-in-law, who is a hard-ass and taking secure roots and places during their journey. There are eight of them, on two cars. If they would manage to bypass me and I never meet her in person, I'll start to think she's never even was real. If I try to go for an intercept, I may risk provoking her folks, which would be bad.
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Her Father-in-law does not even tell her about tomorrow's schedule. She wrote me, that's the reason she missed a meeting with her friend in another town. She tells me, it pisses her off.
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Should i stop having the desire of a significant legacy, bruhs ?
>be me
>never got to exceed in class and, until some time ago, used to be mediocre to bad in math's and other exact subjects, though
>Even with that, i always dreamt of building some contribution/legacy so i could at least get my name given to a concept in the footnotes of textbooks and all
>look up to guys in the history of sciences i admire
>all exceled from the very start and the rest of their lifes were like a rising rocket
>realize i don't quite got their profile
Should i just give up on leaving something meaningful and just keep with my life focused on dragging my carcass around, consuming and producing like the other simple-minded folk with no ambitions ?
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I don't know but I'm in the same boat anon
just do something you find meaningful
if you find nothing meaningful, let me know if you figure out the solution to that one
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legacy is a meme
literally
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>get to a middling political position
>wait for the right moment
>do something silly
>get anal'd into the feet of history
>on the bavarian communist republic
>His government members were not always well-chosen. For instance, the Foreign Affairs Deputy Dr. Franz Lipp (who had been admitted several times to psychiatric hospitals), declared war on Switzerland over the Swiss refusal to lend 60 locomotives to the Republic.[11] He also claimed to be well acquainted with Pope Benedict XV[12] and he informed Vladimir Lenin via cable that the ousted former Minister-President Hoffmann had fled to Bamberg and taken the key to the ministry toilet with him.[13]
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So /adv/ let me tell you my story
I recently started dating this girl I've been obsessing over for over a half of year.We've been dating for over 2 months now but I still couldn't make her cum yet(even though I'm is the only dick she ever got) and I'm pretty worried is my size.I'm like a 15 cm(I think,when I measure it the base,without any push it's like 15,16 cm but when I push till the pelvic bone it becomes like 18 cm from the side BUT that is from the side.When the tape is over my penis is,again,16-17 with some push)
I want to make her happy and I hate the though of a Jamal to take her and fuck her with like a 20 inch cthulhuic member.Everything else is going well(we spend every day almost 9 to 10 hours together and we can't get enough,always laughing and having a great time) but I'm worrying that the frustration she feels will be too much and, one day and,she'll decide to leave me for someone else
Now,if you are going to ask for my technique,it's not much.Some cowgirl,some reverse,some doggy but i always get tired and afraid I'll cum(we do it with zero protection(yeah I know it's retarded) but she likes it raw and with a condom I can't feel jack shit) and pull it out to early
So ,/adv/ can you /adv/ice me what to do or tell me if it's big enough or will it grow?i'm really worried because this is my first serious relationship and I really,REALLY like this girl
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Try digital or oral. If you're good with each other, it shouldn't matter that much though. I wasn't able to cum from anything but oral with my GF for 4 months, but we communicated insecurities and reassured one another until I felt comfortable enough to nut inside her
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>>18576767
Well,she almost came today from fingering,but she got scared that my parents might come home and find us like this so she was paranoid.Plus my arm hurt
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>>18576735
It's definitely not the size, you've got a nice average sized penis that vaginas have evolved to like. It's probably the technique. Even though you say it isn't. Also, is she at least on birth control then? If not... you poor damn horny stupid moron. Pulling out is basically russian roulette with a fully loaded gun. Use a condom or get her on birth control so you can come inside her. Then you won't have to worry, then you won't be distracted, and then you can focus on her more and that'll make it easier for you to make her come.
Furthermore, it's not just the dick. What are you doing with your hands? Your mouth? How much time do you spend on foreplay? Just making out and stroking and massaging her. Have you tried teasing and edging? CAN she even orgasm? Does she orgasm when she masturbates? How does she masturbate? Try doing the same thing for her.
And seriously USE FUCKING BIRTH CONTROL!
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Help me prank a Scammer? 2017-07-31 08:56:17 Post No.18576687
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To try and keep things short, I'm selling a PS4 bundle on ebay and have been pm'd by a seller offering me £340 + £20 postage for it.
They requested me to send an invoice to their paypal address and (which I did) and said that they would pay me that way.
Instead, they insist that they have paid me (they haven't, according to my paypal the invoice has not been paid) and keep telling me to check my eBay email address spam folder for their proof of payment.
It looks like a fairly obvious scam to me and this explains the 'too good to be true' price they were offering to pay.
I was wondering if you guys could come up with any good ways of GOOFIN them back? As they have given me an address they would like the PS4 to be sent to.
Pic is the email they sent to me
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Send cops to their house.
Sign them up for all sorts of bullshit.
Send them a box of snakes.
I'm not really a prankster by trade.
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what a horribly written phishing email.
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Cheers dude, I like the third one
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Today was the last straw for me, /adv/.
I got in to my parents car. Drove through the city and got closer to a heavy traffic light and my mind came up with the thought: why dont some car just smash into my car?
I've had the thought before... What the fuck is wrong?
I'm in a bad situation in my life, is my mind playing tricks on me because of the heavy load of my everyday life?
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>>18576632
Your in a bad situation and want a way out. An easy one is to die. Stop being alittle bitch and take control of your life.
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>>18576640
Eh. It's very hard with a physical disability man. I'm getting surgery 22nd of August and won't be able to work for a long time (6 months). Good Im starting school the 29th of August... have to walk around with crutches tho
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Hey.
I'm kind of a pussy for this shit, so I'm gonna be real with you: get help. Go to a therapist and tell him/her you had thoughts like these.
They're not uncommon. Everyone thinks about it time to time, and I get that you think they'll overreact, but it's real shit, and you're underreacting.
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Ok Adv im in a bit of a situation I recently got out of the military with a General honorable discharge. Long story short my roommates gave me two months to find a job, its been one month so far and Ive applied to over 100 places And not found employment yet I've gone to a temp agency and everything.
Is it Realistic to get a job within 2 months?
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yes.
what you should do is walk into a resturant, and ask the owner or head of kitchen if they are looking for diswashers/cleaners. Most of the time they are. Give them your name, contacts, and why you showed up in the first place. If they don't call back within 48 hours, just contact them saying "blah blah, I came in a few days ago asking for a job blah blah" then they will most likely either say "ah sorry all positions are filled" or "yeah, come in today and fill out some paperwork" (or simply come in if they are paying you under the table)
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>is it realistic to get a job within 2 months?
Yes.
If you need a job have you tried working at a prison? I know they're always hiring and will take anyone they can. I currently work at one and we're 80 guards down.
If all else fails there's always Walmart.
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Do you know if smaller jails are this way too? I want to become a police officer and I figure this could be a start.
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I loathe the only thing I'm good at.
I can write narrative fiction really well, but I hate it. My friends like it when I write, and they give me prompts, but that's one of the only reasons I do it. Writing sentence after sentence, or even just getting started is like pulling teeth and feels so fucking unrewarding.
But at the same time, I rely on it for self-confidence. When I see my friends, or people that are extremely talented, I feel like shit because I can't do anything very well. My writing is the only thread that kept me from killing myself because I felt like worthless garbage. It's the only thing that impresses people. Still, I don't want to do it.
However, there is something I like doing, but am shit at. I like making music with a DAW, but making electronic music is too weird for anyone to care about. My friends will read anything I write but will try to subtly avoid listening to anything I've put on Soundcloud.. Still, I'm not that good at it and going much further will cost a fuckton of money I don't have.
So my options tend to be:
>Write and get attention but hate doing it
>Make music and get ignored but love doing it
It should help that I have a ton of social anxiety and appearing talented is something that is extremely important to me, and I define myself based on others' opinions of me.
As a result, I'm not really happy anymore. Nothing really sucks me in except making music, only nobody (online or people I know) cares about that and that depresses me. I'm not happy if I'm not productive, so video games don't make me happy like they used to.
Thank you for your help, /adv/.
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Anon its better to do what you like. who knows, maybe you wont get ignored. try both and see what fits you thr best.
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Make things for yourself, not for others.
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Why do you want to impress people anyway?
After a family death and breaking up with my partner four years ago I was starting to drink so much. Two bottles of wine, a bottle and a half of whisky a night, easy (when I could afford it). Even on dates I still thirsted. Hell, even with my ex I wanted to drink constantly.
A week with this new girl and I just ... don't. I still reach for the bottle out of habit, but she slaps my hand away, I shake my head clear and it's fine. No thirst.
Then, I'd be craving a drink all day, have that first drink then go on a complete bender. Now ... I spend all day sober, maybe have a glass of something, feel sleepy, no urge to keep drinking. Get a bit drunk with her, don't keep wanting to drink, kissing her is more important.
The need for compatible human company is really important.
No advice required, just don't have anyone else to tell this to.
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Can I just get an indication that somebody read this? For my peace of mind.
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>>18576565
I read it
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>>18576718
As did I. Glad you're doing better, OP. You're still a fag, though. Sorry.
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Might lose my virginity tomorrow 2017-07-31 07:55:16 Post No.18576557
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Meeting up with a woman because we both have the same fetish. On paper this is great but I have had issues with becoming fully erect even when women are indulging me in the kinkiest shit. She doesn't know I'm a virgin.
I have a prescription for sildenafil (generic viagra), never used it. I also intentionally haven't masturbated in 2 days so I can maintain sexual energy (I guess?). I'm trying to not stress and if it happens great but if not I'm not going to be upset.
> Would it be safe to take the medication or should I try to just go in naturally? Any tips you guys might have?
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If you're going to fuck her, be on top (better blood flow which means it'll be easier to maintain an erection for guys with your problem).
Don't masturbate don't done become a fucking drone, either. If you cut off your labido then you're going to be in a state of non-arousal and that'll really fuck you up. Try getting high by yourself and see if that helps give you an erection (it works on some guys, other guys it makes impotent).
Do kegels, hydrate, don't eat too early before fucking (your body is going to use energy for digestion), and find a way to feel like a stud about yourself.
I don't know if any of this will help, but these are the best things I can come up with. Try to get and maintain erections before resorting to sildenafil.
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The medication won't hurt, unless you have any sort of heart or blood pressure problems. I like to take it recreationally as it lets me fuck for hours. That said, I only take maybe 1/4 of a pill a day at most. It makes you really sleepy and a whole pill is intended for people with real blood problems.
Just relax and enjoy yourself.
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>>18576602
They say take 3 20 mg tablets before sexual activity. So taking one would not be as effective but relatively safer, yeah? I just don't want to be one of those guys that has the boner longer than 4 hours and has to go to the ER..
>>18576577
Weed hasn't really helped my erections and just makes me anxious. Any foods to avoid or foods that help?
appreciate it both of you
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My boyfriend and I have a girlfriend that's an INTP.
I am absolutely fascinated with her but there are some obvious drawbacks and I was wondering if this sounds like other INTPs on the board or people who dated them that can chime in
She disappears into her room for days sometimes only coming out for food at night like a mouse.
-the fact that she won't share a room with us is strange. First I thought it was for work or hobbies, but she sleeps on the floor in there like a cat sometimes.
- she says we're dirty because it's not her mess. Albeit her mess is always clothes and clutter. About once a month she goes crazy like a werewolf cleaning everything up to the ceiling fans.
She's uber smart but hardly ever pays attention
- she spends a lot of the day listening to music because it " keeps her thoughts in theme " and " helps control her moods"
-Sometimes we're 30 minutes deep in a conversation before I realize she's not paying attention. One time I got mad at her and her fucking response was " I know but I remember what I thought to say to you in response so I already paid attention we just haven't gotten to that part of your argument but you can finish" -.-
- anything that's in her hands might as well go into a void. She can pick something up and lose it within seconds without remembering where she set it down.
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I thought it was mild autism at first but our boyfriend took her to a few psychologists and they said she was fine just "eccentric and intelligent". Her response was to call all women in psychology wastes of money or psychopaths in general.
- she generalizes a lot and usually she's not wrong but she can't manage to keep female friends, her male friends fall inbetween two categories ugly nerds, and obnoxious Chad's that she thinks are "fun because they're stupid."
- She tells white lies when she should tell the truth like if someone is bothering her at a club she'll say she's sorry and make up a lie about herself to make other people she doesn't know feel better, but anything involving us or people she knows she's painfully honest and pragmatic.
That being said she's not Spock either, every few months she seems to get in a physical altercation over something really stupid. Last time we bailed her out it was some girl she knew that was harassing her. Her reasoning at first was " If she's going to hate me I'll give her a valid reason" to " I'm just frustrated with everyone." without any more explanation.
It honestly feels like dating a beautiful ghost with a dash of Hank Hill.
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>>18576538
>Her response was to call all women in psychology wastes of money or psychopaths in general.
She's right you know.
I don't get it though, are you dating her?
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I'm an INTP female and this describes me strangely accurately
Is there a specific question in this? Otherwise, all I can say is that INTPs tend to be in their own universe at all times. You don't really need to try to step in their world, but making yours accessible to them helps.
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Hi everyone. Before you read this thread, note that I DO NOT feel like harming myself in any way. I actually feel like I have beaten my depression.
About 6 months ago I experienced something horrible. I sought out a psychologist for my depression shortly after. I was then diagnosed with bipolar disorder which I think is total bullshit. I took the medicine for about 6 months and it definitely numbed my emotions but at this point I don't think it does anything and i have realized it is poison. I have cured my depression through yoga and art. I feel really great about myself.
But the problem is, I was on 400 mg of Lamictal and under my doctors supervision I am weaning off of this medication. I am currently at 325mg and I'm currently lowering my dosage by 25 mg every week.
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It is hell.... This week I feel so fucking sick to my stomach. I have heart palpitations, a tight chest, trembling. I have a horrible migraine I can't even get out of bed because I feel like I have vertigo and tunnel vision. I never realized how much this drug can change your brain chemistry. I looked up medical side effects from taking this medication for a long period of time. My doctor told me if I ever wanted to have children it would be safe for me to continue taking this drug because it would keep me from having a "mental breakdown". I looked up this medicine online and many women reported brain abnormalities in their children because they took this drug while they were pregnant because their doctor told them it was okay. It is 100% fucking poison in my eyes..
I just feel like total crap today and totally unmotivated and sick. Has anybody else tapered themselves off of a high dosage of antidepressants? What the hell did you do cope with these side effects??
I literally feel like I have the flu...vomiting etc. I know this going to be really fucking hard...I would just like any advice you can offer. Also, because of my personal experience, I would never recommend this medication. If you feel batshit crazy, find a good doctor who will listen. Also, don't say "smoke weed" that plant will alter your mind forever...I'm trying to clean out my body...please help...
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Since this is foreign medicine I dont know about it, but if you are taking few different ones you should ask pharmacist if they are compatible (not every pharmacist is a good one, so ask few of them). If you are taking only these pills i suggest you lower the dose. Since my mom is a pharmacist and I practicaly grew up in a pharmacy I saw that doctors form mental illness (depression ect.) gives everyone same mix of pills with same dose. And many times it is that you might have a weak liver or heart and those drugs are too strong for those organs, then you feel like shit. So you should get a check up on your body or if you have a certain weak organ tell it to doctor that prescirbed it and ask for alternative... Online i think it was drugs.com or something simmilar where you can check how compatible is your medicine..
*fun fact - if you are taking painkillers dont eat citrus fruit because they make painkillers not effective *science* - so maybe the problem is simmilar in a way? maybe you mix your medicine with something and it turns out into bad reaction