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it means she wants to ease the pain of breaking up with your presence until she finds someone else

>>18579605

It means she doesn't love you anymore, but that she's scared of being alone and dying alone, so she's keeping you at least until she finds a back up plan. Have some pride and walk away with dignity while you can.

>>18579605
>i dont want to end it yet
what the actual fuck

>>18579558
Try different things until you enjoy something.

>>18579558
If you can't find a hobby, find an obsession.

>>18579609
How though?

Bump, I'm looking for podcast suggestions too, anything dealing with philosophy or music

>>18579556
WTF with Marc Maron: long interviews

or Monday Morning Podcast with Bill Burr: him ranting

They're both good comedians

>>18579556
The Joe Rogan Experience is alright

I left my toxic friends behind a year ago and haven't looked back since. Haven't heard from them either. Even if they try bugging you, you can just block them on social media. Why give a shit about what they're saying about you? Any onlookers will figure out for themselves, pretty quickly, that they're dealing with a bunch of assholes. Do the right thing and take care of yourself OP.

>>18579544
This kind of people never straighten up, they always need somebody to toxify, so when you leave they won't change, but find somebody else.

>>18579554
>>18579561
I really do wish to leave them, despite how the initial reaction may be, but sadly to say there really isn't much else in my life right now.

Why are there people that are like this beyond high school?

>>18579483

Having a racial preference isn't an issue. Even finding a partner abroad who shares your values and life goals isn't an issue. If you expect your asian wife to fit some sort of asian stereotype (looks 20 in her 40s, bows down at the door when you come home, submissive af) then it probably becomes questionable.

>>18579483
Asian women are bad. Most of them are materialistic, emotionally distant, angry and all look the same after 35.

Asian women are probably the worse. You need lots of money and no balls.

>>18579483
>Is it wrong as a white guy to want an asian wife?

no, not really unless you're one of thos-

>feel western relationships are generally become more shallow and temporary

oh

>>18579468
Have you tried melatonin?
It's not a sleeping pill.

Physical exercise till your muscles feel sore, push ups, dumbbells, anything
Guaranteed sleep

>tries drugs before exercise

Its like you want to get worse

>>18579458

Depends. Both are good for employment. If you like people and helping them and don't mind stress and pressure, go nursing. If you prefer to work in peace and with your hands, become an electrician.

>>18579458
Nursing pays more (especially if you become a nurse practioner or a nurse anesthesist).

Electritian is more immediate, but nursing probably makes more money in the long run.

>>18579458
You can be an electric nurse class. Lightning spell and healing spell cost no mana.

Works for me. Nobody deserves to know how you feel. End of story

Yes. You need to talk to people about that shit. i don't mean this in a condescending way but not like you have anything to lose, they asked you for a reason.

If you feel like you're a bother just smile and ask "do you want the real answer or the convenient answer" and ease into it don't just drop the in suicidal bomb

>if you want their sympathy, or want to talk to them about it

"I'm just going through a rough patch"

This leaves them open to offer to lend their ear if they want to help you, or if they don't, so simply say "Sorry to hear that"

>if you don't want to talk about it

"I'm fine."

You or any other anon taking requests?

>>18579335
Yes faggot, never pick up a pencil in your life. Stop trying to become better.

Since you will inevitably fail, just kill yourself before that happens.

>>18579349
Calm down bro

>>18579310
Yes, especially if you have a very social job or go to a university.

Also, don't feel the need to leave a city to leave a relationship. People in your town care suprisingly little about your relationships, and will forget about it completely after a few weeks, no matter how small you feel your town is.

>>18579322
>yes, especially if you are social
I hope so

>people in your town don't care about your past relationships
I want people from these past relationships to know that I have completely vanished. I might talk to them on the phone occcasionally to keep them from going psycho or hurting themselves.

>>18579336
What? Why would you "vanish" and still keep in contact with them?

>>18579286
Give I.C.E a anonymous tip

>>18579289
>kek
Im going to be honest, I've always considered the option, but then my mother would have no financial support, because shes in no physical shape to work any job, but an office one (which she probably couldnt get). They run a buisness together and that would ruin everything.

I recall her saying, that a year after i leave she will file for divorce

If you are strong enough you must beat him up and explain to him he cant go on forever like that. He will change or he can leave your family alone.Also i would be more worried about your brothers, help them. They will be only one in life when your old folks die. HELP them and try to reason your father. If you cant just beat him up and leave for new city.

I can heavily relate to this..

Everybody feels lonely at times. At the end of the day, we are all individual beings and we cannot rely on another person for our happiness. We all die alone, whether you spend your life with your soulmate/wonderful family, so the loneliness you're feeling is completely normal.

It isn't normal to focus on this feeling as much as you seem to be though. You need to speak to a professional who will be able to tell you whether this is something more serious than just the "growing up blues".

I am betting that you're in your late teens/early twenties and right in the middle of your 2edgy4me stage. This feeling will pass, so don't do anything stupid in the meantime. Speak to others for help, communicate with your boyfriend and family and try and find a hobby that challenges you.

>>18579288
I don't feel like I'm ever going to be happy, I think the only time I was ever happy was in my childhood. It's just not going to happen, mainly because I'm lonely, no one has my back and my self esteem is never going to recuperate. I recently started to invest in my own business but the apathy from my own family really gets to me. Even my boyfriend treats me like a failure and I've begun to see myself under that light. There's just no way in hell I will spend the rest of my days, like my parents, working a 9-5 job. I'd rather die than live a sad life without any hope of redemption or true happiness.

>>18579247
>Do I try to ask her again to hang out this Thursday or do I stay calm and ask her next week if she wants to hang out?
Neither, you ask her in no uncertain terms something like, "We're both free thursday, are we going to hang out or not?" And if it's a no without a damn good excuse you fuck off

>>18579252
I actually just found out (after I had posted this thread) that apparently she leaves the country on Friday for vacation, which might explain why she doesn't want to hang out on Thursday (packing and all that).

>>18579255
jeesus Tinder is a fuck app people only use to find pussy and dick.

she is not interested in fucking you, she already have 1000 guys matched and picks and choose.

God how fucking hard can this be. If you actually wanna find a marriageable girl stop using degenerate hookup apps where you only find sluts.

yes
here's a question
do you care how guys look?
yes?
they care how you look too

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Men don't ACTUALLY care about looks.

>>18579221
I mean, you need to provide more context than that.

If you're going to work for me, I don't care what you look like.

If you're selling me something, I don't care what you look like.

If you want to be in a romantic relationship, yes, I care very much what you look like.

>>61677238 (OP)
Alt+F4

>>61677238 (OP)
pmed you :&)

>>18579144
Delete system 34, 23 and 24