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there's no hope, just give up now.

>>18580974
At least there is another girl I run into in the hall all the time that works in a different department that is cute. But still this girl was perfect, am I really fucked? She said personality wise I reminded her of her brother

My fiance would probably fuck her older brother if she could .

yeah, kill yourself you dumb fuck

or go cheat and then after a week come back and tell us if you can think of any bigger mistake to make in your life, i'll be genuinely interested

>>18580962
in the same boat m8, its terrible. we both need to think about the future and if well resent them for it. i wont cheat on her but im worried about future me at 35 with 2 kids and a house getting restless

Why do you worry that you're missing out? Do you think there's better sex to be had? Is your current sex life lackluster in any way, even during brief moments?

You must be 18 to post on this website.

Reported.

>>18580937
she isn't wet. You need to get her going. Also not everyone is good at bjs and handjobs are useless

>>18580941
Bruh

>>18580932
You need to give yourself time to grieve the relationship. Even though it was probably for the better, you experienced a loss, and you need to let yourself process that. Yes, bad feelings suck, but they have to be dealt with so that they don't poison your next relationship.

distract yourself with other activities that you like, spend time with friends.
Delete her contacts/phone number, there is nothing worse than a whiney ex.

>>18580935
thanks anon i dont get why though she was fine one min and the next thing i know "i dont love you the way you love me but i want us to be friends"

>>18580928
Wait until you have the means to leave or a friend to move in with before breaking the news in case they boot you out. That's really all you can do, hope they see it as the way you were born and not a conscious decision you've made.

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>>18580928
>I'm 17
Mind telling the moderation team your birthday? You don't want to get banned for a year now do you?

I'm not a rulefag, but might as well say it before someone comes by

>>18580928
stop, why would u do that are u retarded?

you are supposed to tie her up so she cannot leave or utter words to break up with you.

The fact that you couldn't communicate to the point where you didn't even think to ask her if it was okay with her means that your relationship was inevitably doomed to begin with.

>>18580929
its not rape if it is agreed upon.
rape fantasy implies penetrating a girl with force WITHOUT consent...

Time.

Time heals all wounds.

>>18580894
I'm 23 and it feels like it's just getting worse.

Every time it hits me everyone else is "there" already and that I'm never going to just naturally "grow up" and start liking normie adult things I feel worse.

>>18580901

Well if it makes you feel any better, I'm 25, single, pretty socially retarded and generally not attractive, and I know exactly what you mean about wanting to fit in and be normal.

I don't have an answer your looking for but I am confident that time heals, because when I was 23 I cared MUCH more than I do now. I still care, but eventually you just come to terms with things and realize if you really wanted to change things you would, so instead I've just accepted things are the way they are because I want them to be, and unless I don't, I just have to make some changes.

I've made a few big changes that I have stuck too which has been nice, so really its just slow and steady. You're not gonna become the person you want to be over night.

>>18580795
Money can be exchanged for goods and services.
What goods can you produce/what services can you provide?

>>18580795
Grow up. Your options are work, try for tardbux, or starve. There is no getting around this.

>>18580804
Skill's
Plots> story's
Crafts> wood work
Planning> budgets and inventory usage

Fug her
>My mom has said some real weird shit over the years
What do you mean by this

>>18580770
super strange shit like "I love you" and "You're handsome" and "You look nice today!" really weird shit man.

>>18580789
Has she always talked like this? In what situations does she say it? Those examples seem like a stretch and can be taken as her just being a mom

>>18580716
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>>18580716
>the antidepressant Jew


Sounds like a new superhero

I don't think getting a smoke from a stranger or your mom lying to you qualifies as PTSD if that's what you're implying, sorry

>>18580709
excuse me if this is obvious but have you tried using contact lenses?

>>18580724
yeah but the prescription is too high for contact lenses alone. I tried getting them when I was younger but I have fear of putting anything near me eyes. I haven't asked about it but I think I could wear them with glasses but that probably won't work. How could I get over getting things close to my eyes? I can't keep them open if I have anything near them no matter how much I try.

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>>18580709
I have been at least 6 inch shorter than everybody else since 6th grade, so don't feel bad. You are not the only one. Here is a good meme to cheer you up.

It's been two years.

I know you two were through a lot, but it's been a long time. There's a solid chance that she's trying to move on, move past what you two had. Wallowing in that past won't change the fact that it's over. I'm going to go out on a limb and say maybe try starting to move on too. It doesn't have to be overnight, but make a change for yourself that starts the process of finding the next person who makes you feel happy.

>>18580701
She's beautiful, bro, but:
1) She chose a random vacation over you
2) She is race-mixing with one of the "religion of peace"

She's not the woman you need, OP. She's degenerate, not a homemaker. Find a more wholesome woman focused on family. Let her go...

>>18580701
Can I hit it after you kill her man?

>>18580663

instead of trying to some big purchase, why don't you satiate your self with a whole bunch of little things.

tired of how you can't sleep in cuz the light in your room? buy some nice curtains. not a fan of your bed? buy a memory foam topper. wan't an a/c in your room? buy that. invest in a video game system, new or old, and a few games. new rug?

go to etsy and type in some of your favorite things (for instance, I went and typed in 'majoras mask') and see what pops up. i found some great paintings and ended up buying out the guys entire shop, his original works are even better than his majoras.

F>>18580696
Thank you for your reply

replace all worn socks and underwear, that is what I did with my first big paycheck, felt amazing

Just vape, Its healthier, and can be a lot less expensive if you make your own liquid.

>>18580606
Do you actually have any reasons for wanting to smoke?

>>18580606
I smoked the first time when I was 17

Second when I was 19
Next three packs age 21
Last fifteen packs age 22

Don't do it brother, it takes a while for you to get hooked but it's fucking difficult to kick. Anyone here will tell you that.

Get her phone # and address?

>tfw you will never ever pick up women this easily

looks like you already got it in the bag, just netflix and chill or some shit

How desperate are you?