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Driving anxiety after accident 2017-08-02 08:06:48 Post No.18581627
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Driving anxiety after accident
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3 months ago i was involved in a 0% fault accident. I was waiting in the turning lane and got hit head on by a driver who veered from the opposite side due to texting
I have a new car now thanks to insurance, but am unreasonably scared to drive it. Everyones telling me i need to get over it because it was an absolute freak accident due to bad luck and will *probably* never happen again
any advice?
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>>18581627
Everyone is right, grow a pair of balls or ovaries.
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It's a "get back right on the horse" thing. The longer you wait the worse it will get OP. Just gotta rip it off like a band-aid and soon you will feel like you did before.
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>>18581627
Shit happens, that's just reality. You're worrying about shit that you can't control. In fact, you're letting this fear control you. Go out there and do it anon, the longer you wait, the worse it'll get.
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How can I stop being a jackass at work? 2017-08-02 07:32:15 Post No.18581570
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How can I stop being a jackass at work?
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2017-08-02 07:32:15
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I embarres myself so much it's not even funny. I'm basically a huge douche I think, and whenever I try to talk to one of my coworkers they say "what?" or just give me a weird look. I rarely ever have normal conversations and it's causing me to act like a douche. Am I over thinking this?
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Like I'm just so quiet and indecisive. They can't hear me when I talk.
When I do talk, the answer is either obvious or no one knows..
I guess whenever I fuck up on conversing I get into this downward spiral and continue to fuck up.
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Also this colleague of my says I'm promiscuous and she's still in highschool. What does that even mean?
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>>18581578
/ lul
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It's fucking hot in this god forsaken piece of shit state called california. Can't sleep because it's too fucking hot and the ac is shit. What are some good blankets for warm weather? Any specific brand or type? What do you use?
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No, you need a fan. They use very little electricity or batteries
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>>18581567
Yeah sure. I can't sleep without a blanket though.
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>>18581565
Learn all about the joys of floor fans. What you need to do is put it in a corner angle it up towards the exact opposite corner on the ceiling. It'll circulate the air from bottom to top in the room, and give you a nice across-the-body breeze.
Also, blankets in hot weather? lmfao u fag. Use a single top bedsheet.
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How to write a good College App? 2017-08-02 07:26:37 Post No.18581562
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How to write a good College App?
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2017-08-02 07:26:37
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Test scores are fine, got a 34 on ACT.
But I have no idea how to write an essay that appeals towards your average admissions officer. I really want to write about how I want to "do great things" and "be remembered as somebody" but I feel that is too right-wing for their tastes.
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>>18581562
I had a 30 on the ACT, and never had to write an essay.
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>>18581562
>got a 34 on ACT.
You must be really smart OP. I always wonder how some people manage to get such high scores. I took the ACT 3 times and only got a 28. That left my self-esteem in the shitter to this day.
Sorry I don't have an actual response to your thread but I am genuinely curious: how did you manage to get that score? Is the test just easy for you? Did you study a lot in any specific ways? In short how did you do it?
Thanks in advance if you ever get to see this reply.
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>>18581562
Don't write about your own vanity, write about the value of education, of constantly pitting what you thought you know about a subject against what other people can teach you, about constantly being critical of yourself and your surroundings and how only a college education can help you achieve all that.
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i'm looking for a board like 4chan but with more active conversation. i don't leave the house very often and just want to talk to people but 4chan is too slow and too edgy.
already tried tumblr and reddit, never again
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Makes you miss the days of MirC and AoL chat rooms don't it?
Nowadays everything's either TOO fast with WAAAY too many people involved, or too fucking slow.
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get used to the edge
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>>18581561
/pol/ is now the most HAPPENING place Anon if you wanna socialize that's you're only chance
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A girl I like was dating this Chad for a while, nothing too serious, but apparently the guy was seeing another girl too and now they've split. Now that she's single again and I've sorted my own shit out, I wanna get steady with her. Thing is, I don't wan't to be her rebound. I want an actual relationship. How do I avoid becoming her rebound?
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>>18581538
By not just hooking up with her. Ask her on a date, and don't have sex on the first date. Wait a month or two.
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>>18581542
Yeah but I'm worried she'll only date me purely out of spite for Chad
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>>18581555
Aren't you getting ahead of things? How do you know she would even date you? Especially since you sound highly insecure.
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not affectionate- how to learn? 2017-08-02 07:00:37 Post No.18581513
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not affectionate- how to learn?
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2017-08-02 07:00:37
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The guy I'm talking to complains about me not being affectionate. He said that many times, he felt like ending whatever is going on betweetus because he feels like I just like him like a friend and I don't respond when he says he wants me.
I grew up in an abusive household and yeah, I think that explains a lot. I've also never had a boyfriend before, am a virgin and I'm someone who doesn't like to open up because I don't want to be hurt. I don't know how to change because I like this guy but he says I either come off as neutral or angry when I think I come off as clingy... clearly not. He wants affection and I'm not affectionate at all. It grosses me out basically.
Help HELP
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tell him what you told us, boys need to understand girls arent their mommy who give them attention 24/7, takes time to trust someone
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>>18581523
This
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>>18581513
pop a molly together
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I want to take a girl on a date but I'm afraid of boring her. My sense of humor is awful
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>>18581434
similar boat, if theres one thing 4chan has wronged me on over the years, its that my sense if humour is fucked, making it near impossible to be the funny guy i am to women
end my life
end my life
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>>18581434
Okay stay home. Why are you even asking people out on dates if you're so boring?
But for real anon just practice a ton of jokes/funny lines, be confident.
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>Man be yourself, talk about the things you really like, if you have guilty pleasures or interest really fucked up dont event mention eg weeb trash or shit like that
>if you want to be funny just watch some random stand up or comedy you will find one funnier and you will talk about that or just improvise things
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Gf's aunt has terminal cancer and the last couple of weeks she spends all day in the hospital. The problem is she has lost all interest in me and intimacy and she won't even let me touch her hand.
I try to support her (I drive her to the hospital etc) and I never bring up the subject of sex or try to initiate anything intimate.
What can I do to not lose her? (We've only been together for 2 months before this happened)
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>>18581420
>she won't even let me touch her hand
Its not just her aunt being in the hospital.
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>>18581426
what do you mean
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>>18581432
Something else is going on. A "normal" person in that situtation would be comforted by physical reassurance (such as holding a hand). There is more to this story, whether you realize it or not.
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English isn’t my first language so sorry in advance if what I say doesn’t make much sense.
I’m not sure what I should do about my future in the sense that I don’t know which career to pursue.
My heart lies in the arts, singing, painting, performing. It’s what I enjoy the most.
I come from a family of painters and artists however I am afraid that I will end up like my father, he pursued painting instead of a more serious career and his life is in ruins.
I am somewhat decent at programming but I’m not really passionate about it. It is tedious and it worsens my anxiety greatly, but, I think I would be much more succesful as a programmer than an artist.
My family and friends tell me that I’m still young and that I shouldn’t think about my future yet but I can’t help it, I feel like time is running out for me. What should I do?
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neither
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>>18581387
You don't make your passion anything more than a side gig or a hobby. Find a job that pays well, that you can stand to do, and then chase your passion during your free time. If you're good, and people can recognize it, you can eventually make your hobby into a side-gig, and then your side-gig into your job.
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>>18581390
So I shouldn't do what I enjoy, but I shouldn't do what I don't enjoy either?
That's not very good advice.
>>18581398
Problem is I don't know what else I could be good at. I guess I'll keep looking for that, but I'll take your advice on keeping my passion as a hobby for the moment. Thanks.
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Dear /adv/,
I married the girl of my dreams 3 years ago but today, I am contemplating divorce despite the fact that she is adamant in keeping us together by continuously trying to fix what is broken.
I know she is not entirely happy with this marriage and I know despite no matter what I try to do in the future, I will never be able to give her the life that I promised her. I felt her tears on my chest when I hugged her to sleep at night but I dare not asked her why she cried because I know the problem and I know I cannot offer her solution.
My mind tells me that I should stop torturing her and set her free so that she can find someone more worthy of her love.
Right now, I am self sabotaging this marriage because I am convinced that she will be happier when I'm gone but she just can't seem to hate me that much and this is killing me even more.
What can I do =(
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>>18581366
Why can't you give her what you promised her?
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for one, sex. it has been almost a year since we last had sex and i know that she craved for physical intimacy.
i'm not biologically challenged or anything but i just can't find the urge or want anymore and this is somewhat killing her emotionally because in her mind, she feels like she's not being appreciated as much as she was before.
i tried many ways to initiate but i just can't ='(
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>>18581369
for one, sex. it has been almost a year since we last had sex and i know that she craved for physical intimacy.
i'm not biologically challenged or anything but i just can't find the urge or want anymore and this is somewhat killing her emotionally because in her mind, she feels like she's not being appreciated as much as she was before.
i tried many ways to initiate but i just can't ='(
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>Can't do anything herself
>Won't wash clothes even if she's got nothing left to wear
>Makes shitty mac and cheese even if I had planned to make real food
>Diet Coke cans, half-empty, everywhere
>Can't function in mild clutter, barely functions anyways, is the source of a good portion of the clutter
>Has no hobbies of her own, ergo mine are secondary to whatever she wants to do
>Doesn't listen to me, "Anon, why didn't you say something?"
>"You need to make decisions more often, I can't be the one deciding everything." Doesn't like my decisions
>Self concious to the point of refusing affection, expects me to be ready any given time she's feeling affectionate
Why do I put up with this?
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>Why do I put up with this?
Because you're scared of being alone.
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>>18581367
I. Love. You.
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>>18581367
Am I, though? I was an only child, my parents were never around, I've never needed many friends. I could do so much better on my own; I'd be able to take care of myself. I could start running again, actually have time for my favorite things instead of driving her places at the drop of a hat.
Instead I quit my job to move halfway across the country for her grad school, which I cannot in good faith say I expect her to be happy with/complete.
Oh, and
>Takes hours at a time in the bathroom doing god knows what
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They won't stop drifting away 2017-08-02 05:49:22 Post No.18581354
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They won't stop drifting away
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2017-08-02 05:49:22
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Last time I spoke to my best friend was 2 weeks.
Last time I spoke with my closest friend group (the only people I truly act myself with and am personal with) on a regular basis was 3 months ago.
My closest group of friends never want to do anything with me anymore. Its not personal or that I'm a shitty person or anything like that, they all would just rather be by themselves. They'll be watching videos, reading about the latest events (ie. reddit frontpage/their 4chan boards), or just something else while openly seeing me by myself on the discord server when we always use to do said things with each for the shear purpose of friendship/comradery for years (I've had these friends since the beginning of highschool, now 22) One of my friends will even be playing the same videogame I am at the same exact time I am and not even join the discord, let alone play a game with me.
A couple of my friends have summer jobs and get home at the same time I do while the others don't so its not like our schedules don't match up. They'll even send snapchats once in a blue moon of them doing something at their fucking computer.
They aren't hanging out with someone else, they really couldn't if they tried desu but they're still my friends... or so i thought.
Anyway, I feel like my best friend group/the group i spend most of my life with is inevitably going to end soon.
If they're blatantly not going to acknowledge my presence after they've just become so introverted to the point where they treat their friends like shit, I feel like I should just stop trying. I've been tired of being the only one tying to make this friend group social with each other and actually value what we have but if all of them are just going to treat me like the equivalency of someone they played a random game of league with 2 years ago and sent them a friend request, then so be it.
Should I just fuck it all guys? Or should I really try harder to convey this message to them?
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Sounds like you just got out of high school. I still hang with my close friends, but it's once every few weeks, maybe once per month. Everybody starts living their own life, and personal time becomes a commodity. Doesn't mean they hate you. It's just a work/life balance.
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>>18581354
Do YOU ever reach out to THEM? From the outside, shyness can look a lot like lack of interest. If you are never the one who says "Let's go see the new movie this weekend", they will get the impression that YOU don't like THEM, and they will respect your privacy by leaving you alone.
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>>18581580
I'm literally the only one reaching out and trying to make plans with them. No answer, or just a plain no/Meme a little bit and never actually give an answer
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I made out with a really qt 8.5/10 last saturday and i dont know what to do now.
I cant stop thinking about her, she is a friend of a friend, dont know if she has a bf or not. I think it might be too late to text her, and even if i text her, what would we talk about?
this is all so alien to me.
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>>18581310
>Hey. I had fun last weekend. I'd like to hang again. You down?
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>>18581316
maybe mention that you want to get to know each other, she might like the idea of that instead of what she might she as a random hookup
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Kek this is an autist off r9k e posted there too.
Keep that in mind bros
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Is there any real reason not to kill yourself?
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>>18581301
There's an off chance things will get better and all your suffering will pay off
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>>18581301
Well, you're going to die anyways. That said, killing yourself now robs you of tomorrow, and all the potential that it brings.
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>>18581311
They won't get better.
>>18581312
Potential to what?