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Hey /adv/ I'm currently living in a 5 person house with four other people. One of the housemates has a shitty abusive boyfriend who after repeated hassle with the majority of us has been banned from the house.
However, the housemate who is dating him keeps sneaking into our house and don't know how to prevent this. It's been happening repeatedly over the Summer as we are aware he has nowhere to go until September. Problem is the housemate who is dating him lives right by the door so she can easily sneak him in without us knowing.
As of right now I am currently away from the house back at my parents for the week (over an hour away) while my girlfriend (whho also lives at the house) is there with the housemate and she believes the shitty bf is also there.
She stopped messaging me about fifteen mins ago afte repeated messages back and forth and Im really worried. Do I wait for a reply or call the police or what? I feel so fucking helpless rn.
I can give more details jusy wanted to have someone aware fo the situation or vent my feeligns.
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What has he done to you that you chose to ban him?
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do you have a landlord? tell him or her about this and get the bitch evicted
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>>18586925
Make sure you have a written contract. Make sure it's states that you all and the past given verbal warnings to her that her boyfriend is no longer welcomed in the house. He is abusive toward her and you guys won't tolerate such a hostile environment. He is banned. Majority rules.
Second make sure it is mentioned that her sneaking him into the house is Rule violation and it that she continues to that she will get kicked out. Now I know there are some rules depending on where you live such as giving her a two weeks notice that she is kicked out so she can have some time to find some place else to crash.
Make copies of the signed document letting her be fully aware that yall are serious about the dude coming in.
Check with your local authorties too.
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Would you fuck a fat ugly girl just to lose your virginity?
Im a 22 year old virgin, decent social life and decent looking but my anxiety with women has fucked me so many times that i'e been in bed with cute girls and either not know what to do or too paralzed by fear.
Matched on tinder and this chick is nice, but she has shitty skin and is really overweight, im not even attracted to her but it could be a chance to get some experience. On the other-hand if im not attracted to her and have to force my self to even talk to her isnt this an horrible experience just waiting to happen.
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>Would you fuck a fat ugly girl just to lose your virginity?
No.
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>>18586890
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If you're at least average then don't even fucking dare. I've been with plenty of women that are under my standards but they didn't have shitty skin or were obese.
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>18 months to become 30
>literally a neet without even a degree
is it too late for me or should I take the bullet and kill myself?
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>>18586872
Try some mdma or LSD
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>>18586872
No nigger. Grab your nuts and leave the house. Do something. Anything.
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>>18586872
Stupid frogposter.
Do you think shitposting will turn your life around?
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Hello /adv/ some time ago I lost a bet and had to shave my head. I always used to have it fairly long, but having my head shaved made me realize my receding line is starting to show up quite badly (20 years old btw).
Since I haven't touched my hair when I got my head shaved (pic related), it is starting to look kind of a mess (ignore the beard please) and I have to go soon to the barber.
My question is, what would you ask your barber to get you a haircut? I don't know if staying on the short side with something like a buzzcut or a caesar cut, or to tell him to cut it in such a way that it should grow nicely so that I could let it grow back again.
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>>18586845
>Some other angles.
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>>18586845
Don't fuck up your appearance because you're upset about balding. Just keep trimming it like pic related, unless you want to be some kind of powerful skull man.
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So there's this great auction of this maschine mk2 pad-controller on ebay.
The seller has all-positive ratings. However he only accepts direct money transfer. I'm unsure about the english terminology but it basically means that you can get it back, unlike direct debit.
The deal is pretty good and I really want it. What do?
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>>18586784
I meant
>can't get it back
of course
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>>18586784
Pls respond
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i didn't even think you could do that on ebay. does it go through ebay or is he saying to contact him privately? as long as you go through ebay the transaction will be protected by them and if he completely screws you they'll make sure you get your money refunded. check their policies to make sure though, it might be different for diff ebay sites and the .com US ebay is the only one i'm familiar with
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How do I accept that certain things are not going to happen for me? This isn't about a girl or anything like that. It's about a dream. And an experience I thought I would get to have. Thought I deserved. I'm being cryptic right now but I just need help moving my life along.
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>>18586778
Never let your dreams die. Breathe life into them.
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>>18586801
I keep trying anon but I''m at my breaking point. I have no way to get there right now. I have no job and thus no way to continue school or even support myself.
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>>18586778
Well don't be so cryptic, and then you might be able to get advice.
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Im leaving my family at 22 years old with only 480 dollars with me. Going to try to find a job in san antonio and not be homelesss.
Tell me how much Im screwing up. My family dont want me home and if I stay here ill just end up running back to them.
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>>18586771
Stay at a shelter and stack up for a month. After that get a cheap apartment and food assistance. It's possible you just gotta suck up your pride in front of your case worker because your case has to be believable.
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>>18586771
Get s job first moron then go
Maybe talk to church's in the area see if they need an idiot like yourself and they can provide for you but talk to the pedo who runs the joint first.
Don't just go with no plan. This same stupidity is why you live with your parents at 22 in the first place
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Called mommy. Im going back home
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>gf looks pretty when she dresses good clothes and takes care of her hair
>looks horrible when she doesn't
>after 1 year together she doesn't bother to do neither of those things anymore
I'm afraid of breaking up and entering an endless cycle of meeting cute girls who turn into personified nightmares once they get used to me. Are all women ugly or was I just tricked?
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Can you really not tell the difference between makeup and a clear face???
Also beards are just like this.
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It's impossible to say whether you have unrealistic standards or she really is a magician with make up. Most women don't look that different and you can tell (in natural daylight, at least) when they're caking it on.
Either way if you think your own woman looks "horrible" if she hasn't been through extensive grooming then she's not the right one for you to begin with, even if she stayed on top of everything all the time.
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I love how my gf looks without makeup as well as with.
Your gf is probably just not so good looking to begin with but hides it well with make up (no offense) and you did not realize until now...
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I'll make this quick.
>in a new flat with 3 flat people (including me)
>electricity is on a metre
>my turn 1st to put £10 on the metre
>Flatmate b does it the second top up
>Metre is almost dry
>Flatmate C is going home for 3 days tomorrow
>I ask him to fill up metre before he goes
>Flat out refuses
I'm hiding my anger but I'm honestly boiling, he's done this before in another flat on a lesser scale.
What do I do?
Honestly feel like kicking his cunt in
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PLEASE ANSWER
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Talk to your other room mates about it. If he hears you all agree that this is something he should pay for then he probably will.
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>>18586691
Man your country is weird. If hes going home for 3 just take your food out of the fridge and see how long he lasts without power
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Hi,
how do i delete a thread in here?
My ex gf found out i posted her pic with a bad story attached to it.
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>>18586681
You must put a link here with the words "Gold-Account-Delete-Thread" next to it and then it gets removed
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>>18586700
>>18580701
Gold-Account-Delete-Thread
PLS
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>>18586700
Please
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So I've been posting here for a couple days and things keep getting worse, and i took all the advice (and it was good advice) but everyone who i needed to depend on didnt follow through
>moving to chicago from CA
>depressed
>stressed about living arangments (still havent found a place)
>leaving gf so im really sad about that
>fighting with father
>dad wrecked my room
>found out moms getting a divorce yesterday
>girlfriend too busy in her own problems to help
>go to therapist, all my questions were deflected and he literally made me feel worse than i did before
>living with friend, my room is destroyed and im kicked out
>working 8-5 job everyday this week and want to fucking break everything here
>avg 4 hours of sleep a night
>sister and brother both caught up in everything.
Honestly at this point im so broken, i just need someone to talk to. I never talk to my guy friends in that way and its weird for us.
I even reached out to other friends to talk but no one really helps.
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>>18586665
why are you moving to chicago?
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>>18586671
To attend a new school. I'm tired of the shitty community college system. I said fuckit i dont even need an associates
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>>18586665
Don't give up, power through this bump in the road. Things will get better if you make the effort. Good luck!
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When I graduate and start making real money, should I still be hostile towards the upper class, or should I feel sympathy for them? I know that my ethics are going to help me surpass those who were hostile towards me, because they already have in many ways.
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>>18586662
No
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>>18586676
Whom is this lovely lass
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>>18586662
Theyre going to make you feel sympathy for them when you realize the place you work at is owned by a rich Chad
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My parents might be losing the house soon due to not being able to make mortgage payments. I want to help out, but one of the big reasons they're coming up short is because they're paying my sister's college loan payments.
It's really pissing me off. They're not cosigned to her or anything, so it's not like they have a legal obligation to pay it off. They get mad whenever I pipe up about it and shut me out of financial conversations. Though even they acknowledged that they'd be able to pay meet monthly house payments without paying for her.
I love my parents and want to help, but I'm not helping them if it just means paying for my sister's financial woes. How do I reconcile this?
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Tell them if your sister has a good major then they won't have to worry about it.
If she chose the humanity path well you're fucked.
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>>18586602
>Tell them if your sister has a good major then they won't have to worry about it.
What? That assumes the sister is going to pay the mortgage, which probably won't happen.
OP, let them dig their own graves. They're not ignorant, they're completely aware of what's going on and choose to make the wrong decision. I get they're your parents and you care about them, but they're not children.
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>>18586591
Help them or don't. If you're genuinely concerned for them and not just trying to fuck over your sister, talk to her and try to convince her to pay a larger portion of her bills to take some weight off your folks *while* you pledge a specific amount of your own money toward their mortgage.
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What the fuck happened to me?
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Yesterday, I was smoking cannabis heavily before getting in line for a concert. Only a few minutes in, my entire body began to vibrate, my feet became weak, and I lost my vision. My eyes were completely open, but all I could see were colorful light beams shooting into rapidly into a solid white distance. Eventually I began to see figures dancing in the center (could have been other people in line, but I don't think so). This went on for about five minutes, and I'm just standing here like "I'm just gonna wait till this fucking seizure passes". It felt like 20 hits of acid right to the fucking head on top of an alcohol binge. I ended up falling on my ass in front of everyone and sitting down until doors opened - somehow was completely chill for the entire heavy-metal concert.
Was it a seizure? Heat stroke? Just some weird combo of weed and heat? It wasn't all that hot but I really just don't know.
My primary concern is that I experience similar kinds of brief blackouts regularly (two times a weak at least) at random times. However, never have they lasted so long or been so psychedelic.
Is it a mental condition growing progressively worse? Your thoughts would be much appreciated.
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Well was this the first time one of those blackouts happened while being high?
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>>18586926
This was the first time something of this magnitude happened while I was high. I have had smaller incidents while high before, but the same smaller episodes happen when I'm sober as well.
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>>18586587
>I'm just gonna wait till this fucking seizure passes
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How to get straight A's as an incoming college freshman that barely studied throughout high school yet maintained a ~3.5 GPA with relative ease?
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>>18586561
What are you majoring in?
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>>18586568
Finance.
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Go to classes and pay attention. Seriously, you'd be surprised at how many people fail to do something so simple.