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When I'm by myself, I think about girls all the time. But when I'm out with people and around girls, I have no interest in having one.

What does this mean?
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Would also like to know an answer to this
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>>18592343
WOMENZ

Once ya got em, ya don't want em

Maybe the holes you're around are basic
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>>18592361

Some of the girls I've hung around are actually pretty cool. But once I'm around them, all interest goes away. But when I'm all alone, I think about girls a lot.

It's kinda strange

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When do you intervene in a friend's shitty relationship?

This friend of mine is dating this guy who's a bit of an asshole, and pretty much everyone in our group knows he's bad news but none of us are sure what to do.

He acts differently around her compared to when he's with everyone else (he's nice around her but otherwise is obnoxious, makes belittling comments, and treats many of her friends like shit). They're also texting CONSTANTLY, maybe they're really clingy but before this she practically never had her phone out. Now she even pulls it out when we're all eating out at a restaurant.

When do we do something?

Right now I'm thinking that we wait until we have further information. If he's just a run of the mill asshole, we let her learn her lesson but if he's legit abusive, we'll try to warn her.
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>>18592312
>makes belittling comments,

If your friend's boyfriend says anything about HER, you should be telling her. Treat it like you would with any other friend really.
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It means 0 how he treats others when it comes to how he treats her. You have no right to intervene just because he is shitty to you. Personally my gf has this best friend and I absolutely hate her. Sometimes I don't have the nerve to pretend I'm friendly to her so it will sip through, but that has nothing to do with how I treat my gf. People like you need to fuck off. What happens to you is not important for their relationship.
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>>18592535
You sound like a slightly manipulative cunt. I look forward to seeing you get dumped.

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How do I stop giving a shit about being short?

It's not even "girls don't like short men." I actually worry less about it with girls than I do with men. I'm 5'7" so taller than most girls, hell most of my female friends wouldn't even call me "short."

When it really bugs me is talking to other men, since almost every guy I know is about 6 feet tall and conversations feel really awkward and somewhat emasculating.
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Remember that those 6 foot tall guys are awkward virgins while you are getting girls.
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just make friends with shorter guys, problem solvado
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>>18592364
Is it actually true that plenty of women actually prefer short-ish guys (around 170-175 cm)?

I hear a lot of women saying that makes kissing, hugging, talking, and sex easier and it's not really an issue as long as he's still taller than her.

It kinda sounds like something women just say to be nice.

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I have 1.5 grams of psylocybin mushrooms and this will be my first time taking them. I've taken molly three times before and smoked cannabis but nothing else.

I want advice, should i take these today alone in my home since my parents won't be back until tomorrow evening?, or should i wait for tomorrow and take them outside with other people who will also bring mushrooms to trip? I'm afraid my parents discover me, but maybe they won't notice if the effect is gone, what do you think i should do? Do I eat them today or tomorrow?
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with the others sounds better but only if they arent faggots.
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>>18592277
Never alone your first time.
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>>18592277
with friends in nature. Don't do anything retarded like going to a club. Just go out to a forest or something.

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what does it mean when a girl finds you "sexually frustrating"?
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It means she wants to orgasm more than she actually is
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>>18592234
Ok. The girl that told me this, we haven't even fucked before.
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>>18592244

Well, she's trying to tell you she wants you to rail her

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About 2 days ago, I went for a walk with my guard dog German Shepherd named Mars to the park in the afternoon like usual. When I went to the park, there were a lot of people there either leaving, or trying to ignore the screaming of these idiotic women screaming in their microphones about why they as individuals "need" feminism.

In hindsight, I should have just chosen to leave these women alone. I like a good fair debate and I've even spoken to Christians on the street holding signs saying how nonbelievers will burn in hell for not believing in him, but this was a blunder on my part.

They almost immediately started insulting me and ganged up on me giving me almost no room to really make my points, and calling me a privileged white male (even though I'm only half white) and that I contributed to their issues. Things got heated the further I tried to speak, and one of the women SPAT in my face and then slapped me, and with that, the rest of the women started laughing.

Before I could react, Mars knocked the woman to the ground and started biting her face. Her friends screamed and one of them quickly took off her shoe and tried to hit my dog with it, but Mars very badly bit her wrist.

I grabbed the leash and ran as fast as I can out of the park. Obviously there were witnesses, but it's been about 2 days since this happened. If this gets worse, can I call self defense, or am I responsible for the attack? Please everyone, I even called in sick for work because I'm very worried. I really don't want to lose my dog.
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What state are you in? How bad was the mauling?

In general, I am not a lawyer, but it seems to me that you were assaulted, and your dog defended you, so you might be ok but your dog could be ordered put down.

Lay low, avoid the park, avoid walking around, if the cops come for some reason, say ONLY that you acted in self defense and then ask for a lawyer.
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what a dumb bitch lol
call self defense
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>>18592202

I think you'll be ok. Just make sure to get a good lawyer.

>she spat in my face and slapped me FIRST

as long as that actually happened. Then it shouldn't be hard to defend your position. Your dog saw his master get attacked, so he defended his master. as long as your dog didn't do anything before you got assaulted, then you should be fine anon.

Make sure to give him some treats for being a good dog

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How do I stop being emotional?
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>>18592189
what kind of question is that? At least you're not dead inside
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>>18592191
In all honesty that would be better than being the pussy that I am right now
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>>18592189
bump same problem

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I hate my mom. For at least a year now, I would think almost once a day "god I hate her". And I hate myself for that, because 'I should love her for everything she does' (you know, like still making laundry, cooking almost all the meals - note: she decided to not go back to work after she gave birth to my sister (she's 2 years older) - so, 20 years later, she's still home.)
I can't take it anymore. I'm tired of hating her.
I just turned 18, and I thought that over time, I'd grow older and wiser, and finally realize why I can't tolerate her that much, and hopefully finally be okay with her.
But that moment hasn't come yet. And I've been waiting and thinking for too long, so I feel like I have to make myself change now.
Hell, even in my dreams she's annoying me! In tonight's dream she was on my back all the time, and my uncle was home and noticed it and wanted to talk to me about it privately (and my subconscious would surely have told me great information), but when he started talking she went back in the room, and I woke up a few seconds later.
And this made me feel sad, that I can't even imagine her well in my dreams.

I'm probably missing out details because I can't think really clearly at the moment.
Please help me.
If you need more info on anything, I'll try to stay around and not let the thread disappear too quickly.
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>>18592187
What is it that annoys you so much about her and even more important: why the heck don't you tell it in her face?
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>>18592187
Was she ever bad to you? Were you abused - physically or mentally? Did she gave birth to you for the sole purpose of being a "successful" single mother and having a cute blonde accessoire to match her purse? Did she force you into this existence soley for egoistic purpose? If not, go fuck yourself! Be nice to your mother. You got no fucking reason to hate her for fucks sake. Fuck you. Thanks for making me angry you fucking piece of shit.
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>>18592187
OP u should tell us ur problems with her

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A few days ago I freaked out and threw my cat towards a half opened door because my sister said my cat was going to urinate on something. Later on my cat wasn't moving normally, wasn't eating or drinking, and wasn't urinating or defacating normally. I was hopeful yesterday and the previous day, but it had finally passed yesterday evening. I'm just having a hard time dealing with this, and I still fucking blame myself even though it was already sick. Anything tips for me dealing with this?
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Kill yourself, piece of shit.
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>>18592164
I cant imagine how buff and trained you would have to be in throw discipline to kill your cat by something like that.

>it was already sick
Get a new cat? Eat ice cream? Csgo? Sport? Fap?
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Life lesson here OP. It bit you in the ass and you found out about Newton's Law that states that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. You threw your cat against the wall and it suffered. Be glad it was only a cat and not your child. Life lesson.

My only question is did the Cat Land on its feet?

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Guys, I have made the worst mistake of my life.

I met up with a prostitute and accidentally smoked a meth laced cigarette, I lost my head and ended up banging this chick without a condom, I finished inside.

Right now I'm crashing hard after smoking that shit, it's really bad and all my thoughts are cloudy.

What's the chances that I may have contracted HIV?

I can't process this shit right now, and I have no friends to ask, what should I do, I'm really scared.
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just go get tested for std and shit
dont overreact before even getting tested
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>>18592152
>The risk of contracting HIV during vaginal penetration, for a woman in the United States, is 1 per 1,250 exposures (or 0.08 percent); for the man in that scenario, it’s 1 per 2,500 exposures (0.04 percent, which is the same as performing fellatio).

>0.04 PERCENT

https://www.poz.com/article/HIV-risk-25382-5829

Not high, just dont do it again.
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>>18592152
You meth heads kill me

How should I deal with doing extremely embarrassing things while drunk?

At a party I got my cock out, was groping loads of girls, saying inflammatory things and generally making a fool of myself.

Have to see all of these people again, what's the best way of dealing with it?
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dont say hello, just ask if they wanted to see your dick again
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>>18592150
Surprised u didn't get beat the fuck up.
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>>18592150
Other than apologize for your behavior and offering no excuses because of drunkenness and your promise it will never happen again you have no control. They will think you a fool and totally up to them if you are invited again or if they even speak to you again.

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This really freaked me the fuck out. I was trying to post an edd ed n eddy threat in television and films when all of a sudden it says I got banned on may 11 for posting child pornography even though I never posted anything like that ever. I also realized that my home wifi was off and my default AT&T wifi is on. When I enabled the home wifi and finished making the ed edd n eddy thread it let me post said thread. Im scared and confused right now and someone please give me an answer?
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>>18592090
if you don't have a static IP, you probably don't need to worry about it
I regularly get bans for things I never did and the next day there gone, simply because I got the IP ban that was intended for someone else
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Op here. I don't browse 4chan on my computer. Only my phone. How can I tell if my ip is static or not?
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Same thing happens to me all the time. Doesn't make much sense and I'd also appreciate any insight people have to say.

Thanks, >>18592093 for some perspective

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I fucking hate my life.
I have been dealing with an issue my whole life and I try to do new things and my problems keep making me move forward.
I wanted to play sports, and learn martial arts. I was born with Juvinal Rhumatoid Arthritis. As a child I was always screaming in pain because it hurt to move my joints. Got fat because medicine made me sick if I tried running around and vomit, had to eat a lot too because it thinned out my blood. Causing bruising and could damage my liver, don't know if eating would stop my liver from damage but the doc said to eat when taking the medication.
Also have ADD and I'm fucking stupid. I struggle with everything and I want to move forward but keep getting stuck because I'm a fucking retard. My life continues like this and I struggle just to get past college.
I excersize regularly and I'm still fat, my joints and body hurts so much everytime I work out
but I do it, try learning Kung fu but I'm stuck on learning past 2nd level and have been there for a year, because my body sucks and I'm fucking stupid. I hate my life and I hate being me, I hate that I wake up in the morning in pain and move like I'm 93 when I'm just 31. I'm tired of all these fuck ups and I'm tired of living. I wish I had the balls to commit suicide, even if it's cowardly I'm more cowardly than a coward. I want to die. I hate this pain, I hate how I can't figure things out, I hate how I annoy people when I don't understand things, I hate me.
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>>18592072
I'm sorry this happened to you.
You seem like a good person.
Please talk to a therapist or call a suicide hotline.
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Ok after screaming like an autistic child I feel a little better. I am sure there are a lot of people who would gladly take my place. It's just hard living with this arthritic pain. It's like moving through sand and all I want to run.
I think I'm going to be ok. I have to, for at least my mother and my family that do love me.
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>>18592089
I have actually
I've been to many therapists and I am on a lot of medication. ADD meds and anti depressants, I missed my last appointment with my doctor and I'm a bit moody because I just forgot about it. I'm mad I missed it and I'm mad that my master can't teach me any more because I think he has back problems. I'm not mad at my master I'm mad at myself for not moving forward like I should. I should be at Brown Belt form now, but I'm still stuck. I get so mad when I get stuck and frustrated and even scared to move forward. I'm scared of failure as well as success. Because if I'm successful once doesn't mean I can do it again and I can't handle that pressure.

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and yesterday he saw how hysterical I could get. I made him cry and I just worry that in the near future, he's going to dump me
When I don't share, he sees me as cold but when I do, I worry him and prove his sister right

I don't think I will get better anytime soon because when I try to fix myself, I get obsessed about one particular problem.

I don't want to lose him. He's the only thing that helps at times and he genuinely cares and I have feelings for him.

Therapy hasn't helped at all. Same with medication.
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My question is what should I do?
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>>18592069
kill his sister.
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>>18592069

relationships aren't just about you.

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Depressed femanon here. I'm not even bothered to go into detail on this, but I'm severally fucking depressed. It's gotten really bad. I cut on a daily. I genuinely contemplated and planned my suicide today. This year is getting worse and worse, I just don't know how to fucking cope anymore. I need mental help but I'm too afraid to go out and look for it. I can barely speak and is probably mistaken as mute. For the life of me I cannot express my feelings verbally. Is there anyone who would even be willing to talk to me? My kik and snapchat is @kerr.uwu and my Instagram is @peridot.v2 (my account is private but I'll accept all requests) sorry if I wasted your time. By the way, I already posted on soc before yet I was told to go on /adv/ which I ended up doing. But my post was instantly, I mean instantly deleted. So I don't know what else to fucking do. So uh sorry mods. I guess this just looks like bait but I swear it's not. Please trust me.
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Check your kik
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Kik is freaking the fuck out right now and won't let me open messages so I'd prefer if you'd text me on either of the other two.
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Suicide is shit. My brother killed himself. Don't do it!!!

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