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how do I stop drinking, what do people do on a night out when they don't have a drink for the confidence. I have to stop because I spend my weekly wages in a single night, I drink every weekend i know its not everyday but when i do drink its to blackout. I gave it up for 3 months before but went back on it and back at it hard. My whole culture is based upon drinking. gunna be homeless if i cant stop, any advice is appreciated.
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>>18599621
phenibut for the confidence.
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>>18599630
I might give them a go never heard of them before.
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first of all: have you tried drinking pbr exclusively
second: have you tried pregaming
third: have you tried carrying a flask full of gin, ordering tonic, and sneakily making yourself a cocktail
******if you think you're developing a PROBLEM with alcohol, obviously this is an issue********* but if you just want to spend less money, there's ways to do that
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Brother stealing from me 2017-08-08 12:17:23 Post No.18599574
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And now my folks want me to forgive him for it becasue, wait for it........he shat out a child.
This happened years ago, and it was drug related.
long story short i was supposed to double my cash, it actually went up his fucking nose.
so Am i being unreasonable by not allowing him or his new family into my life, am i doing the adult thing and just leaving well enough alone? I'm tired of my folks always showing me pictures of this fucking kid, and "accedentialy" having me show up over at their house, and wondering why i wont go inside, i don't deal with fucking thieves,
TL;DR BROTHER IS A SHITASS THIEVING FUCK, HAD A CHILD AND WANTS FORGIVINESS, WITHOUT SAYING HE DID ANYTHING WRONG.
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>>18599574
Seems like your whole family is manipulative as fuck.
Stay the fuck away from all of them.
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Just straight up tell him you will forgive him when he pays you back, and when he does just dont lol
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>>18599574
Your parents desperately want you two to get along because they know they will one day die and they expect you two will need one another for support and familial ties. This is a normal expectation and hope that parents feel. This also makes them blind to the real-life things that can fuck that ideal world up.
Things like the siblings just flat out not getting along. Or not wanting a relationship. It's not that bizarre for you to not want anything to do with him given the circumstances. From an objective standpoint, anyway. But your parents can never be objective. You are never going to get them to see your side of things.
But the good news is that you don't have to. You don't need to have a relationship with your brother if you don't want one. Just don't go out of your way to be a dick about it. By that, I mean don't purposely miss holidays and things like that, because then it hurts your other family members more. Just don't go out of your way to interact with your brother, either. Shrug it off and go about your life. Tolerate his presence at functions or places where you have to be around one another. But other than that, stop giving a fuck.
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How do I boost my confidence? 18 year old male here with low confidence.
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Find a style that suits you. I was miserable and hated myself until I got into vintage dresses (18 y/o female here). Go on /fa/ and ask for fashion advice if you're lost completely. Find something signature to you but not too showy or forced. I can't stress enough how much your clothing choice can impact your confidence.
That's the best I can offer.
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>>18599537
Literally fake it till you make it. Sounds cheesy and it took me over 3 years of this mentality to actually get decent, not even super charismatic or anything
Also find a job which requires you to talk a lot, like in a supermarket
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>>18599537
Hey vsauce, Michael here, just realize confidence is a social construct and no one really gives a fuck about your existence.
And as always, thanks for watching.
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how do i overcome the burning desire to fuck a wet soft pussy. 2017-08-07 11:51:08 Post No.18599526
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how do i overcome the burning desire to fuck a wet soft pussy.
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how do i overcome the burning desire to fuck a wet soft pussy.
I feel like it takes way too much effort either maintaining a gf or pay hooker. I want to spend the effort in other ways building business etc.
But i when i do nofap (im on day 2) i get a crazy burning desire i stop functioning completely
I am able to get a gf easily BUT i cannot.
- I only like people in my inner circle I actually connect with, who is like me personality wise + has ambitions, intelligence etc.
Realistically this means it can take years to find the right girl who I would love to allow near me (emotionally)
- I am religious so I want to save sex for marriage.But becasue of reason 1 and no financial stability yet (still in university) I will have to wait at least years.
If i have sex i will regret it and will push away the girl and hate her for being an acomplice in my sin.
Only solutions I can think of are:
1. The best and guilt free option is
I find a way to get more income so I can marry while still in university, but I would still have to find the right woman
2. Overcome the desire to fuck. Really it seems silly if i logically asses the situation.
I stop functioning like a human being not able to think at all just because i long for a wet and puffy piece of meat.
How can it be so hard to overcome this desire? I do not even want any emotional affection right now.
tldr: Getting real sex is not possible for unchangeable reasons, for at least the coming 5 years
pic related is me
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>>18599526
I'm in a pretty much identical situation, OP. I was even considering making a thread like this.
I don't really have any input since I'm having the same problem, but bump I guess
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too much can't
not enough dick in my mouth. we're out here, forget your fake god and come fuck us instead
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>>18599535
interesting, I hope someone shares some valuable ideas
>>18599539
shut up faggot
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Should I try to go for a chemical engineering major? I'm not very confident that I would be able to keep up due to my lack of mathematical intelligence. For example, I took geometry in 9th grade when many others already took algebra II. I've also heard that chemE is the 2nd most difficult engineering major.
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I don't know, that's what I wish I majored in, but I was good at math.
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>>18599452
To be honest with enough grinding anyone can be anything. But if you are not passionate in what you do what comes after graduation may become painful.
Most of X is the most difficult type of articles have no basis, so don't mind them that much.
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What's your IQ
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>be a regular at a coffee shop
>be a acquaintance kind of with a barista there
>never talked
>accidentally he came to my shop one day
>the next time he saw me we exchange eyes contact and smiled at each other
>he initiated small talk, asked if I was off that day and told me he loved the food at where I work
Is he hitting on me? I was too awkward and freaked out I can barely talk just smiling and say goodbye
>how do I talk to him again I'm afraid he might think I'm not interested
We have mutual friends tho.
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>>18599441
hard to say, but as a general rule if a guys talking to you there's some level of interest.
>how do i talk to him agian
go to his coffee shop and talk to him.
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>>18599441
Yes, he probably likes you. Use mutual friends to get more opportunities to see him.
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ye he was asking you out basicly
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I'm in a weird, shitty place right now. Long story short, my car recently died and needs a new engine, which is an estimated $35-3800 fix. My mechanic thinks the care is worth fixing because while its a 2000, the rest of the car is good because it only has 87k mile on it. The problem is that I don't have that kind of money. I never have, and that is more than 2 months pay for me. My credit is shit because I have a hospital bill AND student loans I can't afford that have destroyed what credit I had, so I can't get any sort of loan either.
My parents are pushing me to ask my aunt for a loan be abuse she has the money and supposedly will loan it, but I don't feel comfortable asking anyone for that kind of money. I brought this up with my parents and they told me that
> It's a loan, you will never get ahead living paycheck to paycheck. Don't you ever want to own a home, you have to borrow a hell of a lot more than that
And I never responded because I don't ever want to own a home, and being in debt for 30+ years doesn't sound appealing at all for a whole bunch of reasons. It really has nothing to do with the car, but it has me all flustered and almost in a panic.
I don't know. I don't know what to do.
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Fuck
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/o/ faggot here. What kind of car is it? Why does it need a new engine, like what happened? Does the mechanic want to rebuild the engine, or swap in another one? What has he told you? Need more info but i can say that you can just get another beater car for half the price.
Regardless you will need a loan, or a bicycle. Your choice.
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>>18599599
I'd say bike if you can afford it, save your money and get a workout at the same time.
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I'm pretty positive that I have OCD. It's gotten to the point where it's disrupting my life. If I seek treatment what will happen? What kind of doctor do I even go to? Will I be given medication or just go to therapy and talk about my feelings?
Any help (especially from someone with OCD) is appreciated.
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I don't have OCD but anxiety. The best thing I ever did was to just go to my regular doctor. It was quick and easy for him to diagnose the problem and give me some treatment options. He/she will likely prescribe you medication if they find that you have OCD. You could also try a psychiatrist. I never did that bc insurance restrictions.
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>>18599561
Would a physician I've never been to before be able to diagnose it?
I'm moving into college next week so old doctor will be too far away for me.
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The family doctor I went to hadn't seen me in like 10 years. It shouldn't matter as long as you give them an accurate description of the issue.
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I'm 32 and I have the worst attention span. As a kid I would sit at a desk in an empty room for hours with my homework and completely lose myself in my imagination. It took me 5 semesters to finish college algebra. I finally got my degree after taking 2 years of accelerated courses, further cementing the fact I have little patience for anything longer.
But that was five years ago; I have no patience to work on job hunting (I'm still working min wage) and can't concentrate on the comic book I want to work on. I just zone in and out unless I'm on my motorcycle or out running.
Can I turn my life around? I don't want to be a loser anymore.
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there are jobs that pay more than minimum wage that don't require patience or concentration. you'll still be a loser, but a more secure one. I work at the post office, you don't need to "job hunt" for it, just see if they're hiring and apply if so.
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Karate, meditation, yoga, reading, ganja. Kick a football and keep it in the air indefinitely. FOCUS
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>>18599407
I mean, I'm in student debt and I'm probably more inclined to want to work somewhere with opportunities for growth.
Last week I started taking this obscure anxiety medication and I watched a repeat of some tv show I've seen a million times and found myself actually paying attention to the actual show and seeing things I ignored before. I wonder if I continue to use it I might dig myself out of this pit
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How do I dry hump without my penis being sore for a week? This is the third time it's happened.
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Why not just have sex?
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>>18599298
She wants to get married before that.
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buy a fleshlight
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let's discuss how we can get gf and stop being alone
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>text girl I went to uni with out of the blue
>go out with her on the fourth, went into an old town and ate wth her parents
>she didn't want to watch fireworks at night
Debating if I should just balls out ask if she's interested in a realtionship. Seems like a uncharming way to do it.
Downside would be avoiding her for the next two years if she said no (were really close but not as kh anymore)
I'm honestly getting so frustrated trying to guess women that I'm considering acting stupid white boy tier chasing. The only gfs I've ever had always had asked me first.
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>>18599280
I've got no friends, so I'm slowly trying to get some at a co-working space.
No woman will want you if you're alone, you need the respect of some peers in order to stand a chance.
However, I'm a fucking autist. The process of getting friends for me is nearly impossible, I've only got acquaintances now - not friends.
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>>18599280
i dont want a gf desu. i want a fuck buddy.
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Kill myself or become a christian? 2017-08-07 09:48:20 Post No.18599267
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Kill myself or become a christian?
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Looked at this website: http://www.globalweirding.is/here
Sent me over the edge.
been in my room for a week.Super depressed.
my life is shit.
No meaning to life.
existential crisis. Worried about what happens when i die. Mind fuck.
Should I kill myself or become a Christian?
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get professional help
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Your mindset is determined by what you expose yourself to. If you stop yourself from visiting that website for a few weeks, you will no longer think about it. Problem solved.
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>>18599267
what's on the website? I'm not checking there
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Is it possible to do a personality 180? 2017-08-07 09:42:14 Post No.18599256
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Is it possible to do a personality 180?
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Currently
>addicted to sitting in front of my PC all day every day after work, lose sleep on procrastinating while sitting at my PC
>SOMETIMES get into playing a game, interest and actual entertainment value ranges from 5 minutes to 5 weeks' freetime straight
>lazy, unmotivated, fat, friendless, contemplate existing on a daily basis
What I've wanted to do for a long time, but lack discipline/motivation/understanding how/courage/how I often imagine a happy life to be/etc
>get outside
>get fit
>sit in a forest by myself, chill with music and some nicotine
>find friends, do fun shit with them
>become able to run a marathon; endurance has always been humanity's greatest asset, and i see endurance running as the peak in human survival and how we got so far spanning thousands of years back
>become confident and genuinely friendly
>get over my ex and find someone that actually would appreciate me this time
I'm addicted to my PC but can't dare to get rid of it. Sunk cost fallacy etc.
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I'm just like this
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You can't do a complete personality 180 overnight, you'll just relapse.
The trick is to build habits that will help you reach your goals, slowly and surely. Start by making one change, like limiting your PC use or going for a bike ride in the morning. As you become accustomed to these changes, add other ones.
At some point you will probably relapse and be forced to start again, but you will have accumulated experience. Basically, the more time you spend sitting in front of your computer, the more you'll want to keep doing that. Slowly tearing away yourself from it will help you change your overall lifestyle
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>>18599271
But see Anon, I did a test just earlier this year, or even slightly earlier than that.
From about the 10th of December 2016, throughout all of January 2017, I actually did have my PC packed down, stored in a nearby room, inaccessible.
What happened was that I would still just feel like doing nothing, I'd sit in my room and just look at my phone instead, and just complain to myself that I'm doing nothing when I could at least be playing something or even just browse the internet more comfortably on my PC like I'm used to.
I'm fucking ridiculous. I know it, and I can't seem to help it. People tell me to kill myself daily over these issues I have.
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Whenever I go to the barber they mess up my hair every single time.
What I want to do is keep the hair inside yellow box medium (not short like the undercut) and the hair inside the red box has to be cut by a very small amount(just the edges).
Can somebody tell me the english sentence to say to the barber.
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>>18599255
I messed up the colour now. Holy shit I am a retard.
Correction: What I want to do is keep the hair inside red box medium (not short like the undercut) and the hair inside the yellow box has to be cut by a very small amount
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>>18599255
>ayy mate, short-o on the flanks 'n spare the chopper on the top of my hopper
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hairdressers are some of the least competent people I've ever met. Sorry to break it to you, OP.
You could try showing them a picture of the haircut you want. Small minds respond well to pictures.
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Mum put a large sum in an investment account for me when I turned 20, and it was a gift for when I finished college.
I found it easy over the last couple of years to withdraw money from there to pay for food, trips, clothes, etc.
I realized half a year ago how dickish and stupid this was and I stopped with the promise that all of my earnings from when I got a job would go to the account until I'd repaid in full what I took, which was around 7% of the total amount (a lot I know, I was stupid).
Anyway, mum's buying a house soon and she's been asking me about the account. I know for a fact she has available all the money she needs for the house, so I doubt it's specifically for the house, but I don't know where her new interest in that account comes from.
I told her the truth about how much is in there (slightly less than original sum because of my withdrawals) but didn't tell her WHY the amount was lesser, and while she was slightly surprised, she just attributed it to fluctuations in the economy (like once before)
However, she just asked me again (like 4 days later) to check how much money is in there and I'm guessing she has some sort of plans for that money since she didn't really care for it for around two years.
I don't know what if anything she plans to do with that money which was supposed to be mine for when I left college. It's not that I care about not having that money since I don't even deserve it. And since it's uncanny that after two years there's LESS than she originally put in, I'm worried that she might find out, and if she does I'm going to be in VERY serious trouble.
Any advice on
a) what to tell her
b) how to pay back that money ASAP.
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>>18599231
I thought about selling my laptop and iphone and saying I got mugged and putting the money from the sales into the account, which should be roughly half of what I owe.
Ideas?
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>>18599237
Seems very little money, just get a job and pay it back, dont sell your shit that you will have to buy again later anyway at higher expense
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>>18599257
Paying back over time is not a real problem, but if she asks for the money soon and asks questions about why there's less now I could find myself in serious trouble.