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>>18599749
Are you a virgin bro lmao

>>18599757
Not virgin but I havnt had a lot experience

It's just your dick spitting out some natural lube. Don't worry about it.

>>18599677
That's really fucked up, but you have to go to the dentist and get your teeth fixed. Do you have anyone you could ask to borrow you money?

is there any university where students can work on your teeth? i don't know how it works in the us but give it a try.

>>18599866

No. My parents are living day to day because my dad had a stroke a few years ago and can't work like he used to. He hangar to dump his entire 401k into his house so they could afford the mortgage. The rest of my family isn't exactly well off, either. On top of that, I can't just borrow that much money from someone. I was quoted $2200 for ONE root canal, and another $800 for my wisdom teeth extraction.

>>18599878
No. I've looked.

>>18599664
What is your definition of successful?

Too many women expect to find James Bond/Brad Pitt/Bill Gates on the site. As a wise man once wrote, there was only ever 1 perfect man, and we nailed Him to a tree 2000 years ago.

>>18599664
Online dating/apps takes a while to get good at it. You should keep at it.

If anyone says go to a bar or a club, they're retarded. All of the boys in clubs are fucksticks.

Go to social events related to the things you do for fun. Like cars? Go to a car meet, bring a friend. Like anime? Go to a con. Like to ride bikes? Find a local cycling meetup.

Inch into the crew, find a group of friends there. If you don't hit it off with anyone, move to something new. The more people you meet and hang out with, the more people you will meet through those people.

Online dating is a last ditch. First, you have to find friends. You might meet someone special through those friends.

Guys fucking love it when a girl is awkward and shy. At least I do. Shit is god damned adorable. Be shy, but don't be self conscious about it. Don't try to modify your personality.

I'm 6 foot 160 and skinny
Pls gain weight hungry skelly

>>18599648
depends how big your cock is

google says you're underweight
talk to your doctor about a nutrition plan

>>18599592
Bump cuz im the same way

The way to overcome that is not to take this advice, but by figuring it out yourself

>>18599592
What if I told you this is the wrong opinion to have?

>>18599565
Go camping

>>18599604

In the summer? The beach would be nice. Maybe somewhere that takes an hour or so to get to, with interesting places to stop at along the way. Maybe bring snacks for a BBQ.

>>18599611

Responded to wrong post but I think you get what I mean

>>18599559
What makes you stay ?

>>18599568
Well, I love him

>>18599570
Have you talked it out with him ?

>>18599548
Why doesn't he go out to a bar or something? That is very selfish of him.

>>18599548
why are you even asking this? obviously he was wrong but so are you for not having set the rules that he can't do it in the first place knowing what kind of person he is.

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You're probably in the right. With that said, you're probably fucked.
Your landlord likely has better and more profitable things to do than to solve personal issues between tenants. Your roommate is probably not going to make any effort to come to a compromise.
Roommates are usually a bad idea.

I lived in my car for a year to save up for a down payment on an apartment instead of dealing with that shit; and even though my girlfriend at the time got impatient and left me, I was much better off once I owned my own place. I would unironically tell you to consider that, if you're a capable money saver and own a car.

kill yourself you invader zim fan acting motherfucker

that's a very autistic thing to say

Doesn't matter, you're not going to get a girlfriend either way.

Same unfortunately

>>18599320
You lack self confidence.

Observe and judge them. They are people with flaws too.

>>18599190
as a guy i find it disgusting but i also find disgusting feetfags, which is a common and usually accepted fetish
if you dont ask for smelly hairy armpits you will probably be ok

I would wait honestly. I'm kinda like you, was a bit of late bloomer and had a bunch of fetishes from lurking 4chan for years prior to doing anything with girls. I didn't really bring these up with my first gf until we were in a dedicated relationship and even then it was a few months in. I think at some point before or after sex she asked me what I was really into fantasy wise and then I told her. I wouldn't worry about specifically what your interests are, you can't help that. But you don't want to scare her away too early. I don't know. Maybe try to find out what hers are too.

>>18599203
>>18599204

I feel you. Thanks for the advice guys.

Going on 10 years of chronic depression and would like to hear some uplifting stories as well...

>>18599070

The day I was going to kill myself a girl at work came and talked to me when I was waiting for my ride home, we ended up going out and I was happy but I fucked it up and we broke up, details aren't important. I was suicidally depressed again but I just couldn't find a reason bad enough to do it, I got bullied as a kid and just lost the most important person in my life but I know that all that hurt just makes you stronger and more cautious.

You to learn who to open up to and when to do it, don't be an exclusively private or public person, you aren't alone in this world, most of everyone has family and even without family you have friends, and if you don't, find some, put yourself out there, if you're depressed you don't have anything to lose right?

Hope this helped OP.

Hey man! I'd be willing to ramble with you. I don't really have advice for how I "did it", but I went from a time of severe depression and suicidal ideation, to feeling mostly great about life!

I've had my depression diagnosed for 7 years, but I can't really say when it started. I'm one of those types that cares a lot about people and gets excited about the happiness I do find. I suppose the former might spark from not wanting anyone else to feel the way I have. The latter is likely from the contrast of the dull grey apathy, that I throw myself into any positivity I stumble across.

My life was a bit of a shit show a handful of years ago, living with my abusive ex in his family's basement. He was kind of the summation of my desire to feel better about myself by making other people feel better about themselves. I didn't realize that he was actively tearing me down until a couple years in.

When I left him, it was a real turning point for me. I learned the value of caring about myself. I learned about setting boundaries. Everyone I met then on seemed like angels with their basic human decency, so I was endlessly vocally grateful. I continued spreading around love, kindness, and patience, and worked towards extending the same sentiments towards myself. Soon enough, I found myself surrounded by people who are reciprocating the same gratitude. It was easier to believe in my worth when I had people who would shower me in their belief of my worthiness.

I've moved now, but those people still hold a special place in my heart. I feel confident that I can find more people like them, but their words echo in my mind. I feel like my own cheerleader now.

I still have waves of depression. But they are more bearable. Now that I'm living in my own space, slowly pursuing a career I care about, being patient with myself, avoiding over burdening my daily expectations while also holding by the new reasonable standards I set for myself- I feel like I can slowly learn how to live.

Start light and see how she responds.

Try it and if she tells you to stop. She's not into it and you shouldn't continue.

>>18599055
Don't just start choking her if she doesn't know it's coming and you don't have a safeword or something set up. Spanking is different. No one ever went around killing women by spanking them.

But talking to her doesn't really ruin it. There's a huge community of BDSM people who are very upfront with each other about what they're doing and still enjoy it.

>>18598904
Im having trouble identifying the problem here. Everything seems pretty fine to me, even as the upset stick man reaches out desperately.

take her to the park or somethin and get food. its casual and cheap for a first date

>>18599425
>>18598910
I live AT HOME


my parents are in, i cant do shit. i have no car so shes gonna have to get a train to meet a stranger shes met on tinder.


its not an ideal situation.

she probably thinks i can drive as well (im 22 )

find woman with similar sexual habits...?

>>18598831
I would suggest moving away from the fetish so you can enjoy sex with irl women. You can even find another fetish that you like and people are more willing to do. If you completely move away from the fetish, your mind will eventually adjust in order to get off.

Option B would be to go balls out and demand to be fucked in the ass. Some women (I don't know how many) will be willing to do it. You have to be direct and be ready to face potential confusion/disgust. I'm sure some portion of women will do it. Maybe try fetlife? Idk.

I dated one girl who had crazy fetishes, kept them a secret, and then basically never orgasmed from sex. What a complete waste of time, especially for her. She was ill in the head. Don't be like her, whatever you do.

Stop watching porn, masturbate as little as possible and cum only with "normal" "vanilla" thoughts.