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Can't finish during sex 2017-08-08 04:35:11 Post No.18601420
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Afternoon everyone,
I'm a 19 year old guy, and I can't finish during sex. I've been having sex for about the years now, and this has always been something I've dealt with. Normally I just keep going until the girl is done, I've only actually finished during sex a handful of times. Is there anything in particular that may be causing this? I'm not on any medication, and am fairly active, physically.
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>>18601420
Your gay?
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>>18601420
do you watch a lot of porn?
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>>18601420
>>18601420
Stop fapping for 2 weeks and dont have sex until then
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Been seeing this girl for two months and have been really kind of shocked at how much I've been liking her. We went away on a trip this weekend to a wedding together and had just an amazing time.
When we got back, we were sitting on my couch unwinding and just running through how much fun we had. In the middle of us sharing a laugh, she takes my face in her hands, looks me dead in the eye with a smile, and proceeds to tells me (over the course of about 2-3 minutes) how I'm the kindest, most genuine, serious but funny, intelligent, and attractive man she's ever been with, and how thankful she is for having met me.
I tried really hard not to, but I started crying right there with my face in her hands. It was far and away the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me.
I was so embarrassed and she was so gentle about it. Kept telling me how it was "okay" and how it's "not something to be embarrassed about."
I'm finding myself still really taken aback by my reaction and how much I want her around after it. Never felt this before.
Stupid question, but I've honestly never been there before. Am I in love? Is this just infatuation? Way too many feels I know nothing about.
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go for it man
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>>18601406
As in tell her how I'm feeling about her? Tell her I'm in love with her?
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>>18601427
No, don't do that. Just continue to date her without ending up behaving too needy.
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Do background checks include drug tests? 2017-08-08 04:14:50 Post No.18601364
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Do background checks include drug tests?
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2017-08-08 04:14:50
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I applied for a unpaid local government internship and they brought me aboard and said I needed to complete a background check, I signed the form and there was no mention of a drug test. What are the odds of getting a drug test as well? Are they able to spring a drug test on me due to that or do I have to consent to it as well?
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>>18601364
>Government internship
>no drug test
I worked at a grocery and they required a drug test. Always assume everyplace drug tests. 30 days sucks but necessary.
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>>18601375
But I had another, higher security check at a different job and no test, I guess my question is, if they background check you and there is no drug check, what are the odds there will be one after the background check and can they surprise me with one or do they have to give me a heads up?
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>>18601431
my advice to you is to not take drugs.
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As someone with zero experience with relationships, zero friends, severe anxiety and depression, and no confidence, how can I go about getting a gf?
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>>18601306
internet dating to get your feet wet.
lower your standards until you get laid
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>>18601306
You could apply the method I used to get my wife, but it would take an autistic level of determination. I learned a foreign language and lived in a foreign country in Asia with little money but I had so much energy and was always running around getting into adventures and practicing the language that women kind of just gravitated towards me and I called up a different girl to do some crazy activity (like ride a helicopter or mountain climbing or kayaking or something) every day and autistically forced myself to only speak their language. Then I basically just picked the "best" one of those women, started dating her more, and took her back to the US to live with me.
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>>18601318
Internet dating has given me 0 matches/replies in 7 years.
>>18601338
I don't have the money, nor would I like doing those activities. Thank you, though.
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I'm pissed. My girlfriend was supposed to visit this weekend but has to bail because of a family thing. This is the second time. She said she was afraid to tell me so it wasn't new info when she told me last night. She also spent yesterday with a guy who generally treats her poorly and is romantically interested in her. I also heard very little from her, only once around dinner time and then late in the night when it would generally be past her bedtime. We've seen each other a grand total of 30 mins the last 3 months, we don't even live that far apart (1.5 - 2 hr drive). Now surely if she knew she couldn't come she would opt to spend time with her boyfriend instead of this other guy who's into her, especially considering how little we get to see each other (she is legitimately busy most days). The whole thing has me pissed off. Am I wrong for being uncomfortable with her spending time alone with this guy? I wouldn't be upset if it was just one of her guy friends but the combination the radio silence, his interest in her, and the way he treats her makes for an unhappy combination in my eyes. I guess I should say what I said here to her and see how it goes? I'm considering breaking up seeing as she's likely either too busy for a relationship (or a relationship with me...) or I'm just not a priority to her. Obviously I would like to avoid it if I can but I don't know...
This whole thing is mostly just ranting/venting but input would be appreciated.
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Ask her wtf this guy has to do with her family thing
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Yeah she's definitely getting dicked by that other guy, or at the very least you're simply not that much of a priority to you. Tell her you feel underappreciated in that relationship and if she doesn't try to give you more of her time, just break it off.
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Women are going to tell you it's okay that she's hanging out with him to make themselves feel better about doing the same thing in the past.
It could be innocent, but if it's known he's actively trying to fuck her, then you have reason for alarm.
How about you just drive up there one day and force a visit? LDRs need good communication and effort on both ends. It does sound like it might be time to move on.
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I'll like to hear your opinion on this "behaviour" i've been having lately in my life, and if it's negative... Don't know if it has a name, don't know how to put it shortly, so I feel the best way is to just explain it through an example of said behaviour:
>Go out with a friend (A) and her group of friends. I always liked (A), she's fascinating and has a strong character but it's been a long while since I realised she's just into another kind of guys. Not a drama for me, I treat her as a really good friend because I appreciate her, though sometimes the chemistry between us is just too killer.
>Her friends (B) and (C) are asbeautiful and fascinating and have as much character as (A), they seem to find me really amusing and fascinating, asking me questions and touching me a lot. (B) approaches me when I'm alone and starts "(A) has told me a lot about you..."
>It all goes like this: (B) spends the night with this teasing attitude, touching me, falling in my arms, sitting in my legs, always with a sort of challenging way like seeing how further I can get with the teases, I keep up. We get closer but she's just playing and I just have fun with her.
>(C) asks me to go with her for cigarretes outside the party and starts kissing me casually once we're out in the streets. She kisses me in the lips and keeps going. Then asks me "Why are you so gay if you're clearly hetero?" I'm not impressed, these girls are a little close minded. I don't have a problem giving certain people the wrong vibe because of being flamboyant, it its how I am and I don't care. I tell her that and I add "I do what I want, I could kiss you if I wanted" and she looks at me with bright eyes. I grab her and I kiss her and we get back to the party.
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>A group of guys joins the party. Typical macho-bravado attitude, skaters that as soon as they get in start taking their shirts out. We all dance, (A) ends up bored and (B) and (C) focus on the guys completely. I go lay down with (A) on the bed and we just have a nice chat. We talk about stuff. I tell her about her friends and how we were playing tonight and she laughs and I ask her "Does it make me a bd person? To have kissed al the girls in the party" and she's just like "How so? We're all having fun here, you did nothing wrong."
My lover often mocks me calling me fuckboy and she definetely tells me everyone considers myself a "player". I don't know, but it's when things like this (the party I wrote about) happen that I feel concerned. It's like, at times I feel like it's wrong even though I never forced no one and we all had fun and afterwards (A) wrote me to tell "We love you and we love to be around you". It just makes me feel at times like i'm the biggest manwhore and that it could potentially end up fucking up the chances of finding theright one becase, who could datea guy that does the things I said I done? I don't know, am I being too harsh on myself here or it is really a wrong thing to do?
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>>18601258
How old are you?
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>>18601258
Dude, this is perfectly normal behaviour. It might not be acceptable to everyone. You will certainly find people who don't it. But the people you're with now clearly have no problem with it. Enjoy, it sounds like you're having a great time.
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>be me, 21
>have gf who loves me, healthy sex life
>also do stuff with my (male) friend from time to time even though I'm straight, usually I give him blowjobs
>start eating my gf out more often, notice she tastes faintly like my friend when he cums
>try to chalk it up to similar dietary choices, but my gf is a vegetarian
>don't know whether it's my imagination or not
Please help, are males and females supposed to have similar tastes and smells in their genital regions?
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>>18601155
>have gf who loves me
>usually I give him blowjobs
>healthy sex life
top kek.
Is this supposed to be b8?
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>>18601155
How the fuck would most of us know. We don't suck cock and eat pussy faggot.
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>>18601155
>sucks his male friend
>Fucks vegetarian girl
>eats pussy
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Had a breakup with an ex a few years ago where she had gone around telling everybody that I had raped her (friends, family, people I went to school with) and doxed me on her tumblr where I was getting actual death threats from people. I didn't know how to go about reporting it so I just deleted my social media and eventually moved, but I recently discovered that she's still going around telling people I raped her (not by name specifically but more by virtue) and is giving people rape advice online, as though she's actually a rape victim.
Although it's not something that affects my life anymore, I haven't moved past the accusations. How do I actually go about getting over this?
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>>18601152
Actually rape her
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>>18601152
post the true story on some social media page shes on.
Let the world do with it what it will.
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>>18601152
did you rape her?
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Questions That Don't Deserve Their Own Thread
Ask a question; get an answer.
Ask a stupid question; get a stupid answer.
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Should I eat cereal or a muffin and multivitamin this morning?
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>>18601093
Muffin and a multivitamin
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Do you think we continue to feel when we die, like the brain carries on living a little bit?
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A girl I banged tested positive for chlamydia and I know I have it to. Is there a way to just get the antibiotics without seeing a doctor?
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>>18600959
doc doesnt give a shit about your stds, go see him
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Physician/patient confidentiality is a lovely thing
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>>18600965
It's because I'm still on my parent's insurance. Won't they see I went to the doctor?
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How do I stop using social media,youtube and generaly spend less time on internet?
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Do you like to do anything else?
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>>18600945
Get other hobbies.
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If you have the will power to delete a few of your accounts, that should help a lot.
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So I've been on a vacation with my old highschool mates and they brought thier elementary school classmates. 2 girl. One of them is smoking hot.
>Blue hair
>Perfect pear shaped body
>Big brown eyes
>Pic is not her ofc. but looks almost like her.
So started to hit on her, I though she likes me, she said I'm symphatic after we talked some - maybe she didn't meant in a romantic way - but than I became a bit too zippy, and ofc she didn't liked that, I became annoying, but I couldn't help it. So when we got home I apologized on Facebook for being annoying and clingy, she said it's okay and If I would annoy her, she would not reply. So we started to talk, this was 3 days ago, we also talked 2 days ago, and she started the conversation that time. About the cost of the vacation.
My friend made an excel table who own money to someone. So she asked when could she pay her dept, but I didn't spend money on making the trip, so I though she just pretends that she owns me and It was just a reason to talk with me.
Yesterday I started the conversation but she only replied after her work, so she was probably tired and didn't wanted to speak with me so she stoped replying after 3 message. I was okay with that I didn't wanted to bother her. Yesterday I didn't wrote to her, because I don't want her to think I have no life and I'm on social media 0/24 + I don't want to look clingy.
>SORRY IF IT WAS TLTR
Anyway what do you guys think what sould be my next step? Should I chat with her, or should I just ask her out? But what if it's too soon or she doesn't like me in a romantic way, and how should I approach?
HALP PL0X
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>Blue hair
Red flag
>Perfect pear shaped body
That's not perfect. It means she has an ass bigger than her stomach, and a stomach bigger than her tits. Hourglass is perfect.
As for the rest of that shit, I have no clue. Not because its so long, but because your formatting is absolute shit, as is your spelling. and you talk about shit that seems irrelevant, like a friend's excel sheet.
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>>18600876
>perfect pear shaped body.
lol.
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>>18600910
C'mon my english really that shit?
Okay, than I guess I have to kill myself now.
>>18600913
She has a body like this, she's not fat, I should've just said that she's thicc
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Relationship with a 30+ year old woman 2017-08-08 10:42:53 Post No.18600838
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Relationship with a 30+ year old woman
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Is this a good idea or bad?
I know a girl who is 30, still very attractive and is interested in me. My concern is that given her age, she might want marriage and/or children very soon, and I won't be ready financially for that for at least another 3 years, and she'll be 33 at this time.
Are the chances of children being born with problems actually very high if the woman is in her mid 30s, or is it just a meme?
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>>18600838
If you seriously believe having children beyond 30 is cause for birth complications, you shouldn't be with a 30 year old. Grow up.
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>>18600877
t. roastie
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>>18600838
How do you know she wants kids or marriage? I mean, avoiding someone for things they MIGHT want is pretty stupid.
That said, take her age, divide by 2, and add 7. If you are at that age or older, you should be fine insofar as maturity level goes.
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I keep thinking everything is demons and the devil and shit and everything I enjoy is bad.
How do I stop? It gets REALLY fucking bad if I do uppers or anything like that.
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>>18600828
How the fuck do you even manage to think that?
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>>18600828
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intrusive_thought
It's a form of OCD. Sounds like what you have there, I suffer from it too. Just finding out it was a legit thing and not just me going insane made me instantly feel better.
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>>18600828
You're clearly not healthy enough to be doing drugs, so stop that.
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Please help /adv/. I met this girl about a month and a half ago. We really got on well together and exchanged snapchats. I was really keen to become friends with her. About two weeks ago she sent me a snap and since then we have been talking back and forth almost regularly. I sent her a message 4 days ago but she hasn't opened it, but her snap score went up by like 100 in the past few days and she is adding to her story. I realise that the best thing to do is probably just try and forget about it but I have severe social anxiety and its all I can think about. How do I deal with this situation? I just can't stop thinking about it. How do I take my mind off it?
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>>18600696
Listen, I'm a literal "old"fag. You are gonna have to explain this new fangled whippersnapper shit to me:
>I sent her a message 4 days ago but she hasn't opened it, but her snap score went up by like 100 in the past few days and she is adding to her story.
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>>18600730
On snapchat, your snap score is visible from your 'profile' which can be viewed at any time. You get a 'point' towards your snap score every time you either send a message or recieve one. In other words she has sent/recieved around 100 messages in the past few days but hasn't even opened my message which I sent 4 days ago (the app tells you when a message has been opened). She added to her 'story' the other day which is basically like uploading a photo to your facebook wall. I really just want to know how to take my mind of it since my social anxiety is crippling.
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She got tired of you and ghosted you. Move on. Girls do this all the time. Most of the time they do it for no reason at all, but in your case, you sound really desperate and annoying, so probably she got tired of you and doesn't see you as bf material.
For your next girl, get over your meme anxiety and grow up.