How many job applications did you fill before you finally got a call back?
>>18606100
https://www.mcdonalds.com/us/en-us/careers.html
Gendered studies?
Go work in a kitchen, they need new chefs.
Mcdicks called me the same day lul
>At 19 my dad started charging me rent
>Now 20, I want to move out, but realize iv'e been hindered in saving as iv'e paid him thousands of dollars in rent that could've been used for moving out and savings
>Basically stuck here now, rent is slightly cheaper than roommates, about $150 less, but i'm just renting a small room and share a bathroom with my sister and her kid
>Look up is it wrong to charge your kids rent
>Find multiple of the same answers, where the parents actually charge rent, but put it in a savings account for their kids for when they move out
>Know there is a 0% chance my dad is doing this
Is my dad in the wrong here? I'm starting to seriously resent him. The worst part is he wants me to stay here and keeps saying "you have a good foundation here, a good thing here." he acts like hes giving me a place to live but he's really not when he's charging me rent.
>>18605742
Your das is completely within his right to charge you rent, and do whatever he chooses with the money. Further It can teach work ethic.
That said, if I were your dad, I wouldn't do it. But that's just me. I dont believe immediate family should charge each other rent - ever. Unless the renter offers.
>"you have a good foundation here, a good thing here"
What's your meals and utilities (power, gas, internet) situation? Is your family providing fir these or are you doing that yourself?
If the former, then your dad is correct. Yes you're paying rent, but still saving a shitton more than if you were 100% on your own.
If the latter, then no. You are much better off flatting. Flatting also gives you much more psychological independence, which is valuable. Just how valuable monetarily is up to you.
Me, my parents provided everything, but i still decided to move out and pay thousands upon thousands in expenses -- And i don't regret it at all. My rents while providing, were a little overbearing, and the independence i gained helped me psychologically and socially tremendously. And it felt fucking good.
>>18605782
>What's your meals and utilities (power, gas, internet) situation? Is your family providing fir these or are you doing that yourself
I pay a flat rent fee that includes all the utilities. I buy my own food, maybe once every other weekend we'll all eat takeout together.
>>18605782
This. It's his house and you're an adult. If you don't like it, move out.
I have an unquenchable fetish for large breast implants, and I know I'll never get a chance to sleep with a girl who has them. It's slowly driving me crazy and I need to make it stop.
Quit theirs nothing wrong with a fetish as long as it doesn't endanger anyone or scat scat is fucking gross
>>18605431
>I know I'll never get a chance to sleep with a girl who has them
What if you got so rich you were able to buy them for a girl
>>18605431
You could rent a pair for an hour... more expensive than a regular date, but you get to knead, lick and suck without the inhibitions you'd have with a regular date.
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>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
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>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
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Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
For females:
Do you look down on boys because they don't have periods and don't feel your pain? I've felt insecure about not having periods for many years.
>>18605355
How to I find a innocent girl to have a cute relationship when I'm 20? I don't want sex, I want to be take things slow and share a lot of first experiences with a girl. I'm guessing she will probably have to be a college freshman since they're probably the only ones who haven't done much. Church is a last resort but I have no issues at all waiting for marriage.
What are qualities that women look for a man? I'm shy with ppl but will often engage in conversations with girls I like. Also, does a girl who plays with her hair while she is talking to you imply anything.
Is there any way to become more manly/masculine when you're naturally not?
I'm a low-test as shit manlet (I actually have to take a testosterone supplement for it), whose father openly detested anything traditionally manly (his favourite subjects of hate being sports of all kinds and the military), I've never had any sorts of male friends and even as an adult 90% of my friends are a bunch of nerdy forever alone women that I'm not attracted to. Also studying into a vastly female-dominated field is not about to help.
I'd want to actually be more and know more and yeah I get the basic concept of not giving a fuck about what other people think and trim poodles for a hobby if that's what I'm into, but I honestly fear if I try to enter some group of guys they are going to kill and eat me.
Where do I start?
Weights.
>>18605064
I have kettlebell weights at home.
I hate gyms, just a bunch of old guys making the most disgusting sounds apparently trying to fuck the equipment.
Then you should be the one who kills them and eat them. Not literally tho. If you feel that weak, then your only choice is to give up and start hating.
Make hate your source of motivation. Hate yourself to the point where you want to change you.
Vent, write those letters, confess your deepest, darkest secrets, let it out
>>18604997
OP,
I don't care how many people say you're a faggot, I love you.
-Anon
Not long now. Its gonna be great!
Would you marry a girl who's gotten gangbanged by people she barely knew in a club bathroom?
>>18604873
No, I don't date whores.
>>18604873
of course not
But the problem is we don't even kiss or fuck. She is very resistive to any physical contact with me. Besides rape, what do?
>ex
it's pathetic if you aren't fucking and it's degenerate if you are, meet new people ya neet
>>18603931
>what do?
You watch netflix and chill.
I'd rather be degen than path. How do become degen with this skank?
No Fap Survival Guide
Need to do no fap and i fap about 2/3 times a day, so it won't be easy.
Anyone got any advice on how to survive it and not give in to the urge (mainly do it out of boredom, but not always)
start to think about something else when fapping comes to mind, aint much harder than that. Or fill your days with workout, working, etc
>>18601163
What are your interests?
What do you like to do?
>>18601171
Fapping
Some of you may know who I am thanks to asshole friends making me go viral. Got bed bugs in college but couldn't prove it, nobody (roommates and parents) believed me, decided to ignore it. Eventually became convinced not an issue.
Continued to ignore until first job (finance), whole company got fucking bed bugs. *autism intensified* and ignored problem until friends made me go viral and ruined my life over it. Friends compiled list of 100's of ppl that got infested from me over time. Had to quit job.
Former student ath from ivy caliber school now a NEET. deciding whether to:
-continue alcoholic NEET life in parents basement
-liquidate everything (<30K) and disappear to LatAm
-suicide
What do, 4chan?
Vacuum and steam your mattress and cover it and the box spring with bedbug cases. Get rid of any nightstands, curtains, or drawers you aren't using, hang clothes in a closet instead. Put any sneakers in the dryer on high heat. Buy Temprid (dual action pesticide) SC and Gentrol (growth inhibitor) with chemical resistant gloves, total should come out to about $100 or less. Mix 8ml of Temprid in 1 gallon of water, in some kind of large spray bottle (don't get the outdoor pressure sprayer, that's not for inside) Add Gentrol and use the mixture within 24 hours of opening. Spray along the baseboards, between the covered mattress and the box spring, under the velcro straps, the wheels of the bed frame, window and door frames, cover any electric sockets by taping cellophane around it and spray the area around them. Do NOT spray on the bed where you are touching it, this is poison. It's ok when it dries but still it's not for touching. You might have to go through this process for every room of the house since you let it go so long, so get a couple vials of Gentrol since the Temprid comes in a bigger container. Keep any pets away, have someone babysit them if you have to. When the pesticide dries, sprinkle the diatomaceous earth along the baseboards, around the bed frame wheels, but make SURE it's dry, it can't get wet. After that you have to wash ALL your bedsheets and clothes on high heat on a regular basis so no more delicates, fleece, or leather for you. Get rid of wooden/silk/wicker shit, they love it for some reason. Vacuum so much that you get PTSD from the noise. This is all you can do without dropping a grand or two on a professional.
>>18606256
>dropping a grand or two on a professional.
Oh also if it's bad enough even THAT is not a permanent solution. I speak from experience. Keeping them at bay/doing all this as soon as you find out you have them is key. Once they are this bad, yeah you are kinda fucked if you want to be lazy and not clean because they will just keep coming back and it's a lifetime struggle to keep them at bay. Every night I burn a bunch of these faggots when I get up to pee because I have been drinking to sleep for years and my kidneys are failing, so I get to catch them in the middle of the night on my way back to lying in bed waiting to get sick of peeing every 10 minutes.
>>18606266
Should clarify. Moved back in with parents (hence NEET), we are heat treating in near future. Will repeat as necessary, parents can afford to. Granted I am psycho so will continue to steam clean, spread cimexa dust, and vacuum like a tard. Wondering what to do with life now that bedbugs ruined personal AND professional reputation. I went from probably 40 close friends to 3.
How do I best help feed my roommate/tenant without offending him? Or should I just let him suffer?
>He got laid off in January
>Was already in debt
>Didn't use his unemployment intelligently
>Ordered in delivery pizza & chicken, bought some games & toys
>Know he's in such dire straits that he hasn't paid his car insurance and his bank account is in the negative
>Has a temp job but it's not paying much
>Noticed he's been taking my frozen dinners from the fridge
>I don't care much but they're only like 300 calories from a diet I was on and he's clearly not getting enough food
I want to help out and make sure he's not starving so he can go get a real job. But I don't want to give him $50 and have him end up buying 3 days of pizzas, then being hungry again. Is there a tactful way to say "yo dude, go buy some rice, beans, and chicken breasts, but nothing else?"
You've posted this before, haven't you?
Maybe just buy the shit an keep it in the house
Tbh you need to tell him to fuck off and hunt for his own. Peep how he takes your food and doesn't ask when he could? Don't let him eat your food, and don't get comfy w him. You seem nice but ya shouldn't have even have this that much thought.
I want to make films/write/run tv shows for a living. I watch maybe 5-6 a week and generally read maybe one chapter of a film textbook a day + take photos in my spare time. Probably less than others do, and I know how hard it is to achieve, but is it possible?
I'm not looking for validation but I'm want to know if it's a complete waste of time or not. I can't imagine doing anything else with my life. Only been at it for a year though. I'm 19 btw. Expecting it to take me 6 or 7 years to get a decent film made. Any advice? Thoughts?
I've had a few people tell me It's not for me. One person who worked in locations, and my best friends dad suggested maybe I should be a writer/editor, as he worked in the biz and thinks I'm too passive/timid to be a director. Guys probably the smartest person I've ever met, and he's usually right about things, even if he's an ass. I know I should be confident in my decisions, but if film doesn't pan out I've seriously been thinking of just offing myself (another problem in itself, Too much self loathing). Should I spend some more time working on myself first?
Sorry for the rambling post anons, I needed to vent.
I made films for 6 years before I got sick of being a starving. Be prepared to kill yourself for no money and if your luck you might even complete a project or two. Even if you do, no money. Film is dying, try doing web series or some shit. You will only get kind of good after 10 years but you will kill yourself by then anyway.
>>18606027
first and foremost, produce your own mini series. its actually easier to do this outside of the city than inside of los angeles. buy a DSLR, spend a few weeks making short films and learning what you need to do, then make your web series. if you still want to make TV after that, go ahead and move to LA.
you do it by schmoozing at parties, trying to be an intern in a writers room, and slowly getting promoted over the years. while doing that develop your own pilots and pitches, as if you get the right idea to the right person you can skip the line.
im about to go shoot a horror film, been in LA for 7 years and still wroking on the independent side.
>>18606027
As somebody in the indie sector who just wanted to be a camera op, but some how ended up being a DP and director most of the time, I think all it comes down to is how hard you're willing to work.
If you're asking if its a waste of time or not, then maybe that is your answer. As someone who wanted to be a lawyer, and accidentally fell into this, I realize now I would die for this. Even if I was working at McDonalds, I would still be creating films.
Everyone comments on my energy and drive. My constant need to be experimenting and creating something. And yes, I'm suicidal af too.
So, idk. Either its in you or it isn't.
I've been using dating sites for a few months and have no problem meeting guys! The problem is they all lie about their height. I specifically say 6' or taller on my profiles!!
The thing is almost all of them are well under my height requirements!?! One guy showed up wearing shoes that made him taller and he was still only like 5'8"! I call them out and they get angry or say that it's the lighting or colors he's wearing.
I wanna know are guys really this oblivious to height!? Why do guys almost always lie about their height when it's obvious when I meet them they are much shorter???
I'm almost 7 feet tall and only date tall girls because my back hurts trying to hug small girls. Where are you from?
I'm 6'4 honey, where you at?
>>18606006
>>18606008
I'll just say a small midwestern town near by a big city.
Hello there,I`m new here at 4chan,but I realy need an advice.I`m suffering from depression,and I lost the reason to keep living.I realy don`t know what to do.I think I just wanna die.What do you think?
Depression is a mental sickness that can be cured, if you think more highly of it then you just lost sight.
Why are you depressed?
My family is always arguing,most of the time,they are shouting in my ear,my grades are realy bad at school.I donĀ“t have a lot of friends outside the internet,so I came here to ask an advice.
Life will get better when you move out, in collage you can make friends pretty easily, are you still in high school?
I got raped by my father when i was a kid, i turned out fine, so just try dealing with it for a while and try to do your best in school so you can get a good job.
/adv/
I met a guy on tinder. We started messaging and agreed to meet up for a date/fuck. He was nice enough but I felt a little out of his league.
I stalked his Facebook which was not as private as he thought. Turns out he had a girlfriend when we first started talking and broke up with her when we agreed to meet up. Just a sudden drop and she doesn't really take it well.
So basically he was just with her but looking for something better, dropped her when he thought he found it.
I initiate a relationship and he becomes very clingy, I allow it.
Three months in I suddenly drop him out of nowhere. He is shattered.
I feel like a vigilante and justice is served, I avenged that poor girl who he was taking advantage of and karma is served.
I just checked fb and they are back together.
What the fuck, /adv/?
Why?
>>18605973
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Woman are retarded, deal with it. They get better over time, usually. I hope you don't actually believe men and woman are equal because you are clearly the weaker sex, by a pretty wide margin.
>>18605993
not op, but provide facts or youre just another bitter virgin