pic related; the guy she slept with was before we met, said they used protection and he's clean
So i've been seeing this girl and she went out and hooked up with this guy and 3 weeks later i got chlamydia symptoms and then tested for it and im positive. she said they only kissed and promises they didnt have sex or anything. I know you can't get chlamydia from kissing but what if he did go down on a girl and the fluid was still in his mouth when he kissed my girl? Is that even possible? Thanks guys..
ok /adv/ I need to get this out and I'd appreciate some advice back or even a few words of wisdom.
one day I was at my gf's mom's ( lets call her 'm)' house waiting for them to come back from shopping.
so 'm' had left her phone in the house so I went and checked it out.
me being nosy I checked pics and vids.
there was nothing special except for one pic of her pussy and her asshole.
I got turned on and masturbated till I came shit loads .
no here's the thing I hate how she looks (not too ugly) I hate her personality and how she was a bad mother to my gf
but sometimes when I'm horny and on my own I sometimes think about doing stuff to her but then regret it.
now let's talk about her friend let's call her 'n' I absolutely hate her and she really hates me.
she tried to break me and my gf up before a few times and can sometimes try to be controlling.
but sometimes I feel like fucking her and I don't know why because she's absolutely ugly and my gf said she's hairy and has no body hygiene which I'd agree with but I want to try her mouth sometimes but as with the mother I feel regret after Cumming about it.
I hate them both but kinda feel sexually attracted
and p.s. the friend is lesbian so no point to saying I should fuck her
>tfw wanted to fuck my ex's mom
>tfw really wanted to fuck her bitch asshole friend
>tfw did neither
I'm not even memeing.
Already feeling like building my own harem, how does one persevere?
>>18575934
Wait till day 3. You will feel like fapping your whole body out. Just keep yourself occupied with anything you can find around. Clean your surroundings always, always read anything you are interested on, etc.
It's always the day 3-5 you have to worry about. Then day 7 feels the same, then it's a habit.
You have to get past 7 somehow. You can do it.
>>18575934
By not fapping.
Go outside, live life, develop a hobby or something, make friends, anything
After 6 months of not spending money on myself I started this project that I thought would cost $200 tops but now I'm like $400 in and I can't guarantee that thats the end of it. I'm running out of money now because everyone is asking me for money too. In the last week I've lost $800 from my bank account and I'm freaking out man. I don't get paid till friday and even then I'll only make back half the money I've spent so far. I'm not in debt or anything but what if something happens? Honestly this is all just so stressful I haven't seen my bank account this low since junior year of highschool so if anyone has any tips for getting rid of this financial stress or ways of saving/earning the money back that would be great. I already stopped carrying around my card so I have to eat at home.
Everyone tells me to have fun while I'm young and have the time but as soon as I start they all want me to stop and give them the money.
What's the project
>>18575921
Im doing a projector retrofit on my car. The projector and wiring costed what I expected but being that my car is 17 this year I have to buy replacement parts like lenses and mounting brackets because the brittle OEM shit disintegrates when it comes into contact with matter.
10 good things could happen to me and I'd only think about that 1 bad thing that happened.
I care more about the opinions of people who dislike me than the ones who like me.
How to fix that, it's torture
help
>>18575914
Realizing the problem is a good start.
Now see that your reputation doesn't need so much protecting.
>>18575914
The best advice I can offer is to stop being a cunt.
I used to have the same problem as you, and it worked for me.
I have trouble keeping up relationships with people I don't see often and I feel like my current friends are toxic/not supportive. My hobbies are mostly solitary as well and I feel like I'm a shit person because I always seem to find myself talking about others behind their backs. How do I become a better person/make new friends?
Okay so I've been seeing a girl for like a month or so and we've had a very nice relation so far. The sex is good but I feel like she always wants it to be super intense and I can feel that she's got high expectations. The thing is, I'm afraid that I just won't be able to keep up with her and because of that I've started to feel intimidated by her. Last time we had sex I was pretty drunk and came way sooner than I should have and she kinda just laughed and didn't seem to mind too much. The day after she still seemed to want to hook up, but now I don't know if we should or not. Any advice?
>can say hello easily
>shake people's hands when they reach in for one
>wave when people wave at me
Despite all this, I'm paranoid that I'm autistic because my voice is weird and I'm not the best at social situations. Am I autistic?
>>18575882
idk OP. A retard probably knows what 2+2 is, why can't an autist wave?
I mean you're probably not autistic because that's just a buzzword and your problems are likely the dreaded solvable kind, but still those are some lowbar social skills you listed.
>>18575996
>>18575996
It's not whether or not they can do it, it's whether or not they feel comfortable doing it. Which I do.
I took the aspie quiz and I got neurotypical but I'm still paranoid.
Pic related is my test
How it is possible that some of pol users have custom flags like confederate,kekistani,fascist,nazi ?
I have been asking on pol but all i got was bunch of meme asnwers.
Last summer I split up with my boyfriend, since then from extraordinary sexy smart girl I became socialy awkward shut-in kdrama addict. Every time ugly guy hits on me, I just block him or just ignore. Somehow I turned my life into shit, how should I start not being good-for-nothing-socialy-awkward-prideful-fat-bitch?
>>18575864
Do what you were doing when you felt confident.
People around me believe I have a wonderful life, some of them are even jealous how my life is going right now.
But I'm not. For years I've been trapped in my mind about committing suicide and now I feel like on a scale.
How do you calm down? How do you stop thinking about it?
>>18575778
You should first realize what is wrong with you. What is wrong?
I've been wanting to move to Japan for quite a while now but the visa requirements have stopped me. I'm from Finland, so my passport is pretty strong, however I only have high school degree. What are the fastest / easiest ways to move there?
Also how to get a job easily?
You need to be accepted to a university to study. Or marry a Japanese. Forget about trying to find a job with no degree.
>>18575720
>You need to be accepted to a university to study. Or marry a Japanese.
Don't wanna get in a relationship so not gonna marry. Also not in the mood to study at a university just for the sake of staying in Japan.
Guess I'll just never get to live there.
No vending machine with dildos / onaholes. Meh, this isnt how future japan looks like.
Breakfast date this weekend with a girl I've been chatting with on Snapchat for a week. How do I NOT fuck this up?
Don't eat lunch or dinner.
Isn't dinner a bit awkward for a first date, I did it and I couldn't eat properly cause of my nerves, I think it's easier if you go for a drink or coffee/tea
Anyway desu if you really don't want to fuck it up and you don't want awkward silences then think of stuff to talk about now.
>>18575750
Good thing we're having breakfast then
>>18575765
I just wanted to go for a simple walk or something and maybe more if the date went well, but she insisted on eating out.
I hate my father . We've had some very good times when I was a little kid but once I got 11/12 and started to understand many things I've seen how bad of a parent he is .
*Good things: hard worker , smart , never relies on anyone to do his tasks , very kind to HIS mother/brothers/sisters .
Bad things : cheap prick , doesn't take care of my mother/me and my brother , basically married a solid 8.7 female just for the pussy he doesn't know how to love or be a good husband , he spends more money on his already married brothers sisters than us his family , doesn't give a fuck about our studies , doesn't give a fuck if we get sick(eg.when I was 8 I got a v bad knee injury and my mother started crying when he refused to take me to hospital , says it's nothing, what a fucking asshole) , despite his family doing/saying very bad shit about us he never did anything about it , he is ugly , bald , ugly moustache , ugly skin color , doesn't know how to dress well , never gave a fuck about his look which embarasses my mother/us on his presence in public .
Basically that , my mother never thought about getting a divorce because she doesn't have any money(he never gave her any) and she(we) will have to leave the house , you cannot imagine how much of a cheap prick he is , it's making me mad day after day to see how sad my mother is .
What do anons??????
>>18575709
yeah, id hate being a pool in loo Indian too if I was you too
>>18575709
You sound extremely dumb. Try re-writing that with less bullshit.
I need to make some money quickly and my lack of social skills, social anxiety and lack of motivation for fixed jobs doesn't allow me to get a fixed job. Is there any other ways i can get some money? (No, i wont suck cock or sell drugs)
>>18575688
Get a freelance job or start selling some shit online.
>>18575698
I was actually thinking of doing some freelance jobs. Any tips?
My advice is learn some fucking social skills so you can be a functioning member of society instead of the piece of shit you are now.