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so basically I am pretty sociable but I was on this summer camp type thing over the week and made a fairly large group of Friends. but however there was a couple of girls I wanted to talk to but never got around to doing so.

so I got lucky and They sat next to me whilst I was on the sofa in the common room and we started talking. the two girls seemed pretty sweet a kind to me and asked why I never spoke with them or others. I said "I find it hard maintaining conversations" but double that statement with "but you guys seem pretty nice and easy going"

they responded with "aww thank you. If you ever want to talk just sit by us"

did I make my self look like a bitch?

I heard girls don't find socially-inept guys attractive. (but I'm not I just feel like they got that impression)

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Is there any way to tell if a number is a burner number?

I've been getting weird texts from weird numbers and the only way it would make sense is if someone is messing with me.
At least, I hope its just one person.
They usually have a number like 587-409-????.

Can anyone identify if that's from an app or not?

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I had a one night stand with this girl July 2nd. We really hit off.

I haven't seen her since and she's been on my mind literally every single fucking day. How do I end this?

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so i'm a comp sci major with a whopping 16 credits done already, but i need to decide soon which of the versions of the major to go with. my school offers 4:

computer science- computer science
computer science- big data
computer science- business
computer science- international engineering

straight cs gives all the credits needed for a math minor, and includes cs theory courses not found in all the other majors.

big data only requires math up to calc 2/linear algebra, but includes a ton of statistics courses and requires cs classes like data mining.

cs- business only requires math up to calc 2 (no linear algebra), and besides the 47 cs credits requires credits in accounting, management, finance, business, and economics. results in a business minor with no extra classes. close to devoid of cs theory courses with an emphasis on application (straight up coding).

omg it's too long because 4chan sucks. continued below <3

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This is gonna sound fucking stupid, just a heads up. How common is friendships failing after high school? There are people I consider important to me, but they aren't really trying to hang out anymore. Granted, they smoke weed and I no longer do, but I feel kind of hurt by it all. We also have a mutual friend who they see who's a girl I dated and I'm almost positive she has poisoned the well regarding me. These were female friends I felt very close to, and now it seems they've tossed me aside. They're both friends, too, btw. My male friends continue to make efforts to see me and hit me up and see how I'm doing. Why is this? Are female friendships just weaker like that? I genuinely had some tough times in the past few years and I just wanted to talk to them, but they slowly filtered themselves out. Yet they still like stuff like my instagram posts and shit. So they can ignore but like my posts?

I'm thinking of deleting a lot of the people I don't talk to. Is this petty? I just feel like they're kind of trash friends who don't give a fuck for whatever reasons they may have, whether that be my ex making me look like shit or whatever it may be. I'm like extremely close to just saying fuck em and getting them out of my life for good. What you think /adv/? I feel like it's rash and maybe I don't wanna burn bridges but fuck, what are they going to get me? They aren't friends to me, so why should I care?

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Hey 4chan. I never posted but I've been lurking for years now.
I'm 20 living in a shittiest part of Europe (eastern) and I'm going insane here. My only goal now is to get as far away as I can. I've been thinking about cruise ship industry. Do you know any other jobs that I could just send my CV to, get interviewed or something and then just fuck off from this shitty shit hole? And yeah, my passport is a non eu passport so it's not as easy for me to just move to like Germany or Canada. Even tho I have a lot of international friends, lack of eu passport is making it sooo damn hard to move. Any advices?

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Looking for actual advice.
I just found out today that I'm going to be a Morning Show Radio Host in a small town of about 6000. It's surrounded by other small towns. Here's the thing; I've just graduated from a Broadcasting School a few months ago, and 21 y/o born and raised in a big city. How do I acclimatize to a smaller town, and any other radio host advice.

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There's a coworker that is obviously into me. She's really sweet and we share the exact same sense of humor. We make each other laugh and I genuinely like spending time with her; however, I'm not attracted to her and she has a kid.

I've always believed that men and women can't be "just friends." I've been friendzoned before and it fucking sucks. I don't want to make myself a hypocrite, but at the same time, I don't want to date a girl with a kid.

We've gone out for drinks once before (her idea) and we're going again tonight (also her idea). If she brings up that she wants to start dating, how am I supposed to turn her down without making her feel like shit?

It's really strange being on the other side of this situation for once.

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Hello everyone.

There was a girl I saw. Her face, the way she moved and handled herself. It was like she was so much more than everyone else. Over a few days I looked at this girl on the beach. Everything about her was noble, yet sexy and I wanted to just get to know her. Be her friend and then take it further.

I finally decided to do something about it. I was decided to talk to her, I felt like we would click perfectly since she also stared at me constantly and smiled at me.

Two days ago I ran to that same beach after work to find her. Gone. My heart stopped and it hasn't since started again. She was a tourist and she is gone. I lost my only chance of finding someone meaningful, someone I truly admired.

What now? I feel so lost. I've never felt liek this for a stranger before. There was something about her and I lost her forever.
My problem is not the immense hurt. My problem is the hurt going away and me forgetting she was there in the first place.

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Where is this magical place where people go and meet others? Everyone tells me to join clubs, but there are no non-gay clubs here.

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Hi /adv/, here's my situation
About a year ago, aprilish 2016, I met a guy online and we pretty much clicked. I thought he was a cool dude (no homo) and he felt likewise. He warned me early on that he had a tendency to go into depressive fits and remove the few people he knows on social media (we'd talk using steam). This january he removed me and blocked me. I tried to get in contact with him a couple of times, but with no luck.

In May he added me back, and we hit off like there had never been a 5 month gap, got back to talking and playing vidya and stuff. This morning, he left again, and there's no way that I can contact him and at least say goodbye. What do I do? I don't know.
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(I'm a guy too if you couldnt glean that from the post, theres no romantic attraction here.)

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My boyfriend has an alcohol problem. He stopped drinking for a week and a bit but is now saying he will have a few drinks on special occasions.

I've read that alcoholics can't occasionally drink because it will lead back to problem drinking eventually. I'll admit though, I would like to be able to have a glass of wine with a special dinner. Yesterday for our "special occasion" we had 4 drinks each throughout the day. (Mostly beer)

What should we do about this? Is it a problem?

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Medical state: Social anxiety, depression, OCD, Gad (generalized anxiety disorder)

Problem: I'm so anxious when thinking about school, i was never bullied (friends sometimes tease me, and i keep overthinking whatever they do even when i know they don't mean harm), in public whenever i hear a cuss word i think its directed towards me, and i think about that for months and get anxious, i think what if these people see me again, will i get bullied ?. I'm so nervous in front of class when i have presentations, i barely ever answer to teachers questions, even when i know the answers. I'm anxious when just thinking about school and i can't get rid of these thoughts. Only time i was really bullied was a long time ago, i got slapped and threatened, i was 8. From that point on i bullied others actually, and gradually stopped. Could this have something to do with my current situation ?

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Alright this will be a big wat do thread.

I've got a girl in my neighborhood that I've chatted with and given flowers to nothing serious but I need some advice before I dick things up like I did with the last two chances I had at a GF.

A flow chart or wat do graph would be appreciated but not necessary

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I am not talking about being a selfish person. I am rather talking about how to focus on your own betterment and love yourself?

I'm a person who always help others more efficiently than myself.

For example: When a friend asks for a help in a college assignment, I do it with utmost efficiency, making it look as good as possible. However when it comes to my assignment, I do it either lazily or not so efficiently. When it comes to marks or grades, the friend's assignment scores more than mine even when 95% of the work in his will be done by me.

Is this a condition? How do I help myself in this? Any kind of advise is widely welcome. Thanks.